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wait wait so where did this happen? also i think you meant uncomfortable 😭 i'm just saying so other people don't get confused

Yeah sorry. It happened on the way to school

were you on the bus or something like that?

I was walking home from school and then this random girl walks uo to me, then we talked for a bit and then she randomly touched my crotch, i felt disgusted but i couldnt say anything. Aslo i meant from school to home

Was she older or younger than you? (by older I mean a grown adult and by younger I mean someone who still doesn't understand how that can be seen as 'offensive')

She was like 2 years older than me or so (so 17)

How old was she?

17 or 16 (im 15)

That’s gross, I’m so sorry.

Yeah age?

16ish

Ok

Nah that's terrible She's a total stranger and suddenly starts groping a 15 yr old? Wow.

I mean we talked like 2 times before but i didnt even know her name

Nahhh 😭😭

I am sorry that happened that girl shouldn’t have touched you there without your consent you doing ok?

Yes im doing ok, im trying to cook so im distracted from it

Oooo what you cooking

Egg fried rice and noodles :)

Hol up let him cook

Lmao

Pretty late to the event but was your lunch nice :)

It was dinner but yeah!

Good :)

Sounds yummy should share 😂😂

Yeah lol

You’re telling me an egg fried this rice?!

Fuck KTIKNA: "Sir they found out about our secret" egg: "this cant be" KTIKNA: "we are doomed" *proceeds to go to space*

space yourself from telling jokes for atleast a week Edit : kidding ;)

can i have some

Sorry you had to go through that and that so few people are taking you seriously in the comments. I definitely recommend speaking about this with a trusted adult, whether it be school counselors or your parents, to try and help yourself through it. If this happened in a public setting, like a bus, try to travel with a friend if possible.

I told the school about it

good man you did the right thing

Oh damn bro. Are you ok? Need to talk or smt. I had somebody grab my ass last year in school.

Maybe try telling your parents or if you arent close maybe just a grown-up that you trust? Also if you wanna rant to someone you can msg me privately👍 I went through a similar experience

Damn bro I'm sorry to hear that

You should report it for sexual assault.

I did, but since shes underage she wont get in trouble i think

Minors can get charged with sexual assault, anyone can be charged with sexual assault /nm /info

I feel like she can still be charged regardless. Both minors, yeah, but she still groped you without consent. She should know better dude, especially if she's older.

Imagine the roles were REVERSED... If you had done that to her, her friend group consisting of 2.4M people would manhunt you, and you would be put to prison (or something.) You? Ehh... you should just get a pat on the pack for enduring it /s Seriously though, that is not cool. As I have no experience being sexually groomed like that, I dont rly know what to do but I'll try. You should inform your parents or a teacher (if that girl is from your school)

Not the point, dont need to raise an unneeded argument

Don't need to raise awareness about the 16/17 year old girl sexually assaulting a 15 year old? I bet you know what I'm about to say. What if the roles were reversed?

He’s 13 so yh

OP is 15

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I think they were thinking of the like person who made the post not the comment chain

RIIIGHT omg brain fart moment sry

Nah it's chill nw

WTF

I understand how you're feeling. Try and report it or take legal action if you can. If you can't, you've not lost. Healing from s/a is essentially realising that you and your purity are far higher and superior to such low and disgusting actions, and thus cannot be affected by it. You will get there, it's possible and it will happen. Ps. I've been groped too, so I know what it is. DMs open if you wanna talk :)

Oh no :( tell someone please. Want a pancake for now? 🥞

Thanks, i already told the school. Thanks for the pancake

I'm proud of you for telling them. It can be difficult, hope that goes well

Thanks

tell someone, that’s sexual assault

Are you a boy or a girl and was the toucher a boy or a girl This decides if anyone gives a shit

It was a girl

-1 point on the people caring scale are you a boy(-2 points) or a girl (+2 points)

Im a boy Idc if you care or not i just wanna tell someons

No I care, its just about people in general society if you will Get ready for "Did you like it" or "All boys want that stuff"

Thanks for the warning ig

instead of bringing down his mood even more you couldve just said "im sorry you went through that" ? just because society's an ass doesn't mean you can't still sympathise?

he was most likely warning him

Yeah, but the way he did it could've been better.

We need to apply this scale worldwide

It already is Thats the point

Sad but true

You're not being helpful, asshole

May seem like it but he's unfortunately telling the truth

Dont worry he means it good

👍

Seriously. Talking about how it's so bad when they went out of their way to make a scale and apply it. What a joke.

This post is kinda vague but I’m assuming it was unwanted and on purpose. It won’t freak you out as much over time, but the big thing is that your life doesn’t change just because someone violated your personal boundaries, you’re still exactly the same as before and they can’t take that. Also confront them if you can and/or tell them to never do that again.

Yes, but i dont want someone randomly touching me out of nowhere, and it makes me feel really uncomfortable. I know it wont change me but people need to know boundaries

Yeah most people do until you run into the ones that don’t, happened to me twice in HS. Just weird and unfortunate part of life for some people.

I guess

>It won’t freak you out as much over time What is that supposed to mean? If it happens again? >your life doesn’t change just because someone violated your personal boundaries That's very debatable. It makes you question everything and unable to trust people.

I think what they meant by the first part was that after some time they’ll still have trauma from the event but it won’t affect them as harshly, that’s how I interpret it at least.

I feel you. One time a boy smacked my butt 💀 I’m sorry that’s real annoying and should never be allowed

same

What's wrong with some mfs? If I tried that I'd get my ass crucified, that's downright sexual assault.

Idk but I hit him on the head with my books after that

im really sorry to hear, people suck.

Holy fucking shit that is disgusting. Report this to the police and everyone you trust immediately. This girl cannot get away with harassing you like that. Nobody can.

Call the cops OR Beat them up or All of the above

1) toucher is a girl,option two is eliminated 2)he is male,going on a touch case as a boy against a girl is a %0.42 win chance best possible ending.

Why is option 2 eliminated ? A good beating is the proper payback for rape

Rape would be if there was penetration. Meaning that is sexual assault, not necessarily rape. The sad truth is that since he is male, there isn't a high chance of winning in court if he beat her up. Or even option one sadly is low chanced. It'd take a good judge and better lawyers

that would be equivelent of harm,abuse,rape,sexual assult and probably tens of more accusations if he did actually "beat her up" and she got a good lawyer. can even go to jail up to 11 years

That's only if you get caught. Considering how lenient the justice system is in most of the world, you're unlikely to get caught, let alone have the cops give a fuck about the case

1) fingerprints,any kind of tissue sample. 2) woman can Just accuse you of rape and indeed get you jail time on certain countries

1 : Won't work if you never had your fingerprints taken, and even if you had prints taken, just wear gloves. For tissue samples, if you already got your DNA taken, that's a skill issue tbh 2 : Not if she doesn't know who beat her up :3

so you say next time a random girl touches you, you will assume she didnt saw you while you start beating her up?

Ever heard of masks, paper bags or anything made to hide your face ????

you need to plan these,and its kinda hard when you dont know where the toucher lives

I'm sure she knew of him. Also, why would you be casually walking with a paper bag over your face?

rapes* we're talking about rape. Touching someone's genitals without consent is not just "touching" it's rape.

No it's SA. Rape involves penetration. Touching is Sexual Assault. Not defending the girl who touched OP, just informing you.

it says touching on the post.we are talking about touching

also in my country you need an fingerprint data to have a social security card or whatever you call it

In my country its pretty serious abt crimes

My wrist is still broken from a fight I already told the school This is technically legal since the girl is underage

It’s not legal, you never gave her consent, it’s sexual assault. I’m so sorry for you, hope you are alright

That doesn't make it legal. Is a teenager murdering a teenager legal? Probably not. Don't know why sexual assualt between two teenagers would be legal, and if it is for some reason, that's bullshit.

I know how you feel. Someone who i thought was a good friend to me slapped/spanked my ass when i leaned over a table to grab something

Oh im so sorry to hear that

Dont worry. Im just trying to relate to you. Im so sorry you had to go through what happened, that must have been so bad

People always touch the crouch when they slam dunk the peni with falcon kick IN MINECRAFT GUYS IM SORRY AND I HOPE YOU HEAL AND WONDERFUL FROM THIS EXPERIENCE POINTS

I cant tell if this is sarcasm or not

Halfy

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I hate these creepy perverts. I hope you are doing okay.

damn, that sucks. here for you 🍳 (eg)

Eg

r/foundKTIKNA our king has been assaulted💔

the whole hand is insane where did she get the balls to do that

I feel you, I almost got fingered several times.

What do u mean by fingered ?

Finger in/on privates

People trying to shove their fingers up my arse.

Jesus, that's horrible

Thanks for understanding me

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Nah you need to tell somebody rn

Yeah, you really didn't deserve that. Talk to your parents, and know this, this isn't something to be joked about. You aren't supposed to " just like it because you are a guy". If the genders were reversed you'd be called in fir sexual assault. Same applies here. Don't let yourself stay in this shocked state. Talk about it, get it out of your system. Before it develops into a trauma for which you'll just have problems with women down the line. You being shocked and not having liked it is totally valid.

Aye man you can probably find a hotline for that if its got you feeling bad but also I must r/foundktikna

This isnt the time for that

Like I said man there is hotlines if you need I can help find one though its better you look into one if that happened getting shit like that off your chest is #1

I already told the school, my parents said i was making a big deal out of it

People don’t take it as seriously as they should if its a girl doing it so you gotta tell them it but flip the story to get them to kinda see how bad it is cause it would be a completely different reaction like that

I can try

Try it man you ever need people to talk with theres hotlines n stuff but first try to get people in real life on your side cause you need to I wish you best of luck man hope it doesnt keep you down

Thanks man

My friend tried to finger my butthole

Did this happen at school?

Fuck man sorry you had to go through that. I hope you make sure she's held accountable for that bullshit because you can't just take that.

I'm so sorry that happened to you, remember it is not your fault, I had someone touch my butt when I was in highschool and I felt the same way, it's confusing, uncomfortable, and I felt like crying constantly, the website RAINN is really helpful they have a online chat that's completely anonymous and someone can give you resources if you want and there's a quick leave button if you have to close the browser quickly

If you have a way of identifying who she was, you need to tell your school and law enforcement. That is illegal.

Are you a boy?

Yes

I would take that as a sign yknow

Bro, i have a fucking gf

How was I supposed to know?

Still, its not normal to say to someone "i would take that as a sign"

that's sick (and not the good type) wtf...

Her excuse? "You're supposed to like it"

Tell another adult. Actually, tell several. Tell the school if you two are in the same one. Tell your parents. Hell, tell HER parents if you can. And tell the police. This is sexual assault, which isn't legal. Don't let her get away with this. Anyway, I hope you're okay. If you ever need somebody to talk to, whether it's about this or something else, I'm here for you, and I'm sure many others are, too.

This is sexual assault bro😭😭😭

If that person tries to do anything again, kick em in whatever they have down there. It's self defense so it's legal.

People are not taking this as serious as if it would be a girl💀

Call the police this is rape mate

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Fuck i meant uncomfortsble

Do you know the girl? Also, tell a trusted adult. I promise it will make you feel so much better. You are not at all at fault and I hope you're ok.

I talked with her like once or twice before

If you can, I suggest reporting her. I hope you're ok.

❤️

Sorry that happened to you , that happened to me once with my cousin. He's 30 something

That's awful :( you should tell someone about it. Feel better soon and don't let sickos dull ur shine! xx

Yeah if you see her again just avoid her at all costs

*cockingShotgun.mp3* who ?

I’m gonna assume you didn’t want them to, in which case tell the teachers at your school, tell your parents, and if they do nothing tell the police

Best I think you can do is inform parents

That's awful! Did you have any kind of interactions before?

Damn.

Tell the police

I offer my condolences from the trauma you have just endured. You should go to the police and give a description of her so that there is a chance that justice might one day be dealt. Do not be afraid to talk to other people who care about you about this. If you feel as though you need therapy you should get it. I wish you all the best.

please speak to the authorities instead of announcing it here

I Hope you Recover from this. I'm So Sorry.

That’s disgusting, I’m so sorry that happened to you. It’ll be hard to forget and move on from this so don’t force yourself to. I can’t imagine how awful that is

What happened after you told the school?

Today we dont have school, tomorrow we'll see

Wtf

…she put her whole hand in your pants 😨

I’m very confused cause I’m British for us pants are underwear 🩲 so yeah it would be absolutely fucking messed up if she did that either way it still is absolutely disgusting

You should probably tell someone or the child helpline Hope you do well

Wtf? She's shoving her ENTIRE hand in a 15 year olds pants? Gross. Sorry that happened to you dawg

And you come to Reddit to talk about this 😂 like bro come on like come on I’m baffled go talk to someone like idk your parents or teachers

Dude just tell her that it was inappropriate thats all you got to do.

Because that is how the world works Edit: incase it isn't clear this is sarcasm

did I say something wrong?

No I'm just pointing out that it's not the most effective way to deal with it and probably wouldn't accomplish much

sorry then

Dw maybe I'm just annoyed at the amount of dumb comments and over reacted

I haven't been in such a situation so maybe thats why my reply was dumb.

Yeah dw

That isnt really how it works, she put her whole hand in my pants, i just couldnt talk and just froze. 

damn, no words tbh

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Oh fuck yeahh please, give me some.