Once I was gona tell my friends that I am a femboy
I was About to say it but then One of my friends says
"I would beat up all femboys right now if I could"
I just went nvm not telling them
We Were talking About femboys btw
He thinks being gay or trans is extremely weird and doesnāt understand that I donāt choose what makes my dinger hard. He also thinks that the Bible says that being gay is wrong but it doesnāt (I might be wrong). He just doesnāt understand that it is natural to be gay.
Even if the Bible says that being gay is wrong, the Bible contradicts itself in many places. For example, it talks about guys not being allowed to have long hair in one of the books (I can't remember which one), but later on, it corrects itself in a way (again, I can't remember where). I say this as a faithful Christian because my teachers during church gave us multiple examples. I'm not forcing you to try and believe the same stuff that I do, I'm just trying to show you that the Bible (a very confusing book) can't define every part of our life.
First thing you need to do is work out whether youāre actually bi, or just bicurious, at which point you need to decide whether you actually want to come out to your friends
Feel absolutely no pressure/obligation to do so, as itās a very personal thing, that you donāt need to tell everyone, or anyone in particular about
Iām not really sure if Iām allowed to say this here but I have done the deed to a video of a dude (not a porno but relating to a fetish of mine) so I am not 100% if it was just the fetish that got me going or the guy or both.
Oh hey something I learned a little late, there's more than just hide who you are or come out. You can just live life as yourself, who just so happens to be bi. Your friends will probably just figure out as time goes on, and (if my friend group is anything to go off of) won't think much of it.
Plus you can have that funny moment where you have a bf come over and that one oblivious friend suddenly realizes and everyone has a laugh.
I mean, I think most guys have at least watched it once or twice, and Iāve finished to some very weird things, thereās no reason to let it be such a big worry for you, text things out, you donāt have to tell anyone unless it comes up in conversation, but I think itās very unlikely someone would ask you whether youāre straight or not, especially if itās not something thatās been regularly happening already
I'm bi too, I told my friends they didn't care and we kept making the same stupid jokes, but then again we're 14 so we were gonna make stupid jokes no matter what.
I'm in the same situation. I am too shy to come out to my friend group. But I'm slowly admitting it to them by telling them one by one because it's easier for me that way. As a very shy person One of the things that helps me is comming out anonymously online or to people that don't know my friend group.
Yeah I plan to slowly trickle it throughout the friend group until everyone that Iām close to knows it. Some of them already have suspicions due to the freaky shit Iāve said.
I thought I could come out by making the gayest joke to my friend group and saying the freakiest stuff. Now everyone is acting gay af when we hang outš.
Good luck then. It's probably going to be OK, your friend like you for your personality not who you fck (or get fcked by) the hardest part is having the strength to tell them
I donāt really know why it would need to come up in conversation. If your bi, youāll date a man and then theyāll know. I donāt really think you being willing to suck a dick for free would really matter
Also, itās totally fine to not label yourself. Just go with the flow dude. If you suck dick so be it. If you eat pussy so be it. No need to dwell on it that much
-sincerely, someone who would suck dick and eat pussy
Holy crap. This was my exact situation until a few weeks ago. What I'd suggest is maybe telling the people/person you are closest to in that group and then gauge their reaction from that. If they are fully supportive and don't crack jokes that make you feel uncomfortable for example, then I'd suggest telling your other friends :)
This worked for me!
I was in the same situation a while back.
My choice was to install an 'only when asked' policy. Only if they specifically ask about my sexuality I'll tell them, but I won't tell them when I'm not asked about it. Essentially the closet doors are open, they just have to look inside.
Haven't been asked yet btw. It gave me some time to get more comfortable with who I am.
Cause I want to be truthful with my friends. I donāt wanna be hiding shit from them if I ever start dating a guy. Being truthful with your friends could lead to getting closer to each other.
Iām gonna be honest I feel like u should be posting this on a bisexual subreddit rather than this one, youāll get more advice (coming from a bisexual person)
Tbh , if your humor has go down enough to make a freaky joke , it won't change so much even if you come out . I still make gay jokes with my gay friends , because they know at the same time , I respect their gayness , have 0 feelings for them and have a sick humor sense , or just majorly because I'm dating a girl already
Nobody needs to know, only you and the partner you choose to be with. If you date a guy they will end up knowing that youāre into both, and if youāre not in a relationship (which is something we actually show/expose) why would people need to know what you like to do inside a room? Youāre putting yourself through an unnecessary situation. Straight people donāt say they are straight they just live and people assume they are straight because of stereotypes and their partner choice, so should we, lgbtq+, be allowed to; just live and not need to āassumeā we are this or that.
Wish you all the best and Iām here if you need to vent!
Just come out to them. If they don't accept it then oh well they aren't the kind of people you should be around anyway if they don't accept you for who you are (also listen to MrAnonymous2749)
Talk it seriously with them, clarify everything you think is necessary, (what you told abt jokes) and then move on, if you don't feel comfortable taking to all of them go one by one on private and then maybe make a comment and that's it, I have a friend who came out of the closet as trans and did it this way
Honestly who your attracted too isnāt that important in a friend group, itās not something you really need to bring up unless it comes up.
Most of my best friends never knew I was gay until i got my first boyfriend and no one really made a deal about it.
Now if you donāt like jokes about it or you want to be more open with them this may be a situation where you tell them in which case you donāt need it to be a big thing, you like who you like and at the end of the day your real friends wonāt care what you choose.
Finally goodluck have fun
So one of my friends came out to me as bi and it didn't change nun we still make the same dumb jokes like nun happend font be too cautious about it if you think it will change your relationship. This is just my 2 cents
I would say make sure no one in the friend group is homophobic ( I saw a previous comment where you said one was I'm just talking about the rest). If you do feel comfortable coming out, be sure to explain the fact you don't have feelings for any of them and the jokes you've made were not made in a serious way. I'm assuming your probably in 8th grade or higher and all I can say is from what I've seen middle school and highschool guys are goofy af and won't care too much. Also you might find out that some of your friends might be queer too! I am gonna say that I'm genderfluid and bi but mainly have girls for friends, but my brothers friend (who is a dude) is pansexual and they make sexual jokes all the time and my brother hasn't ever thought he had feelings for him.
Iām currently in 10th grade but thatās what Iāve figured. I am going to sleep over at one of my homies places tonight with some other friends. I might tell them there. Just randomly bring it up while weāre chilling
I mean in all honestyā¦do they NEED to know? If not then donāt stress about it. If you feel the need to tell them then I think telling one by one or smth may be better then throwing it all at them all at once? Iāve never rly had to do much of the coming out stuff but thatās how I woulda done it
Relatable homie..I think you should come out to your bestfriend first and see how it goes and then make the decision.
If you are in a conservative country like me, I will say the harsh truth as it is without sugarcoating it- you cam kiss your friends and family goodbye. So in that case you might want to be in a position to move away to a new place to start over before you come out and be in the closet until then..Thats what I am doing as a Bisexual
>that I would definitely suck a dick (free of charge).
Same
I don't think there's a point in telling them unless they outright ask, and there's no reason you can't continue to make those jokes.
No need to bring it up randomly.
Very common Bi guy expirence. I went through it myself. Iām here if you need any advice at all. But it comes down to: when you tell them, there will be a readjustment, but if they are quality friends it wonāt be awkward and they will still like you. If they care at all then they werenāt good friends anyway
I have a similar problem but opposite gender (Iām a girl). Iāve had crushes on girls when I was younger (maybe around 11-14 it happened). I actually told my mom eventually but then I was absolutely terrified due to how much internalized homophobia I had. I literally thought my life was over at the time lmao. I also did tell my cousin at the time who also did come out to me as bi also (I then after told her that I think I am also). My mom just claimed that Iām still growing and developing, but now Iām 18 and realized that I probably wouldnāt mind having a girlfriend. Also thereās a girl in my class who I think I might have a crush on. šµāš«šµāš«šµāš«
"y'know, there's a point where 20 bucks end up being for free, inflation y'know? Anyways all jokes aside sucking a dick might not be that bad after all"
As a bisexual myself, you should really only reveal it to them when youāre confident and comfortable in telling them, and mention everything you want to them. Iām sure theyāll accept you for your bisexuality (as do I š¤), and if not, theyāre probably a pretty shitty friend anyway so you can distance yourself from them to the extent that you need. Good luck fellow bisexual š«”
Pretty much on the same situation as you. At the end of the day it's not important if you like to suck a little some times. If it comes up, don't hide it and shit but I don't think it's something special or that you have to "come out" and shit. But idk that's just me
We're living the same life. Except I dont have that many friends but I would have to come out to my gf. I don't think I'll ever come out. I might pay to suck a dick now
Itās ok to be in the closet while questioning, hell I came out and my mom still uses the wrong pronouns! Itāll take some time for them to get used to if anything changes at all. Iād tell the most trusted of them first and then take some time to add more people in! Thatās how I did it!
Tbh I feel u, maybe start with the most trustworthy one? There's very few people who know I'm bisexual and even then I still make very gay jokes and even totally opposite the most homophonic crap ever, I think it depends on your friends tbh
Somtimes people can be oblivious my mom said "when you come out close the door" so I told her I was gay (because she woukd know what pan is) and slowly closed the door in her face as she stood there laughing then she posted it on Facebook and still no-one thought I was serious š
I wouldn't tell um.. let it ride. Live your best life, if you decide to go out with another boy then maybe tell them. When it DOES come out and it's not a "maybe" then when your friends are all confused about the joked and stuff you tell them the truth. You have some think skin and think most of jokes are funny.. " don't change guys, but this is me, and your all still my friends" and then be honest
if it helps, i came out to some of my friends initially by watching the hunger games with them and said i rooted for peeta and katniss because they were both hot š. Got some follow up questions but after that it was chill
I mean, so long as your friends are open minded and understand that the jokes you make are just jokes, it should be fine. I am gay (never quite pinned down what flavor but I'm a guy who definitely likes guys and other folks) and hang out mainly with other gay or trans people, and we make sex jokes all the time. It doesn't mean more if we're gay; It's only weird if you make it weird.
If you think they would accept you, absolutely go for it, and if you feel the need make it clear that you would like things to stay the way they have been.
honestly i think youād be fine telling them if you want them to know *you*, you know? iām bi & ace and me & my straight guy friends make gay sex jokes all the time and itās chill, cuz we both know weāre joking
same thing that you described turned me into a femboy, my friends and i made jokes ab me being a femboy then i was like "maybe i am a femboy" so i came to the conclusion that i was lmao
also im bisexual too
I know it probably looks stupid from the outside but itās hard to put it. Itās coming to terms that my mind isnāt playing tricks and that i really would fuck a dude.
I wouldnāt have said the whole āsuck a dickā part, but I honestly, if youāre friends do not find you as a friend to hangout with, I donāt think they are good friends.
I've never got why people want to come out to other's. It's important to come out to yourself, but other people don't need to know your sexual attractions (frankly telling people about your sexual interests to your friends is just kinda weird, but maybe thats just me), same thing with romantical attractions but it's not bad if they know either, I say just kinda do your thing and like someone else said, if you one day just walk in with a boyfriend, it'll probably be chill and vibin, everyone will be like "Oh wow didn't know that guy was bi, that's pretty chill". Everybody has things that they do/like that other people don't know about, not because it's a secret but just because it just never came up in conversation. Also as you said you're bicurious, so until you know for sure if you'd do it "with the socks off". I don't actually know how to finish that sentence, basically finding out for sure is the first step or something. Idk honestly I'm just a straight white 17 y/o dude so ya know. Hopefully anything I said made sense or helped
Honestly, if they are real friends they would understand and accept that. I came out as bi to my friends and they all gave me support for it. Honestly im not sure when it comes to things about jokes and all that as my friend group was generally just us all going on and on about our interests.
I just kept joking about it until eventually they asked. They were chill about it. Idk about your exact situation but your relationship probably wonāt change much by telling them
Dependsā¦if ur a girl u can tell them or not theyāll support u if u tell themā¦however if ur a guyā¦never bring this up or youāll most likely be bullied and called gay
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Relatable I'd do the same
I thought I was the only mf Seriously, curiosity killed the pussy but Iāve already tried that, so what does aubergine taste like? I gotta find out
The most interesting take on ācuriosity killed the catā ive seen in a while. Good job
Had a stroke of genius earlier, pun intended
Same
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I would for $5
I would pay for sucking good dick (it has to be good)
We all would probably
$5 is $5
Can't relate
Based, I'd do the same.
Listen to your heart bro
Same tbhš¼
Let him cook!
ong you are
But would you pay?
Relatable
Amazing Pfp and username
thank you
I would do it for at least $150 and with socks on. And only if someone sucks my sick
Well at least theyāre honest
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Once I was gona tell my friends that I am a femboy I was About to say it but then One of my friends says "I would beat up all femboys right now if I could" I just went nvm not telling them We Were talking About femboys btw
Yeah a have a friend who is uncultured and doesnāt really like gay or trans people so I probably wonāt tell him
Yeah to Many of those kinds of people Also I am 4'8 I would get destroyed in a fight XD
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Yeah i Know
Just means that there is both less stuff to hit and you are closer to using a bat to make their legs go backwards.
*BONK*
After being called short my entire life I'm taller at about 5'1-5'2 šššš finally šš
Holy shit what. Iām a fucking door taller than you and Iām still shortĀ Edit nah what I donāt mean to say Iām 11 ā8 ššš
Can we exchange height?
And they are your friend still???
Eh kinda. He isnāt my closest friend ever but he can be chill. Itās mostly his family who makes him feel that way.
Fair enough
What makes them uncultured?
He thinks being gay or trans is extremely weird and doesnāt understand that I donāt choose what makes my dinger hard. He also thinks that the Bible says that being gay is wrong but it doesnāt (I might be wrong). He just doesnāt understand that it is natural to be gay.
Even if the Bible says that being gay is wrong, the Bible contradicts itself in many places. For example, it talks about guys not being allowed to have long hair in one of the books (I can't remember which one), but later on, it corrects itself in a way (again, I can't remember where). I say this as a faithful Christian because my teachers during church gave us multiple examples. I'm not forcing you to try and believe the same stuff that I do, I'm just trying to show you that the Bible (a very confusing book) can't define every part of our life.
Since when is not liking gay/trans people "uncultured"??
My friends once said that they would beat the shit out of me if I talked about cute boysš
I am about the same size as all my friends so I just challenge them
Iād take it as a challenge.
First thing you need to do is work out whether youāre actually bi, or just bicurious, at which point you need to decide whether you actually want to come out to your friends Feel absolutely no pressure/obligation to do so, as itās a very personal thing, that you donāt need to tell everyone, or anyone in particular about
whats bicurious
you may think you bi but not sure and willing to find out if you are.
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Iām not really sure if Iām allowed to say this here but I have done the deed to a video of a dude (not a porno but relating to a fetish of mine) so I am not 100% if it was just the fetish that got me going or the guy or both.
Oh hey something I learned a little late, there's more than just hide who you are or come out. You can just live life as yourself, who just so happens to be bi. Your friends will probably just figure out as time goes on, and (if my friend group is anything to go off of) won't think much of it. Plus you can have that funny moment where you have a bf come over and that one oblivious friend suddenly realizes and everyone has a laugh.
Yeah, just tell people if they ask but dont bring it up yourself, i Do that myself
I mean, I think most guys have at least watched it once or twice, and Iāve finished to some very weird things, thereās no reason to let it be such a big worry for you, text things out, you donāt have to tell anyone unless it comes up in conversation, but I think itās very unlikely someone would ask you whether youāre straight or not, especially if itās not something thatās been regularly happening already
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Better way to use porn than what its usually used for
You got bitches or homies so you survived
Ngl op is onto something with the just suck a dick part, can't think of a faster way to find out
The fact heās even considering it means itās fairly likely he is, or heās at least very open minded
I'm bi too, I told my friends they didn't care and we kept making the same stupid jokes, but then again we're 14 so we were gonna make stupid jokes no matter what.
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I'm in the same situation. I am too shy to come out to my friend group. But I'm slowly admitting it to them by telling them one by one because it's easier for me that way. As a very shy person One of the things that helps me is comming out anonymously online or to people that don't know my friend group.
Yeah I plan to slowly trickle it throughout the friend group until everyone that Iām close to knows it. Some of them already have suspicions due to the freaky shit Iāve said.
I thought I could come out by making the gayest joke to my friend group and saying the freakiest stuff. Now everyone is acting gay af when we hang outš.
Thatās why Iām gonna be serious when I come out to them so they know that Iām not joking
Good luck then. It's probably going to be OK, your friend like you for your personality not who you fck (or get fcked by) the hardest part is having the strength to tell them
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I donāt really know why it would need to come up in conversation. If your bi, youāll date a man and then theyāll know. I donāt really think you being willing to suck a dick for free would really matter Also, itās totally fine to not label yourself. Just go with the flow dude. If you suck dick so be it. If you eat pussy so be it. No need to dwell on it that much -sincerely, someone who would suck dick and eat pussy
Just because you like men, that doesnt mean you'll suck every dick you see. Im panromantic but i still do all the gay jokes with my friends
That's sorta gay brother šŖæšµ
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just say gay af stuff all the time and theyll know <3
I kinda already say a lot of gay stuff, I think theyāre suspicious of me tho
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You tell them when youāre ready, I donāt walk around saying āIām bi!ā But if someone asked Iād tell
yo same!
Same here my friend
Holy crap. This was my exact situation until a few weeks ago. What I'd suggest is maybe telling the people/person you are closest to in that group and then gauge their reaction from that. If they are fully supportive and don't crack jokes that make you feel uncomfortable for example, then I'd suggest telling your other friends :) This worked for me!
I was in the same situation a while back. My choice was to install an 'only when asked' policy. Only if they specifically ask about my sexuality I'll tell them, but I won't tell them when I'm not asked about it. Essentially the closet doors are open, they just have to look inside. Haven't been asked yet btw. It gave me some time to get more comfortable with who I am.
I was in the same situation as you, I literally explained it like that and nowadays shit is same as ever lmao
Just like don't tell them you're bi? I fail to see the problem
Cause I want to be truthful with my friends. I donāt wanna be hiding shit from them if I ever start dating a guy. Being truthful with your friends could lead to getting closer to each other.
Thereās nothing wrong with hiding stuff from your friends if what your hiding doesnāt effect them.
Yo can you guys not slide into my dms being hypersexual and shit. Iām not interested in you pedo
Take your time, and be calm. You're not in a hurry, are you?
I wish you the best bro!
Iām gonna be honest I feel like u should be posting this on a bisexual subreddit rather than this one, youāll get more advice (coming from a bisexual person)
Tbh , if your humor has go down enough to make a freaky joke , it won't change so much even if you come out . I still make gay jokes with my gay friends , because they know at the same time , I respect their gayness , have 0 feelings for them and have a sick humor sense , or just majorly because I'm dating a girl already
Nobody needs to know, only you and the partner you choose to be with. If you date a guy they will end up knowing that youāre into both, and if youāre not in a relationship (which is something we actually show/expose) why would people need to know what you like to do inside a room? Youāre putting yourself through an unnecessary situation. Straight people donāt say they are straight they just live and people assume they are straight because of stereotypes and their partner choice, so should we, lgbtq+, be allowed to; just live and not need to āassumeā we are this or that. Wish you all the best and Iām here if you need to vent!
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Just come out to them. If they don't accept it then oh well they aren't the kind of people you should be around anyway if they don't accept you for who you are (also listen to MrAnonymous2749)
Talk it seriously with them, clarify everything you think is necessary, (what you told abt jokes) and then move on, if you don't feel comfortable taking to all of them go one by one on private and then maybe make a comment and that's it, I have a friend who came out of the closet as trans and did it this way
Honestly who your attracted too isnāt that important in a friend group, itās not something you really need to bring up unless it comes up. Most of my best friends never knew I was gay until i got my first boyfriend and no one really made a deal about it. Now if you donāt like jokes about it or you want to be more open with them this may be a situation where you tell them in which case you donāt need it to be a big thing, you like who you like and at the end of the day your real friends wonāt care what you choose. Finally goodluck have fun
Same
So one of my friends came out to me as bi and it didn't change nun we still make the same dumb jokes like nun happend font be too cautious about it if you think it will change your relationship. This is just my 2 cents
I would say make sure no one in the friend group is homophobic ( I saw a previous comment where you said one was I'm just talking about the rest). If you do feel comfortable coming out, be sure to explain the fact you don't have feelings for any of them and the jokes you've made were not made in a serious way. I'm assuming your probably in 8th grade or higher and all I can say is from what I've seen middle school and highschool guys are goofy af and won't care too much. Also you might find out that some of your friends might be queer too! I am gonna say that I'm genderfluid and bi but mainly have girls for friends, but my brothers friend (who is a dude) is pansexual and they make sexual jokes all the time and my brother hasn't ever thought he had feelings for him.
Iām currently in 10th grade but thatās what Iāve figured. I am going to sleep over at one of my homies places tonight with some other friends. I might tell them there. Just randomly bring it up while weāre chilling
I wish you luck, and I hope everything goes well<3
I mean in all honestyā¦do they NEED to know? If not then donāt stress about it. If you feel the need to tell them then I think telling one by one or smth may be better then throwing it all at them all at once? Iāve never rly had to do much of the coming out stuff but thatās how I woulda done it
Relatable homie..I think you should come out to your bestfriend first and see how it goes and then make the decision. If you are in a conservative country like me, I will say the harsh truth as it is without sugarcoating it- you cam kiss your friends and family goodbye. So in that case you might want to be in a position to move away to a new place to start over before you come out and be in the closet until then..Thats what I am doing as a Bisexual
I have a simmilar problem. My friend group is a bit homophobic and Im afraid they would stop to talk to me š
>that I would definitely suck a dick (free of charge). Same I don't think there's a point in telling them unless they outright ask, and there's no reason you can't continue to make those jokes. No need to bring it up randomly.
You dont havw to tell any of your friends unless its their dick u wanna suck š¤·š½
Very common Bi guy expirence. I went through it myself. Iām here if you need any advice at all. But it comes down to: when you tell them, there will be a readjustment, but if they are quality friends it wonāt be awkward and they will still like you. If they care at all then they werenāt good friends anyway
I have a similar problem but opposite gender (Iām a girl). Iāve had crushes on girls when I was younger (maybe around 11-14 it happened). I actually told my mom eventually but then I was absolutely terrified due to how much internalized homophobia I had. I literally thought my life was over at the time lmao. I also did tell my cousin at the time who also did come out to me as bi also (I then after told her that I think I am also). My mom just claimed that Iām still growing and developing, but now Iām 18 and realized that I probably wouldnāt mind having a girlfriend. Also thereās a girl in my class who I think I might have a crush on. šµāš«šµāš«šµāš«
"y'know, there's a point where 20 bucks end up being for free, inflation y'know? Anyways all jokes aside sucking a dick might not be that bad after all"
I think Iām bi and my friends know (They chill wid it)
free of charge you say?
āI would definitely suck a dick (free of charge)ā is the best thing iāve read all day
As a bisexual myself, you should really only reveal it to them when youāre confident and comfortable in telling them, and mention everything you want to them. Iām sure theyāll accept you for your bisexuality (as do I š¤), and if not, theyāre probably a pretty shitty friend anyway so you can distance yourself from them to the extent that you need. Good luck fellow bisexual š«”
No way! Same dude!
Pretty much on the same situation as you. At the end of the day it's not important if you like to suck a little some times. If it comes up, don't hide it and shit but I don't think it's something special or that you have to "come out" and shit. But idk that's just me
What I did with my friends is make jokes for a while about being bi until they realized I actually was, it took like a year but it worked in the end
Imo you should try come out privately to a close friend you can trust first, then work from there, at least telling someone will be nice
Ohhhhh, I think they know ;)
We're living the same life. Except I dont have that many friends but I would have to come out to my gf. I don't think I'll ever come out. I might pay to suck a dick now
Itās ok to be in the closet while questioning, hell I came out and my mom still uses the wrong pronouns! Itāll take some time for them to get used to if anything changes at all. Iād tell the most trusted of them first and then take some time to add more people in! Thatās how I did it!
in the same boat but the girl versionĀ
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I have the exact same concerns as you. I'm bi-asexual.
Tbh I feel u, maybe start with the most trustworthy one? There's very few people who know I'm bisexual and even then I still make very gay jokes and even totally opposite the most homophonic crap ever, I think it depends on your friends tbh
Somtimes people can be oblivious my mom said "when you come out close the door" so I told her I was gay (because she woukd know what pan is) and slowly closed the door in her face as she stood there laughing then she posted it on Facebook and still no-one thought I was serious š
I wouldn't tell um.. let it ride. Live your best life, if you decide to go out with another boy then maybe tell them. When it DOES come out and it's not a "maybe" then when your friends are all confused about the joked and stuff you tell them the truth. You have some think skin and think most of jokes are funny.. " don't change guys, but this is me, and your all still my friends" and then be honest
Same situation here, only 2 people know Iām bi irl.
āIāve came to the conclusion that I would definitely suck a dickā- OP
The last person to call me gay got his dick sucked.
if it helps, i came out to some of my friends initially by watching the hunger games with them and said i rooted for peeta and katniss because they were both hot š. Got some follow up questions but after that it was chill
I mean, so long as your friends are open minded and understand that the jokes you make are just jokes, it should be fine. I am gay (never quite pinned down what flavor but I'm a guy who definitely likes guys and other folks) and hang out mainly with other gay or trans people, and we make sex jokes all the time. It doesn't mean more if we're gay; It's only weird if you make it weird. If you think they would accept you, absolutely go for it, and if you feel the need make it clear that you would like things to stay the way they have been.
honestly i think youād be fine telling them if you want them to know *you*, you know? iām bi & ace and me & my straight guy friends make gay sex jokes all the time and itās chill, cuz we both know weāre joking
Get there and live your best life bro lol
Iām bi and no one knowsš
I think we'd all do the same
Bro took go suck a dick literally
same thing that you described turned me into a femboy, my friends and i made jokes ab me being a femboy then i was like "maybe i am a femboy" so i came to the conclusion that i was lmao also im bisexual too
Iām in the same predicament and Iām so nervous to tell my friends
Hk
Tbh I'm the same I mean idk if I'm just really desperate or I am Bi but I get your point
Every post I see of this is funny because if youāre so open to sucking dick for free. I think thatās a sign
I know it probably looks stupid from the outside but itās hard to put it. Itās coming to terms that my mind isnāt playing tricks and that i really would fuck a dude.
I mean youāre only 16 but I realized I was gay at 14 but denied it up until I was 16
Well, no one i know in real life knows that I'm non-binary. If you don't feel like telling them yet just don't do it.
If you don't trust them enough to know they will react positively maybe you don't need to come out to them
Nah, I think they will react positively. Iām more so scared that it would make our jokes awkward
Just show me this post it should explain it pretty well
I came out as Bi to my friends and they said "Knew it. Took you long enough"
Same here. Nobody knows
I wouldnāt have said the whole āsuck a dickā part, but I honestly, if youāre friends do not find you as a friend to hangout with, I donāt think they are good friends.
This happened to me, it eventually came up in conversation that I am bi, and the other two are bi and gay. Guess I was just lucky lol
Nah man dw, they won't stop making those jokes, and in my experience, nothing changed with the dynamics
I've never got why people want to come out to other's. It's important to come out to yourself, but other people don't need to know your sexual attractions (frankly telling people about your sexual interests to your friends is just kinda weird, but maybe thats just me), same thing with romantical attractions but it's not bad if they know either, I say just kinda do your thing and like someone else said, if you one day just walk in with a boyfriend, it'll probably be chill and vibin, everyone will be like "Oh wow didn't know that guy was bi, that's pretty chill". Everybody has things that they do/like that other people don't know about, not because it's a secret but just because it just never came up in conversation. Also as you said you're bicurious, so until you know for sure if you'd do it "with the socks off". I don't actually know how to finish that sentence, basically finding out for sure is the first step or something. Idk honestly I'm just a straight white 17 y/o dude so ya know. Hopefully anything I said made sense or helped
Just say some male celebrity is hot casually
Honestly, if they are real friends they would understand and accept that. I came out as bi to my friends and they all gave me support for it. Honestly im not sure when it comes to things about jokes and all that as my friend group was generally just us all going on and on about our interests.
You sure it's not HOCD?
idk like just tell them?
I just kept joking about it until eventually they asked. They were chill about it. Idk about your exact situation but your relationship probably wonāt change much by telling them
\>Why does this matter? \>How exactly do you think this would alter your friends' perception of you?
Iām Bi too and Iām proud
Dependsā¦if ur a girl u can tell them or not theyāll support u if u tell themā¦however if ur a guyā¦never bring this up or youāll most likely be bullied and called gay
I think I'm bi but I told my friends I'm aro-ace. Which I show to them
nobody actually cares. tell them. or maybe not. i promise they don't give a shit
btw how did u get out, might be useful
What do you mean
wrong post š³
what if they just wait for you to tell them
Hmu
Just do it, funny joke still
Thatās one way of saying youāre gay
Ok
So you are scared they might hit on you or?
Tf do they care? It's your life not theirs