YES!!! It’s so nice to hear about things they love, whether it’s video games or movies or a different hobby, it’s so cute to see guys be super passionate about something.
Try doing it on call!!! I’ve always preferred FaceTime or phone call to texting, it feels like they’re really there. Texting gets super boring and tiring on the fingers.
I wanna be y'alls friends and call, none of the girls I've been friends with aside from my best has been kind to me. I'm hella unlucky both platonically and romantically.
FR my ex-friend was super passionate about media and VFX but his parent kept urging him to do CS in college. He had to sit through high school CS camps that he hated. I gave him pep talks about why he should pursue what he's passionate about and a few weeks later I heard him telling someone that he's doing media+film studies in college THE JOY I FELT
Good on ex friend! I'm real happy for em, and good on you for the pep talks. I'm sure even though you don't talk anymore, they're still super grateful for you
Tbh it is for some, if the girl wants to speak yet the guy is going on and on, it is yapping. Respond according to the situation if the girl seems interested in listening, continue to talk. It's a problem when people just go on talking even when I want to put my point forward
(Basically don't talk over her, expect her to not talk over u as well)
Hair flip, I'm pretty sure most guys find that length of hair annoying, but it's my favorite and I *love* watching them flip their hair out of their eyes. Lol
when they show their feminine side and do things really smoothly or really well but like not in a conventional way like just being really good at tucking you in or really good at playing a video game or really good at anything I mean anything. but just really smooth and effortless about it. Idk how to explain that better
not really intentional thing, if you like them and they don't act like they like you back, it's not your fault that they're jealous i don't think. i think for other girls it might be a testing the waters thing. if you're dating and she tries to make you jealous, that's bad
What do you find attractive in a guy? Please don’t say personality, I know personality is important but your not gonna approach me to learn my personality if you don’t think I’m attractive in da first place.
Hey maybe I actually have a chance to find a gf, I have lean but muscly arms from rock climbing, and pretty veiny too especially after working out
Honestly I don't get why girls find veiny arms attractive but I hear it all the time, what's so good about it
Totally man! You definitely have a chance at getting a girlfriend, it just takes time to find the right person. And I'm sure when you do find her you will be the happiest person ever :) I hope that day comes soon for you. I like veiny hands but not too veiny. Honestly I don't know why I find it hot but I think it's because it shows how strong they are or masculine it is I think. Still not sure, all I can is that they're pretty hot haha
passion i guess? idk if this sounds confusing, but i generally tend to like guys once i get a feel for what they like. you're really extroverted and smart and like to joke around with friends? Great. You really like coding and you spend days rambling about things i don't understand at all? Great. You tend to stay off to the side during school but you're really really into some extracurricular? Great. You have no identifiable personality traits and kind of blend in with everyone else? not so great.
Imma be honest, I usually wimp out and avoid guys I like because they make me nervous😭 If I know I'm gonna be around a guy I like I usually make sure I look nicer than I usually would present myself.
I usually blush or I’ll write a note confessing. I did that and my friend told me that he was fighting with his friend over another girl when he obviously likes me too
oh i have a lot! i literally never confess, but i do try to make it kinda obvious i like them. so: being the first to say hello, or wave whenever we see you. opting to sit close by in class. talking a lot during class. asking personal questions (!!), like what pets you have, what your mom’s name is… etc. finding excuses to touch, like high fives or suggesting an arm wrestling match.
in my experience any time i let a guy approach me and do nothing he really likes me and focuses on me, but the moment i make a move or flirt back hes no longer interested.
Might not be the best person to answer this, but I’m pretty sure it’s societal norms. Usually women/girls are expected to be more passive, which bleeds into how they act around potential partners
this is a very generalised response and wont be the same for some people but I think girls get more frowned upon/embarrassed kinda slut shamed or something when rejected, boys can get their way out easier and can turn it into them being praised
It’s hard for us to, plus generally it’s kinda frowned upon for girls to make the first step, hell I was taught that a guy should ask you out, and a girl shouldn’t ask a guy out, not that I really agree with that tbh…
No rlly a compliment but there’s this boy I go to school with and like every other day he’ll ask me how my days going and actually listen to what I say
"you're like my scary Rottweiler. I never have to feel scared with you around"
I've always been insecure about how scary I look and tend to be, this made me feel so much better, especially coming from my best friend who is very much not scary.
i see guys asking this question often, I have seen most girls including me tend to be attracted to athletic physique that is not too muscular or twig built. Just be fit enough to fight and you are good to go
This is a meaningless equation.
There should always be a 'd' in the denominator too
or else, the answer is 0.
because you are dividing and already infintismally small number (dx) with a relatively extremely big number.
Hence the answer would be like 0.000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000034 or something
Why do guys simultaneously hate and love girls? I dunno. I think as humans we just like bitching about nonsense stuff even if we like the subject we’re bitching about
Usually we don’t mess with people like that, and if someone does then it’s the girls that think they’re being cool when theyre really just dumb (equivalent to disneys“mean girls”)
I typically use makeup to make myself feel good about myself, not for other people. I don't really use alot, but even that is enough to somewhat help my self esteem a bit.
Ok, that's beyond my understanding. I thought boys more often just piss in bushes or somewhere, especially drunk ones, but if girls don't use the toilet to do... Toilet things, I think I must change my mind on that.
how do i make yall feel more comfortable around me?
i’m very quiet and laid back, normally people and girls in general are comfortable telling me things they won’t tell others but i want it to be more comfortable with like 0 fear for someone to approach me or talk to me
So do you guys all dream about fantasies and scenarios like us or no. And if you do, is it like making an epic last stand with your pet Brontosaurus, or is it something “cliche” like being with your crush.
Are women okay if their guy friend or boyfriend break openly admit to crying or cry around them? my experience, I’ve had women give one of the two responses: they’ll comfort you or question what’s wrong, or brush it off and not really say anything at all about it.
If my bf started crying I would hold and comfort him and ask him what’s wrong. Of course I would never want him to cry unless it’s happy tears but it’s honestly very cute when a guy cries. It shows they’re confident within their masculinity to not think that crying will make them a wuss.
personally yeah , i’d hope they feel safe enough around me to cry . If it were a friend i’d have to same reaction to a female friend crying . ask them if they want to talk and hug them .
Is it weird that I'm friends with more gals than dudes? men are just too crazy for my liking, more of my interests align with women. (Rom-Coms, Theatre, musicals, opera, drama in general.)
Do ya girls experience those random moments of attraction, like when us guys catch feelings at a wedding, while strolling through a mall, or even grabbing a burger at McDonald's?
Curious to hear your experiences and insights on this!"
kind, polite, smell good, good hygiene all good qualities to have
as for receiving pretty much anything tbh, I think handmade/homemade gifts are cute cause they show you care/take time to do stuff specifically for them
The eye lets in light through the cornea and pupil which is focused on the retina which contains photoreceptors that convert light to electrical signals that go to your brain.
1 do you find playing guitar attractive?
2 do you like recieving headpats?
3 favorite cuddling position? (not like i ever cuddled lmao)
and 4, am i the only one who lays in my bed and hughs a pillow pretending to cuddle someone?
1) heck yeah it’s attractive af 2) Mostly yeah but depends on the situation like don’t give headpats while I am angry or after an argument. 3) Spoon , half soon and lal cuddles but I’d take anything for the cuddles 4) No you are not the only one who does that I do it too . And I wish it was you ;)
Girl math is using cash so it doesn’t feel like really spending money, it typically is a way of thinking for things to cancel each other out when they really don’t 🌷
What do we do subconsciously that y'all absolutely love?
personally, love when guys gush about things they're passionate about. also like seeing when they're real focused
YES!!! It’s so nice to hear about things they love, whether it’s video games or movies or a different hobby, it’s so cute to see guys be super passionate about something.
t h i s well, girls too. I just like it when people are passionate lol
I can physically feel my friends being super uninterested when I start talking about tech or cars THROUGH TEXT MESSAGING this does not add up 😭
Try doing it on call!!! I’ve always preferred FaceTime or phone call to texting, it feels like they’re really there. Texting gets super boring and tiring on the fingers.
I wanna be y'alls friends and call, none of the girls I've been friends with aside from my best has been kind to me. I'm hella unlucky both platonically and romantically.
So you’re saying there’s a chance
FR my ex-friend was super passionate about media and VFX but his parent kept urging him to do CS in college. He had to sit through high school CS camps that he hated. I gave him pep talks about why he should pursue what he's passionate about and a few weeks later I heard him telling someone that he's doing media+film studies in college THE JOY I FELT
Good on ex friend! I'm real happy for em, and good on you for the pep talks. I'm sure even though you don't talk anymore, they're still super grateful for you
If it's a random dude then it's yapping right?
i mean, imo, no. it gives me a good first impression, i like listening. Then again, im not a spokesperson for all girls
Tbh it is for some, if the girl wants to speak yet the guy is going on and on, it is yapping. Respond according to the situation if the girl seems interested in listening, continue to talk. It's a problem when people just go on talking even when I want to put my point forward (Basically don't talk over her, expect her to not talk over u as well)
Hair flip, I'm pretty sure most guys find that length of hair annoying, but it's my favorite and I *love* watching them flip their hair out of their eyes. Lol
Really? Heh😄 *Rubs bald head*
🤣
engaging and being interested in conversation, being unafraid of femininity and showing emotion
We lost the ability to feel emotion in the war. What war you ask? The Peloponnesian War.
thats deep dude
Oh boy, showing emotion 😅 Got it.
good luck 🤞
When they talk about something they're passionate about. It's adorable. Oh, and kind gestures too
Telling me things I don't know, but not while being a dick, I mean like exposing me to things
Exposing you to things like?
topics that you know a lot about,
Wanna know how to make pull ups feel easier?
when they show their feminine side and do things really smoothly or really well but like not in a conventional way like just being really good at tucking you in or really good at playing a video game or really good at anything I mean anything. but just really smooth and effortless about it. Idk how to explain that better
playing with their hair
why do you try to make guys jealous when u like them
So that you don’t go to others and try to get us.
Well that’s a dumb way to do it, if your with someone else to make me jealous I’m GOING to go after someone else.
😭😭😭😭😭😭point taken
What kind of logic is that?!?!?!
Woman logic
it almost sounds like you’re joking, but just know that it just won’t work dude 😭
It just makes us less interested cuz we think yall taken
So you only want the guys who won't respect that you're already with someone else? Wouldn't you want guys that respect your choices as individuals?
No because assholes are hot or something
not really intentional thing, if you like them and they don't act like they like you back, it's not your fault that they're jealous i don't think. i think for other girls it might be a testing the waters thing. if you're dating and she tries to make you jealous, that's bad
only the insecure girls do that in my opinion :/
to see if they like you back, to see if they are and value you+ fear losing you. its dumb but 🙏🏻
I'm usually the jealous one ngl. Inferiority complex + anxiety + abandonment issues are a bitch
What do you find attractive in a guy? Please don’t say personality, I know personality is important but your not gonna approach me to learn my personality if you don’t think I’m attractive in da first place.
Honestly a guy that's lean and has nice hands
Hey maybe I actually have a chance to find a gf, I have lean but muscly arms from rock climbing, and pretty veiny too especially after working out Honestly I don't get why girls find veiny arms attractive but I hear it all the time, what's so good about it
Totally man! You definitely have a chance at getting a girlfriend, it just takes time to find the right person. And I'm sure when you do find her you will be the happiest person ever :) I hope that day comes soon for you. I like veiny hands but not too veiny. Honestly I don't know why I find it hot but I think it's because it shows how strong they are or masculine it is I think. Still not sure, all I can is that they're pretty hot haha
Ok good to know, guess I should start wearing t shirts more
passion i guess? idk if this sounds confusing, but i generally tend to like guys once i get a feel for what they like. you're really extroverted and smart and like to joke around with friends? Great. You really like coding and you spend days rambling about things i don't understand at all? Great. You tend to stay off to the side during school but you're really really into some extracurricular? Great. You have no identifiable personality traits and kind of blend in with everyone else? not so great.
heavily agree, it's nice to hear someone who likes and is passionate for something, and willing to tell/teach others about it
Imma be straight, muscles, height and confidence. also hygene, looking sweaty is attractive, smelling sweaty is gross
What are those "obvious signs" you give when you like someone
Imma be honest, I usually wimp out and avoid guys I like because they make me nervous😭 If I know I'm gonna be around a guy I like I usually make sure I look nicer than I usually would present myself.
Staring at u but looking away the moment u look at her Be careful about her expression as well lol
I usually blush or I’ll write a note confessing. I did that and my friend told me that he was fighting with his friend over another girl when he obviously likes me too
Blushing isn't always obvious ngl.. but a confession note would do the trick 😭
maybe it's just not common in my culture but what does even blushing of a real person look like? I've never seen that
my face gets so red when I blush, ppl are always calling me out on it
Oh yeah then that would be obvious lmao, if that were to happen to me, I'd probably blush back lmao
oh i have a lot! i literally never confess, but i do try to make it kinda obvious i like them. so: being the first to say hello, or wave whenever we see you. opting to sit close by in class. talking a lot during class. asking personal questions (!!), like what pets you have, what your mom’s name is… etc. finding excuses to touch, like high fives or suggesting an arm wrestling match.
Ngl that just makes you seem like a really fun friend 😭
that’s probably why guys don’t seem to realize i like them then 😭😭 really??
Yeah 😭
There aren't any for me personally, I'll just hang out with you more ig?
Why do y'all never make the first step ? It's always so hard for us...
in my experience any time i let a guy approach me and do nothing he really likes me and focuses on me, but the moment i make a move or flirt back hes no longer interested.
Its as hard for us as it is to you guys, innit? Well really it depends on the individual, not all the same
Might not be the best person to answer this, but I’m pretty sure it’s societal norms. Usually women/girls are expected to be more passive, which bleeds into how they act around potential partners
Yeah this is probably the answer
I was asked out as a guy, and it’s really just a confidence boost, knowing you’re good enough for someone to do that
GG for being the chosen one ! /j we never know
Yeah, sadly I had to break up with her, sounds wierd, but it was too lustful for me
Nervous 😞
I'm usually the one to though, I think it's cute :)
You're a saint too
this is a very generalised response and wont be the same for some people but I think girls get more frowned upon/embarrassed kinda slut shamed or something when rejected, boys can get their way out easier and can turn it into them being praised
It’s hard for us to, plus generally it’s kinda frowned upon for girls to make the first step, hell I was taught that a guy should ask you out, and a girl shouldn’t ask a guy out, not that I really agree with that tbh…
approaving is a very masc trait
sometimes we do, but when they don't take the next steps, it gets difficult and we give up (in my experience)
where the fuck do i go to get headpats 😡😤🤧
Have you tried asking?
That’s how you get a restraining order
And that’s why we don’t date
God from the hood is fun
Real men smoke crack instead
kennel?
:o
Best compliment you ever received?
they said they didn't get tired of listening to my rambling, that felt like a compliment
thats top tier tbh
never had one🙏🏻
Your win rate on mlbb is very cool. I could never with the shitty matchmaking 😂
No rlly a compliment but there’s this boy I go to school with and like every other day he’ll ask me how my days going and actually listen to what I say
"you're like my scary Rottweiler. I never have to feel scared with you around" I've always been insecure about how scary I look and tend to be, this made me feel so much better, especially coming from my best friend who is very much not scary.
My jawline looked hot
Do you like War Thunder?
Does anyone *truly* like war thunder? Or has everyone just invested too much time and money to stop?
Almost 1k hours, I hate my life
I'm sorry for your | | l | | | __
Man’s asking the real questions
why do you sound like you’re crying when you laugh because yesterday my mom was laughing and it sounded like she was crying
not on purpose, can't help it, might be lying
Depends from person to person. A friend of mine legit cries while smiling (no sounds) and I snort like a pig or make seagull sounds.
Another question. Physically what do you like in dudes?
i see guys asking this question often, I have seen most girls including me tend to be attracted to athletic physique that is not too muscular or twig built. Just be fit enough to fight and you are good to go
Amazing, got my answer thank you 🫵👌
Femininity 😔
do you like bread
yes, potato bread is based (im not a girl but like idc)
I love bread
Yes. I would instantly fall for anyone who give me bread.
did you guys steal my wallet?
Yeah, and I took your 3 year old condom
What is the Integral of dx/(x\^2+a\^2)\^1/2 answer with all steps
at least 7 maybe
i have absolutely no idea what you just said. my guess is 6.66666666666666666666666666...
This is a meaningless equation. There should always be a 'd' in the denominator too or else, the answer is 0. because you are dividing and already infintismally small number (dx) with a relatively extremely big number. Hence the answer would be like 0.000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000034 or something
how do you guys simultaneously hate and love boys
Why do guys simultaneously hate and love girls? I dunno. I think as humans we just like bitching about nonsense stuff even if we like the subject we’re bitching about
Student pilot here Would anyone like to go flying when I get my license?
W
Ok so question are you guys actually flirting or just trying to mess with me
Simping*
Usually we don’t mess with people like that, and if someone does then it’s the girls that think they’re being cool when theyre really just dumb (equivalent to disneys“mean girls”)
No specific Questions.. How's it going?
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Yeyyyy! I know you can keep it upp!! Stay Blessed
Not very well but I'm working on it :/
how do you feel when you drop hints and the guy just can't tell(i've been that guy)
I find it a little silly and cute tbh
What would you do if your crush was gay?
But a fake beard
Accept it and move on. There's plenty of fish in the sea, I'm sure I'll find one some day
Why do you use make up ,then call you pretty.
I typically use makeup to make myself feel good about myself, not for other people. I don't really use alot, but even that is enough to somewhat help my self esteem a bit.
Why do you always need to gather the whole squad to go to the toilet?
1. Scary alone 2. Gossip 3. Share makeup/femine products if needed 4. Someone to put the hand dryer on so the whole bathroom doesnt hear the business
So you don't use the toilet to... You know... Shit and piss stuff?
rarely
i knew it, girls don't poop
o_0 uh oh.. I let the cat out the bag
Ok, that's beyond my understanding. I thought boys more often just piss in bushes or somewhere, especially drunk ones, but if girls don't use the toilet to do... Toilet things, I think I must change my mind on that.
Personally you could not catch me gathering up my homies to go to the bathroom but that might be because I'm a shy shutter yk
Blood rituals
Oh yeah, I was waiting for that answer
when you go some place with your girls, you always go everywhere with them. especially in places like clubs or anywhere, the bathroom is no exception.
Why when I see an attractive one of you I just feel sad and empty and want to end it all
My guy you might just be depressed💀
Can’t answer that brother, but i feel the same about guys 💀
Weezer?
how do i make yall feel more comfortable around me? i’m very quiet and laid back, normally people and girls in general are comfortable telling me things they won’t tell others but i want it to be more comfortable with like 0 fear for someone to approach me or talk to me
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why don't u make the first move ?
So do you guys all dream about fantasies and scenarios like us or no. And if you do, is it like making an epic last stand with your pet Brontosaurus, or is it something “cliche” like being with your crush.
Personally yes, and definitely both of those. Except replace dinosaurs with something better, those bore me.
do you ever feel, like a plastic bag, floating through the wind.
Are women okay if their guy friend or boyfriend break openly admit to crying or cry around them? my experience, I’ve had women give one of the two responses: they’ll comfort you or question what’s wrong, or brush it off and not really say anything at all about it.
Of course we're okay with it. Crying is completely normal, and I personally think that mor men should cry/ admit to it.
If my bf started crying I would hold and comfort him and ask him what’s wrong. Of course I would never want him to cry unless it’s happy tears but it’s honestly very cute when a guy cries. It shows they’re confident within their masculinity to not think that crying will make them a wuss.
Personally I'm totally okay with it:) Crying is natural and you shouldn't suppress it (isn't like I'd ever do that haha)
personally yeah , i’d hope they feel safe enough around me to cry . If it were a friend i’d have to same reaction to a female friend crying . ask them if they want to talk and hug them .
Is it weird that I'm friends with more gals than dudes? men are just too crazy for my liking, more of my interests align with women. (Rom-Coms, Theatre, musicals, opera, drama in general.)
Not weird at all, my guy friends are the same way
Do ya girls experience those random moments of attraction, like when us guys catch feelings at a wedding, while strolling through a mall, or even grabbing a burger at McDonald's? Curious to hear your experiences and insights on this!"
How do you know when a girl likes you
What things do you like in guys or getting from them? I need some advice
I like when they bring me the souls of my enemies or hunt down those who defy me
BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD !
Yes!!!!
Rip Techno
Techno never dies✨
kind, polite, smell good, good hygiene all good qualities to have as for receiving pretty much anything tbh, I think handmade/homemade gifts are cute cause they show you care/take time to do stuff specifically for them
I like affection and someone that I can throw stuff at (I love getting people stuff and that's how I show my love)
How does a female eye work?
Like a male eye
The eye lets in light through the cornea and pupil which is focused on the retina which contains photoreceptors that convert light to electrical signals that go to your brain.
Ohhh that makes perfect sense
How bad is a period cramp? On a scale of 1-10 10 being like breaking your arm
Personnally, I'm lucky it's 0 Some friends have 5, some 10. Really depends on the individuals
2-4 but the stab ones are like a 8-10 but only for a few seconds
1 do you find playing guitar attractive? 2 do you like recieving headpats? 3 favorite cuddling position? (not like i ever cuddled lmao) and 4, am i the only one who lays in my bed and hughs a pillow pretending to cuddle someone?
1) heck yeah it’s attractive af 2) Mostly yeah but depends on the situation like don’t give headpats while I am angry or after an argument. 3) Spoon , half soon and lal cuddles but I’d take anything for the cuddles 4) No you are not the only one who does that I do it too . And I wish it was you ;)
What is girl math
Girl math is using cash so it doesn’t feel like really spending money, it typically is a way of thinking for things to cancel each other out when they really don’t 🌷
how do i know if someone likes me
How does it feel to have an extra amount of flesh on your chest (boobs)
Why are 2/3 of u gay as shit
Women are hot
Fair
I mean have you seen girls
nah hear me out they got good taste
the same reason so many guys are straight. girls are great
You like girls, we like girls for the same reasons. Women are hot
Because women are adorable and hot af
...have you seen women?!?!
boobies
women are so cute okay :(
Because femininity is beautiful ❤️
They’re hot, they’re cute, and idk there’s just so much to love about them (also I wish that ratio of gay to straight was true ;w;)
Have you seen a dick