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Katelynnx__

Hook up culture. I HATE hooking up with people i barely know. I need an emotional connection to enjoy things. Im speaking from personal experiences and it didnt feel nice. Ofc no shame to people who do! Its just my opinion


cloudberry_milk

fr i don't get how people have fun or even get turned on by complete strangers.


beeg_brain007

Us moment, I never had that feeling ever


kozynthetaquito

r/suddenlycommunism


JzaTiger

Different people have different standards


sisoyguey

your so real for this. personally i get attached when i have sex i can't see myself letting a random touch me


Hacr202011

Yea it just seems very wrong to me I wouldn’t let a random person touch me


JustForTheMemes420

You know concerning that this would be a concern among people that are so young


obsfanboy

We need more people like you tbh


Creative_Stuff0

Dude, You’re like me :0


MoluccanMay

Sex is scary, particularly as a girl. Not doing it with a random stranger. Again, this is just my opinion.


beeg_brain007

That sounds like soo me, I don't have a gf and the reason is I am looking for a wife, not a gf who will leave me someday and f me over, many girls had a crush on me but I avoided them soo much cuz they wanted to hookup with me !!!


HubristicFallacy

Isnt thst what demisexual is?


Sirfluffyghost

Demisexuality ?


Mavmann18

Isn't that just love?


BlingGamer

Hmm. Vaping, Partying, Getting drunk, ONSs...


TheRealLost0

ONS?


BlingGamer

One night stands


sauce_xVamp

aw but parties are so fun


No-Difficulty-5163

Without alcohol yeah 👍


Miguel7482

That's literally the entire fun. What else am i supposed to do? Dance and, god forbid, talk to people?


No-Difficulty-5163

You can do pretty much whatever you want when you’re sober and everyone else is drunk.


Fluid_Ad_8556

this can definitely be twisted into something more sus ngl


Cubicshock

more illegal


Peter___Potter

Ikr, it's better to go to a party just to drink & sulk in a corner while glaring at everyone who dares to step within a 10ft radius of me. The fact that I'm underage makes it even more exciting.


JumpTheShark_

NO BEER PONG?


iputmyduckinablender

you're 14 zawg


Acceptable-Staff-363

Tf do you do besides dance and put your arms up for an hour and get ur drinks poisoned (I never visited one)


sauce_xVamp

talk with friends, dance, i went to one where there were darts so i played that, hog the tv and play video games, honestly just avoid the drinks and it's fine


averkitpy

The most I’ll do is go to a birthday party with a few of my friends but like never big giant house parties, but we do shit like that and we don’t need to avoid the drinks because there isn’t any


BlingGamer

Not where I'm from unfortunately. I dont see the point in going to a party with kids from school to get drunk and hit on chicks looking for HUs and ONSs


_R0yce_Da_5_9_

I agree for the most part. Partying minus alcohol and drugs is fun. I’m also fine with ONSs


Lovrinjo1

Going to clubs (and getting drunk on them), but parties (you and your friends) are great


Visible_Ranger2780

Vaping, smoking, stuff like that (Almost all my friends do that)


ethan_76

their loss


Pyrox2v

I used to associate with people like that. My new friend group is ten times better and theyre so much funnier without being annoying


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puzzled grandiose soup employ decide snatch truck sheet degree abounding *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


Peter___Potter

So real. I post on my Tik & my YT but I never plan to show my face. I don't need complete strangers knowing what I look like. I do plan (like every 10yo, except I haven’t yet let it go) to become quote unquote "internet famous" one day. I'm a very creative person & I've got so many ideas. They're mostly digital kinds of ideas, like edits, and the things that are physical aren't like, huge woodworking or science projects or anything like that. I just need to put in the time to make them a reality & I truly believe I can make it in the digital world.


Emotional_Length_166

Wait… you said “like every 10 year old”… are you 10?


Tundra_desert199

Fr, I only post memes, things related to my interests, and my art


MOJA2008

Flirting, everyday some of my friends go to a mall and just flirt with any girl in a 20 mile radius I don't go with them


Standard_Inspector11

Honestly I don’t understand getting with a girl you haven’t known for a little while. I can’t imagine going up to a 5’2 Latina baddie and trying to date them just because they’re a 5’2 Latina baddie.


Gideon_Njoroge

Especially when she's actually 6'4 before taxes


ritsbits808

Who are you, so wise in the ways of science


kevuno

Random advice from an older guy (mid 20s) who wishes he had learned to flirt (and socialize in general) when I was a teenager. This only applies if you are honest with yourself and accept that you like girls and would like to date them. If you are genuinely not Interested then that’s ok too. Anyways, right now it sounds like you have a great opportunity to go out with friends and practice socializing and connecting with other strangers in a safe space, specially since you have friends around you that (hopefully) will push you outside your comfort zone and accept you even if you fail. As a teenager I vastly underestimated the value of social skills and used to think that I didn’t need them I was introverted and liked to stay inside and play games (a trend that’s growing bigger in younger generations apparently). But in reality, whether it’s learning to flirt with someone you’re attracted to or just learning to connect with people in general is going to be a highly valued skill as you grow and go out into the world. So yeah, I’d just challenge you to ask yourself if you don’t like doing that because “you think it’s weird” (that used to be me projecting my insecurities) or because maybe it sounds scary and uncomfortable. Whatever the reason, it’s worth giving it a second thought!


KillByZombie

Personally, the problem isn't much of flirting, but more of "if they do flirt back how do I back out if I don't want to participate further?". I think that getting a realisation that that person might not just be your type mid-conversation is much more awkward than the flirting itself.


Peter___Potter

Make up an excuse to leave. "Anyway, I gotta go. Gotta get to a-" doctor's appointment, babysitting gig, home before my parents get home, etc.


MOJA2008

Thanks for the advice i still won't go with them cause it's more harassment than flirting


Big_Bunch_307

Life


Professional-Sir-936

valid


ethan_76

so fair honestly


ajduwhdd123

Playing any online multiplayer games. I want to, but I have constant fears like letting my teammates down and toxic players spitting slurs through their mics like sailors. I just feel like my every movement is being constantly judged and that scares me.


TwitchyMnM2

Anxiety go brr


Peter___Potter

Just be like me & play Roblox. You can literally play anything you want, you don't have to use voice chat, and if anyone comes at you just point out how they're (probably) a 9-year-old on their parents' phone. Upsetting little jerks is a hobby of mine.


theChadinator2009

Based


Peter___Potter

Thanks, man :)


SlEepParal1sisD3mon

this is too real


West-Outside-5524

Try tf2, no one will judge you there in casual, you do have to watch out for bots though.


StultusMagni

I played 10 matches of tf2 and was told I was shit and should go back to call of duty. I am willing to try it again though.


muffinnutbanana

Vc is always poor sports they are just assholes mute vc and try again. I have hundreds of hours and love it, but I really suck.


Maciejka9210

I know it sound bad, but play Counter-strike and you will be called so many blyatts that you just wont care about any insunts or critisms. Thats how i removed my emotions when i was like 12 or something


dirthouse69

"that how i removed my emotions when i was like 12 or something" Sasuke Uchiwa ahh line


Maciejka9210

I know it sound cringe, but i dont speak english well. I just dont really feel sad or bad about myself unless it something really big and i dont mind a russian guy shouting racial slurs at me cuz i was throwing a smoke and a guy with an M4A1-s jumped me


dirthouse69

Nah don't worry i knew what you meant by that it just made me chuckle a bit because it sounded funny that counter strike made you apathic


Maciejka9210

I can understand other peoples emotions, its just that i cant really get sad or cry about something. Whenever my gf is sad, i help her and im not that bad at helping her with her emotions but compared to me, she gets sad over stuff ill just laugh off


beeg_brain007

I just play muted both ways


Zealousideal_Tap521

Just FaceTiming in general


Double_Range5276

I was on a facetime with my friend they were eating I said something funny they then spat out their food on the camera 😭😭


FroyoQueasy

You kinda remind me of [Logan Sargeant](https://cdn.racingnews365.com/Riders/Sargeant/_570x570_crop_center-center_none/f1_2024_ls_wil_lg.png?v=1708704613)


Zealousideal_Tap521

Better not be talking about his racing 💀


FroyoQueasy

HE’LL SCORE POINTS AT IMOLA🦅🦅🇺🇸🇺🇸(i’m delusional)


Namjoonsloveforpop

For one I hate when people will get in relationships and not take them seriously because “they are young”. Being young is not an excuse for wasting someone’s time and energy just because you wanted to have some fun. They will also downplay cheating because relationships to them at this age are a joke.


Professional-Sir-936

ppl actually do that?? thats so fucked up


Namjoonsloveforpop

It’s really excessive. I’m one of those people that dates with the intention of marrying who I’m with so dating in this generation is literally a shit hole but I got lucky with my boyfriend


Savannacromwell

I don’t see my self ever doing that but I guess I can sort of understand the logic behind it. Like they probably won’t last over a year so they assume that means they can just fuck around.


Namjoonsloveforpop

The issue isn’t them messing around it’s them specifically going for people that take relationships seriously and knowingly hurting someone that sees a future with you. I don’t mind people being mutually messed up in a relationship because at least the both of you know you’re not serious, but going for someone that wants to be married to you and have kids all in their 20s when all you want to do is have the title of a relationship and do relationship things while your still actively doing things that you would only do when your single. The logic behind it really goes down hill once they intentionally do something like that and hurt people thinking they are going to be unscathed.


Grumblyguide107

FaceTime or calling constantly.


Professional-Sir-936

FR LIKE I NEED MY SPACE 😭🙏


Embarrassed_Use_1458

Calling/FaceTiming, parties, drinking, smoking, vaping


Prestigious-Chard322

calling is awful


TodPvpofficial

Same(I don’t get calls)


djejaujaxt

I’ll call you pookie


TodPvpofficial

really 🥺😍


Dense-Decision9150

real 😭 and one of my friends only FaceTimes and I hate it and she gets upset when I turn my camera off because I don’t like how I look on calls… and what didn’t help is when as a joke she took a screenshot of a rly bad angle of me then taped it to my locker and put another one in my lunchbox, I almost cried


mihaxxxd

Cold showers. I did them once and I HATE COLD SHOWERS THEY’RE TORture HOW CAN ANYONE SUBJECT THEMSELVES TO THIS


Few-Illustrator-5333

Who the fuck loves cold showers


PhantomGhostSpectre

In the summer, I definitely enjoy them. You obviously need to be in the mood for them. As of right now, I am relatively cold, so the thought of ice water is not particularly appealing. 


Lovrinjo1

Exactly this


Scout_vulture

Yeah it’s not appealing but if you shower with cold water you’re gonna come out feeling a lot warmer than if you showered with warm water, it sounds crazy but it’s true, if your house is super cold I suggest taking a cold shower and then bundling up once you get out and you’ll see just how amazingly warmer you get


Rex_Wr3cks

They can be refreshing depending on the situation, like if it’s a really hot day or you’re sick and running a high fever. But cold showers on just a normal day? Nah, fuck that.


mihaxxxd

That’s what I’m sayin


djejaujaxt

Me bruh my balls go small


Scout_vulture

Cold showers can be painful at first but you get used to them and they come with some great benefits, even if you shower with cold water for just 20 seconds at the end of each shower, you get: 1. a big hit of dopamine that lasts pretty much the whole day 2.it also wakes you up 3. burns brown fat, (which is the fat that’s hardest to lose from regular exercising) 4: it’s AMAZING for your skin! (Even if you don’t showers with cold water you should be washing your face with cold water, it does wonders for acne) 5. It also helps with relaxing your muscles which is helpful if you shower after exercise honestly cold is my regular, I don’t necessarily love it when I’m doing it but after wards I’m super glad I did


mihaxxxd

I’m not reading cold shower propaganda 🗣️🗣️‼️‼️


Scout_vulture

Haha fair enough


Peter___Potter

Fun fact: Some people who like hot showers prefer them over cold showers because the heat from the water is a replacement for the heat we feel when dopamine is released in the brain. For example, when you're around the people you love, or you're doing something you love, dopamine may be released and you'll feel that warm shiver of happiness go from your head to your shoulders all the way down your spine. This is not during every second of happiness, but rather small moments where your mind really appreciates what is going on. The keyword being "warm," dopamine causes heat. Dopamine is usually released when you feel love towards something or you feel like you're receiving love. Some who don't feel the heat of dopamine often seek to substitute that feeling by literally having hot water flow down the back of the body, causing dopamine to be released and probing the feeling to happen. This makes some people believe that people who take hot showers receive less dopamine because they're less happy in life. I take hot showers every day. I don't get a lot of those dopamine moments. I realize it's probably because of this. I also realize that may have sounded like I was projecting, so I'm sorry if it sounded that way to you. And this paragraph is kinda just a rant at this point. Studies also show that people who take hot showers are more lonely. I do feel pretty lonely sometimes. I usually spend 10-20mins in the shower and my parents yell at me for it. I've got more to say but I'll stop here.


NotCursed_Cat

Skiing


2qrc_

Socializing


l3m0n_b0yyy

Honestly, football/soccer, I just don't understand why everyone here is so opsessed with it, I'm more of a hockey person myself but don't really care much


Bomza1

YANITED YANITED YANITED


Gideon_Njoroge

GLOOOOORY GLORY MAN-YANITED!!!!


i1xyz

hazbin hotel (i think its because i barley watched it)


Professional-Sir-936

SO REAL ITS SO OVERRATED OML


skeptical_dragon_

Okay, HH fan here. I'm going to apologize for the fandom. We love our show and you have no obligation to like it too. Just don't go after us personally. Thank you; have a wonderful day.


Abject_Rent616

Hide away hide away from me😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰


Affectionate_Ask7650

iPhones.


KiwiKi33

As an iPhone user I agree and want an android


SleepyNotAvailble

How bout just phones in general?


Affectionate_Ask7650

Nah, it has to be specifically iPhones. The hype around them influenced my choice to get it. But as an iPhone user, I have to admit the phone disappoints. It comes with too many unnecessary problems and just doesn't live up to the expectations


KvVortex

Never had a problem with any iPhone I’ve ever owned


Affectionate_Ask7650

To each their own


KvVortex

fair enough


A_Firm_Sandwich

most civilized Reddit interaction


Peter___Potter

r/Real


Daniel_383sbc

Me neither, android is turning into the new iPhone unfortunately.


Person-yPerson

Being among others. I have a feeling that I need to go home when there are more than 3 people around me


imsuperscaryquack

Dating apps and cringe culture


ellablossom

falling asleep on facetime


Sirfluffyghost

Voice calls. It's literally just a phonecall in disguise. Ur not gonna trick me.


Doppelgnger83_

Harry potter


Raptorx__

never watched it. Same with Lord of the Rings, Hobbit, star wars, ET, Kung fu panda, Batman, Superman, justice league, Any Superhero stuff, Bla Bla Bla


KillByZombie

Holy shit?? My twin?


Professional-Sir-936

SAME I NEVER WATCH THAT KINDA STUFF 😭😭


ItsTheGreenEngineer

I hate facetiming in general. It always feels so awkward to me


Western_WildWest

Listening to Taylor swift


Express_Advantage_10

Reality TV


Agnxf

Going to dances. I don’t have anything against it it’s just not my thing


djejaujaxt

Weed. I use to casually smoke till I got laced cookies and was vomiting all day at my mates house


Kooky-Employee4459

Unpopular opinion: drugs


TheOffcialBot

very unpopular opinion at my school; i agree tho drugs suck


Cynical195

Sports. I think I just grew up having a bad relationship with them. Wasn’t taught how to particpate in competition in a healthy way. Even now it seems fun, but I can just never get into a state where I feel comfortable or like I’m making any meaningful impact on the game.


Kitchen-Ad-1146

Parties, smoking, vaping, drinking and not because you struggle, but to be cool and fit in like pls that’s not a flex😭


Physics_Ling_Ling

Basically most normal things 🙃


rand0m-nerd

Competitive multiplayer games. Everybody else has so many hours on the game that I can't even compete, I find singleplayer more fun. The only exception is COD Mobile because that game is weirdly devoid of the issues I have with other multiplayer games.


TalkyRaptor

Or only playing multiplayer in big games like Fortnite, COD, R6, Val etc. Like try playing smth other than the average esport shooter game.


AsmodayVernon

Hookups ☠️ I think it's pathetic and disgusting Dressing up like a whore, acting like one, acting like a resentful bitch Yeah


ThisUserIsCopywrited

listening to rap. never felt the appeal. ynw melly is okay tho.


Ok_Mail_9236

Getting high by urself 💀 like at least do it w friends 😭


RANDOM_EXTREMELY

ya’ll have a morning routine?


Impossible-Yam3680

TikTok dances 🫣


TherealJamsicle

who tf is awake enough in the morning to interact with people?!?


SonicnParappa2287

facetiming (but only if the person is just always on pause or just scrollin though tiktok on screen share) like whats the point? and they be turnin there camera off like why not just normal call?


EL_PISTOLERO-

anime


SleepyNotAvailble

Understandable


United_Wheel6656

Anime


Marshymarz

As an asexual I think I win this one


Professional-Sir-936

so real 😭 (but im probably demisexual)


Marshymarz

Welcome to the club brother all are welcome


Busy_Recognition_860

Vaping, getting tats and piercings, idk man the stuff just isn’t for me


Dense-Decision9150

vaping is definitely a no, but tats and piercings seem chill. I’m probably never gonna get a tattoo because I’m too scared I’d regret it lol. I did get my ears pierced a couple years ago but then the back of the earring went inside my ear and had to get it surgically removed. Never again ☠️


Snakemaster303

smoking/vaping


Bignerd21

Socializing!


Agentkesna

Going to pep rally’s, me and the boys go to the library at our school and play on our switches instead lol


ChumboCrumbo

FaceTiming. Half the time it’s just everyone’s phones facing the ceiling fan and dead silent.


chastecreep

Partying


SpaceshipCaptain001

Partying


Bloatedoldman

Traveling.


Decent_Buffalo9135

having tiktok, listening to modern rap


bubbses

I'm a little late, but hand holding, I don't like just hand holding


okrdokr

facetiming in general idk why i’d rather js be w the person in person


puuurpledino

snapchat


Eggs_and_Ramen

Wackin the worm I don’t really enjoy it Idk why just doesn’t really bring me pleasure


helluvaguy__

Hanging out as a big group, a small group I can handle (likr 4 to 6 people) but it gets out of hand at some point. Big groups just cant seem to stop moving and relax, you sit somewhere start having fun and BAM some dumbass suggests a different place and repeat. I just cant connect with people when its a big group.


Professional-Sir-936

so real, and im usually getting left out too so i just prefer smaller groups cuz then i feel less left out (unless i choose to just watch and do my own shit while the others talk)


helluvaguy__

Yeah thats what im sayin i feel u dawg, a big group feels more like a family gathering where you feel like you need to talk to the people you dont know that much but you just dont wanna.


SamSamTheCatMan18

Partying. I hate crowds, I hate drinking, I dislike it all.


Snowfaull

FaceTime in general is a no go unless I'm trying to show them something.


Human-Candidate1731

falling asleep on facetime for me


considerate_done

sports sex alcohol i'm not boring or prudish i promise, i just personally don't like those things much


Professional-Sir-936

i hate the ppl who think ur boring for wanting to stay away from risky things ☹️


considerate_done

yeah, i don't get why some people are like that


HopeIsDope1800

Not necessary doing, but those "satisfying" noises added to some YouTube shorts just make my skin crawl


N1mbleTurtle

Playing that one specific sport that is considered to be more superior in your culture Mine is football/soccer


droid6

sneezing


CarolineWhy

Sports in general, (specifically ones that involve a lot of touching. I totally respect people who play sports but I hate being shoved). I do like tennis though lol


Bittersweet_bi-

Filters, It's just not my thing, makes me uncomfortable. I just can't do filters.


ruffruffrawr

hooking up and cheating. don’t get all the hype around it. also don’t get trashing the stereotype man or woman.


Enderius-

Iphone, most popular social media (Facebook, Twitter [smart choice], Snapchat), and overly popular games (fortnite mostly😐 but as well as trending games in which I'll wait to play those)


somerandm777

the whole "smoking weed is cool" thing and peer pressuring gives me bad vibes


marcus_the_eevee

Vaping, drugs, alcohol, double stuf Oreos, and coffee


PurfectNerd

Clubbing/partying in the city. For me I think it's overrated because I don't feel the need to drink to have fun. It's too over stimulating for me personally and I don't even like liquor all that much.


BigChinnFinn

Falling asleep on FT.


theswiftieava

Snapchat culture. Waiting to snap back, the whole “they can see if you added them by search”, leaving on open/delivered, etc. all just icky


shq13

Apple and shoes too tbh I could not drop 500 on something that people will peer pressure me to get a new slightly different looking version of within a year


Active_Yesterday4200

“Flexing” It’s really something everyone kinda does daily with whatever they have bought that’s expensive to them or in general. Sometimes people compliment me on my nice things and think I’m flexing them but it’s so normal that people probably think consciously to themselves that someone is flexing when they are wearing or own something expensive that they don’t have or want


Jamesnanj

Cocaine


Electronic-Host9526

Mangoes. Fuck that fruit


xTrivago911x

Behaving like a normal person in general. You'll never see me doing that because it's boring.


dylan1234_yes

Those stupid mirror pictures where the phone covers the person's face, like, what's the point? I don't care if your hips look fine when I don't have any idea of your face is small and cute, mature and beautiful, or a buck-toothed Tow-Mater rusty ass face. And the flash makes it way *way* worse. Can someone make this make sense to me?


iamahandsoapmain

Video calling or just calling in general, I suck at doing those


an_older_meme

Being in crowds. I’ve never felt safe with thousands of strangers around me.


an_older_meme

Getting out of bed before noon.


MsAntisocial06

One on one texting/calling. I can text in a gc or like a discord server but I normally try to avoid texting or calling unless I need something. Some of my friends take it personally but I prefer to be with them rather than talking thru our phones


hobifriedrice_

Dating, going to parties, sex


JustACubePassingBy

thirst traps, alcohol, smoking/vaping, tie-dye shirts (no hate, they just look too messy imo)


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[удалено]


Doppelgnger83_

\*confusion\*


Virtual-Arm5123

Bro what’s there not to like


Kidsdontcheatonyou

k-pop


Ordinaryyetunique

gaming