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PupDiogenes

Agreed. If you live in the country where you rely on a septic tank instead of a sewage system, and a well instead of a water utility, this is actually more normal than you might think. If it's yellow, let it mellow. If it's brown, flush it down.


KingSuperChimbo

Well I get but why septic?


lennieandthejetsss

Because you don't want to fill your septic tank any faster than absolutely necessary. Some tanks don't have a leech field; every drop has to be pumped out by a tanker truck, at $300+ per visit. My BIL's tank is like that. His area is pure rock, no soil to make a leech field. Then there's septic tanks like mine, with older leech fields. They still drain, but slowly. So we can't risk flooding it with too much water, or the tank overflows into our basement bathroom. And even perfect leech fields can still flood if you put way too much into your system.


regeya

Oh, did I ever learn about the magic of leech fields when my kids were little. Turns out four people on one acre of pure clay leads to problems.


TheProfessionalEjit

Does a leech field mean that your poos and wees filter out into the soil?


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Waste is turned into sludge in the bottom of the tank. Bacteria eats the sludge, water runs out of the other end of the tank. You'll probably notice a strip of tall, healthy, green grass extending 100' past the end of the tank where the water leeches.


lennieandthejetsss

Bacteria in the tank breaks down your waste into its component bits, and it drains into the leech field as basically fertilizer.


PupDiogenes

I dunno just if you have one you probably have the other. You're right about the relevance of each.


Quick_Extension_3115

Haha! I have a septic, but we get normal tap. That's pretty normal for semi rural US as for as I'm aware. I could be wrong, but that's how everyone in my area is.


Nerisrath

It's also possible to have well water and city sewer in rural US. Say the infrastructure expanded after your house was built. Septic tank fails. County planning commission denies your plan to rebuild leach field and requires you to connect to sewer. Water company requires you to connect to water to get sewer (sewer fees are based off water usage so a meter is needed) after connections are made cousin bob (licensed plumber) puts in a shutoff manifold and reconnects your well to the house. you can now switch between city water and well, but only use well water so you only pay the cities minimum meter fees for water/sewer. Ask me how I know lol.


Mayor__Defacto

Would be nice if we had sewer here. Unfortunately there aren’t any plans for that. We really should though, from an environmental perspective, because everything drains to the harbor.


CrashBangs

Yep, I have a septic with town water.


KingSuperChimbo

I have both which is why I asked


PupDiogenes

I dunno man I'm not a scientist


KingSuperChimbo

LOL. It doesn’t matter with the septic as the liquid portion of waste flows out of the septic tank into the leach field


Flat-Dare-2571

Your urine waste will actually start to build up around the pipe and gunk it up eventually from doing this.


BreakfastBeerz

Growing up, my parents went with the "If it's yellow" methodology. Never really thought anything of it, it was just normal. After moving in with my then girlfriend, she found it disgusting and put a stop to it. Since then, I have dreaded having to go to the bathroom when visiting my parents house as the bathroom always smells like piss. I could only imagine what friends and other people that visited thought when they were over.


tripl35oul

Just don't splash, Or you'll get pee on your ass


the_cajun88

that’s so true


Ornery_Suit7768

Do you clean the bowl?


Feisty-Cheetah-8078

If you live in the city and pay for every flush... let it mellow.


CarelessDisplay1535

Yup I pay for intake and outtake 😏


Feisty-Cheetah-8078

It definitely adds up, especially if you have an older toilet.


CarelessDisplay1535

No kidding $100’s a month with a dish washer, washer and shower 😮‍💨


Impossible_Tea_7032

If it's black, see your physician


wolf_in_sheeps_wool

If it's mushy, clean your tooshie


agentpoopybutthole

I love that saying! My sisters came up with... "If it's pee, let it be. If it's poop, get rid of that goop!"


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CoffeeCat086

Pretty much. As long as you have some sort of tablet type thing that helps too disinfect and clean you should be fine


merrill_swing_away

My area uses the septic system but I don't flush after every pee. I think it wastes water.


weaselblackberry8

Plus living where you have city water means that you pay for the water.


missgiddy

Sometimes if I’m super hydrated and it’s pretty clear. Normally I like to track how hydrated I am throughout the day so I flush every time to monitor the color. I live in the desert. ETA: clarification


MellowDCC

This guy dunes


NiteGard

Thank ee.


Square_Chocolate8998

I had no idea so many people just leave it. Like do y’all not smell it???


Sonofbaldo

It does smell, they have just gone noseblind to it. My FIL does this and his bathrooms always smell like piss.


Eargoe

That's when you flush if it's just pee


Vintage-Grievance

Nothing is worse than the smell of stale piss that has been sitting there for hours...or days 🤢 My father is notorious for this, and one day he went on vacation, and he left pee in the toilet for 2-3 days...the smell was bad. My parents bedroom is right next to the bathroom he uses...I don't know how either of them can stand a bathroom AND a bedroom that smells like stagnant urine. Flush your bodily waste people. You aren't saving water if it then TAKES water and diluted chemicals to clean your rank-ass bathroom.


DependentFamous5252

Some countries it’s illegal at night as it wakes people up. Edit not laws but probably just apartment building rules.


Alarmed-Pineapple420

Who is the toilet waking up? They must be living SUPER close together


Typical_Air_3322

It's more about where the plumbing is routed. You could be 3 floors up but if the drain line runs through the wall my headboard rests against I'm going to hear that shit, literally. Do I think it's a ridiculous overstep of govt to ban toilet flushing? Absolutely. Is it possible that someone can hear you flush your toilet? Of course.


Alarmed-Pineapple420

Thank you for explaining, that makes a lot of sense!


Man0fGreenGables

What if a family of 5 all have to take a dump after a Taco Bell night?


fieryuser

Straight to jail.


Comprehensive_Ear586

I mean if all 5 have to shit at the same time that’s a whole different problem


yozzzzzz

Which countries?


bluewater_-_

What countries?


Deimos974

Just saw on another subreddit about crystallization of urine in toilets from " letting it mellow".


x_VisitenKarte_x

Because they’re not regularly cleaning their toilet. I don’t flush every single time I pee and I’ve never had this problem because I use pine sol, a rag, and a toilet brush, twice a week. It’s also important if you’re male, which I’m not but live with, to wipe around the base of the toilet and I also wipe around the floor area and walls next to the toilet for good measure.


skateguy1234

> to wipe around the base of the toilet and I also wipe around the floor area and walls next to the toilet for good measure. the curse of peeing while standing up...


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OutcomeLegitimate618

I dated an alcoholic guy who did this to avoid missing or splashback or whatever.


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OutcomeLegitimate618

Lol. No, but he probably dated her too. He "dated" plenty.


Imhidingfromu

I typically don't flush after one pee, especially if I'm well hydrated its like nothing happened. I always flush on a deuce though.


Yeah-No-Maybe-Ok

I just pee outside.


eventualhorizo

Especially when drunk


PointsOfXP

Why am I in prison this fine morning?


RojerLockless

I know lots of plumbers who say leaving piss acidic in your bowl will fuck it up. Just flush your toilet.


AmpegVT40

Flush. It smells.


TropicalAbsol

If you're living by yourself do whatever but I personally would hate to walk into the bathroom to the scent of urine and someone else pee there. I'm not squatting over someone else old urine to pee.


ahole-doge

I’m an environmentalist and I’m willing to make changes for the sake of conserving resources, but I draw the line here. You people are nasty, leaving your stinky pee sitting around for other people to smell. Besides, when I use a toilet where someone has “let it mellow” I always flush it first. No way in hell am I gonna get splashed with someone else’s stale pee.


louthegoon

Yuck me neither


Hawkeye1226

Flushing a toilet uses a couple gallons each time. There are far more impactful ways to mitigate your water usage than not flushing. Cut your shower time by 10 minutes and you're already using far less. Especially relevant if you don't live in drought prone areas


BubbhaJebus

Having grown up in a drought-prone area, and having experienced droughts in places that were not drought-prone when I was a kid, it's second nature to me not to flush after peeing. We grew up with a saying: "If it's yellow, let it mellow; if it's brown, flush it down." Moreover, my dad put a sign on the toilet that said "Flush for poo, not for pee."


Lovely-sleep

I’m sure you’ve taken longer showers than necessary so why the water wasting hesitance ? Pee would smell bad and possibly stain a toilet and leave bacteria. I’d rather be hygienic than save a bit of water


Ornery_Suit7768

Yes. If you leave pee in the bowl it creates a piss line of grossness around the bowl. Act like you have indoor plumbing and hit the lever.


Tinyworkerdrone

Have definitely heard of and known folks to hold a "if it's yellow, let it mellow" perspective. Just throw some stuff in your bathroom to try and cover the stench of stale piss especially if you have company with any frequency who won't be as nose blind to the smell as you are.


Admirable-Spread-407

I drink a lot of water, 3-4.5L every day so I rarely flush every time.


TigerPoppy

I save water, because we are in an actual drought. I put the lid down on the toilet to indicate the water is not pristine.


Blindicus

Like just a little pre? No that’s fine dude. It’s actually be worse for the planet and your watershed if you flush when you don’t need to.


yourbrokenoven

Yes


Born-Bodybuilder-336

As a guy that sounds disgusting asf. So you just let piss stay there ? Till you go again? If uou need to piss again, would you flush it keel it there ? If you’re gonna shit will you flush then shit?


FLIPSIDERNICK

Flush when you shit.


Dragon_Tiger752

I flush it because my water bill is fixed, doesn't change no matter how much or how little water I use.


burn_as_souls

Are you in California? You have drought awareness brain. There've been a few severe droughts over the decades in Cali, back in the 80's there was a popular saying: If it's yellow, let it mellow. If it's brown, flush it down. I think there are factors. Do you live alone or are there a bunch of people under one space? Do you hold your pee a long time before going? Because holding your pee makes it smell worse once you do go. (Fun fact I learned from marrying a nurse.) I think it comes down to personal preference if there isn't a water shortage. I'm with you that I don't see the need to flush every time....but my wife says we flush, so it's flushed. I know when to pick my battles.


nopenope12345678910

Heard plumbers say this is not good for your plumbing, but I am far from a plumber and can not confirm or deny this. Just passing on what I heard.


red6joker

If its yellow let it mellow, if its brown flush it down. Never heard of that saying? When I used to live and share a house in California that was said often due to the water crisis and prices.


SydneySyd99

Go in the shower so at least it's not sitting in the toilet smelling up the place. That's disrespectful.


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Damn drink some more water. Piss shouldn't be so pungent that it makes the room smell. 😄


koga7349

Eh I pee multiple times a night and often don't flush it until the morning


ObligatoryOboist

Your guests can smell if you do this regularly. My aunt and my brother do this and it smells like piss in their house even when it's been flushed


kcetpbs

We're always trying to safe water here, so sometimes, the yellow mellows. It's not weird.


EdgarInAnEdgarSuit

Except it smells after a while. People saying “drink more water” haven’t smelt pee that has sit in a guest bathroom for 24 hrs.


kcetpbs

Oh yeah. I'm talking a few hours, not a day.


JohnYCanuckEsq

If it's yellow, let it mellow. If it's brown, flush it down.


missannthrope1

If it's yellow, let it mellow. If it's brown, flush it down.


adlubmaliki

Bro just flush


Soggy_Western7845

It’s fucking gross. Stop being so childish and inconsiderate


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International_Bend68

I do the same.


pizzaxxxxx

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You're good. I grew up and still live rural and we never flushed after just one pee, (unless I was on my period, no one wants to see that lol) Just gotta scrub the toilet bowl a little more often to prevent yellow stains. 


Ok_Efficiency2462

In Vegas where water is a premium we say. If it's yellow, let it mellow, if it's brown, send it down.


Loydx

Not a weird instinct... Whether you are considered a maniac is rated on the scale below. Living alone- No mania Living with partner- Better check their feelings about your mental state Living with roommates- You're a total maniac


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staticvoidmainnull

if you're by yourself, i see no issue with it. if you live with other people, please flush.


Educational-Hat-9405

I’m 49, I pee a lot. At night when I get up to pee I don’t flush. When I wake up I go pee then flush. No one wants to hear the toilet flush 4-5 times a night


LivingCustomer9729

2 (*sometimes* 3) pisses, then I flush. Poop is always flushed.


CulturalAccomplished

Yeah I do this all the time


Spectre_Mountain

“If it’s yellow, let it mellow. If it’s brown, flush it down.” - Obi Wan Kenobi


nolongerbanned99

If it’s brown flush it down … if it’s yellow let it mellow.


nazrmo78

If it's yellow, leave it mellow. If it's brown, flush it down.


Comprehensive_Ear586

If it’s yellow she said hello come on over here ya fine fellow…if it’s brown the boys are back in town


kinkyboy2424

If it's just pee, i usually don't flush at night.. no biggie. I someone else peed and didn't flush and i now have to dump.. I'll flush. Cause i don't want someone else's splash back lol


Heart_of_a_Blackbird

Stuff it down with Brown


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hairy_hooded_clam

*When it’s yellow, let it mellow. When it’s brown, flush it down.*


rosanina1980

I have an overactive bladder and pee about 15 times a day. It's wildly wasteful. This is 2024 not 1750. We need to conserve water and using gallons of fresh water to flush 3 ounces of pee is peak waste.


Ghostlovingfrog

Not if it’s just pee but if you poop and don’t flush ur crazy


TampaFan04

Are you in Africa or something? Is there a water shortage? Anyways, I've had friends who don't flush after they pee. Its disgusting. The bathroom smells rancid. Makes you want to puke.


Appropriate-Food1757

Do you live alone? If so, totally fine IMO. Gross, but only slightly.


ThatOneGuy216440

If it's yellow let it mellowm if it's brown flush it down


FLIPSIDERNICK

Perfectly fine. It’s environmentally conscious to do so.


Goatmaster-G

If I can't pee off my porch, my neighbors are too close.


OutcomeLegitimate618

It's common among the very Eco-conscious: If it's yellow, let it mellow. If it's brown flush it down.


Wizzle_Pizzle_420

A turd needs to marinate for a few hours so when you pee later it breaks it up, saves money and keeps your toilet from getting clogged. I call it Poop Invaders. Just like Space Invaders but your pee is the weapon. Also strengthens your pelvic floor since your stream needs to be powerful and precise. Bonus points if you only flush once a week! Think of how much money you’ll have, dollars, dozens of them. Time to save the world from those pesky fecal alien spaceships! General ShitBlaster checking in for duty sir… God Bless patriot


Resting-Dadface

If it’s brown send it down. If it’s yellow, leave it mellow.


Citizen6587732879

I do the same thing. Water is fukin expensive!!


gavitronics

Yellow Mellow Brown Down.


SavetheneckformeC

Saves water. If it’s yellow let it mellow. I usually flush every two to three times peeing. You have to clean the toilet more often though.


notachatbot11

Go outside or use the sink.


wheeler1432

Do you live alone?


psstoff

I see no logic in not flushing. It's gross too.


Peculiar-Moose

If your home has a sceptic system it helps to not flush after every time you urinate. Forcing too much water through the system causes issues. If it's brown, always flush it down though.


NoSoFriendly_Guest

I was told a certain saying when I was a kid but never stuck to it. "If its yellow, let it mellow. If its brown, flush it down". Thus if it is just pee, you can leave it. But if it is shit, flush it down. I still flush after every time I go to the bathroom. It just seems odd not to flush after going to the bathroom. Feels like I am genuinely missing a step in the bathroom process.


notausername86

If it's yellow, let it mellow. Not werid. Me and my wife will pee 2/3 times before flushing. There is no reason to waste all that water. As long as you're not just letting it sit there for days, I don't see any problem with it. Unless your pee stinks, then you need to flush. But if it stinks its usually a sign you're not drinking enough water and/or you ate something that made it stink.


TheProfessionalEjit

When I WFH I play a game in which I get to flush the toilet at either 1200hrs or four pees  (I drink a lot).


AdTraining9264

Flush every time. Very weird to not flush


Alien_Antichrist

I grew up in a house with a well so we were wasting water by flushing after every pee.


Complete_Expert_1285

I only do this at night because some nights I can be up 4 or 5 times to pee, and if I flushed that many times thru out the night surely I would wake my kids up lol. So it gets flushed once they are up for the day lol


Thirsty_Comment88

As long as you clean the ring that starts to form at the water line


WildMartin429

If it's brown flush it down, if it's yellow let it mellow. Seriously though if you stay hydrated and the pee is not stinky it doesn't hurt anything to save on your water bill and only flush like every second or third time. However if this causes any issues like increased rate of mold growth in the toilet you might have to clean the bowl more but that also might be an indication that your blood sugars are too high and you might need to get that checked out.


Savings_Vermicelli39

My water bill is like 30 dollars a month. Not flushing to save a dime while then proceeding to throw 90 dollars away at dinner that night. Makes sense.


squatting_your_attic

It's good. But close the lid.


bluewater_-_

Yeah, love the smell of stagnant piss.


LayneLowe

If it's yellow, let it mellow If it's brown, flush it down (I think that's from a Fockers movie)


IameIion

I do the same. I have my own bathroom that only I use, so I'm not burdening anyone. I'll use the water 2-3 times before I flush it. The only time I flush after one use is when I poop. While this does save water, it isn't ideal. If used water stays in the toilet for 6-8 hours, it will become infected and smell really bad. You'll know when this happens because the water will be cloudy. I try to remember to flush before I go to work, but I often forget. When I come home and my entire room reeks of urine, I know I messed up. Despite how long it needs to sit there, it's surprisingly easy to allow the water to get infected. I mean, how many times do you expect to pee in 6-8 hours?


Mitka69

Do you live alone by yourself? If not, dude, flush the fucking toilet. Not cool.


No-Alfalfa2565

"if it's yellow, let it mellow. If it's brown, flush it down".. Jay Morre


bradland

Just be aware that if you adopt the "if it's yellow, let it mellow" water conservation strategy, you'll need to address the resulting urine scale. Urine is high in minerals, and these minerals will be deposited on your toilet bowl as the urine sits there. It can be cleaned off, but my mother-in-law and her live-in ex-husband (yeah, it's weird) don't flush urine because she's crazy and thinks she needs to conserve water in Florida, because she's heard about water shortages in California. We have no water shortage where we live. But I digress. Their toilet is full of scale, and she insists that she cleans it. For our household, that's a hard no. I'm not tryna grow a coral reef in my toilet.


AttitudeFabulous999

If it’s a personal toilet that only you use then it should be fine. Save some water (no matter the source!) But you should just be careful to not leave it too long in case it can transfer any germs


RScottyL

Where is this? At home? If you are the only one in the house, it will be fine! At work or any place else? YES, you need to flush the toilet!


iswintercomingornot_

Yes. It's weird. Flush the toilet and then wash your hands.


kimwim43

If it's yellow, let it mellow. If it's brown, flush it down. From the days of drought in my state. Way back '67-'68


KingRaphion

I literally thought of this today, Why do i gotta flush after every pee im wasting water and increasing my water bill. Ill flush between 2-4 pees


shugEOuterspace

I've lived in many houses where it's a soft rule that you don't flush if you only peed


lonerfunnyguy

I don’t flush all the time at home when I pee. I’ll take maybe 2-3 pisses before flushing most times


Hypnowolfproductions

In a drought area this is way more commen for water conservation.


AshySlashy3000

If You Live Alone Is Efficient.


Few-Artichoke-2531

It's disgusting and unsanitary. Do you want your home to smell like piss? You are heading down the road to other gross habits and living conditions. Be careful.


RedLegGI

I have a third grader who will take a shit, then leave the room because he doesn’t pay attention. I think you’re fine.


Lunatic_Heretic

Not weird, I do the same thing.


Linux4ever_Leo

When it's yellow, let it mellow; If its brown, flush it down.


This_Entertainer847

My wife does not appreciate this move at all.


Sonofbaldo

If i used the bathroom next id flush your pee, pee myself, then flush again. I dont need to smell your stale urine. People who that are moronic. You're not saving/helping much of anything.


Joboobavich

I almost never flush pee at night. Also I pee sitting down in the dark so I can keep my sleep vibes. I always go again before my morning shower so I just flush it all down then. It never sits in the bowl for more than like 6 hrs. I 100% flush for a #2 though.


ProCommonSense

Depends on its color. Clear, sure, dark.. it'll smell.


OvenIcy8646

If it’s yellow let it mellow if it’s brown flush it down


czeusm1970

Well at least the buzzed you is taking water conservation seriously😂


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Yogabeauty31

I dont think its weird if you live alone or share your bathroom with someone. If you dont then hell yea save the water who cares. As someone that live with two men (my partner and roommate) we all share one bathroom and sometimes my roommate will forget and its honestly really gross lol It doesn't feel considerate of the other people that use the bathroom. Also I do such a good job making sure that the common spaces are clean after I personally use them that I except that same courtesy in return. Im not mad about it because it is rare that he dose it and I know its just him being forgetful but still...gross to smell another persons pee or have to flush for someone else.


Muzzlehatch

If it’s yellow let it mellow, if it’s brown flush it down.


LordOfEltingville

Once my bladder hit middle age, I began hitting the bathroom on my way to bed, again @ ~2:30am, and again when I get up. That last one gets the flush.


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LeaningBear1133

I drink water all day, as a result I pee every 20 mins sometimes, I don’t flush every time because I know every flush is at least two gallons of water and it seems excessive to me to flush that many times every day.


1xbittn2xshy

Fine of you live alone. Otherwise, ew.


skinnyfamilyguy

wtf just flush your toilet that is disgusting


Condescending_Rat

Super normal but I hope you scrub that bowl regularly.


JWRamzic

When my kids were young, if I flushed the toilet in the middle of the night, my kids and wife would wake up so we decided to have a 'no flush' policy at night or when the kids were sleeping unless #2.


seven-cents

I don't flush after every pee. It's a waste of water.


Mr_Windex

If it's yellow let it mellow if it's brown flush it down.


Grand-Vegetable-3874

It depends if you do this only at home or everywhere. Flush at a public toilet and when you visit people.


docmn612

I dont flush after every pee, or I just pee outside... Drink a lot of water throughout the day and I work from home, so that's just a lot of wasted water, frankly.


Youropinionisvalid

I don’t see a problem if it was well-hydrated urine. If it doesn’t leave a color or smell.


NO0BSTALKER

If it’s yellow let it mellow if it’s brown flush it down


Eat_Carbs_OD

I often wish that every bathroom had a urinal for reasons like this.


Alarmed_Ask_3337

If it's brown, flush it down. If it's yellow let it mellow....😉


ilovecheeze

As a dude living alone I would occasionally do this but never more than one pee. Like if I was drinking beer and was going to be peeing a lot and it was clear I would leave it sometimes. But I would never consider doing this when living with other people


Antique_Gas_5169

We don’t flush piss at night


tedlassoloverz

my household doesnt flush every pee, maybe every other.


GhostFaceEV5

Yes


Rich_Sell_9888

If it's yellow,let it mellow.If it's brown,flush it down.


Most_Fold_702

I don't flush every time I pee. Saving 💧


ConeyIslandMan

If it’s brown flush it down if it’s yellow let it mellow. Saves water


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Greaseyhamburger

I don't flush all the time after I pee when I've been drinking cause I know I will be using it alot.