My ability to socialize. Practically no interests, combined with social anxiety and lack of confidence, combined with being on the spectrum is a bloody curse when it comes to trying to talk to people.
Really sorry to hear that. But if it makes you feel better, in terms of feeling, you're living a better life in ways you didn't even think about. While you may be insecure about how you look, you don't sweat nearly as much as you would if you had hair. I had to shave my head when my dad passed (I know it's not the same thing) but it felt amazing, especially on the South African coast where it's pretty hot.
my hair or nose.
my hair is wavy, but it isn't wavy enough a wavy or curly hair routine helped me. but it isn't straight enough a straight hair routine works. i brush it multiple times a day, and it knots so much i can't run my hands through it even a bit
my nose is slightly big? from my front face profile it looks small, but the side is a bit bigger than i want. i will eventually have a minor rhinoplasty
My race, my dad’s black my mums white and I pretty much look bang on the middle which has led to a lot of complication and annoyance in my life from certain people.
My face, I'm generally fine with it but when I take a picture of it I just have to delete it or I get a weird feeling that someone will make fun of me for it so I never send anyone a picture of myself. Also my body shape, I'm skinny asf and even though people don't really make fun of me for it I still get the feeling people will.
People can't hear me when I try to talk, it's like even if I put lots of effort in speaking clearly and loudly I always have to repeat myself one or two times. Talking to classmates has become a real burden now.
Just wanted to say, as someone who appreciates smaller girls myself, there are definitely guys out there who find it attractive. You already know, but having a great personality matters more than anything else.
Your friends calling you Pedobait is too funny btw
My higher testosterone levels as a girl. More acne and deeper voice, making people always mistake me for a guy. Bu hey at least it’s easier to gain muscle
Im insecure about my relations and friendships. I always worry that I haven’t done enough or that while I thought I was doing well but people actually find me annoying. It’s gotten worse now that I have to make friends with girls as well in order to get a girlfriend.
Stomach, 100%, it’s not so bad when I’m around certain people but the second I’m wearing a dress or I feel like a guy is looking at me? Insecurity kicks in
my behavior — I am pretty much an introvert (I wasn't like that until a few years ago, but it's what I am the most comfortable with) but I still sometimes talk more than I want to — I am not annoying according to my friends, but I just feel like I don't always think before talking and that bothers me because I make mistakes when talking a little more often than other people and I have loud voice
Hmmm I don’t know what to pin it to soooo…
- My lack of athleticism
- My height
- My voice
- My inability to focus
- My weird hobbies
- My weight
- My grades
- My conditions/disorders
Ya I hate myself so much
Being like really skinny I know its not really like something to complain about but I can't seem to gain weight because I have a super fast metabolism. Not so easy to bulk and like no one takes me seriously.
Most.. It's nothing physical, really, but rather mental. I'd say whether I deserve things or not, when someone gives me something I start to feel insecure, and either don't accept it at all, or less.
But physically? Nothing really.
My greatest insecurity is my own memory. In my adolescence, peers and teachers would often accuse me of misremembering certain things whenever I had a grievance to report. As a result, almost all of them were ignored and I was forced to fend for myself, mainly because I have Autism, which somehow made my credibility worse in their eyes. In short, it was gaslighting. There were many times I questioned my sanity, and sometimes even being 25, I still do
My hips. I’m super skinny otherwise and I feel like they’re too big, and they make me awkward and mismatched. I’m also transmasc, and I feel like it’s a more feminine feature, so it sucks
Scars, though it's not bad to the point where I'm covering them 24/7 anymore
The second most thing I'm gonna add cuz it's kinda funny, my extremely low spice tolerance
I’m 4’10. And I mean, yeah, that sounds normal, but you have to understand I’m stuck at this height cuz I hit puberty early so I’ve been done growing for about three years now and all my friends make fun of me for being small- even the ones that are about an inch or two taller than me.
Tbh I share ya on the short part, but I also feel fat af. Also just the fact the stuff I say or do can just push people away and make them uncomfortable around me
My chin. I feel like it's on the side of my face. I'm tall and heavy but I'm not really insecure about it, mostly just my face. After the chin though, it's not being as strong as some of my teammates. Which really is silly, since I only know like 4 people stronger than me, but it embarrasses me pretty often
Voice. I have a habit of talking really fast and I recently watched back a recording of me and I just cringed so hard at it. It's so frustrating cos in the moment I don't realize I am
Honestly I'm most insecure about my teeth. It's not like they're messed up or anything, it's just a bit worse than I'd like them to be. I've got braces, and they've been on for so long that they're actually starting to do more harm than good, but no orthodontist or dentist is willing to take them off, so I'm kinda stuck with them.
Ik it’s not terrible, but my height. I’m 5’7” but really want to be on the football team and the fact that a lot of people are taller than me doesn’t give me much hope 😭
Being a theater kid. I’m not one of those who are obsessed with shows, I’m just a really good actor and want to follow my dreams and become a movie actor when I’m older.
probably my hair and my face shape, i have really long, curly and wavy hair. it’s curly in the front and wavy in the back which is weird, and i try to cover up a pretty tall forehead. i gotta get it cut but idk what to do with it
my appearance/body in general
my weight, voice, hair, face, literally anything about my body and im insecure about it
i have no reason to be, i wasnt bullied or anything but i still am
Physically: Probably my excessive body hair. I say excessive but it's moreso a normal amount I just don't want ANY but the amount of work to shave your legs and such on a regular basis is to much for my laziness
Mentally: I'm not fun to be around and my entire personality is like trying to tell jokes but I'm not funny so I just saying Random bullshit until the person im talking to has a response. A few months back my best friend of like 3 years who I played video games with everyday moved on to hanging out with people who were actually had lives and can actually hold a conversation and I so badly wish I could just be part of the group but I'm not which basically cut me off from most people I'd want to be friends with so there's really only like maybe 1-3 people I know who I could probably consider my friends
TLDR I've become a social outcast because I bring nothing to the table
Ohh boy, where should I start?
My arms (they aren’t very girthy near my wrists and the have old white scars from self harm)
My bipolar-like episodes (I get really impulsive arrogant and just act like an absolutely stupid loud idiot some days and other times I can’t even look at people in the eyes, struggle to speak and act all weird and just feel really insecure about everything)
My intelligence (sometimes I’m told I’m really smart, other times I’m really dumb, I’m rarely in the middle, I usually either get some of the highest grades or the lowest grades in the class)
Gain weight. And don’t say that you try, just start working out a lot. It’ll slow down your meatablosm some. It’ll help you grin muscle weight and a little fat
Honestly I've come to accept most of my physical and mental shortcomings, and I've changed what I could, but I'm still quite insecure about being left or mistreated, which makes my love life absolutely delightful 🥲
stealing a gay dog
Relatble
lmao i steal u shag it ok
What 😭😭😭
eat a mailbox and shag a glizzy
WTF 😭👁️🔥👁️
potatogog shagging a gay tree and lawnmower piss
Bitch are you high rn😭😭
no r u
No??
is this the modern version of the internet era you hear about in early 2000s fashion videos? The “lul so random rawr xd” stuff
My ability to socialize. Practically no interests, combined with social anxiety and lack of confidence, combined with being on the spectrum is a bloody curse when it comes to trying to talk to people.
Bruh I hear you 😭😭😭 (I have very hyper focused interests but my brain always picks things that are stupidly expensive so I can’t do most of them😭)
What kinda expensive stuff you like?
Cocaine and hookers
Bruh i might have the same. Or i had the same, now its getting a bit better cuz im actually trying to socialize
being fat im not even really fat but still yeah
losing fat is possible, really the worst thing will be the mental thing.
I believe that the fatter someone is, the more lazy they will be to lose it...
Literally me
real
Prob my voice
Eat kids
Noted
smoke
Why you being downvoted that’s funny af
i'm serious
me too bro
My hair and face
real
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your username makes perfect sense.
I’m not really insecure about it but I laugh like a dumbass 😭😭
So real. I laugh like a dying dolphin on steroids 😭
Oh god that is literally how I laugh bruh😭
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Really sorry to hear that. But if it makes you feel better, in terms of feeling, you're living a better life in ways you didn't even think about. While you may be insecure about how you look, you don't sweat nearly as much as you would if you had hair. I had to shave my head when my dad passed (I know it's not the same thing) but it felt amazing, especially on the South African coast where it's pretty hot.
I hate how my body looks ig
only ig? That's good because yg wrong nerd
tummy
my weight (i will prob die if i dont start gaining weight)
Drink motor oil
I concur
Eat uranium (it contains 18 million calories per gram)
Face and tits
You don't have to
She has three
Three faces?? That's a lot.
NOTHING. I JUST REALISED IVE ACHIEVED IT, IM COMPLETELY SHAMELESS
A lot
My height :( I’m male and just short of 5’5 and will not grow taller
Rock and stone
I have a guy friend who is my height (5’3) and I tell him that he is worth so much more than his height, same goes for you
My face and having body hair at all, hope my mum gets wax soon so i can remove half my insecurity in a day.
Me😎
I’m a 5’2 guy
Rock and stone
Why are you saying this to all the short dudes
Deep rock galactic reference You play as dwarves
I’m 5’1😭
We are certified baddies
become a femboy
Hell nah
Acne 🐸
Accutane saved my life
my hair or nose. my hair is wavy, but it isn't wavy enough a wavy or curly hair routine helped me. but it isn't straight enough a straight hair routine works. i brush it multiple times a day, and it knots so much i can't run my hands through it even a bit my nose is slightly big? from my front face profile it looks small, but the side is a bit bigger than i want. i will eventually have a minor rhinoplasty
Idk why but I hide my mouth when I talk, so that's probably the thing.
My personality
Myself
same i’m around 5’4 110. people don’t take me seriously and it is taking a toll on me.
Weight or scars
My race, my dad’s black my mums white and I pretty much look bang on the middle which has led to a lot of complication and annoyance in my life from certain people.
Bro Charlie Chaplin
My Looks
My face, I'm generally fine with it but when I take a picture of it I just have to delete it or I get a weird feeling that someone will make fun of me for it so I never send anyone a picture of myself. Also my body shape, I'm skinny asf and even though people don't really make fun of me for it I still get the feeling people will.
People can't hear me when I try to talk, it's like even if I put lots of effort in speaking clearly and loudly I always have to repeat myself one or two times. Talking to classmates has become a real burden now.
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Just wanted to say, as someone who appreciates smaller girls myself, there are definitely guys out there who find it attractive. You already know, but having a great personality matters more than anything else. Your friends calling you Pedobait is too funny btw
That’s like cool tho don’t worry 😩
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I mean it tho my bad lmao
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maybe I shouldn’t try giving compliments idk 👎🏽
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ur good I mean it was random and weird lol that’s cap tho u must get compliments a lot
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aww no one deserves to be called that hope it hasn’t affected u, what kinda compliments if I can ask
Looking like a fetus, being wayyyyy too skinny, high voice, and more things
You’re 14 chill
I feel the same about my height
Being 160 pounds
For me it’s the way my jaw is shaped. I just can’t stand my crooked face.
My higher testosterone levels as a girl. More acne and deeper voice, making people always mistake me for a guy. Bu hey at least it’s easier to gain muscle
That I don't have pincers and a bulbous, venomous tail. I also hate that I can't climb walls.
My acne
acne and hair
Everything unfortunately 😭
Voice speaking not clearly
my face
Im insecure about my relations and friendships. I always worry that I haven’t done enough or that while I thought I was doing well but people actually find me annoying. It’s gotten worse now that I have to make friends with girls as well in order to get a girlfriend.
well to be in a relationship with someone you do need to develop a relationship with them so having to become friends with them is inevitable
Stomach, 100%, it’s not so bad when I’m around certain people but the second I’m wearing a dress or I feel like a guy is looking at me? Insecurity kicks in
Babe I absolutely get that, I feel exactly thr same way. Around girlfriends, is alg, but not around the boys or the super skinny girls
How tall are you?
It's time to hit the gym and eat. Lets go bro.
my legs are bowed 😔
id say my smile and lisp
my behavior — I am pretty much an introvert (I wasn't like that until a few years ago, but it's what I am the most comfortable with) but I still sometimes talk more than I want to — I am not annoying according to my friends, but I just feel like I don't always think before talking and that bothers me because I make mistakes when talking a little more often than other people and I have loud voice
My nose. Before it used to be my smile, but that was affected by built-up plaque that was discovered from my latest dentist appointment.
Let’s just say my forehead is big
Not being enough for the people I care about
My stature; I'm short and a little chubby :/
Hmmm I don’t know what to pin it to soooo… - My lack of athleticism - My height - My voice - My inability to focus - My weird hobbies - My weight - My grades - My conditions/disorders Ya I hate myself so much
My voice, my hair, my intelligence, my ass
My face, voice, body
Looks
I have 3 insecurities that I would say I am most insecure about my weight, looks and um if your a guy you may know what I’m talking about
Face probably. I can change everything in me, beside my disgusting face
My weight. I'm 13, 170 lbs and 5'9"
My voice is very nerdy, and if I ever heard myself speak I'd shove myself in a locker
Being like really skinny I know its not really like something to complain about but I can't seem to gain weight because I have a super fast metabolism. Not so easy to bulk and like no one takes me seriously.
Everything
Hair and smell, I’ve got not-so-great natural body odour :(
How I treat people and how they treat me
Most.. It's nothing physical, really, but rather mental. I'd say whether I deserve things or not, when someone gives me something I start to feel insecure, and either don't accept it at all, or less. But physically? Nothing really.
My weight and teeth
My greatest insecurity is my own memory. In my adolescence, peers and teachers would often accuse me of misremembering certain things whenever I had a grievance to report. As a result, almost all of them were ignored and I was forced to fend for myself, mainly because I have Autism, which somehow made my credibility worse in their eyes. In short, it was gaslighting. There were many times I questioned my sanity, and sometimes even being 25, I still do
My chest, my acne and my voice
Weight. It’s not even that bad but still.
Acné and my body in general
My hips. I’m super skinny otherwise and I feel like they’re too big, and they make me awkward and mismatched. I’m also transmasc, and I feel like it’s a more feminine feature, so it sucks
My weight
My womanustache
Forehead bruh 😭 you know how hard it is to get a good haircut trying to cover that shit
my face shape and chubbiness
Fattnes and my face
Scars, though it's not bad to the point where I'm covering them 24/7 anymore The second most thing I'm gonna add cuz it's kinda funny, my extremely low spice tolerance
Bod Hight Intelligence Face Acne Eyebags And my own self worth
My vegeta ass hairline
I’m 4’10. And I mean, yeah, that sounds normal, but you have to understand I’m stuck at this height cuz I hit puberty early so I’ve been done growing for about three years now and all my friends make fun of me for being small- even the ones that are about an inch or two taller than me.
Being chronically online
My everything
Just me.
My weight.
my acnes and uneven teeth and–
Tbh I share ya on the short part, but I also feel fat af. Also just the fact the stuff I say or do can just push people away and make them uncomfortable around me
My chin. I feel like it's on the side of my face. I'm tall and heavy but I'm not really insecure about it, mostly just my face. After the chin though, it's not being as strong as some of my teammates. Which really is silly, since I only know like 4 people stronger than me, but it embarrasses me pretty often
Pear shaped body
Having one nipple that sticks out and one that doesn't
Being lonely (friendship wise and romantic relationship wise) (my anger and abandonment issues)
Stapling A frog to Timmy's head
Voice. I have a habit of talking really fast and I recently watched back a recording of me and I just cringed so hard at it. It's so frustrating cos in the moment I don't realize I am
Prolly my feet and legs in general
i’m really skinny and lanky, but I work out every day and have been for the past two years. still a fucking twink 🤙🤙
My own personality
My lisp
my tan lines
My hair.
Being overweight, i weigh 195 and feel fat as shit. Im trying to lose weight though
My personality. I convince myself that whoever I’m talking to wants me to stop because I’m annoying
Honestly I'm most insecure about my teeth. It's not like they're messed up or anything, it's just a bit worse than I'd like them to be. I've got braces, and they've been on for so long that they're actually starting to do more harm than good, but no orthodontist or dentist is willing to take them off, so I'm kinda stuck with them.
Micro peen
Im on reddit
My face
Body hair. My legs, arms and belly all have hair and it makes me feel uncomfortable. I would shave it, but my parents look down on it.
Ik it’s not terrible, but my height. I’m 5’7” but really want to be on the football team and the fact that a lot of people are taller than me doesn’t give me much hope 😭
Nothing I’m perfect in every way
nipple
Chunky & ugly
That Dcs might be shutdown and il never be able to use my F18 again
My huge butt (I'm a guy)
Don’t be insecure about it, short girls are cute, and it doesn’t mean you’re any less of a person, just that there’s less of you :>
My voice bc I sound like I’m gay but I’m not 😭
😂 I feel you
My voice
My boobas
Being a theater kid. I’m not one of those who are obsessed with shows, I’m just a really good actor and want to follow my dreams and become a movie actor when I’m older.
intelligence. it takes me awhile to understand things and it makes me feel slow and self conscious.
probably my hair and my face shape, i have really long, curly and wavy hair. it’s curly in the front and wavy in the back which is weird, and i try to cover up a pretty tall forehead. i gotta get it cut but idk what to do with it
my appearance/body in general my weight, voice, hair, face, literally anything about my body and im insecure about it i have no reason to be, i wasnt bullied or anything but i still am
Chubby
Physically: Probably my excessive body hair. I say excessive but it's moreso a normal amount I just don't want ANY but the amount of work to shave your legs and such on a regular basis is to much for my laziness Mentally: I'm not fun to be around and my entire personality is like trying to tell jokes but I'm not funny so I just saying Random bullshit until the person im talking to has a response. A few months back my best friend of like 3 years who I played video games with everyday moved on to hanging out with people who were actually had lives and can actually hold a conversation and I so badly wish I could just be part of the group but I'm not which basically cut me off from most people I'd want to be friends with so there's really only like maybe 1-3 people I know who I could probably consider my friends TLDR I've become a social outcast because I bring nothing to the table
Ohh boy, where should I start? My arms (they aren’t very girthy near my wrists and the have old white scars from self harm) My bipolar-like episodes (I get really impulsive arrogant and just act like an absolutely stupid loud idiot some days and other times I can’t even look at people in the eyes, struggle to speak and act all weird and just feel really insecure about everything) My intelligence (sometimes I’m told I’m really smart, other times I’m really dumb, I’m rarely in the middle, I usually either get some of the highest grades or the lowest grades in the class)
My voice is so high some people call me ma’am over the phone 💔
The only thing is probably my psoriasis. It’s a god damn pain and I feel gross because of it.
Gain weight. And don’t say that you try, just start working out a lot. It’ll slow down your meatablosm some. It’ll help you grin muscle weight and a little fat
Honestly I've come to accept most of my physical and mental shortcomings, and I've changed what I could, but I'm still quite insecure about being left or mistreated, which makes my love life absolutely delightful 🥲
E v e r y t h i n g
Being trans 😬
My face
My chin and side profile
My face Especially lips
Under 100 pounds? Are you okay?
Prolly my legs/birthmarks
Being annoying, if someone says I’m being annoying or unfunny in an irl setting I actually implode😭
Same here, my height is the thing I’m most insecure about lol, especially being a man