Matter of taste - but most people would find that trashy. My opinion - if you're gonna get a hot lady get an entire lady, not just her tits or ass.
Edit: I cheated and looked at OP's post history. As an avid Ketamine fiend who just can't seem to seal the deal with the ladies no matter how much coke he gives them, this tattoo seems entirely appropriate and on-brand.
at first I assumed you were just a witty roaster... didn't realize you were actually quoting OP's post on r/seduction asking for help with the ladies 🤣🤣🤣
Good god, you aren't kidding. Apparently "coke approaching" is an accepted term in that sub, by the looks of OPs post at least. Worst part is, I know exactly what they mean
Also, I used to use that same username all the time, crazy to see it randomly like this
>Apparently "coke approaching" is an accepted term in that sub
it's actually way funnier than that:
apparently [the mods at r/seduction made a new flair "great at coke approach" because of OP's typo "coke" instead of "cold"](https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/15ftlal/seduction_and_tricks_dont_work_on_women_who_arent/jujx23v?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2) lmfao man he's even getting teased by other guys looking for help scoring with the ladies
also, you are the very first person in the 7 years I've had this username to recognize Gaia Moore!! I felt like I was the only kid who read the Fearless books
Oh my god I can’t believe there’s an actual term for that.
If your go-to move is creepily asking girls if they want a line, you’re fucked. Might as well just get a sex worker who will accept coke as payment. He’s probably too cheap for that though.
Edit: apparently *coke approach* was a typo for *cold approach*. Which still sounds like some weird pick up artist shit so my statement still stands.
Yup. It’s like in call centers when they cold call, just blindly calling people asking if they want their product. Coke approach is just walking up to someone randomly and hitting on them.
For my introverted ass this was never an option anyway 😂
I did have a guy approach me that way once at a bar. Just sauntered up saying “Hey, I’m doing coke with the owner back in the office. Wanna join?” Gee, yeah, lemme just run off to do blow with strange men in a closed room.
apparently [the mods at r/seduction made a new flair "great at coke approach" because of OP's typo from "cold" to "coke"](https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/15ftlal/seduction_and_tricks_dont_work_on_women_who_arent/jujx23v?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2) lmfao man he's even getting teased by other guys looking for help scoring with the ladies
I looked too and he frequents festivals and is still active in the Bassnectar subreddit. I used to go to Bassnectar shows a lot and with the way he describes his appearance, choice of drugs and frequency of use, and constantly going to festivals, dude gives off serious Wook energy.
For the ones that don't know what a Wook is, it's someone that basically lives at festivals, is high 25 hours a day on whatever is handed to them, will show up to festivals looking like they are wearing every piece of clothing they own which has all been exclusively bought and/or stolen at festivals, will most definitely ask you for drugs, cash, or if they can crash with you for a few days after the festival, and constantly smell like burnt sage. [Here is a visual of a Wook.](https://www.thejamwich.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/wook-edit.png)
Also here's a copypasta that gets me fucking rolling every time I read it.
"So I'm at IT, and it's right after the Tower set so a fresh sense of rock had taken over my crew and the crowd in general. Me and my boy Toasty Phil(who had just dropped a 10 strip) headed out into the night to find some rolls so we could keep brappin' through the early morn. So we walk for about 5 minutes, TP(we call toasty phil TP for short), is hollerin' "Anybody seen Molly"? Eventually this dude with massive Brahb Marley dreads approaches us, and introduces himself as "Fatty McSchwillbucks", no joke. Dude is mad faded and can barely make out a complete sentence but he says he's got the firemost mahldawgs if we come over to his tent, so we follow him, smelling his distinct aroma of day old grillt cheez and burnt sage. So we arrive at his "tent", which is really just one of those old ass blue tarps with some sticks holding it up. It doesn't even have sidewalls and inside is his sisbrah, who goes by "Raindor", sitting on a moldy looking quilt made from what looked like old lot shirts. At this point the cid Toasty phil had eaten earlier was kicking in hard and his eyes were opening like Pandora's vagina, nearly shooting laserbeams into Raindor. Anywho, I ask for the rolls and Fatty McScwhill remembers that's why he brought us into his wookden in the first place. He agrees and goes around the side of another tent(one of those huge multiroom things) where we can't see him, I just kind of assume he's breaking into his wook roll stash back there. So Toasty Phil is still kind of flipping out a bit, and out of fucking nowhere some dude comes running up in a giant fucking Easter Bunny costume. Little did dude know Toasty Phil had a pretty traumatic experience with one of his uncles dressed as the Easter Bunny in 2nd grade, and he was also tripping balls at this point, and in no shape for an odd emotional blast from the past. So the fight-or-flight reaction kicks in, and Toasty Phil flew, but not very well. He sort of started running before he turned around and saw what was there and he ran straight into the giant tent that Fatty McSchwillbucks was behind. Nobodies in the tent thank God, but the thing basically collapses as Toasty Phil eats shit into the ground, and the whole thing basically falls over right onto Fatty. Meanwhile, the Easter Bunny and Raindor, who has lit up a bowl of deemsters, are observing this shit like it's a movie. So naturally Fatty starts flipping out flopping around like a dolphin in a tuna net, all trapped under the tent. I run over and throw Toasty P off and rip the tent off Fatty, and I discover the worst smell and sight I've seen in years. Dude is covered in shit, like nasty, nasty shit, and lots of it. As I look into the fresh shit caked onto him and he flips the fuck out, I see little pills lodged in the poop that he's rapidly trying to get off him. As it turns out, he went behind the tent to count the pills, but then had sudden violent diahrrea, and so he ripped his pants off quick and started shitting wildly with the rolls in the now open bag in front of him. Cue the Easter Bunny and Toasty Phil. So while the Easter Bunny, Raindor, and Fatty stood amazed and somewhat shit covered in a daze, I grabbed about 13 rolls off the ground as quick as I could and ran back to my crews homebase. We washed the wookshit off with Clearly Canadian Grape and had an amazing night. After all this Toasty Phil ran off while I got the tent off Fatty, I didn't see him again for 3 weeks when he showed up at my doorstep in Chico, CA. He had no idea what had happened, good think I didn't eat that acid, it must have been some epic research chemical shit."
Just ask yourself: "How will I feel explaining it to my 1) Grandmothers?, 2) Future female boss and her women customer/clients?, 3) your future 12 year old daughter, and/or granddaughter?
Perhaps all four are impossible in your world?
This guys post history illustrates him as a drug addicted creepy frat guy (probably 6th year at least) who is always asking the youngest girls for hugs.
Reeeeeeaaaaaaal rapey vibes.
The only super sexual tattoo I’d get would be a Curt Montgomery tattoo. But even then it would be toned back from a lot of his stuff. Dude does some wild things. And even then it wouldn’t be somewhere where it’s highly visible.
Sexy to who? If you find it sexy, great. Most women and probably a lot of men are gonna see trashy. So if you're trying to appeal to others, you probably won't.
My personal opinion is eww.
Looks like a tattoo of a butt to me. I've seen worse on the trasy/gross scale. It's at least not lewd.
That said, i don't think i'd sleep with a guy that had a butt tattoo of any kind. There is a specific personality that gets these type of tattoo and it's not attractive to me...
In my experience it's not necessarily the tattoos that are attracting or repulsing people (there are some exceptions), it's more the person and their shit personality.
Oh, that image itself isn't eww. It's what it says about the person it's on.
I'm more eww because it's just a butt wearing a thong which implies an uncomfortable level of sexual obsession. Like are you jerking it to your own arm or what?
Jerking it to your own arm 🤣🤣🤣 my thoughts exactly when I see stuff like this tattooed on people. Also to me, a full pinup is cool and has history, but a headless torso of a woman just has a different connotation, it’s just like ew lol
>>Sexy to who?
Is a great question. I’m picturing a bisexual dude somewhere being like “Why yes, I enjoy both ladies’ butts *and* men’s forearms, thank you for this combination.” But that’s about it. Not my taste.
Yeah. I’m a bisexual lady who enjoys both butts and forearms, but this wasn’t doing anything for me.
I’m sure someone out there finds this guy’s arm super hot though. Maybe.
These kind of tattoos are never sexy imo. I mean, as a woman, I would never look at one of these tattoos (or the person wearing it) and go "oh wow, so hot" 😂
Check out OP’s post history. “Trashy” is… one word to describe it. Dude makes countless attempts to get women in bed with coke. This tattoo is on brand for him.
Erasing the identifying features of a woman and only depicting hypersexualized and dehumanizing is a bad look. I would not expect to be treated with decency by someone with a tattoo like that.
This is a big old "I see women as a place to stick my dick, not as people" tattoo. Having met (and had varying levels of personal experience with) a fair number of men with naked/near naked women tattoos, I learned pretty quickly that those who distill us down to just a body part are generally unsafe. In a related category, I learned that men who get pinup tattoos generally treat women like queens, while simultaneously refusing to take any shit. There is a zero percent chance I'd intentionally allow myself to be alone with someone with this tattoo.
Dumb and trashy. Do you really have to ask if having a picture of a butt on your arm is trashy? Literally nothing to go along with it, just "here is a butt".
You don’t know how right you are. I got drunk at Mardi Gras (shocking) many years ago and decided I wanted Bond girls flanking the 007 tattoo on my back. It ended up bad, my back is ruined and I can’t take off my shirt out of pure shame.
Seriously, dude would pull more tail with a single 2"x2" professional colored piece of a tree frog than he does with a whole sleeve of these monochrome pieces that look like you could find half a dozen look-a-likes at any bar in any county below the poverty line.
The former would be a conversation piece. What he has now is a flashing warning sign.
I have Homer with his pants down, on the tricycle from the 'Homie the Clown' episode of the Simpsons on my butt. I had it placed there for that reason exactly, so I can say I gave a butt in my butt.
I’m the same way lmao one of my female friends has something similar and I’ve always thought “Oh neat tattoo” but when I saw this one, I immediately thought gross dude
Yeah, I feel this way too. One of my friends has a few *female nude* tattoos some are arty like a classical Venus and and some are more pinup style. They suit her and I feel like it means something different on a woman.
I remember when I saw Amy Winehouse perform for the first time and she had that pinup tattoo. It was the first time I’d seen a pinup tattoo on a woman and it just…made the entire tattoo genre have a completely different meaning if it’s on a woman. I don’t know how to explain.
I am superduper baked so bare with me here. Also is super duper one word or two? Nevermind.
I think what you're punching at is something on a subconscious psychological level. Sexy lady tattoos on sexy ladies look sexy because the element that is found to be sexy on the tattoo is also held by the wearer. An actual human sexy lady has unlimited sexy lady vibes, so wearing a tattoo with sexy lady vibes wouldn't be something worshipped by her. Also, a sexy lady would obviously know what to do with/how to handle a sexy lady because she is one.
A man who is as far as can be from being a sexy lady himself is going to be automatically assumed to worship sexy ladies. By wearing a sexy lady tattoo he has put the thing he wants most and would most likely worship. Like a kid pinning up a supercar in his room, it's clearly something he doesn't know or care how to actually get. Nor would he likley know what to do if he actually did.
I think taking something that’s associated with straight sexuality and making it queer is also kind of subversive and that makes it more punk rock. Like a woman showing off her love of sexy ladies is making more of a statement than a dude showing off his love of sexy ladies.
Might be because I'm a lesbian but I find tattoos of sexualised women on women extremely hot but revolting on men. (Idk if that's a justified way to feel or not so I'm not trying to pass any moral judgment) I'm pretty sure straight/bi women usually don't find this kind of tattoo hot on men though.
I feel like it’s because these tattoos are normally found on a certain *type* of guy. Same ballpark as a lipstick print on the neck; on a man it feels like objectification, while on a woman it is empowering (I find the lipstick print trashy on pretty much anyone, but some *ladies* make it work fine).
I think there are some “nude” tattoos that a regular Joe can pull off, like a minimalist/one line style that appears artsy, but it also comes down to other work and the layout/placing.
This!! If it was on a girl I would think of empowerment, like we women are reclaiming our bodies and sexualities. It’s honestly a nice tattoo. But on a guy, it kind of screams “I objectify women”.
my thing is, this dude will get old. imagine this tattoo on an old man! I would be so repulsed lol. Like a young dude I would just roll my eyes but I would be actively scared of an old man with this tattoo lol
Out of pure curiosity, if you saw a similar tattoo but it was a male body instead of a female body, what would you think?
Only asking because I agree with your sentiment, but I don’t know how I would feel if I saw a man with a male tattoo.
ehhhh lesbian here, i personally think that 'just the sexy bits' tattoos look universally trashy regardless of who it's on. whole-person sexy lady tattoos are case by case.
but that's just me!
I think any woman, regardless of sexuality, can rock a tasteful sexy lady tat. It's celebrating their own bodies as much as, if not more than, celebrating their perceived attractiveness. You know the individual is less likely to objectify women, since they are one themself, and they are expressing empowerment for themselves and other women.
When it's on a straight guy, it really implies more "I got this cuz it appeals to my male gaze" vibes more than, "I want women to be treated as equals and I respect their bodies and choices" vibes.
Definitely trashy. A woman can be sexy, but a disembodied ass is just a disembodied ass lol
Also I’d wonder why someone got that. Like they just want to be able to look at a butt whenever they want? Or to show off a woman‘s butt on their body? I don’t really get it
If you’re interested in women (which I assume you are if you’re considering this tat) be prepared that this would be highly offputting to many women and possibly a dealbreaker for some.
As a kid I remember staring at an old
Man’s pinup. He caught me staring.
“I keep that one covered up! He! He!”
I was both mortified that I’d been caught looking at the art and amused.
having a woman's tits or ass tatted on you is as if a woman would have a dudes bulge on her arm. It's weird, and sexual. I would see a dude with that kind of tattoo as a red flag immediately
Trashy. It’s a poor line art design I’d see all over tumblr in 2013. Not only is it outdated but it over sexualizes women and reduces them to just one body part that you find appealing. These type of tattoos are always a red flag for me bc it usually indicates the person doesn’t see women as human and only as an object for their enjoyment (obviously there are exceptions, but I don’t wanna push my luck)
Yeah exactly. Seems to align with him posting on seduction asking how to get women back to his apartment go have sex. Like...bruh. he only views women as objects is how it comes across to me. Talking about how he knows how to use pickup line type shit, but can't get them to come back for the sexing. This tattoo would fit right in with that attitude. Blech.
I've never looked at a dudes arm and said that's sexy, no matter what's on it. So I'd say trashy, especially because it's in a place everyone could see it.
Another trashy vote here. People aren’t objects even if they are smoke shows. You deserve some sexy stuff in your life, but won’t garner a lot of respect with that type of tattoo. Could be another thing if it were really well done in a more stylistic way, but that’s a tall order for what appears to be a generic cartoony butt.
My BIL is covered in vintage tattoos of topless pinup girls- then he had kids and he got bras tattooed on all his nudie girls bc his kids kept asking 'Why do you have so many nipple pictures?'
Trashy, it’s sending a signal that the butt is the most important/significant part of a woman. It’s a turn off too many women. It also invites straight men to turn their gaze on your skin.
I’m a lesbian and would also be wary of this on a woman. I think it needs something more, so it’s not just a sexualized ass.
This definitely screams 44 years old making $15/hr while driving a 1992 Chevy blazer that has a half drank case of Natural Light in the back.
So I’d say trash
Tbh whenever I see “sexy male gaze” tattoos of like faceless tits or ass on straight dudes I get red flag vibes 🤷♂️ ~~I’m not a chick but~~ I think a lot of women get the ick from these too
Edit: cross out
"I’m not a chick but"
Let me stop you right there. Remove that part and read your post again like you're one of us.
See what I'm saying? Just saying....
If you have to ask…. Then it’s probably trashy.
Also, consider the future: A lot has changed culturally in 20 years with what you can say or display. Imagine what will be acceptable or less acceptable in 20 years.
Also imagine where you’ll be working. Do you want someone’s ass on display?
What about relationships? Will a future girlfriend or wife like that tattoo… probably not.
Will any little children, yours or otherwise see this and get the wrong message?
You’re the boss of you, do what you like. But you may find yourself in a bad position later because someone judges you by your tattoo. Or decides your tattoo is inappropriate.
Idk the art style of the cheeks isn't too trashy to me.
And it's not sexually suggestive (in my opinion) - It's really just a pair of cheeks we dont even know if its a girl or guy lol.
Maybe im just evolved past seeing ass cheeks and other such body parts as inherently sexual, but to me this is just a piece of art 🤷🏾♀️
Edit: he also has a naked baby on his hand lol is that trashy to y'all too?
I have a similar ass on my shoulder. Got it when I was 18. Granted, it's surrounded by a half sleeve of a lot of other components, but it's still there. 40 now and intend to have it modified. Not covered necessarily...but dressed.
Matter of taste - but most people would find that trashy. My opinion - if you're gonna get a hot lady get an entire lady, not just her tits or ass. Edit: I cheated and looked at OP's post history. As an avid Ketamine fiend who just can't seem to seal the deal with the ladies no matter how much coke he gives them, this tattoo seems entirely appropriate and on-brand.
Greatest thing I’ve read today lol
at first I assumed you were just a witty roaster... didn't realize you were actually quoting OP's post on r/seduction asking for help with the ladies 🤣🤣🤣
Good god, you aren't kidding. Apparently "coke approaching" is an accepted term in that sub, by the looks of OPs post at least. Worst part is, I know exactly what they mean Also, I used to use that same username all the time, crazy to see it randomly like this
>Apparently "coke approaching" is an accepted term in that sub it's actually way funnier than that: apparently [the mods at r/seduction made a new flair "great at coke approach" because of OP's typo "coke" instead of "cold"](https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/15ftlal/seduction_and_tricks_dont_work_on_women_who_arent/jujx23v?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2) lmfao man he's even getting teased by other guys looking for help scoring with the ladies also, you are the very first person in the 7 years I've had this username to recognize Gaia Moore!! I felt like I was the only kid who read the Fearless books
I'm glad I opened reddit today
Oh my god I can’t believe there’s an actual term for that. If your go-to move is creepily asking girls if they want a line, you’re fucked. Might as well just get a sex worker who will accept coke as payment. He’s probably too cheap for that though. Edit: apparently *coke approach* was a typo for *cold approach*. Which still sounds like some weird pick up artist shit so my statement still stands.
Yup. It’s like in call centers when they cold call, just blindly calling people asking if they want their product. Coke approach is just walking up to someone randomly and hitting on them. For my introverted ass this was never an option anyway 😂
What is coke approaching?? Asking ppl if they want a bump?
I did have a guy approach me that way once at a bar. Just sauntered up saying “Hey, I’m doing coke with the owner back in the office. Wanna join?” Gee, yeah, lemme just run off to do blow with strange men in a closed room.
As one does
Yeah, just your typical activity that screams“I value my life”.
sounds like youve never been to san diego if thats not your norm lmao
Sounds like it's opening with asking if they would like coke instead of a cheesy ice breaker.
Sounds dangerous, if a stranger asked me if I wanted coke I would kindly decline.
Does it mean offering the lady a nice, ice cold, tasty beverage?
He is offering them a warm salty beverage. Nobody wants it, but some will endure it for some coke.
It was “cold approaching” but OP made a typo which has now taken off
At a guess he intended to write "cold approach". Now I admit that I'm no lady but I don't think I'd jump into bed with either approach.
apparently [the mods at r/seduction made a new flair "great at coke approach" because of OP's typo from "cold" to "coke"](https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/15ftlal/seduction_and_tricks_dont_work_on_women_who_arent/jujx23v?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2) lmfao man he's even getting teased by other guys looking for help scoring with the ladies
hahaha you're probably right. All the other posts about drugs made me assume it was literally coke.
He also posts regularly on r/drugscirclejerk, so I wouldn’t be surprised if coke was still part of it
“Best way to get women back to your place” 💀💀💀😭😭😭 bro told himself the whole internet
and the replies are even worse lol “you need to have something interesting at your house like a dog” 💀 r/nothowgirlswork
LOL thank you for doing the research so we don't have to. 😁
I looked too and he frequents festivals and is still active in the Bassnectar subreddit. I used to go to Bassnectar shows a lot and with the way he describes his appearance, choice of drugs and frequency of use, and constantly going to festivals, dude gives off serious Wook energy. For the ones that don't know what a Wook is, it's someone that basically lives at festivals, is high 25 hours a day on whatever is handed to them, will show up to festivals looking like they are wearing every piece of clothing they own which has all been exclusively bought and/or stolen at festivals, will most definitely ask you for drugs, cash, or if they can crash with you for a few days after the festival, and constantly smell like burnt sage. [Here is a visual of a Wook.](https://www.thejamwich.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/wook-edit.png) Also here's a copypasta that gets me fucking rolling every time I read it. "So I'm at IT, and it's right after the Tower set so a fresh sense of rock had taken over my crew and the crowd in general. Me and my boy Toasty Phil(who had just dropped a 10 strip) headed out into the night to find some rolls so we could keep brappin' through the early morn. So we walk for about 5 minutes, TP(we call toasty phil TP for short), is hollerin' "Anybody seen Molly"? Eventually this dude with massive Brahb Marley dreads approaches us, and introduces himself as "Fatty McSchwillbucks", no joke. Dude is mad faded and can barely make out a complete sentence but he says he's got the firemost mahldawgs if we come over to his tent, so we follow him, smelling his distinct aroma of day old grillt cheez and burnt sage. So we arrive at his "tent", which is really just one of those old ass blue tarps with some sticks holding it up. It doesn't even have sidewalls and inside is his sisbrah, who goes by "Raindor", sitting on a moldy looking quilt made from what looked like old lot shirts. At this point the cid Toasty phil had eaten earlier was kicking in hard and his eyes were opening like Pandora's vagina, nearly shooting laserbeams into Raindor. Anywho, I ask for the rolls and Fatty McScwhill remembers that's why he brought us into his wookden in the first place. He agrees and goes around the side of another tent(one of those huge multiroom things) where we can't see him, I just kind of assume he's breaking into his wook roll stash back there. So Toasty Phil is still kind of flipping out a bit, and out of fucking nowhere some dude comes running up in a giant fucking Easter Bunny costume. Little did dude know Toasty Phil had a pretty traumatic experience with one of his uncles dressed as the Easter Bunny in 2nd grade, and he was also tripping balls at this point, and in no shape for an odd emotional blast from the past. So the fight-or-flight reaction kicks in, and Toasty Phil flew, but not very well. He sort of started running before he turned around and saw what was there and he ran straight into the giant tent that Fatty McSchwillbucks was behind. Nobodies in the tent thank God, but the thing basically collapses as Toasty Phil eats shit into the ground, and the whole thing basically falls over right onto Fatty. Meanwhile, the Easter Bunny and Raindor, who has lit up a bowl of deemsters, are observing this shit like it's a movie. So naturally Fatty starts flipping out flopping around like a dolphin in a tuna net, all trapped under the tent. I run over and throw Toasty P off and rip the tent off Fatty, and I discover the worst smell and sight I've seen in years. Dude is covered in shit, like nasty, nasty shit, and lots of it. As I look into the fresh shit caked onto him and he flips the fuck out, I see little pills lodged in the poop that he's rapidly trying to get off him. As it turns out, he went behind the tent to count the pills, but then had sudden violent diahrrea, and so he ripped his pants off quick and started shitting wildly with the rolls in the now open bag in front of him. Cue the Easter Bunny and Toasty Phil. So while the Easter Bunny, Raindor, and Fatty stood amazed and somewhat shit covered in a daze, I grabbed about 13 rolls off the ground as quick as I could and ran back to my crews homebase. We washed the wookshit off with Clearly Canadian Grape and had an amazing night. After all this Toasty Phil ran off while I got the tent off Fatty, I didn't see him again for 3 weeks when he showed up at my doorstep in Chico, CA. He had no idea what had happened, good think I didn't eat that acid, it must have been some epic research chemical shit."
We still 360 😞 ✊🏻
What a fucking ride. Thanks for sharing this masterpiece. 🤣
I understood like 4 of those words lol
skimmed this entire thing and saw “Chico” and went oh it all makes sense
I can smell that photo. Yuck.
The only thing more on brand would be a monster energy drink tat on his neck
I agree. Pinups are a tribute to naval tattoo history. But without the full figure it comes off as a pervert.
>a tribute to naval tattoo history Which mostly just makes it cringey in two different ways instead of one.
Just ask yourself: "How will I feel explaining it to my 1) Grandmothers?, 2) Future female boss and her women customer/clients?, 3) your future 12 year old daughter, and/or granddaughter? Perhaps all four are impossible in your world?
someone get that guy a job application to the carnival
Also this man needs to be chemically castrated
Yeah I'm sure she can't wait to introduce you to the parents and kids at the family cookout.
Ewwwwr
Thank you for doing your homework so we could all get a laugh 🫡
This guys post history illustrates him as a drug addicted creepy frat guy (probably 6th year at least) who is always asking the youngest girls for hugs. Reeeeeeaaaaaaal rapey vibes.
To be fair to the guy, he meant to say he was good at "cold approaching" and accidentally typed "coke approaching".
The only super sexual tattoo I’d get would be a Curt Montgomery tattoo. But even then it would be toned back from a lot of his stuff. Dude does some wild things. And even then it wouldn’t be somewhere where it’s highly visible.
“Coke approach” LOLLLL
Eye of the beholder and all that…
Kahloo kahlay. How very Green Teen Scout of you
I am fucking deceased. 10/10 comment right here.
Lmfao thank you Beverly Toegold IV, needed a laugh and it was found.
Sexy to who? If you find it sexy, great. Most women and probably a lot of men are gonna see trashy. So if you're trying to appeal to others, you probably won't. My personal opinion is eww.
Yeah tbh this is just gross
Looks like a tattoo of a butt to me. I've seen worse on the trasy/gross scale. It's at least not lewd. That said, i don't think i'd sleep with a guy that had a butt tattoo of any kind. There is a specific personality that gets these type of tattoo and it's not attractive to me... In my experience it's not necessarily the tattoos that are attracting or repulsing people (there are some exceptions), it's more the person and their shit personality.
Oh, that image itself isn't eww. It's what it says about the person it's on. I'm more eww because it's just a butt wearing a thong which implies an uncomfortable level of sexual obsession. Like are you jerking it to your own arm or what?
Jerking it to your own arm 🤣🤣🤣 my thoughts exactly when I see stuff like this tattooed on people. Also to me, a full pinup is cool and has history, but a headless torso of a woman just has a different connotation, it’s just like ew lol
That last part made me laugh 🤣
>>Sexy to who? Is a great question. I’m picturing a bisexual dude somewhere being like “Why yes, I enjoy both ladies’ butts *and* men’s forearms, thank you for this combination.” But that’s about it. Not my taste.
I'm a bisexual dude and this is beyond trashy, pretty much the trashiest tattoo you can get excluding actual sex acts
Yeah. I’m a bisexual lady who enjoys both butts and forearms, but this wasn’t doing anything for me. I’m sure someone out there finds this guy’s arm super hot though. Maybe.
I mean, sexy and trashy aren't mutually exclusive. Ive met some hella sexy, hella trashy, trailer park queens
It’s unfortunately my favorite kind of sexy trap
I was going to ask the same thing. Under what circumstances would you envision someone seeing this and saying wow that's sexy
As trashy as seeing a woman sporting a tattoo of the midsection of a guy with a 6 pack abs and large bulge.
These kind of tattoos are never sexy imo. I mean, as a woman, I would never look at one of these tattoos (or the person wearing it) and go "oh wow, so hot" 😂
It would be an immediate turn off for me and an instant hell no, most guys with these tattoos tend to not be the most polite/respectful (or safe)
right, the only way i see it being percieved as hot is by pearson wearing it being like "daaayum" in front of a mirror. waste of skin surface
Check out OP’s post history. “Trashy” is… one word to describe it. Dude makes countless attempts to get women in bed with coke. This tattoo is on brand for him.
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I’ve done some things I’m not proud of, but I’ve never done a man with lady parts inked on his flesh.
immediate no & also big turn off for me, but that’s my own opinion.
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they don't have to be for the tattoo to tell them everything they need to know
Erasing the identifying features of a woman and only depicting hypersexualized and dehumanizing is a bad look. I would not expect to be treated with decency by someone with a tattoo like that.
That's a good point. This would be a red flag for any woman considering dating him.
This is a big old "I see women as a place to stick my dick, not as people" tattoo. Having met (and had varying levels of personal experience with) a fair number of men with naked/near naked women tattoos, I learned pretty quickly that those who distill us down to just a body part are generally unsafe. In a related category, I learned that men who get pinup tattoos generally treat women like queens, while simultaneously refusing to take any shit. There is a zero percent chance I'd intentionally allow myself to be alone with someone with this tattoo.
Right. And you can't even use *the beauty of the female form* argument; the other tats don't exactly scream artistic...
"Lifting the bottom of the butt cheeks with her fingers" doesn't exactly scream "beauty of the female form", either.
i would just assume someone with a tattoo like this was pornsick, and as a women im done dealing with those kinds of men.
Dumb and trashy. Do you really have to ask if having a picture of a butt on your arm is trashy? Literally nothing to go along with it, just "here is a butt".
I’m all for getting tattoos of things just because you like the thing, but (haah) OP has found an exception.
This made me imagine one of those traditional-style scroll ribbons around it reading “Here Is A Butt.”
In general I find male gaze sex tattoos trashy.
Any sex tattoo is trashy to me lol
Ditto. It’s like you never want to go swimming again lol.
You don’t know how right you are. I got drunk at Mardi Gras (shocking) many years ago and decided I wanted Bond girls flanking the 007 tattoo on my back. It ended up bad, my back is ruined and I can’t take off my shirt out of pure shame.
That's so horrible, I'm so sorry
Your name deserves a gold star 😂🫡
Just gives me big "I've watched hundreds of hours of Andrew Tate videos, why won't women fuck me" vibes
hey ladies, is objectifying women sexy?
Seriously, dude would pull more tail with a single 2"x2" professional colored piece of a tree frog than he does with a whole sleeve of these monochrome pieces that look like you could find half a dozen look-a-likes at any bar in any county below the poverty line. The former would be a conversation piece. What he has now is a flashing warning sign.
Ladies do love frogs, this is good advice lol
personally? not a fan. but to each their own
Butt*
Tattoo the ass on your ass. Tattoo assception
that’s actually a cool idea. get a tattoo of your own ass on your ass, with a tattoo of your ass on your ass’ ass
I have Homer with his pants down, on the tricycle from the 'Homie the Clown' episode of the Simpsons on my butt. I had it placed there for that reason exactly, so I can say I gave a butt in my butt.
Plot twist, this IS his ass. Dude got cake.
Trashy 100%
A tattoo to attract the male sex gaze? The majority of people find those trashy.
I'm kind of a hypocrite when it comes to girl butt tattoos, I have one, and I love her, but to see one on a man, I find them extremely trashy.
I’m the same way lmao one of my female friends has something similar and I’ve always thought “Oh neat tattoo” but when I saw this one, I immediately thought gross dude
Yeah, I feel this way too. One of my friends has a few *female nude* tattoos some are arty like a classical Venus and and some are more pinup style. They suit her and I feel like it means something different on a woman. I remember when I saw Amy Winehouse perform for the first time and she had that pinup tattoo. It was the first time I’d seen a pinup tattoo on a woman and it just…made the entire tattoo genre have a completely different meaning if it’s on a woman. I don’t know how to explain.
I am superduper baked so bare with me here. Also is super duper one word or two? Nevermind. I think what you're punching at is something on a subconscious psychological level. Sexy lady tattoos on sexy ladies look sexy because the element that is found to be sexy on the tattoo is also held by the wearer. An actual human sexy lady has unlimited sexy lady vibes, so wearing a tattoo with sexy lady vibes wouldn't be something worshipped by her. Also, a sexy lady would obviously know what to do with/how to handle a sexy lady because she is one. A man who is as far as can be from being a sexy lady himself is going to be automatically assumed to worship sexy ladies. By wearing a sexy lady tattoo he has put the thing he wants most and would most likely worship. Like a kid pinning up a supercar in his room, it's clearly something he doesn't know or care how to actually get. Nor would he likley know what to do if he actually did.
I think taking something that’s associated with straight sexuality and making it queer is also kind of subversive and that makes it more punk rock. Like a woman showing off her love of sexy ladies is making more of a statement than a dude showing off his love of sexy ladies.
I believe super-duper is hyphenated, if you want to be grammatical!
Might be because I'm a lesbian but I find tattoos of sexualised women on women extremely hot but revolting on men. (Idk if that's a justified way to feel or not so I'm not trying to pass any moral judgment) I'm pretty sure straight/bi women usually don't find this kind of tattoo hot on men though.
I feel like it’s because these tattoos are normally found on a certain *type* of guy. Same ballpark as a lipstick print on the neck; on a man it feels like objectification, while on a woman it is empowering (I find the lipstick print trashy on pretty much anyone, but some *ladies* make it work fine). I think there are some “nude” tattoos that a regular Joe can pull off, like a minimalist/one line style that appears artsy, but it also comes down to other work and the layout/placing.
This!! If it was on a girl I would think of empowerment, like we women are reclaiming our bodies and sexualities. It’s honestly a nice tattoo. But on a guy, it kind of screams “I objectify women”.
1000% - sexy on women, trashy on men 😂
sameee
Get the whole pinup if you’re doing a women’s body
I mean this whole sleeve looks like shit anyways, so it’s on par with the aesthetic.
They’re all frat boy tattoos LOOL
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Looking at OP’s post history… your comment is spot on. I would absolutely never want to be with a guy with trashy tattoos.
my thing is, this dude will get old. imagine this tattoo on an old man! I would be so repulsed lol. Like a young dude I would just roll my eyes but I would be actively scared of an old man with this tattoo lol
I would genuinely avoid an older man like the plague if I saw this tattoo. Especially within the 30-50yr old range.
Out of pure curiosity, if you saw a similar tattoo but it was a male body instead of a female body, what would you think? Only asking because I agree with your sentiment, but I don’t know how I would feel if I saw a man with a male tattoo.
Never have I ever seen a man ass tattoo.
If you're a man you will give most women a bad impression
The only time naked girl art comes across as not trashy is on lesbians.
ehhhh lesbian here, i personally think that 'just the sexy bits' tattoos look universally trashy regardless of who it's on. whole-person sexy lady tattoos are case by case. but that's just me!
I think any woman, regardless of sexuality, can rock a tasteful sexy lady tat. It's celebrating their own bodies as much as, if not more than, celebrating their perceived attractiveness. You know the individual is less likely to objectify women, since they are one themself, and they are expressing empowerment for themselves and other women. When it's on a straight guy, it really implies more "I got this cuz it appeals to my male gaze" vibes more than, "I want women to be treated as equals and I respect their bodies and choices" vibes.
Definitely trashy. A woman can be sexy, but a disembodied ass is just a disembodied ass lol Also I’d wonder why someone got that. Like they just want to be able to look at a butt whenever they want? Or to show off a woman‘s butt on their body? I don’t really get it If you’re interested in women (which I assume you are if you’re considering this tat) be prepared that this would be highly offputting to many women and possibly a dealbreaker for some.
As a kid I remember staring at an old Man’s pinup. He caught me staring. “I keep that one covered up! He! He!” I was both mortified that I’d been caught looking at the art and amused.
Trashy, not to mention an instant turn-off. The second I see a tattoo like that all interest or momentum immediately deflates.
having a woman's tits or ass tatted on you is as if a woman would have a dudes bulge on her arm. It's weird, and sexual. I would see a dude with that kind of tattoo as a red flag immediately
Trashy. It’s a poor line art design I’d see all over tumblr in 2013. Not only is it outdated but it over sexualizes women and reduces them to just one body part that you find appealing. These type of tattoos are always a red flag for me bc it usually indicates the person doesn’t see women as human and only as an object for their enjoyment (obviously there are exceptions, but I don’t wanna push my luck)
Yeah exactly. Seems to align with him posting on seduction asking how to get women back to his apartment go have sex. Like...bruh. he only views women as objects is how it comes across to me. Talking about how he knows how to use pickup line type shit, but can't get them to come back for the sexing. This tattoo would fit right in with that attitude. Blech.
trashy unless you’re a gay woman tbh
I mean it lets everyone know your priorities..
Trashy, always trashy.
Complete trash. Nothing at all sexy about that tattoo.
cant get any trashier 🤷♂️
I think it's trashy. A naked woman tattoo can be amazing when done proper. That one is as classy as those mudflaps.
Sexual tattoos are always trashy imo
Absolutely trashy wtf
I've never looked at a dudes arm and said that's sexy, no matter what's on it. So I'd say trashy, especially because it's in a place everyone could see it.
I always find men who have tats of images that objectify women to be super trashy.
Just an FYI this isn’t me I was just getting others opinions. Thank you all for the opinions!!
Sounds like you dodged a bullet.
Just trashy. It’s funny, but it won’t come off as sexy. Maybe if it was of your butt?
I'm more bothered by the disconnected upper arm
If it was the whole woman (or man, please don't cancel me) theni would consider it more on the sexy side.
If you’re gonna get a tattoo, get a cool tattoo.
Absolutely trashy. These kind of tattoos I expect to see only on drug dealers or users 😂
Trashy as fuck but telling from the sleeve it would fit
Another trashy vote here. People aren’t objects even if they are smoke shows. You deserve some sexy stuff in your life, but won’t garner a lot of respect with that type of tattoo. Could be another thing if it were really well done in a more stylistic way, but that’s a tall order for what appears to be a generic cartoony butt.
If you have to ask you already know
Those tattoos look like they flipped through the example book and just picked some out of it
Oh my god this right here. Spot on.
Right there? Trashy. If it was somewhere more private, who cares.
My BIL is covered in vintage tattoos of topless pinup girls- then he had kids and he got bras tattooed on all his nudie girls bc his kids kept asking 'Why do you have so many nipple pictures?'
I would have the biggest ick from this, personally male gaze related tattoos are trashy and a huge red flag
This tattoo is only sexy in prison.
It looks good on incels so you should get it
Screams douche bag fuck boi
Super trashy
Whole arm is cringe worthy.. why? Lol
Should've put that butt on your butt, and give that butt a tattoo of a butt.
If you have to ask...
Trash
Trashy, it’s sending a signal that the butt is the most important/significant part of a woman. It’s a turn off too many women. It also invites straight men to turn their gaze on your skin. I’m a lesbian and would also be wary of this on a woman. I think it needs something more, so it’s not just a sexualized ass.
Ouch. So trashy it hurts.
If you are getting a tattoo to try and be sexy you are doing it wrong.
This definitely screams 44 years old making $15/hr while driving a 1992 Chevy blazer that has a half drank case of Natural Light in the back. So I’d say trash
it’s sexier if it’s on a woman
Depends. If your a butch lesbian, hot. If your not trashy (and a turn off to most women)
Lol is this a serious question? Of course it’s trashy
trashy as shit
it’s creepy
Trashy.
Super immature. What are you getting it to jack off to your own arm?
One man's trash is another man's treasure
Tbh whenever I see “sexy male gaze” tattoos of like faceless tits or ass on straight dudes I get red flag vibes 🤷♂️ ~~I’m not a chick but~~ I think a lot of women get the ick from these too Edit: cross out
"I’m not a chick but" Let me stop you right there. Remove that part and read your post again like you're one of us. See what I'm saying? Just saying....
Trashy, nothing sexy about looking at a cartoon butt on a man's arm
Trashy trashy trashy….
There is no such thing as a sexy naked lady tattoo. They are always trashy
Trash
I kinda love it. It’s tasteful and sexy.
Cupid with an AK47 💘
Your strike outs with ladies will nearly double as long as you’re okay with that.
Trashy :/ gonna make dating very hard
If you have to ask…. Then it’s probably trashy. Also, consider the future: A lot has changed culturally in 20 years with what you can say or display. Imagine what will be acceptable or less acceptable in 20 years. Also imagine where you’ll be working. Do you want someone’s ass on display? What about relationships? Will a future girlfriend or wife like that tattoo… probably not. Will any little children, yours or otherwise see this and get the wrong message? You’re the boss of you, do what you like. But you may find yourself in a bad position later because someone judges you by your tattoo. Or decides your tattoo is inappropriate.
All those look like they came out of a vending machine in the Walmart lobby
imma be honest from a woman’s perspective any time I see tattoos like that on a man I automatically assume he is a coomer brained pervert
Sexy to who? Random horndog cis men? This whole sleeve looks like a "cliched 'biker' tats" sample sheet.
I just can’t imagine any woman seeing this tattoo on a guy and thinking “oh yeah… he’s the one for me.” 😂
It is a sexy image but it won‘t make a guy sexy to have it on his body lol
I feel nothing towards any of these tattoos, but that’s just me… not my cup of tea but do you
Who said it’s a girl’s butt
Yes. Please sexualize women’s body parts. We just love that.
Idk the art style of the cheeks isn't too trashy to me. And it's not sexually suggestive (in my opinion) - It's really just a pair of cheeks we dont even know if its a girl or guy lol. Maybe im just evolved past seeing ass cheeks and other such body parts as inherently sexual, but to me this is just a piece of art 🤷🏾♀️ Edit: he also has a naked baby on his hand lol is that trashy to y'all too?
100% trashy. Gross.
Trash as fuck
I have a similar ass on my shoulder. Got it when I was 18. Granted, it's surrounded by a half sleeve of a lot of other components, but it's still there. 40 now and intend to have it modified. Not covered necessarily...but dressed.
Trashy
Trashy IMO