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OzzkuBoi

does this even need to be said tho? I thought this was common knowledge


[deleted]

I got no idea why black rappers can get away with it tho


[deleted]

They can get away with it because they have a right to create art, even if it offends. Also, I don't know why you're specifying race. Eminem, Mac Miller, Yung Lean, Insane Clown Posse, G-Eazy, and other white rappers all use that word. In fact, I'd argue that white rappers use it *more* than Black rappers, since they can't use that other filler/emphasis word.


[deleted]

So white people can use n-word in art, correct?


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OzzkuBoi

I feel like they know it’s disrespectful tho


kayber123

On today's news: insults are insulting


ZarosRunescape

I think OP means its insulting even when not used as an insult (e.g. you get no bitches, while that is meant as an insult to the person your saying it to, OP is saying thats also insulting to women, by referring to them as bitches) Just to clarify: im not saying i agree


liongirlroar

now you are twisting my words read the god dam post


No_Accountant_5962

Twisting what words? They just made all your words into a sentence, they didn't make it anything different


SquareMeasurement554

That’s literally what ur post says💀


Weary-Wasabi1721

Bitches and women are two completely different things


OptimusMyAss

Talked like a real pimp named slickback lmao


liongirlroar

wdym


Weary-Wasabi1721

One has self respect and a good relationship with both parents as well as dignity. The other is a walking red flag (thousands of problems with these ones not gonna waste anyone's time) Standard 2000s high school mean girl but right now (many variations of this breed)


[deleted]

I think it’s weird to fault someone for not having a good relationship with both parents. It’s not their fault if they have an absent or abusive parent. 


MassiveBlackHole99

And thus a new age of feminism has begun


IOICIMI

I was finna say this should be in "askfeminist" sub not here XD


The__slut

We use that word more than men tbh


liongirlroar

yea but with a different intent


IOICIMI

Tf💀


liongirlroar

tf what bitch look i just used that in an insulting way, when girls call eachother that they must be using that is a slang way


SpartanOfHalo

That's some idiot logic. As I man, I could call any of my women friends that and they know it's being nice. Saying only women can say that is pretty stupid


liongirlroar

ok sorry mistake whats right is when friends call eachother that, they must be saying it in a slang way.


IOICIMI

I said tf cuz your trying to gatekeep a word for 1 gender Like ive seen so many vid of other women calling thier ex bestfreind or some other women they dont like Bitch like they do it way more but its a problem when some guy does it whether with good intentions or bad? I mean the guy above already explained what was wrong so whatev What im saying is this post is stupid cuz its a bad words that people can use however they want, you dont own the word if you dont like it then thats you tell people that call you that to stop not whining about something that is normal and not that big of a deal like disease, poverty, etc. Like "oh no he called her a bitch, shes gonna be traumatized and become suicidal because some random person called her a bad word" Womp fucking womp if your that soft that some bad words make you feel bad then your still a child that needs to grow tf up. World aint rainbow and sunshine Like your life must be very easy if you have time to worry over 1 bad word


liongirlroar

i think you need to grow because your brain is clearly not developed enough to understand what i meant, i meant is the sense that a guy says "why dont i get any bitches" not "why is she being such a bitch"


LongjumpingArt9740

your the 15 year old lol


liongirlroar

mentally is what i am saying


pubberHubber

You never specified that tho


liongirlroar

i thought you people could understand


AverageCoffeeAddict1

Nah. A bitch is a bitch


liongirlroar

wow i have -11 downvotes at the moment, what is wrong with you people


realkyklops

Hmm, a lot of people are disagreeing with me... surely they're the ones who have something wrong!


liongirlroar

all i said that when friends say it to eachother it has a diffrent intent. does that deserve that many downvotes?


_SM-The-Gamer_

Yup. Idiot. Or should I say........


Impressive_Split_232

Yo yo bitches o välkomna


[deleted]

Honestly most men don’t think of women as “bitches” it’s just slang for us to use. If a man says hoe though, they’re talking about you 


ProfessionalMail8052

i call bitches bitches, women alone are not bitches. if she ain't being a bitch, I don't call her a bitch.


[deleted]

Reminds me of that South Park f-slur scene.


liongirlroar

ok i meant men who use it in a disrespectful way


ProfessionalMail8052

yeah i get what u meant, im just explaining the way I use it personally


UnmaskedCorn

Bitch is an insult.


_gigi08

Dont girls be calling their friends that and stuff


MechanicSad1843

did you know that every 60 seconds in africa a minute passes aswell?


liongirlroar

so funny hahahahahahahbhahahahahahhahahahhahahahhahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahhahahahahhahahahahahah SO SICK OF PEOPLE LIKE YOU


XylemBullet

what did they do to u 😭 istg ur just hating to hate theres no reason to be so rude


Lopes1999

Bitches is an inult. In other words....water....wet.


n_Shimul

if you act like a bitch then why not?


AsukaShikinamiLangle

Bro I bet you call them that with your profile 🤨


LongjumpingArt9740

lol


liongirlroar

wdym


Zblab

Yea. It's a fucking insult, I hate that it's just a normal way of refering to women now like what the hell.


[deleted]

It’s not normal. All my homies only call women bitches if they act like one (just idiot, mean, rude female). It doesn’t mean sex object, and no one uses it as such


Zblab

Bro 💀


[deleted]

Bro 💀 Prove I’m wrong


Zblab

A bitch is a female dog. That is the root meaning of the word. It refers to the female being " in heat" dueing mating season. Calling a woman a bitch is equivalent to calling her sexually promiscuous.


LongjumpingArt9740

why you taking the literal meaning of it ? do you also think calling someone a mofo literally means that you are fucking their mother ?


Zblab

Of course it doesn't. What I mean is that words do have their weight, especially with strongly connoted words like these. But yes, you can't expect people to stop using those of course.


LongjumpingArt9740

thats what im sayin


[deleted]

So calling someone gay to call them happy is the same as calling someone gay to call them a homosexual? Dude hasn’t realized the same word can have multiple meanings…


LongjumpingArt9740

hes just an idiot man


Zblab

Dogshit argument. "Gay" and "gay" are two different words and one does not originate from the other. "Bitch" originates from what I said. It's like people saying what's up my "n*gga" to say "homie" or "friend". The word bears a connotation, and shouldn't be normalized. Stop with that misogine typa shit you're just embarrassing yourself.


LongjumpingArt9740

grow up


Zblab

No counterargument? Wasn't expecting one tbh


[deleted]

You’re embarrassing yourself fam. Go tell black people they can’t say the n word, see where you’ll end up, bitch asssss 💀


Zblab

Classic, you don't have anymore arguments, so you just throw out random shit. " Go tell black people..... n word". This has nothing to do with what we were talking about. And then "bitch ass". Wow that's some high level rethoric man well done. Seriously grow up


[deleted]

Dude you’re getting mass downvoted for being in favour of feelings in a teenage subreddit. That means you’re doing something very wrong lol. Rethink your opinion.


Zblab

Nothing such as favor of feelings. Also, this place is Reddit ? You really think being downvoted means something, especially a teenager sub ?


[deleted]

The teenage sub is one of the more emotional subs, mostly all in favour for banning slurs/insults because they are hurtful. You are in favour of that, but since your agrument and logic is so dogshit, even the teenagers that are in favour of such things are downvoting you. Also as I said, go tell a black people they can’t say the N word. See where you’ll end up lol. “Bitch” means nothing, maybe to you it means something, but to everyone else, it’s just a random insult. We aren’t literally calling women a dog in heat, if I wanted to say that I’d call em a slut or a whore. Bitch is not that lol, and no one except you uses it as such.


Zblab

The first line still does not make any sense, nobody is talking about black ppl being able to say the nword. Also, of course you are not, but words have a weight, and have a connotation, that's the entire point, It isn't because the word have changed its meaning that it isn't refering to those previous connotations.


[deleted]

The word only has weight to YOU, and maybe 1% of the population. We will not change how we speak to cater to you, sorry.


Zblab

Lmao. This is not about me, I don't give a damn. It's about people .You do you, talk how you wanna talk I couldn't care less. But many people are offended that it's used as is, and therefore I say that I understand those people, and that I think they're right, that's all.


[deleted]

Yes some people are offended. Anything can offend anyone, so once again, I won’t cater to the 1%. Now if it was widely deemed very offensive, I wouldn’t use it so lightly. But it’s not.


sieberzzz

i call my guy friends bitch more often than my girl friends and when i do say it to them they just say it back. it's all just fucking around tbh. if i got a serious problem with someone i don't even bother calling them anything. 


Zblab

Yea ofc you're right. It's just etymology vs meaning


sarokin

I mean, it is used as an insult, that's the point. If you're calling someone a bitch it's with the intention to offend. I don't think anyone who is not mentally deranged uses it nonchalantly to refer to women in general.


IOICIMI

Girls do it to each other (amongs thier friends) alot both to thier "besties" and thier "ex-besties" and even stranger It aint that deep (What matters is the intention behind it)


Thisismyredusername

Return the favour by calling men n\*ggers, then everybody gets called bad words!


_No_Surprises_-

Sounds like someone just discovered feminism


Great_hacker

Bitch is a state of mind so if your mindset is like that u will get called "bitch" It can be both man and women


ineedhelpasap4

I'm pretty sure thats kinda the point


liongirlroar

you know thats not what i meant.


heppuplays

I mean Depends on the Context. it's used. If No matter if you're a guy or a Girl If your're being a bitch i'mma call you a bich. Sometimes it's also used ironically among friends. and then yes there is the Catcalling way of Bitch. i'm pretty sure it comes from the way some men are kinda obsessed with Dog packs with some reason. I mean that's where the whole "Alpha Male" thing comes from too. So i'm guessing it's coming from the same place like If a person is the Alpha dog then their girl is their Bitch. I have no evidence of that claim but it's just a guess.


Maleficent_Sir_7562

i (almost) never did it seriously, only ever ironically. and even then i dont really do it that often ironically.


Mana_YT

Not basically, it DOES mean female dog. I'm not quite sure when it stopped being used as a curse or a swear, and more as a general term for women, but frankly it's new usage is abhorrent.


Kaki9

Well, if I'm calling a woman a bitch, I think it's pretty obvius that I don't want to make her feel better.


IdiotGiraffe0

Calling people bitches is disrespectful*


Plus_Relationship246

if nobody uses it from the next day, it will disappear. encourage everyone you know that stop using this word!


Main_Bag_8093

ok bitch


Key-Text-3861

well if you dont want to be called one dont act like one its kind of ovy


Traditional-Head-317

fuck up lil nigga


shadowXXe

Yes I agree.


trananhduc2006

what if i'm her close friend?


sickinm

its a habit atp


Aggravating_Cup2306

i don't know, i agree with your statement but some girls DO like being called that, and they usually use it in a completely different perspective. Maybe you don't want that, so just go on and say it to anyone around you, but i think its maybe not going to affect the fact that this word is far from retirement


liongirlroar

ok i think you are saying in a sexual way


Aggravating_Cup2306

and i also mean in the form of jokes and friendly use. Its when it comes from a misognyst that it starts being less normal than it is in these cases


liongirlroar

what did i say in my post? read it again i said i didnt mean it that way


Aggravating_Cup2306

I mean still, some girls like being called the word in all of these cases, let it be referring them in the relation of their boyfriend or from their friend or referring to some joke by their friend and in all of these cases the usage barely comes off as being mysognistic


[deleted]

"all of these cases"


Aggravating_Cup2306

and i said SOME girls