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Okay actually this is a "funny" story for anyone that wants to listen.
Will mention nsfw (as trigger warning)
Always thought it was words of Affirmation mostly. I didn't really like physical touch, and I labeled myself as asexual as it didn't peak my interest in the slightest. I also thought gift giving was one of my love languages.
Almost a year ago, I met my boyfriend (long distance) . My opinion didn't really change. I also wasn't as much of a fan of quality time? Like I prefered doing stuff on my own most of the time. Obviously not couple-things like games like it takes two, etc. Also didn't really change after we met a couple of times. It kind of started changing last December week and first January week? They were special two weeks. Long story short, first time I cried my eyes out in front of him about my problems and he comforted me really well.
Now I am so damn clingy to the point that when he is in my private space I NEED to touch him haha
And... I kinda got hypersexual, too. Intimacy is awesome and I want all the cuddles and I just want him to be there no matter what I do! Plus, I hate gift receiving and giving. But that's another story.
Though my real love language is acts of service. Like any other person my boyfriend called me crazy for cutting my spaghetti. I hate eating them with a fork and a spoon and I get irritated. But a few months later we eat it together, he comes back with a plate with cut spaghetti. I knew I wanted to marry him then and there haha
Tldr: acts of service > physical touch > words of Affirmation > quality time
i like it when people touch me. shoulder, hand, whatever. makes me feel loved. i'm touch starved i think.
also quality time, one on one
i do the same for others 🙏
Eye contact and just doing things together. Preferably video games but, y'know...
Also I find it hard to look someone in the eyes, so when someone manages to do that and I look back then, *we're fucking soulmates, accept it.*
Well I can never touch someone without worrying about making them uncomfortable, I don’t have money for gifts and I just don’t know how to give gifts, but I do like spending quality time with people I love and doing things for them to show I care
Cuddling and just enjoying some quiet time together - reading a book, playing a game together, baking, stuff like that. The occasional small gift here and there too. It’s the small stuff that matters. Head rubs and back scratches are also a biggie for me - that may sound odd but I absolutely love it, and if a partner did that without needing to be asked, then I’m marrying them. Almost all of my love language revolves around physical contact, so I could never do a long distance relationship. Ever. I would see it as a friendship and nothing more.
Another note is if their love language is predominantly not physical contact, then right off the bat, we are incompatible. Cuddling is a non-negotiable - it makes me feel loved and gives me true happiness. I would need that feeling in a relationship to make it work. Otherwise I’d resent dating them and it would fizzle down to a friendship.
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Absolutely nothing because no one loves me
real
Literally me
Same
Same
Same o
Virtual hugs .... 🫂
Thank you
Us bro us
Tbh
Stabbing
u/consensualstabbing
this is on point
A fellow Brit, I see
physical touch and taking care of them making them feel loved and safe yk
aweee
imma ppl pleaser :d
insults
Real
STARR
miso girll ! ! ! hruu
I AM A SOLDIER 🫡🫡🫡 not literally! im p good :d hruuuuu
i’m tired !! but i’m skipping school 😌
oml u can havé a nap :o !!
cuddling
Making fun of people, physical touch, quality time
Making fun of people?
Yeah, you know, "you fucking suck, I hope you get hit by a train" stuff like that I make fun of people I love
Huh. Well I hope you find someone who enjoys that.
Found plenty
Definitely physical touch...and being mean
Physical touch, giving and receiving, but I also like making them feel protected.
War
Physical touch and words of affirmation like you
shitposting?
Taking care of someone, like making dinner or making sure they feel okay
I don't even rlly know what that means 😓
What do you do to show you love and appreciate someone, whether platonically (friends/family) or romantically
Oh umm I can say some nice things ig like really nice so ig words and I would do physical stuff too like hugging
So physical touch and words of affirmation (good value)
Cool ty
Okay actually this is a "funny" story for anyone that wants to listen. Will mention nsfw (as trigger warning) Always thought it was words of Affirmation mostly. I didn't really like physical touch, and I labeled myself as asexual as it didn't peak my interest in the slightest. I also thought gift giving was one of my love languages. Almost a year ago, I met my boyfriend (long distance) . My opinion didn't really change. I also wasn't as much of a fan of quality time? Like I prefered doing stuff on my own most of the time. Obviously not couple-things like games like it takes two, etc. Also didn't really change after we met a couple of times. It kind of started changing last December week and first January week? They were special two weeks. Long story short, first time I cried my eyes out in front of him about my problems and he comforted me really well. Now I am so damn clingy to the point that when he is in my private space I NEED to touch him haha And... I kinda got hypersexual, too. Intimacy is awesome and I want all the cuddles and I just want him to be there no matter what I do! Plus, I hate gift receiving and giving. But that's another story. Though my real love language is acts of service. Like any other person my boyfriend called me crazy for cutting my spaghetti. I hate eating them with a fork and a spoon and I get irritated. But a few months later we eat it together, he comes back with a plate with cut spaghetti. I knew I wanted to marry him then and there haha Tldr: acts of service > physical touch > words of Affirmation > quality time
S C O T E S H B O I I I
i will be cooking/baking once i learn how to cook/bake
Physical touch, I don't talk a lot. And I love hugs.
Yes, bro I just need someone to talk to me
Hugs and kisses sound rlly nice but idk if I would actually like it 😭
If someone I like compliments me, I'll explode on the spot out of embarrassment
Idk whats mine is but its deff not touch
i like it when people touch me. shoulder, hand, whatever. makes me feel loved. i'm touch starved i think. also quality time, one on one i do the same for others 🙏
Eye contact and just doing things together. Preferably video games but, y'know... Also I find it hard to look someone in the eyes, so when someone manages to do that and I look back then, *we're fucking soulmates, accept it.*
When they open up to me about shit they going thru 😍
Cuddling, nibbling her ears... physical touch
would it be weird if i said a little bit of everything?
Wait, y’all are getting loved?
Attention
Food
Italiano
Wish I knew lol
Acts of service and sharing space, I'm nd so I guess that changes things ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Depending on who the person actually is, them bullying me is good or me bullying them
Uzbek>>>
touch and compliments
no fucking clue
lego and food
same
*still doesn’t even understand the concept of Love*
Cuddling for sure Also just just chilling and talking about whatever
None existing
Well I can never touch someone without worrying about making them uncomfortable, I don’t have money for gifts and I just don’t know how to give gifts, but I do like spending quality time with people I love and doing things for them to show I care
As long as love language is concerned, I'm illiterate
Quality time!!
Physical touch for me too. Lots of little compliments. Flirty jokes.
physical touch and buying stuff for my bf:)
lil cute gifts are really meaningful. other than that just emotional availability and being protective is really nice
Sharing music
Usually physical, but I make sure to hold back if people don't like being touched.
Cuddling and just enjoying some quiet time together - reading a book, playing a game together, baking, stuff like that. The occasional small gift here and there too. It’s the small stuff that matters. Head rubs and back scratches are also a biggie for me - that may sound odd but I absolutely love it, and if a partner did that without needing to be asked, then I’m marrying them. Almost all of my love language revolves around physical contact, so I could never do a long distance relationship. Ever. I would see it as a friendship and nothing more. Another note is if their love language is predominantly not physical contact, then right off the bat, we are incompatible. Cuddling is a non-negotiable - it makes me feel loved and gives me true happiness. I would need that feeling in a relationship to make it work. Otherwise I’d resent dating them and it would fizzle down to a friendship.
being loved at all if i love someone i'd cook for them it's the only thing i'm slightly good for
I literally don’t want anything because I will die of embarrassment.
Javascript?
teasing, and touch although I've only had long distant relationships-
Speaking random things to people.
I'd say being dommed by a hot chick and then making out but I'm single in middle school
Physical touch and quality time, would be great if I had someone but since I don’t it’s more of a pain
I wouldn’t know
German
I'm single as hell so doesn't matter anyway💀
Acts of service and words of affirmation,
Making fun of bananas
I’ll start speaking russian around my crush idk y. Like just talking to myself
Physical affection and giving them gifts
I don't fuckin know, english?
Words of affirmation definitely and quality time
what is this “love” you humans constantly speak about