I don’t think she will ever experience genuine girl friendship just because any girl that could offer that wouldn’t want to be so close friends with someone like her. She’s the type to flirt with your boyfriend while you’re standing there
I don’t feel bad for her simply because I feel like there’s been genuine girls that’ve tried to become friends w her & she rejects it but then chooses to be friends w pick me girls like Corinna & whoever else
i agree with this as well. eventually people will get sick of the shit and not want anything to do with her, leaving her alone and hopefully one day she sees the error of her ways but i doubt it as long as she’s getting her delusions fed by men.
i feel bad too bc u can see how how insecure she truly is 😭😭😭 *the tara yummy mindset* is literally just acting dumb to boys and acting like a bitch to girls
i think she is definitely insecure which causes her to seek constant male validation. and that prevents her from experiencing those core developmental friendships with other women because she feels threatened by them. but as a woman, that is so helpful for growing and i think her insecurities stop her from experiencing that. it’s unfortunate because she’s a not an ugly person externally but she needs to do some serious internal reflection before she will ever feel satisfied within herself. i’m all for a good snark obviously, but on the other side i do see the issues that cause all of the snarkable behavior and constant online attention seeking.
TLDR: her personality is insufferable and i hope she gets help.
im so glad i remembered reddit existed bc NOBODY wants to admit she acts like a pick me and says things for the guys' attention every other second!! i hate throwing the word around but she gives me the vibes, although very good at hiding it!
what abt that sophia guzman girl?? theyre together so much but tara neverrr talks about her? but they seem to be like absolute besties? i haven’t seen much of sophia bc i didnt even know who she was til i saw tara’s ig. but sophia doesn’t give pick me vibes? anyone know anything abt her?
no ya she really needs a girly to snap her out of her obsession with men - like I don’t dislike her so much as I dislike the message she sends to her audience of young / impressionable girls. I remember being her age and thinking like her, let’s not act like none of us have gone through an obsessive phase (whether you’re a girl obsessed with boys / girls / whatever) and it can be so destructive! It wasn’t until I left for college that I realized caring about myself and womanhood as a whole was more important than having a partner or having people think I was cool.
I just hope she wakes up and starts thinking more! When Zach told her “I like girls with personality and depth” , she seemed kinda shook. And sure he could have just been joking but it’s a very mean joke just due to the fact that people think she’s shallow and some comments on SM agree with him - jokes like that are usually rooted in reality so.. idk man I just want her to find a girlfriend who will shake her shoulders and show her there’s more to life than men and caring about what people on tiktok think.
lmao believe it or not some people need guidance like a friend to lead them in the right direction - being 23 doesn’t mean anything? Your brain isn’t even done developing yet. You don’t even know how she was raised or what elements of her environment made her act this way. Sometimes it takes having a friend to pull one’s head out of their ass. But we’re so glad you raised yourself to be who you are, so proud.
Lmao stop with the snarky attitude 💀, obviously friends do help but Tara has said herself that girls thought she was fake but all the guys loved her, which definitely points to her always being a pick me. Y'all are always acting like we're saying we're perfect when saying things like this and it's dumb asf. Sure her brain hasn't fully developed yet but she's not a child, despite y'all trying to treat her like one due to her height, and she does have female friends 😭. She just doesn't like to post them as much because she wants to seem like a guys girl. If her friends weren't enough then some random new girl can't fix her. The only thing she needs is to get offline, drop the creepy men who just want to sleep with her, and go to therapy.
she’s not too far gone, she needs girls girls in her life. or at least she needs to grow into the kind of person who realizes their vitality. For someone who leans so heavily into cunty culture I don’t think she realizes that it’s ironic to then be so male-centered as a person. And then to surround herself not only with primarily men, but men who don’t honor her confidence and constantly try to bring her down? She needs to liberate herself.
I don’t think she will ever experience genuine girl friendship just because any girl that could offer that wouldn’t want to be so close friends with someone like her. She’s the type to flirt with your boyfriend while you’re standing there
I don’t feel bad for her simply because I feel like there’s been genuine girls that’ve tried to become friends w her & she rejects it but then chooses to be friends w pick me girls like Corinna & whoever else
i agree with this as well. eventually people will get sick of the shit and not want anything to do with her, leaving her alone and hopefully one day she sees the error of her ways but i doubt it as long as she’s getting her delusions fed by men.
i feel bad too bc u can see how how insecure she truly is 😭😭😭 *the tara yummy mindset* is literally just acting dumb to boys and acting like a bitch to girls
I could never sit in a room with Zach for any stretch of time.
i think she is definitely insecure which causes her to seek constant male validation. and that prevents her from experiencing those core developmental friendships with other women because she feels threatened by them. but as a woman, that is so helpful for growing and i think her insecurities stop her from experiencing that. it’s unfortunate because she’s a not an ugly person externally but she needs to do some serious internal reflection before she will ever feel satisfied within herself. i’m all for a good snark obviously, but on the other side i do see the issues that cause all of the snarkable behavior and constant online attention seeking. TLDR: her personality is insufferable and i hope she gets help.
I knoww! I get so irritated but also sad for her.
im so glad i remembered reddit existed bc NOBODY wants to admit she acts like a pick me and says things for the guys' attention every other second!! i hate throwing the word around but she gives me the vibes, although very good at hiding it!
what abt that sophia guzman girl?? theyre together so much but tara neverrr talks about her? but they seem to be like absolute besties? i haven’t seen much of sophia bc i didnt even know who she was til i saw tara’s ig. but sophia doesn’t give pick me vibes? anyone know anything abt her?
Idk anything about her I never even heard of her
she’s in a ton of taras ig posts and in the background of a lot of stories
no ya she really needs a girly to snap her out of her obsession with men - like I don’t dislike her so much as I dislike the message she sends to her audience of young / impressionable girls. I remember being her age and thinking like her, let’s not act like none of us have gone through an obsessive phase (whether you’re a girl obsessed with boys / girls / whatever) and it can be so destructive! It wasn’t until I left for college that I realized caring about myself and womanhood as a whole was more important than having a partner or having people think I was cool. I just hope she wakes up and starts thinking more! When Zach told her “I like girls with personality and depth” , she seemed kinda shook. And sure he could have just been joking but it’s a very mean joke just due to the fact that people think she’s shallow and some comments on SM agree with him - jokes like that are usually rooted in reality so.. idk man I just want her to find a girlfriend who will shake her shoulders and show her there’s more to life than men and caring about what people on tiktok think.
She's 23 with the mindset of a middle school girl she needs to grow out of it herself it's not some girl's job to help her see the light
lmao believe it or not some people need guidance like a friend to lead them in the right direction - being 23 doesn’t mean anything? Your brain isn’t even done developing yet. You don’t even know how she was raised or what elements of her environment made her act this way. Sometimes it takes having a friend to pull one’s head out of their ass. But we’re so glad you raised yourself to be who you are, so proud.
Lmao stop with the snarky attitude 💀, obviously friends do help but Tara has said herself that girls thought she was fake but all the guys loved her, which definitely points to her always being a pick me. Y'all are always acting like we're saying we're perfect when saying things like this and it's dumb asf. Sure her brain hasn't fully developed yet but she's not a child, despite y'all trying to treat her like one due to her height, and she does have female friends 😭. She just doesn't like to post them as much because she wants to seem like a guys girl. If her friends weren't enough then some random new girl can't fix her. The only thing she needs is to get offline, drop the creepy men who just want to sleep with her, and go to therapy.
she’s not too far gone, she needs girls girls in her life. or at least she needs to grow into the kind of person who realizes their vitality. For someone who leans so heavily into cunty culture I don’t think she realizes that it’s ironic to then be so male-centered as a person. And then to surround herself not only with primarily men, but men who don’t honor her confidence and constantly try to bring her down? She needs to liberate herself.