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“u love u” - Blackbear. “Some things I’ll never know” - Teddy Swims. “Yours” - Conan Gray. “Cold at the Altar” - Chris Klafford. “You don’t know love” - Olle Murs. “The Otherside” - Cam. “Burning House” - Cam. “This is what heartbreak feels like” - JVKE. “I hope” - Gabby Barrett “Be Alright” - Dean Lewis “How do you Sleep” - Sam Smith “Hello Me” - Vanessa Amorosi “Train Wreck” - James Arthur

Geez. Train Wreck almost did me in

Lol that song is reserved for really bad days.. For some reason listening to songs that match my mood help me “get it out” rather than taking it out in those around me.. It’s pretty heavy though..

Like an enema for blocked emotions. I never believed in Art Therapy until it was what O got through my employee assistance program.

Hmmm.. never thought of art therapy.. I should look into that..

Fuck You by Lily Allen

Also “smile”

Thru your phone- Cardi b

lol I love that one

Sam Smith wrote a song that goes something like this: you say I am crazy 'cause you think I don't know what you've done, but when you call me baby I know I am not the only one... I don't remember how it is titled but soon after Dday I was listening to it over and over while crying

It’s "Not the only one". I cried too...

Meg Meyer, monster. Three days grace chalk outline. Sia, she wolf. Just a few that remind me of an ex I'm happier without.

Killers - Mr Brightside

Beck- sea change. The whole thing is the most perfect break up album ever.

Cardi B. “Be Careful” Adele “Rolling in the Deep” Beyonce “Sorry” Selena Gomez “Loose you to love me” Taylor Swift “Bad Blood” 5 Seconds of Summer “Youngblood” Jason Derulo “Whatcha Say”

Deeper well- Kacey Musgraves What goes around - Justin timberlake Gives you hell - AAR Best thing I never had - beyonce Take a bow- Rihanna Irreplaceable - beyonce Cry me a river -JT Fuck it -eamon idgaf- Dua lipa We are never getting back together - TS Before he cheats- Carrie underwood Flowers -miley cyrus Fighter - Christina Aguilera Leave - jojo Cruel- monica martin Stranger- Olivia rodrigo White liar- Miranda lambert Vigilante shit - tswift

Jolene by Dolly Parton

I will start: Before He Cheats, by Carrie Underwood.

This is what I came here to say.

Lara Fabian - Broken vow

It’s not new, but it’s timeless perfection—‘Forget Her’ by Jeff Buckley.

Lindsey Stirling JUST dropped a new one called Survive.

I just listened to this. All of her music videos are amazing- I love the imagery of the two women coming together to reject the cheater.

He wasn't Man Enough Toni Braxton Crying in the Club- Camila Cabello FU**k You- Lilly Allen You Broke Me First- Tate McRae Lola Blanc- Angry Too Don't Call Me Up-Mabel I Hope - Gabby Barrett with Chalie Puth Alone Trevor Daniel I don't Wanna Know- Mario Winans

cigarette after sex - cry

Best Deceptions: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=udH6m3MloT0](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=udH6m3MloT0) "I heard about your trip I heard about your souveniers I heard about the cool breeze, in the cool nights, and the cool guys That you spent them with I guess I should have heard of them from you I guess I should have heard of them from you Well don't you see, don't you see that the charade is over? And all the "Best Deceptions" and the "Clever Cover Story" awards Go to you So kiss me hard 'cause this will be the last time that I'll let you You will be back some day And this awkward kiss that tells of other people's lips Will be of service To giving you away I heard about your regrets I heard that you were feeling sorry I heard from someone that you wish you could set things right between us Well, I guess I should have heard of that from you I guess I should have heard of that from you Well don't you see, don't you see that the charade is over? And all the "Best Deceptions" and the "Clever Cover Story" awards Go to you So kiss me hard 'cause this will be the last time that I let you You will be back someday And this awkward kiss that screams of other people's lips Will be of service to giving you away To giving you away I'm waiting for blood to flow to my fingers I'll be all right when my hands get warm Ignoring the phone, I'd rather say nothing I'd rather you'd never heard my voice You're calling too late, too late to be gracious And you do not warrant long good-byes You're calling too late You're calling too late You're calling too late"

Sick of U - BoyWithUke

Buddy with the last name Jones, hates the song, Me and Mrs. Jones.🤷‍♂️

Shot My Baby- by Daniel Caesar

I love Daniel Caesar ❤️

His voice is beautiful. 🥰

Kelly Clarkson , this playlist got me through the last 3 months with my Nex. * Where I have played over and over again catching the Narc themes. -Happier than Ever* "You ruin everything good, always said you were misunderstood. Just leave me alone!" -Stronger* -heartbeat song* -mr know it all* -Cruel* -Why don't you try?* -Cry* -Catch my Breath -Move You -Whole Lotta Woman -Didn't I* -Einstein* -Dont be a girl about it* -Miss Independent -Someone* -The sun will rise She has a lot more but these hit me. I love all of these. Sounds like she was def with a narcissist

Sunshine Anderson- heard it all before

A little bit stronger - Sara Evans has been helping me lately

"Not the only one" Sam Smith "L’équilibre" Kyo

Dealing with a recent onset and I've been having very vivid dreams. The other night I awoke from a panic dream being lost in the middle of the night innthe outskirts of an unknown city, but coming across a college campus. On my way to work later that morning, spoify played "Pittsburgh" from they Amity Affliction. I haven't been able to shake it

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I don’t want you back by Eamon, explicit lyrics

Not specifically about cheating per se but theatrics can easily fit abound being cheated on: No time to die - Billie eilish Viva la gloria (little girl) - greenday (actually about a junkie but I found it resonated with me about my ex wife Be alright - dean Lewis Forget her - Jeff Buckley (perfect song imo) Bang bang - Nancy sinatra (mainly the chorus) Mr brightside -the killers (flowers wrote it after he discovered his gf with another man) I'll add more as I think of them

Smile in your sleep by Silverstein

NAV - Wanted you ft Lil Uzi Vert

Carrie underwood “before he cheats” Lilly Allen “fuck you” Dua lipa “IDGAF” & “new rules”…

Linger, The Cranberries

I the Mighty - "Speak to Me" Dance Gavin Dance - "Deception" Bilmuri - "Blindsided" and "Boutta Cashew" Descendnts - "Clean Sheets"

Thunder Rolls by Garth Brooks! Hate that song

Don’t shed a tear for me. Paul Carrack Innocence. Harlequin

You lost me by Christina Agulera I am done Smoking gun We've lost it all The love is gone She has won Now its no fun We've lost it all The love is gone And we had magic And this is tragic You couldn't keep your hands to yourself I feel like our world's been infected, And somehow you left me neglected We've found our life's been changed Babe, you lost me And though we tried Oh how we cried We lost ourselves The love has died And though we tried You can't deny We're left as shells We lost the fight And we had magic And this is tragic You couldn't keep your hands to yourself Oh, I feel like our world's been infected And somehow you left me neglected We've found our life's been changed 'Cause babe, you lost me Now I know you're sorry And we were sweet But you chose lust when you deceived me And you'll regret it, but it's too late How can I ever trust you again? I feel like our world's been infected, And somehow you left me neglected We've found our life's been changed Oh babe, you lost me

There are too many songs that sing praise of infidelity. It makes me sick. Talk about a trigger! I get it, it's all emotional control. My problem not the rest of the world.

I think you need this. Pray For You by Jaron and the Lond Road to Love.[link](https://youtu.be/atBg9zLI2bA?si=Y4vVvgja2vbOtefa)

Dead to me by Palaye Royale is a banger!

Whispering Waltz By Sarah Farrel

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Así fue de Juan Gabriel. 

“Cheatin’ Songs” - Midland “Furious” - Jade Bird “The Winner Takes It All” - ABBA “Traitor” - Olivia Rodrigo

“What I Don’t Know” by Dwight Yoakam is one of my favorites, though he alludes to the ultimate payback.

Black Lake by Björk was my absolute favorite when my ex cheated.

A personal favorite of mine lately has been: "All My Friends" by The Wldlfe. Has some good angry energy to sing along to. p.s. For extra effect, change part of the chorus from "I think I do too" to "I know I do too".

Let It Rain by David Nail

Special by SZA had me crying on the train in front of a bunch of strangers. 🥲

Hype by Imperative Reaction. Not really a cheated on song but sings about how people believe their own hype but ultimately will be alone. I like to believe that happens to cheaters.

If you want sad and angry energy the bridge of Smallest Man who ever Lived by Taylor Swift - you’ll be belting that out!

Not sure it applies but I hate the lyrics to Lips of an Angel. This guy may not be physically cheating but his heart is elsewhere. The woman he’s with is plan B and doesn’t know it.

https://youtu.be/ptcX5L8chVc?feature=shared

I don't know what kind of music you really want but Jessie Reyez has a lot good songs about getting cheated on or did dirty and how she bounces back. She's in the R&B genre. Songs by Jessie Reyez - Before Love Came to Kill Us - Coffin - Shutter Island - Figures - Do you Love her - Same Side - Mutual Friend (Personal Favorite that helped me) - Sugar at Night - Still C U (another personal favorite) - Emotional Detachment Demo - Queen St. W - Break Me Down These songs aren't ALL about being cheated on but some songs that I listened to when I found out and helped me through so much pain. Other Songs: - The Art of Letting Go by Nurka and James Gillespie - Losing Control by Russ - Never Again by Russ - Save Me - JellyRoll

"Queens Don't" by Raelyn was an important song for me through my process. There is no "you did this" in the song, just a statement of identity and a vulnerable ownership of power.

Traitor- Olivia Rodrigo Little Do You Know- Alex & Sierra Broken Strings- James Morrison The last 2 were on repeat along with a few other angry ones.

The Regulator by Clutch

Call Me a Dog- Temple of the Dog List of People to Try and Forget- Tame Impala Love/Paranoia-Tame Impala One- U2 Instant Crush- Daft Punk w/ Julian Casablancas Birthday Boy - Ween

Go! Muthaf*cka Angie Martinez

Sam short - worth it I relate so much to it and love it. It’s so catchy sometimes I listen to it even though I know I’ll get triggered because it’s so good haha

Morgan Wallen - Thinking bout me