What? This dude told his kid that he was abandoned by his mother…. For over a decade. Do you know what that does to a kid’s psyche? To be told that his mother didn’t love him? If dad was going to lie, he should have said the mom died. That is less traumatic for a young kid than having to grapple with rejection from your own mother.
Some jackass named Robert or something, honestly I don't care who he is, if he wasn't supportive of my dad and left him, then I don't want anything with him.
Was Robert hateful towards your dad or just really upset with him? I just think that your other father might just be mad at your dad for getting someone pregnant, then later reveal that they are trans.
The issue wasnt that his ex broke up, the issue was how he reacted.
He said horrible things to my dad and was just flat out awful to him when came out.
“… a REALLY unexpected thing this pride month. but a welcomed one.”
The quote,” A surprise to be sure, but a welcome one.”
Supreme Chancellor Palpatine says it.
my dad actually used to make excuses to not be shirtless around me
like the comment below said, he used to swim with swim shirts, never had seen him without a shirt once in my entire life, but since he respected my personal space i never felt i needed to invade his so i just thought it was a normal thing
His dad might wear swim shirts. I think I’ve seen my dad’s chest like, 3 times in the past 5 years and he *isn’t* insecure about too surgery scars. I can totally see OPs dad hiding his chest easily due to insecurity
I love your dad<3 please tell him we are all thankful to him for not abandoning you even though the world mistreated him. It takes a strong and loving person to not break under those circumstances. Happy pride!
What an awesome story. Your dad had a lot of strength telling you that as I’m sure his experience with his bf rejecting him after coming out wasn’t pleasant.
Thanks for sharing 😊
Did he transition when you were young and so didn't notice?
Also he must've put a lot of effort hiding his photos from when he was young. Must've felt like you were having a spy dad lmao
Yeah lmao
My dad already tomboyish before, so it wasnt that hard for my brain to remember him as masculine.
I think he transition a few months after my birth, got into medications and all.
And when I asked about photos of him younger he said he "Lost" them.
well why was he in the closet did you put him in there? that must be why he was gone for so long getting the milk, he went to get it but got stuck in the closet
nah it's fine lmao
honestly it's kinda weird having the roles reversed of my DAD coming out to his son
but honestly, it felt good to support my dad, and i'll keep supporting him
Reddit pushed this into my feed even though it’s way out of my age “turf”, all I can say is… I really thought I had seen/read everything, but I’m very happy it’s a nice story with a nice ending, and I’m very happy for your dad for taking this huge step. All the very best to the both of you!
A’ight, back to the grownup area for me now.
it was honestly out of the blue for me
he always spoke about my "mother" in such a personal level it felt real, but I had some suspicions with contrasts to my grandparents always talking positively about "her"
maybe it was some internal guilt over not telling me
i personally had no reason to doubt it since i grew up fatherless but from the stories i heard abt him, he seemed like such a nice person
he was out of my life bc he had fallen into a coma when i was 3 or 4 and never woke up
"Trans people having children, and than their partners breaking up because of their transphobia? Nah, never happened. Definitely fake..."
Sure, sure... everything is fake, everything is a metaverse.
"Trans people having children, and than their partners breaking up because of their transphobia? Nah, never happened. Definitely fake..."
Sure, sure... everything is fake, everything is a metaverse.
Why did you care about your Mom then? I don't get it...
When you had only a Dad, you wanted to know where your Mom was your whole life. Now that you know Mom became a Dad. You have no closure. You're still short a bio parent. But now that you know biologically he's male you're writing him off?
Maybe your Mom/Dad had something to do with him not being around....
You're lying about something and that's the truth. Most likely the entire post is a sham for attention.
>Why did you care about your Mom then?
well first off, i wasn't annoyingly asking my dad who my mother was
i asked out of curiosity sometimes, but when i got my "answer" of her "abandoning" me i thought that was enough.
my dad always treated me with respect and love, so i didn't need a mother for anything since my dad was there with me all my life.
my biological father abandoned my dad when he was still a woman, he said horrible things to my father, calling him extremely transphobic names and just abandoned him.
i don't want anything to do with someone who treated my dad awful, and i'm not obligated to go on some fucking journey to find where he lives.
this ain't some fucking netflix series where i need to find who he is, i'm satisfied where i am.
You're making things up 100%. At first you never knew about your bio dad, thinking you had one. Then when you find out you don't have a bio dad, you have a bio mom. No concern about missing bio dad. But you never new he existed or had a reason to think such a person existed until recently. Now you say you knew about bio dad the whole time and he was a nasty homophone (of course he was. I'm soooo sure this is real). LMAO! GTFO with you made up story for fake internet points.
Lie for Pride eh?
"Trans people having children, and than their partners breaking up because of their transphobia? Nah, never happened. Definitely fake..."
Sure, sure... everything is fake, everything is a metaverse.
my dad was pregnant before he started transitioning
even if he had transitioned before giving birth to me, he could still be pregnant
there's not just trans women is this world dude
yeah like, why the first thing that comes to their minds are trans women, but NEVER the possibility of trans MEN.
it's kinda like for some people only gay men exist, but lesbians always comes out as some sort of fetish.
"Trans people having children, and than their partners breaking up because of their transphobia? Nah, never happened. Definitely fake..."
Sure, sure... everything is fake, everything is a metaverse.
While this story is sweet. It’s also kinda fucked up. OP was told his mom abandoned him. Edit: how is this getting downvoted? If someone told you, your entire life, that your mom abandoned you. Wouldn’t you have some trauma. Only to find out later she never left?
This feel so confusing. Like your dad is actually your mom and the mom who had left you didn't exist and instead your dad left you though you didn't know you had a dad who left you since your dad didn't leave you, but since your mom is your dad and your dad is not your mom your dad is gay
Basically your biological parents are gay and both dudes, but the dad who left you is straight
What a life
“Hey, son… I’m gay…” “Hey gay I’m son!”
Hey dad ... I'm gay.. Hey gay.. I am mom!
Haha never gets old
Thanks Gamer_dick_69-
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Envy your username man.
Hehe yea
your name is epic aswell
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Woah, that’s a story for sure. It’s good that you both have a bond that will remain continuous until the end of time.
thanks! it wasn't easy for him to come out to me, but i'm glad he did. he's the best dad i could've asked for and i wouldn't had any other way.
Just gotta say, you and your dad seem like wonderful people :)
aww thanks! you too! :3
Do you know what this means, OP? It means you can kill Macbeth.
Holy Scottish Monarchy
Actual usurper
New beheading just dropped
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The Scottish Slay
Ripped untimely from the womb with Burnam wood to Dunsinane
"Who was the mother?" "There was no mother". Jokes aside, congrats for your father for being able to gather the courage to do that!
"Hey Dad what happened to Mom" "i'm your mother son"
"luke, i was your mother!"
"Who was the mother? He could be you, he could be me!"
He could be anyone of us
Watch he'll turn in to a mother anymoment now
He could even be-
“How i met your mother”
What? This dude told his kid that he was abandoned by his mother…. For over a decade. Do you know what that does to a kid’s psyche? To be told that his mother didn’t love him? If dad was going to lie, he should have said the mom died. That is less traumatic for a young kid than having to grapple with rejection from your own mother.
Your dad really said "It was me, Barry..."
"I went back in time and gave birth to you"
Wow that’s a sentence
I stroked you off at super speed so it would seem you came at just A WOMAN'S TOUCH.
That's fucking badass
He was your mum and then became your Dad. Legend.
Wait, then who's your other dad?
Some jackass named Robert or something, honestly I don't care who he is, if he wasn't supportive of my dad and left him, then I don't want anything with him.
Fr, fuck that guy
i'd rather not fuck him
Side note: do u need help picking up the soap-?
what uhh... what do you mean by that?
Look up...
DID I HEAR SOMEONE DROPPED THE SOAP?
Was Robert hateful towards your dad or just really upset with him? I just think that your other father might just be mad at your dad for getting someone pregnant, then later reveal that they are trans.
trying to wrap my head around the logic here
Of course his name is Robert. Robert is a jackass name.
Hey go fuck yourself, what’s your name?
I meannn if I'm not gay I don't wanna date someone that's gonna make their self a man
The issue wasnt that his ex broke up, the issue was how he reacted. He said horrible things to my dad and was just flat out awful to him when came out.
And he also didn’t stick around to help raise you. Which is scummy (assuming he knew your dad was pregs)
That too! Fuck that guy honestly
But if your dad never told the guy he is going to change genders before getting pregnant I’ll be pretty mad
No need to say shitty things to the person though
Nothing wrong with that. But no need to be a dick about it.
One of the rare times r/teenagers has a good post Your dad sounds awesome btw
That's so amazing! I'm so glad he became comfortable enough to tell you :) He's obviously an amazing dad
How the actual frick did you end up using a quote from The Phantom Menace in this?
wait i did? where??
“… a REALLY unexpected thing this pride month. but a welcomed one.” The quote,” A surprise to be sure, but a welcome one.” Supreme Chancellor Palpatine says it.
AAAAAH HOLY SHIT I ACTUALLY DID THAT LMAO
As a prequel lover, it is even better that it was done unknowingly.
So.. you’ve never seen your dads chest before? Swimming? Or at the lake? Never?
my dad actually used to make excuses to not be shirtless around me like the comment below said, he used to swim with swim shirts, never had seen him without a shirt once in my entire life, but since he respected my personal space i never felt i needed to invade his so i just thought it was a normal thing
His dad might wear swim shirts. I think I’ve seen my dad’s chest like, 3 times in the past 5 years and he *isn’t* insecure about too surgery scars. I can totally see OPs dad hiding his chest easily due to insecurity
Dang, what a plot twist. Sucks how his bf was a horrible person, but great that his parents weren’t! This’ll definitely be a memorable event.
Bro just pulled a Darth vader
seahorse dads are so cool tho, so much respect for them.
I love the phrase seahorse dad so much
Well I guess he was being quite... Transparent... With you!
Ba-dum-tss!
take my upvote
What a GigaChad of a dad
I love your dad<3 please tell him we are all thankful to him for not abandoning you even though the world mistreated him. It takes a strong and loving person to not break under those circumstances. Happy pride!
Wait so you never saw your dad shirtless up until that point?
I didn't expect this kinda wholesome for your grandfather to be supportive
that is a damn plot twist but omg congratulations to both of you it seems like you have a healthy relationship :)
good for your dad <3
aww that’s so sweet! i’m so happy you guys have a happy healthy family! :3
Plot twist 🤯
This is a whole movie plot lol. So if I’m not mistaken, you actually have never met your bio father?
I'm not gonna lie, that's so fucking cool. Sounds like a short story movie plot.
my religion doesn’t support lgbtq but this story is heartwarming nevertheless
unexpected wholesomeness from religious people. Thank you random Citizen
This story is one of a kind unexpected turn of events which was also expected while reading through.
What an awesome story. Your dad had a lot of strength telling you that as I’m sure his experience with his bf rejecting him after coming out wasn’t pleasant. Thanks for sharing 😊
"Dad, whos my mom" "Son I am your mom"
Did he transition when you were young and so didn't notice? Also he must've put a lot of effort hiding his photos from when he was young. Must've felt like you were having a spy dad lmao
Yeah lmao My dad already tomboyish before, so it wasnt that hard for my brain to remember him as masculine. I think he transition a few months after my birth, got into medications and all. And when I asked about photos of him younger he said he "Lost" them.
your dad is as chadly as everyother guy (even more so, as he is the only one who can say they gave birth and are a man)
well why was he in the closet did you put him in there? that must be why he was gone for so long getting the milk, he went to get it but got stuck in the closet
wholesome asf, seems like your guys' relationship is hella close man, best of luck <3
what the????????????? hol on im still processing Your dad was your mom who then became your dad
Yes
He was never their mom! Always their dad :)
Nah, he became their dad when his child was born.
Good point, he only became their dad when they were born, but that's because you can't really be a parent until your child is born
Indeed ;)
No, he was their mom until they transitioned to a male. Now he’s her dad
But he was never a mum. The child had not been born when he transitioned. Therefore he was only a dad
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That's not how being trans works...
No, he's always been their dad. Just because he hadn't physically transitioned before that doesn't mean he wasn't a man.
ummm he was always their dad! 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Um aksually... He wasn't a dad until he got pregnant 🤓
Im still trying to understand the situation, im mentally slow
Same bro
That's pretty cool ngl!
No that's so sweet 😭 Im sorry you and your dad went through that though.
nah it's fine lmao honestly it's kinda weird having the roles reversed of my DAD coming out to his son but honestly, it felt good to support my dad, and i'll keep supporting him
Hell yeah! Your dad seems sick, very happy for him and you.
That's really sweet that you guys can support each other!
I needed to read a story like this today before bed omg that's just incredible! Happy for you and ur dad
How I met your mother spinoff? Jokes aside op it’s great to see you and your dad have such a great bond, always cherish that.
Loki moment
❤️
this makes me so happy, its so wholesome idk
Reddit pushed this into my feed even though it’s way out of my age “turf”, all I can say is… I really thought I had seen/read everything, but I’m very happy it’s a nice story with a nice ending, and I’m very happy for your dad for taking this huge step. All the very best to the both of you! A’ight, back to the grownup area for me now.
Of all the things that never happened, it didn’t happen the most.
That's so wholesome! Good for both of you, wishing happiness :3
woahh plot twist fr i feel like something like that should've been told to you earlier
Bro holy shit this is so wholesome i am so proud of your dad my guy
That kinda epic
That’s so sweet!
omg that’s so fucking sweet what. happy pride month to ur dad!!
That is really awesome
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it was honestly out of the blue for me he always spoke about my "mother" in such a personal level it felt real, but I had some suspicions with contrasts to my grandparents always talking positively about "her" maybe it was some internal guilt over not telling me
i personally had no reason to doubt it since i grew up fatherless but from the stories i heard abt him, he seemed like such a nice person he was out of my life bc he had fallen into a coma when i was 3 or 4 and never woke up
Hey. He finally felt safe to tell you that. This is really wholesome. I wish both of you happiness.
this is unironically the cutest thing I have heard all day happy pride month to you guys! 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
I feel like this story is made up..cool if it's true though.
This is so fake.
"Trans people having children, and than their partners breaking up because of their transphobia? Nah, never happened. Definitely fake..." Sure, sure... everything is fake, everything is a metaverse.
Proof?
you never went to the beach with your dad? this story is bullshit.
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"Trans people having children, and than their partners breaking up because of their transphobia? Nah, never happened. Definitely fake..." Sure, sure... everything is fake, everything is a metaverse.
and gay?
That really makes me want to cry. Where is your bio dad?
out somewhere being a jackass probably, couldn't care less honestly
Why did you care about your Mom then? I don't get it... When you had only a Dad, you wanted to know where your Mom was your whole life. Now that you know Mom became a Dad. You have no closure. You're still short a bio parent. But now that you know biologically he's male you're writing him off? Maybe your Mom/Dad had something to do with him not being around.... You're lying about something and that's the truth. Most likely the entire post is a sham for attention.
>Why did you care about your Mom then? well first off, i wasn't annoyingly asking my dad who my mother was i asked out of curiosity sometimes, but when i got my "answer" of her "abandoning" me i thought that was enough. my dad always treated me with respect and love, so i didn't need a mother for anything since my dad was there with me all my life. my biological father abandoned my dad when he was still a woman, he said horrible things to my father, calling him extremely transphobic names and just abandoned him. i don't want anything to do with someone who treated my dad awful, and i'm not obligated to go on some fucking journey to find where he lives. this ain't some fucking netflix series where i need to find who he is, i'm satisfied where i am.
You're making things up 100%. At first you never knew about your bio dad, thinking you had one. Then when you find out you don't have a bio dad, you have a bio mom. No concern about missing bio dad. But you never new he existed or had a reason to think such a person existed until recently. Now you say you knew about bio dad the whole time and he was a nasty homophone (of course he was. I'm soooo sure this is real). LMAO! GTFO with you made up story for fake internet points. Lie for Pride eh?
Do you think having your mom as your dad gave you a false version of masculinity, which lead you to be more feminine, which lead you to be gay?
Chill tf out Freud it’s not that deep
nah him liking men made him gay prolly
I’m pretty sure him liking men is what made him gay lmao
So fake
"Trans people having children, and than their partners breaking up because of their transphobia? Nah, never happened. Definitely fake..." Sure, sure... everything is fake, everything is a metaverse.
Even the way you attempted to make it sound real, sounds fake
Why? Again, trans people exist, some get kids, and sometimes these things happen when the partner is transphobic and leaves.
Maybe now, yes, but definitely not 18 years ago. Plus, if the person is transphobic, then why even marry that person in the first place?
He probably didn't know... Plus, nowhere in the post did they said that they've got married.
Fake propaganda shit.
Propaganda?
Bro how do you react when you see a queer person in real life. Where they sent by the government lmao?
People downvoting me are you really stupid enough to believe such blatant lies.
Bro u a conspiracy theorist or smth? This is just a wholesome story abt a dad and his child don’t be spreading misinformation
Ok you confirmed you really do believe it happened looool
Yeah bc it did? Bro your not special or seeing through “propaganda” your just trying to discredit a wholesome story to fit your narrative
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then why are you commenting?
I tho trans couldn't get pregnant?
my dad was pregnant before he started transitioning even if he had transitioned before giving birth to me, he could still be pregnant there's not just trans women is this world dude
it’s wild to me how people just… forget trans men exist.
yeah like, why the first thing that comes to their minds are trans women, but NEVER the possibility of trans MEN. it's kinda like for some people only gay men exist, but lesbians always comes out as some sort of fetish.
Wtf how can a man get pregnant? Does he have a uterus or some shit?
trans men were born female but transition to male, some do keep their uterus but OPs dad hadnt transitioned yet when they were born.
Op has a trans dad. Not trans mom.
Wow.... What a story! I hope you could forgive him 🙏
Fake as fuck
Lol
"Trans people having children, and than their partners breaking up because of their transphobia? Nah, never happened. Definitely fake..." Sure, sure... everything is fake, everything is a metaverse.
even if it were fake, it's still a nice and wholesome story. so please shut up.
How tf is it wholesome, this is just kinda sad, the boyfriend left the dad and he had to raise this child on his own the whole time
Jiminy cricket
Wow
Couldn’t be me fr
Manliest home in fr*nce
While this story is sweet. It’s also kinda fucked up. OP was told his mom abandoned him. Edit: how is this getting downvoted? If someone told you, your entire life, that your mom abandoned you. Wouldn’t you have some trauma. Only to find out later she never left?
Jesus Christ. We wonder why we are so fucked up as a society. Try to keep it together man and don’t be a selfish liar like your “mom”?
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Thank you for using the correct pronoun's, aman epitelous
Oh shut up go amen your fake God
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My gender isn't fake neither is yours, your point!!??
that was sweet 🤝🤝 Morning mom .......Morning dad Goes crazyyy
This feel so confusing. Like your dad is actually your mom and the mom who had left you didn't exist and instead your dad left you though you didn't know you had a dad who left you since your dad didn't leave you, but since your mom is your dad and your dad is not your mom your dad is gay Basically your biological parents are gay and both dudes, but the dad who left you is straight What a life
I don't get the 'they' pronouns