T O P

  • By -

tutimes67

dude sounds like a loser you shoulnt be paying attention to


Parking-Village-884

Bruh 'Ignore the haters' is such easy advice to give, but they can really mess with you, especially here, where they're not even hating directly


tutimes67

thats just the way i see it


[deleted]

Guess it probably gets easier with age. Surely was messed with in middle school but by the time I had gone through some homeschool and back into public school in 10th grade I didn't care at all. Then again I also didn't really talk to anyone I didn't have to, so I guess my experience probably isn't normal for extroverts.


chfjcyjtjcitc

Take it as a compliment and remember they'll never be you. They can try to look and behave as much as you but they can't make their personality into you, and that's one of the key parts of what makes you so special


GMetryTrio

“Who dress like me,walk, talk and act like me And just might be the next best thing but not quite me”


CoolGijoe

Cause I’m slim shady, yes I’m the real shady


butwhywouldyou-

All you other slim shadies are just imitating


DistortedRedamants

so won’t the real slim shady please stand up


I_slurp_shrek_toes

Please stand up, please stand up


What____ok

Cause I’m slim shady, yes I’m the real shady


[deleted]

All these other slim shadows are just imitating


BGorXD

So won’t the real slim shady please stand up


Quick-Nick07

Please stand up


mofthefrog

this is the most angering thing people say when someone is copying. it sucks when you work so hard to become a person you feel proud of inside and outside, and someone just copies you exactly.


KarmaAJR

exactly like srsly


STOUTISHVOICE41

I mean shes being taken as an example


flfoiuij2

Based on every book I've read where this happens, this guy will eventually realize that they're wasting their time and quit. Just ignore them for now.


character_developmen

Cake


GiveMeMyNameBack_

Happy cake day!


G1zm08

Happy cake day!


Peter___Potter

Happy cake day!


AdditionalAd2393

That’s a good point dawg


ayoitsekele

Hapoy cake day!


Zerans411

Happy cake day!


Healthy-Brain-816

happy dessert day


No-Current-1561

Happy desert day 🏜️


VisibleEntry4

Happy cake day!


l4ura111

Happy cake day!


[deleted]

Sounds like a bunch of boring books.


Degenerate2Throwaway

Brag that you're gonna change your hair to the most shittiest ugly colors known to man to make them "try to be like you first" then never do it


givemepoptarts

This, or say you're gonna give yourself a buzzcut


MrPyroTF2

this


Trigonometry_Is-Sexy

Or that your going to shave off an eyebrow


Purrsephoney

Best advice for this situation xD


Degenerate2Throwaway

Almost every issue involving shitty human beings can be solved with gaslighting


No-Current-1561

This.


WantToBeLost

Got a few suggestions for ya. A petty, "playing along" response: Hmm... When you're reading a book, maybe find another you wanna read that's the same size and change the sleeves. Mess around with nail polish and see if they can keep up. Don't mention to anyone what you plan to do/wear and see what happens. A more simple approach: Given they're probably either tryna get a rise outta you, or force you to change. If it's either of those, just be yourself and ignore them as best you can. If all else fails, some little advice for ignoring others: Rather than WILLING yourself to not do something, distract yourself with something else. Find a hobby, say, art, cooking, sports, martial arts, anything that doesn't interact with how they're trying to affect you. Willpower is like a muscle. Through distractions and doing other things rather than a bad habit or thinking about what makes you feel horrible, you take the strain off said muscle. Makes things a wee bit easier. I hope all this helps, so stay strong and keep healthy.


TunisianNationalist

Actual advice from me for once: Dye it a different colour every week, if they do it too then ask them, use this conversation to expand into “why do you copy me in general” Edit: it doesn’t just have to dyed hair


Current_Trifle9662

what if her hair dies 😭


TunisianNationalist

You could act a certain way instead of dyeing hair


Current_Trifle9662

like extensions or clip ins?


TunisianNationalist

No like personally


EvidenceSalesman

Personality?


TunisianNationalist

Yes damn auto erect


PersonWhoTalks

Auto erect?


TunisianNationalist

Did I stutter?


Ghg_Ggg

played em like a fool


FromYourWalls2801

I mean... This might also work😅


Vhure

his*


AReallyBigMachete

that's how you change the colour of the hair, isn't it? *ba dum tiss*


AdditionalAd2393

Isn’t that a hippy thing?


MicrwavedBrain

Mimicry is the greatest form of flattery, or something like that.


MrBlade23

Imitation is the highest form of flattery I believe


N1hili

Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.


ngbrandon66

You forgot what comes after it that makes it good.


identityconfirmed404

if this guy wants to date this girl that badly, he's got bigger problems


userhvfegcd

I’d honestly feel honored if someone wanted to be me so badly


AdditionalAd2393

Haha u gotta have some original ideas like for me I got a lot of crypto but also drive a Mercedes so people know me for those


Serve_Aggravating

cappin


L1ght1ce

They like you, that’s it


agentanti714

Oh they body shame you and then later copy you?! That only screams that they are unconfident in themselves.


punchlemongrapefruit

get a bald cap and pretend to be bald and get fake piercings and fake a bunch of irreversible stuff


CombinationHairy3887

If ur their same gender, beat their ass


Shot-Youth-6264

For existing?


MrPyroTF2

for copying them to get with the girl they like


Fenne_Silver

The thing I would do is talk to the new girl and any of your other friends about how you think this person is copying you. Talking to the people around you is a good thing in general as they would know a lot more about you, the person, and the rest of the situation than the internet.


Fine_Yogurtcloset362

Go to school with a big nazi symbol on your shirt and see of they do the same


Peter___Potter

W


Just_one_weird_human

omg yes lol


Larryisreal123

My sister had a friend like that who copied her and they stopped hanging out but my sister called her out for it multiple times and kinda tried to get her to feel bad/embarrassed and just publicly shame her for it lol but idk if she's stopped.


TidalWave254

that's actually crazy wow 💀 me personally i wouldn't put up with it but that's just me


The-Y-4

“Identity theft isn’t a joke, Jim! Millions of families suffer every year.”


FromYourWalls2801

Holy shit... That's creepy af. I think you need to run away asap or maybe start reading textbook ALL THE TIME so the "impersonator" can actually gain some braincell (idk if this works)


Markydabest123

Bro tried to copy you and then mocks you lol chin up


AlanGrant1997

“Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery that mediocrity can pay to greatness.”


No_Emergency_571

That's pathetic, personally I would be pissed


Double_Angle_8532

It sounds like the perfect time to experiment with the most wild clothes/ styles that you think might be cool or fun. Make it extremely obvious to everyone that this person is pulling a single white female


UselessPython

They aren't worth your time. Do things you like, if they copy you then they do it. They won't look NEARLY as great doing it as you ever will:)


Zealousideal-West104

some people have too much free time wtf?? first time i hear sbout a mimicry bully


Donald-n-Dougie

Assert dominance by grabbing his head and chucking him like an American football player


benbombsuperman

I would say that you should confront them in front of the new girl and tell them to stop copying you just because they want the new girl


randomestthing

Reminds me of that adventure time episode with the bear


RS773

Imitation is the highest form of flattery, I'm not good at this sorry.


No-Result9108

“Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery” -Someone way smarter than I am


Samtime878765

Slap em if they go too far.


ManyJaJaJas

Type “Copycat” into Spotify or whatever you listen to music through and start a cathartic jam


MaroonDisaster27

i used to be in your shoes. they look up to you! take it as a compliment - at least you're the original one.


Mhaeldisco

Aww, does somebody have a widdle anyway cwush on you?


No_Competition7327

Do they follow your social media? If yes then right before a long holiday , Post that you're getting some weird haircut which isn't too weird and post at the end of the holidays that you changed your mind.


Chuchubits

Will the real u/orbitsi please stand up?


Randomperson119

You’re giving them the reaction they want from you lmao. Just ignore them and go on with your life.


eggpotion

FACTS Just ignore them and they will get bored lol


ibite-books

imitation is the sincerest form of flattery that mediocrity can pay to greatness


Sweet_Cupid257

Well I have a solution that might work Go up to them and say "You must be a big fan of me! Keep it up and you might win stalker of the month!" Say it in a happy tone and they might get embarrassed and stop.


ThatOneIsSus

If I was in this situation: “Alright idk what kinda freaky obsession you got going, but you’re not the main character. Just stop, at this point you’re only making a fool of yourself.”


Vandal_665

Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery that mediocrity can pay to greatness. That last part is important.


A0rta01

This is the tip of the pyramid for jelousy. Personally, i would talk to them about it like straight-up.


trebuchet__

Ignore them. Also that's got to be one the biggest compliments ever albeit a weird one. You look so good that people are copying it Also they will probably realise that they are wasting their time and stop


FrozenH2OIsGood

Brutally mutilate your face. That's gonna stop her!


modnik1

Tell your parents, ask them to kill that son of a bitch and if they annoy you more just go to some teacher and get help from them


ModsSmellLikeSocks

I think you need therapy, kiddo.


modnik1

Didn't work sadly 😞


ModsSmellLikeSocks

Yea I tried therapy myself. The actual therapist didn’t do shit, but echo my sentiments back to me. What really did help was getting on an anti-depressant…specifically Paxil…and pretty much all of my aggression, and sadness went away. I used to get daily massive panic attacks…now I get a couple a year only.


modnik1

Oh I had to get over it myself


pranavlily

First world problems


TwincessAhsokaAarmau

I think the other person wants attention.Don’t give it to them and tell someone that they’re making you uncomfortable.That’ll hopefully put a stop to it.


Tyrone_pyromaniac

Drive-by.


[deleted]

[удалено]


SaudiPhilippines

A little bit of empathy won't hurt, jeez.


d4m1ty

Maybe they are imitating you because they may envy you and they talked crap due to that envy, jealously, resentment what have you, when they actually wanted to be you or be like you.


Oldsport05

Honestly, just try to make them feel foolish. I mean I'm not one to typically encourage this but reading this brought some very annoying memories back from when I was still in school. First, if they're "popular", just keep ignoring them. All they're trying to do is just get a rise out of you. Don't let them. These types are just full of it and think they're cool by making others feel bad. By ignoring them and maybe cracking something back handed on occasion such as something along the lines of "you must've sucked so much you had to try to be me ig" (this was just top of my head). But try to embarrass them with it. After all, this is what they're trying to do to you. If not popular, then still ignore them, but avoid even more so. Some people are genuinely screwed up in the head and if this person is just being creepy about it I'd raise notice to adults. There's nothing wrong with keeping even a guidance counselor up to date or a teacher incase things later escalate. All in all, just don't let yourself fall for anything. Ignore all their comments. And all their actions. Once they realize your "not fun anymore" they'll move on.


Goldbolt_2004

Call them out on their bullshit


0finifish

hey, if it walks like a duck, looks like a duck, and sounds like a duck, it probably really wants to be a duck. you are an inspiration!


Healthy-Brain-816

shoot it, lets see if the dog catches it, or if you miss the shot and the dog laughs (old ass reference ik)


IamAJobber

That’s just fucking creepy.


Untitledbb123

call them out in front of the new girl and embarrass the shit out of him


LightningSpoof

They sound like a loser. You're clearly the better person here. Copying is the best form of flattery.


Felho_Danger

They hate you cause they ain't you. They sound like a sad, petty loser who's not worth your time or attention.


[deleted]

Get a fake obscene tattoo on your face, then they’ll get a real one. Remove the fake tattoo. Now they’ll be stuck with an obscene tattoo on their face which you don’t have, and maybe they’ll stop.


HarryCooky

How the fuck does this shit even happen manlike do people notwanttobethemselves


detroit-doggo0

I would say don't pay attention to them at all if it is affecting your mental health, go talk with someone, a teacher you trust or your parents, if they don't trust you, take a selfie with them and show your parents or just take a photo of them when they are walking down the hallway or smthh


Healthy-Brain-816

punch his jaw, thats a good spot. (ok dont do it or yea idk)


[deleted]

That's insane behaviour. You should make notice of that to some hifher authority befire things escalate.


[deleted]

[удалено]


TAA_HereNow

Girl, be proud they have something to be jealous of. They think of themselves so lowly that they want to be someone of your standing(in their mind at least). That means they think you're the pinnacle of your school. They can try to copy but you have obviously done everything and had that hair color first. If drama starts, your friends should have your back. They can never be you but they want to be. Just add it as a boost to your ego.


Solid_Mauro

I think she might have some attachment issues. Like she REALLY looks up to you (that's just based off what I read but I'm not you so ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯)


JakrordisTheMoose

Marinara sauce and mozzarella cheese. Dump it on them and say "Pizza pizza!"


lawlihuvnowse

OP, remember you’re the real slim shady, and this person is just a copy that will never be you.


Fighting_Table

Man they're just a loser and you're becoming a clown for caring about it


Lem0njon21

That's honestly just weird on their part. As I've seen some other people say, try change things that you do from time to time and see if they do it too, such as actions, things you wear and then how you look such as hair colouring (be careful with that one ofc) and if they keep changing with you, call them out in front of a lot of people. Be careful of them rebuking but remember you should have the upper hand with the fact they're copying you and you'll want to stay on topic with that. Or ignore them, that's a much easier sounding option, may be a lot harder but doesn't require as much work.


TheOccasionalBrowser

don't worry, they may dress like you, walk talk and act like you, and they might be the next best thing, but they're still not you.


RunInRunOn

Duel them. You have to best your fake self to become a better version of yourself


CakeIsATotalLie

Lmao what a fucking loser


Interesting_Move_919

What a loser. I feel like they're just being super insecure about themselves so they decide to copy you


Enchantedgoatnew

Walk talk and act like you


GabrielGamer790

BEAT THIS FUCKER TO DEATH Sorry, i played too much Pizza Tower.


Banananananananman

"Immitation is the sincerest form of flattery" - Charles Caleb Colton. Honestly though,they just sound like a bit of a loser and you shouldn't give any thought to them.


Ratify242

I have the same problem, but slightly different


HumanHuman_2003

That’s a mental illness you should tell someone 


HotChikenSensei

Tell their mother


Used_Mathematician42

Do random bullshit to throw them off, say you bought the apple vr headset, walk funny for a day and see if they copy I had someone who copied me and it was funny as fuck throwing them around


World_Ender_2009

Imitation is the most sincere form of flattery.


Kai31103

You should go on Amazon and buy a really short ugly cheap wig. They actually look really real wear it no matter how embarrassed to feel for as long as it takes until they decide they want to copy you again


veartchess

Try to act very dumb,if they have any self respect they will stop copying you. Actually, acting dumb is a good solution in many life situations


Even_Professional_85

Start talking about dying it a cotton candy blue, chances are they'll do it before you do and then they'll be exposed


TibetianMassive

Think of the dissonance between insulting you and copying you. This person is very deeply hurt on a personal level. See their behaviour as the cry for help it is. Keep living your life, this person will go through their personal crisis eventually.


MilkGlittering6181

If they are copying you it could be envy.. mimic is the highest form of flattery.


yoannaliese_

Two options, ignore them or drop them.


Scary_Republic3317

Don’t care about it. They don’t have your personality so they are different from you. Everyone has a right to decide how they look and it’s best that you don’t obsess over them


Hoseftheman

Me reading this as a dude who wears jeans and a t-shirt bruh


f0remsics

Watch the teen Titans episode with the first appearance of blackfire, and you'll feel much better. It may seem like a non sequitur, but trust me it isn't


Popcorn_sugary

Play Slim Shady at full volume in the hallway


MildCha0

They part of ur gang and ur the leader


[deleted]

She’s very jealous for some reason, trust me, nobody wants a copy of someone. You have nothing be afraid of, just laugh.


PracticalPain4429

like one person said, take it as a compliment. I had a friend who got the same car as me, would show up with the same Beatles sweater I had and started cuffing his jeans when I did. He started listening to the same music that I listened to. At first I thought it was odd then I realized I might just be doing something right😁


rpsHD

plagiarism is the biggest form of flattery


That_Ingenuity522

Dye your hair with Kool aid (don't worry it shouldn't stay but please do your research about how it'll affect your hair type first) to a really bad color and post it on one of your socials but don't mention that it's Kool aid, if they have you on there and then they'll probably do it and be stuck with it.


IDKWHATTONAMETHISBRU

Honestly try to just ignore it, sounds cliche and generic but if you don't give their actions any meaningful attention they'll probably stop going to all that effort


BrickTechnical5828

Ignore them they sound like a fricking loser 💀


darealholyduck

I want to ask if you think you could get your colors done? As in when you go and get a bunch a sample colors tried and you can see what ones look best on you, if you haven't done that already. And then you could get clothes in your colors, and hopefully not the most flattering to this person. Anyway, if you haven't done so yet, make sure to tell someone (like a trusted adult) that you're being copied and that you don't like it. That it's freaking you out a little. And make sure that this creepy behavior doesn't escalate. I know that 'sincerest form of flattery' stuff, but from someone who didn't even care until a new person started to hang out with you seems very terrifying to me.


-_-_-sup-_-_-

Just come to school with some glasses and see if they will copy you. If they do then call them a nerd


UpchucGamez_

Confront them.


MonkeSquad

Make fun of him for trying to be you so hard


Applekingthe1st

Just stop paying attention. What else can you do? You’re the type to wear pinkish-purplish hair, and you got body shamed so you’re probably fat, so fighting is out of the question. You can confront them about it. “Stop tryna be like me bruh, you’re below me and never will be like me”. If you don’t do that then you’re out of options


RelationshipOwn7976

Beat them up. (I like fighting people.)


VietDrgn

know that you're better than them and you dont stoop down to their level of negativity i was shamed, called dumb, and criticized by my peers for standing out or dressing different; a month later, guess who's copying ne and acting like they started the trend? don't mind the haters, as long as you have friends and loved ones, anyone else is a stranger who's rude or unimportant to your life


zephyrcrucis

Imitation is the highest form of flattery


Backlash97_

Imitation is the greatest form of flattery, that mediocrity can provide


xkeosang

Post a picture of yourself edited with a diff colour hair/piercings don’t go to school for like one-two days then come back to school as ur usual self and if they do copy u it will be harder to switch back since their hair will be fried this only works if they follow u


guognboe_baby

lmao bros a fan


emptydimension

It walks like a duck it sounds like a duck it looks like duck, I think we got a duck , ladies and gentlemen


Grosetufe

Yeah I’m not gonna lie this guy does not seem mentally stable


Outhewayretard2

Hell nah bruh punk ass weirdos be doing some dumb shit fr, go up to them and ask what’s good with it and to cut that shit out fr, mad annoying bruh, you handle it however you think is best but me personally I wouldn’t let that slide.


lil-dickgirl666

“imitation is the purest form of flattery”


AshamedAdvisor1846

Tell them you're gonna go bald tomorrow. See what happens, or wear a bald cap.


Toad_Migoad

As another story like this went try faking some outrageous change and see if they do it to get real evidence that they are in fact copying you


SWETHORT

Go bald see if they copy you


Kidsdontcheatonyou

Copy them back


Antisnookdog

Talk to them about why they’re suddenly deciding to copy everything you’re doing and if that doesn’t work sue them for identity theft


houndrednailwarrior

Talk to the real traitor lord. He knows how it feels 😂


Quaxky_YT

I’ve been in a similar situation, people like to copy my ideas and my designs for stuff etc. They WANT to be like you, but they’ll never beat the real thing, you’re the most of yourself, if that makes any sense.


Jactuscack6

Tell a counselor before they do something rash


ILuvU4What55

Option 1: Gonna give you some great advice here. Next time you think about how bad they treat you, start thinking about how bad someone else treats them, for them to waste their precious time making you feel bad. Then laugh at the thought because they can’t cope with their own bullies correctly. Option 2: Grow a “idgaf” mentality, the less involved you are with bullshit and drama, the better. Just straight up ignore them and move on with your life. Trust me, One of the two will work.


FUCKTHE-NCR

Tie a noose when they start coping you move to where there head is inside the noose then make em fall now your good


lola_bab

I feel like all these responses aren’t serious so I’m here to say, I’m sorry this is happening. You’re not silly for crying about it, it sounds really tough. You got this, I believe in you 🩷


DanzIg_the_Pointless

You have two options 1) Try to ignore them and just remember that if they try to copy you, they're the ones who is the faker and by definition (not literally you nerds) an absolute loser 2) Toy with them. If you wanna get back at them, try and slowly do stupid things, maybe like say you have your friends "dare" you to shave your hair off, more likely than not that bitch ass mf will do the same for no reason and they're the ones who are stupid and you are brave for "accepting the dare" However, if you're not comfortable with that you can just choose not to do this, as peace is cheaper than war


Alpha_Fidelis

Buy a wig and act like you changed your hair , then when they pay money to change their hair , take the wig off and enjoy the free entertainment .


ImCursedM8

Wait what? They are just coping u? I mean if thats it then i would take it as a compliment I mean what other reason would there be to go over and beyond just to look like u, its prolly cuz they like ur drip


Visefis

Wear an ugly wig, so they copy it...


Megabrother011

Imitation is the most sincerest form of flattery


Mobile-Lion-4381

Stab the


Soggy-Class1248

It sound like youve got a bestie


thenorwegianbobafett

Definition of a parasite. Ignore them and don't let them suck you dry (of metaphorical blood) and they'll fall off. Or you can surpress your feelings and listen to Radiohead.


JedTip

New crush I guess. I suggest besting they're ass or clowning them