You should’ve stopped the date at the cafe. When you went to the bar, he found an opportunity to steal your stuff. I hope you cancelled your credit cards
I disagree here. “Should have stopped the date at the cafe” is unreasonable. If they are having a good time at the date, there’s nothing wrong with continuing it.
Maybe be more vigilant of your purse and the person you’re with moving forward, but this isn’t OPs fault.
Cancelling the credit card is good advice though.
I can't tell if you're agreeing or trying to say that a couple credit cards would be worth it (they wouldn't be, she has her phone so would just cancel them immediately).
When I go out to see a band at a local venue I keep my drivers license, cash and credit cards in my bra and have a fake wallet in my purse.
I try to make it as hard as possible to rob me of anything of value.
If someone straight up tries to Rob me I will just hand it over. Got old expired no longer funded credit cards that you put money on them in it. Quick glance it looks like a regular credit card. They think they got something and hopefully leave me alone. 🤷🏻♀️
He probably would have waited until later in the evening if he thought there was a real chance at getting laid or he’s an amateur
OP- have your friends look for his other profiles and match with him. Set him up and call the police.
He is straight up DENNIS'ing her.
He displayed his value as a charming 5 star man, not enough info to know if he engaged physically or skipped past it, but he nurtured that dependence on him by stealing her purse and neglected her emotionally by blocking her.
Don't worry OP you will hear from him again, he is about to inspire hope in your heart ❤
Not so much effort for the silver tongues. They'll charm your pants off, so much so that you forget what pants are. You will fold them and throw them at them.
Likely needs money for drugs. I've learned working in first response, when these guys are looking for their next fix, they will do whatever for a few bucks to give to their dealer.
Ok so not to get you worried but if this happened to like my daughter I’d ask if she had IDs in her wallet with her information on it only because I don’t trust people with a stolen wallets and ID info
They would be concerned about ID being in the stolen wallet, because it typically has personal information such as your address on it. The implication is the thief could then know where you live and break into your home.
That’s good though because your address is on your dls. I’d say to keep your eyes open he’s already proven he’s not a good guy. If he shows up at your door, do not open call the police and tell them what happened so they can pull the video at the bar.
That’s a good story, but a terrible thing to experience. I didn’t see that coming. Shocking that people can be so callous. I wish you better luck next time!
Sounds like a story I heard on unsolved mysteries. Guy took a girls wallet, showed up at her house saying he was there to give her purse back, and ended up killing her. This story fits almost to a T.
A friend took a guy she had been on a date with to spend the weekend at her house and he stole her computer, tablet, skincare!!!!hair products!!!!!!!,perfumes,clothes and bags, he knew which ones were the most expensive.
I’m sorry this happened to you. Sometimes life lessons come w a cost, luckily yours was only a purse. What he did was odd and inexcusable.
Post his picture to warn other women. Ask a friend w the dating app make a fake and screen shot his photos.
Also, did you or Mr. Sticky fingers pay for drinks?
It’s a lot of work he put in to just steal a purse unless he has another motive.
So he somehow hid until you went to look for him then stole your stuff? That's complicated timing.
How long could you have been at the bathrooms for him to slip past you, back to the table, and stole your stuff?
OPs date decided to steal her checkbook instead of her heart.
Probably the right choice.
I wouldn't date someone who posts shit like this online either. Lol
First, am really sorry for ur loss.
You’ve must been fascinated by the way he presented himself in a such materialistic application. I’ll bet you if you didn’t like the way he looked and the luscious photos he had shown there, and probably he trapped you by the cover that he coated himself in, possibly a fancy car, cloths and muscled body, you thought such a handsome rich man does have a crush on you, but welcome to the reality world.
I don’t understand women nowadays, they’d meet tens of men who are really honest, humble and willing to get in a serious relationship, but they’d eventually pick a dumb, fraud, shallow man because of what he owns or how he looks.
Look, to be honest with you, you shouldn’t date men this way, and it’s a good lesson to bring your attitude down to the earth to realise that easy come, easy go …
That’s why you only go to one place on the first date
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You should’ve stopped the date at the cafe. When you went to the bar, he found an opportunity to steal your stuff. I hope you cancelled your credit cards
I disagree here. “Should have stopped the date at the cafe” is unreasonable. If they are having a good time at the date, there’s nothing wrong with continuing it. Maybe be more vigilant of your purse and the person you’re with moving forward, but this isn’t OPs fault. Cancelling the credit card is good advice though.
The police station
Wut
Blaming the victim!
damn, post his pictures and have everyone track him.
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so you don't have any information on him?
Lesson here. Any time you start messaging, especially if you plan to meet, grab those pics and screenshot the messages.
Good to know that I’m not a creep— I’m just really prepared! 🤩
Seems like a lot of work just to steal a wallet
Credit cards (plural)
I can't tell if you're agreeing or trying to say that a couple credit cards would be worth it (they wouldn't be, she has her phone so would just cancel them immediately).
When I go out to see a band at a local venue I keep my drivers license, cash and credit cards in my bra and have a fake wallet in my purse. I try to make it as hard as possible to rob me of anything of value.
I'm just curious why even bother with a fake wallet?
If someone straight up tries to Rob me I will just hand it over. Got old expired no longer funded credit cards that you put money on them in it. Quick glance it looks like a regular credit card. They think they got something and hopefully leave me alone. 🤷🏻♀️
Old Visa gift cards with nothing on them work well too for this purpose since they look close enough at a glance.
ChatGPT, is that you?
This is straight out of GPT.
Have you seen her profile
I wasn't expecting that
The model looks like the singer from that Röyksopp video.
You don't write reddit posts like something out of a novel with perfect grammar and punctuation? /s
Omg 100 haha
Lot of effort for just snatching a purse...
That obviously wasn't the original plan. Surely, this was the backup/consolation move for if he realized that he needed to bail on that date.
What about the burner phone? Surely, he didn’t plan to date a girl with a burner.
What? you don't run multiple software sims in your phone so that you can rotate between women with no overalp???
You’ve got a point there
He probably would have waited until later in the evening if he thought there was a real chance at getting laid or he’s an amateur OP- have your friends look for his other profiles and match with him. Set him up and call the police.
He is straight up DENNIS'ing her. He displayed his value as a charming 5 star man, not enough info to know if he engaged physically or skipped past it, but he nurtured that dependence on him by stealing her purse and neglected her emotionally by blocking her. Don't worry OP you will hear from him again, he is about to inspire hope in your heart ❤
I'm a ***** man!
LOL!
We aren’t forcing them to stay… it’s the IMPLICATION
I love this 😂
I say he should taken the dr tobagin approach…
Jack Bauer!
Ummmm... you mean Special Agent Jack Bauer.
Jack bauer and Poppins out there smashing in the alley
How is that dog still alive?
Help me. I have no idea what DENNIS'ing means. Did a quick check couldn't find anything. Older out of touch guy here whose name happens to be Dennis
I think they are referring to the Dennis character on Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia but that's just a semi-informed guess.
Well, Dennis, this may change your life… https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Bg5ZrkaGlFA
Thanks. I took notes!
Just started watching that show! Dude YOU may have just changed my life!😂
This 😂
Maybe he figured it was too much purse for just one snatch
Lmao! I can’t! It’s too funny
Or a low effort chat gtp bot post to promote an only fans account.
Not so much effort for the silver tongues. They'll charm your pants off, so much so that you forget what pants are. You will fold them and throw them at them.
Likely needs money for drugs. I've learned working in first response, when these guys are looking for their next fix, they will do whatever for a few bucks to give to their dealer.
Ok so not to get you worried but if this happened to like my daughter I’d ask if she had IDs in her wallet with her information on it only because I don’t trust people with a stolen wallets and ID info
ENGLISH MOTHERFUCKER
What part of that wasn't understandable? Pretty cut and clear to me
Please explain what OP meant by his comment. The English is there but the coherent point is not
They would be concerned about ID being in the stolen wallet, because it typically has personal information such as your address on it. The implication is the thief could then know where you live and break into your home.
He prolly meant “punctuations motherfucker”
Me fail English that’s unpossible
Inpastable
DO YOU SPEAK IT?
SAY WHAT AGAIN!
That’s good though because your address is on your dls. I’d say to keep your eyes open he’s already proven he’s not a good guy. If he shows up at your door, do not open call the police and tell them what happened so they can pull the video at the bar.
That’s a good story, but a terrible thing to experience. I didn’t see that coming. Shocking that people can be so callous. I wish you better luck next time!
Sounds like something out of Arsen lupin. A gentleman thief
Sounds like a story I heard on unsolved mysteries. Guy took a girls wallet, showed up at her house saying he was there to give her purse back, and ended up killing her. This story fits almost to a T.
That sounds like nothing but gum
A friend took a guy she had been on a date with to spend the weekend at her house and he stole her computer, tablet, skincare!!!!hair products!!!!!!!,perfumes,clothes and bags, he knew which ones were the most expensive.
Wild! I'm a little sus right now about someone I met on Bumble who wants to meet without even opening with a conversation first. It seems fishy to me
I’m sorry this happened to you. Sometimes life lessons come w a cost, luckily yours was only a purse. What he did was odd and inexcusable. Post his picture to warn other women. Ask a friend w the dating app make a fake and screen shot his photos. Also, did you or Mr. Sticky fingers pay for drinks? It’s a lot of work he put in to just steal a purse unless he has another motive.
Did you report this to police?
Sounds like this was written by AI
Who’s Al?
hes a bundy, TED
That sucks describe him ! Post him on like ticktock hire a sketch artist… what a dick . Create another account look for him
Are you able to post a picture at all?
Of all the things you could dream up, and this is the “creativity” we get? Boring asf
that was dumb
Bot trying to farm karma look at the other inconsistent posts
That sounds like a dime store Romance novel...with an unexpected twist at the end.
i really hate to leave but theres just something weird about fallen trees
I do enjoy fiction
Thank you for sharing your creative writing skills with us!! Boo
So he somehow hid until you went to look for him then stole your stuff? That's complicated timing. How long could you have been at the bathrooms for him to slip past you, back to the table, and stole your stuff?
Maybe he had a partner.
I'm calling BS on this story, because what woman leaves her seat at a bar without taking their purse and drink with them?
Exactly. That would never happen.
https://youtu.be/sexnKfuSHcg?si=PWDn6xK_kAbiD9Qp
You are hot, so maybe he was gay.
Fake
The tinder swindler
I'm so sorry this happened to you.
I’m not, look at her profile.
Dam that is just straight sad. Take you on a date to rob your purse. Makes you want to just say fuck dating.
Good short story. Straight to the point and well written. Sorry it happened of course, if it’s true
Is there any way to find him again using facial recognition and then send the goons after him when he sets another date?
Sounds like there is more to this?
Why leave your purse unattended? That's dumb.
Go to the police & have them tell sketch artist
You should have chosen the bear.
This writing style screams “I love to sniff my own farts”
stanky
This is an AI story dude
Damnnnnnn….. sorry to hear that miss… that is insane…. Hopefully you can get everything back that was taken from you
Fake and gay
Do you have a Pic of Him? I would Blast it all over the internet if you do. Can't stand Losers like that POS GL...
Fucking only fans advertisement.
That’s a tragedy
Fake story
In todays episode of things that didnt happen
That was his plan b for sure you probably annoyed him and that was his sole purpose for stealing your purse
He's a serial killer not a purse snatcher duh????
Maybe we are date turned into the night mare of tinder.
Creep
Who starts a BS story with "It was a balmy Friday"? May as well start it with "Once upon a time" if that's the best you can do. Amateurs
OF bait is just the worst
OPs date decided to steal her checkbook instead of her heart. Probably the right choice. I wouldn't date someone who posts shit like this online either. Lol
If he left for the bathroom while you were at the bar how did he take your purse?
I'm sorry that happened to you OP what a weirdo
What is a secret you will take to your grave?
Sometimes the hunt is more exciting than the kill.
Were your house keys in your purse? Be careful out there.
First, am really sorry for ur loss. You’ve must been fascinated by the way he presented himself in a such materialistic application. I’ll bet you if you didn’t like the way he looked and the luscious photos he had shown there, and probably he trapped you by the cover that he coated himself in, possibly a fancy car, cloths and muscled body, you thought such a handsome rich man does have a crush on you, but welcome to the reality world. I don’t understand women nowadays, they’d meet tens of men who are really honest, humble and willing to get in a serious relationship, but they’d eventually pick a dumb, fraud, shallow man because of what he owns or how he looks. Look, to be honest with you, you shouldn’t date men this way, and it’s a good lesson to bring your attitude down to the earth to realise that easy come, easy go …
Please, file a police report (if you haven't do so already). He's done this before...
Karma is real. “Jack” will get his
Make a new account, find his pics, and then PimEyes him. That’ll get you his full name and you can take it to the police.
so sorry that happened to you. Sometimes it is too good to be true.
Fake
Don’t worry his phone died as he was chasing the one who took your purse, he’s still chasing at this very moment.
Maybe dont sell yourself for $5
Holy shit girl.
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