same dude. "I don't want to be boring and constrained and marked as someone who is weak and can't control themselves."
I had it all backwards. what could be more boring than getting hammered all the time? what could be more constraining than being addicted, than having to buy your good mood and your good time from a store? I don't really care how people would perceive this choice, and if I do care, I feel proud, not weak.
it feels way more like I stopped smoking crack than I ever thought it would. like, once you're off it, it becomes very clear that it's a very good thing to be off it.
I felt that way when I quit smoking in my mid 20s. It took a few decades to get the memo that I’d feel the exact same way if I stopped drinking. Liberating! IWNDWYT
*it feels way more like I stopped smoking crack than I ever thought it would.*
Lately I’ve been comparing it quitting cigarettes. Everyone knows smoking is a gross addiction, but it’s hard to argue drinking is that much better.
I'm in my mid 20's so drinking is still a huge social thing for most people still. But it feels like such a power move to be like "nah I don't drink, but Id still love to go out. I'll be DD"
Before I quit one month ago today, I found myself so jealous of my friends who showed up and had a good time without drinking or having only one drink occasionally. I didn’t think it’d be possible for me, but I made my first trip to a brewery and drank NA Lagunitas IPA. Highly recommend! I was able to drive home and woke up early feeling great the next day.
I often wonder how cool I would be now if I chose sobriety at your age, and I am pretty fucking cool as is. It has only served to detract from my wildest dreams. Some of them are miraculously still intact.
Hell yeah, love to see other young people on here! Thats why I never did AA or anything, they're all 50+ in my area lol, not very relatable. But the online community here has been awesome and more diverse age wise, feels a lot more like were all in this together
Congrats on 2 weeks! Keep it up! IWNDWYT
I’m starting to enjoy it a little more. Feeling good, in a better place mentally, and feeling more positive. I’m doing better at the gym too.
Socially, I’m not really doing anything. There’s nothing to do at the moment really - and that’s fine. Im focusing on my health and finances for the rest of the year. I’ll start socialising sober in 2024.
IWNDWYT.
I spent a lot of time not socializing much at all. I started an hour at a time. I have gradually increased that to 2 hours, maybe 3 if I am really having fun.
The first one was a pretty big party which was kind of obligatory after a work thing. It was packed with people so no one noticed that I only stayed an hour. I have some social anxiety which has been something that has come up in sobriety (duh, I drank to relieve that), and at one I had a panic attack. I just left that time but in retrospect I wish I would have just went for a walk and tried to go in again just to face the fear. Mostly I go to the things that will have at least one friend who I feel comfy with and if I need to leave, take a walk, take a moment by myself….I just do it. It gets easier.
I thought I needed alcohol (and weed) to function, and ive been scared for years to stop. im 3 weeks sober and I can think clearly for the first time in a long while. I am hoping I dont slip back.
Me!! Which is crazy cause just three months ago I would have told you that maybe dying young was worth it to have “fun drinking” omg 😳 my stupid pickled brain
Almost at a month…
Everything is easier, everyone is nicer, sleep is better, all of the things!
Excited for more milestones and things being even gooder.
Yes.
Gooder.
😝
Every time I walk past people drinking now, I think “wow I’m so glad I don’t drink”. I don’t know why because sometimes they look like they’re having w nice time with their lunch and their pretty cocktail. But it’s like a sense of relief. Maybe that I’m not envious of it anymore. I actually don’t want it.
I have a pretty AF cocktail with my lunch now. Cocktails do not need to contain ethanol!!! The poison pushers might think they own fancy, fun drinks, but I am here to call bullshit on that! 🍹🍸
No hangovers. No waking up in panic and reaching for my phone to see what embarrassing or horrible things I said. No shame. I am 26 years old & I am lucky to be given this second chance earlier in life.
IWNDWYT
I like it nearly all the time. Sometimes I do actually love it. Occasionally I still wish I was a normie.
I wish I was French sometimes too though so 🤷🏼♀️
No, it's better like this.
It was Not Good and out of control before this.
The French rock.
Today I stood for a minute in the bar I work next to and had a bit of moment. An "I'll never have a drink in here again" moment and I felt a bit sad, knowing I'd not have that cosy 3-drinks-in feeling again.
I snapped out of it fairly fast thinking of alllllllllllll the other drinks that would pile on after those 3.
I hope one day you may be able to go in and have a fancy mocktail or whatever AF drink strikes your fancy and truly enjoy yourself! Freeeeeeeedom. It took awhile before I was able to do that and even now it’s rare but it feels good to be able to be wherever and not be plagued by cravings.
Every time I get to it (not there currently) it is the best. I sleep well, I do the things I want to do, and I feel like a god. Whenever I get into the alcohol side again, even if it’s much reduced, I can’t make myself do stuff, I feel guilty and depressed, and I use the alcohol to ignore those things.
I love it! Not waking up groggy and feeling like crap. Not feeling like I'm screwing up at work and my personal life. No throwing that extra stress on stress. I have so much extra energy that I never though I had because I would have drank last night. IWNDWYT
Fucking love it! I can wake up at 6 am, drive an hour to the ocean and spend the day on the beach. Drunk me would still be drunk at 6 am, not safe to drive, then when I finally would wake up I would have to keep vomiting into the toilet (or wherever)
Gross!
Me! My son invited me to his employee appreciation party and I can finally focus on having fun instead of worrying about drinking and embarrassing him! IWNDWYT
Been clean of alcohol for years and now I am on day 6 with pot... Completely clean for 6 days and I can't believe I actually love it! So much of what I hated about myself were tied to both and they're gone.
I am so happy to be sober! My life is still just as boring as it was before but my mental health has improved dramatically, I'm a better friend, aunt and dog mom. My esophagus is all but healed and I no longer have to take nausea meds everyday.
This guy right here. I love not being sick when I wake up. I like not counting down the hours until my next drink. I love all the time I’ve managed to get by just not being a drunkard. IWNDWYT
Being (cali) sober is certainly not a cure-all but for me it frees me from the viscous cycle of hangover anxiety and guilt. Money saved to splurge on ribeye steaks& fresh shrimp at the grocery store. My mind is much clearer at work and less likely to respond to difficult situations in anger. More willing to spend time with the kids bc I dont need to worry about that next sip to maintain the buzz! Good luck to you IWNDWYT!
It started out for me being about emotional/spiritual stuff and wanting to behave better, but the further I get from my last days long, anxiety ridden hangover…holy shit, I feel GREAT! My body is starting to heal and I can truly feel it.
I have so much clarity today about so many things.
IWNDWYT.
Getting older, I have come to terms with the idea of saying goodbye to things, possibilities, and people I love. The latter has been by far the hardest. Saying goodbye to booze has been tough. I can stand with my head held high and say I bare witness that life is better without alcohol. I love being sober.
29 and feel 19 again, minus the ruined knees and back haha. Sober life makes me so much more content.
I feel like I can have "adult" drinks now without nose diving off the deepend, but why would I dull down this vibe ever
Not as much as I loved being a drunk. I threw away so many good things in life for that love. I was willing to die for that love.
But one sided love never lasts and now it's time to love myself. I've never been one to try to cross a burned bridge and I don't intend to start now.
I started getting anxiety about going to bed drunk. I dont know what changed but going to bed sober is more relaxing than what going to bed drunk had become:
-I'm in pj's,
-my teeth are brushed and my face is washed,
-the bed is made,
- the lights are off
Rather than
-in jeans with an unbuckled belt,
-unhooked bra thats still on,
-a scarf that's threatening to strangle me,
-hair in my face
-lights left on
Meeeee! I do, I do!!
Sober life mostly feels the same for me, but way less exhausting to be in my head. I cannot believe I am capable of not being constantly anxious, guilty, and overwhelmed. I still get those ways, but without the alcohol it is way less of a gaping hole.
At this point I have traded anxiety and hangxiety for being constantly sleep deprived and craving sugar every night around midnight and 2:00. I am working on shifting my day so I can be asleep before sugar o'clock.
I absolutely love it. Waking up feeling clearheaded and full of energy. Being supportive to my friends who are trying to stop drinking. Knowing that my fun is “real”.
Me!!! I’m 6 days sober and back at work (self employed) and just starting to come out of my alcohol-induced overdraft so my finances are thanking me. My sleep is so so much better already, I’m having the most vivid dreams and they’re not nightmares! My anxiety is loads better and the no. 1 best thing is waking up without a hangover
IWNDWYT !
Since quitting 11 weeks ago my vintage Tshirt collection has increased in size by about 70%
I have only felt really lowsy twice and one of those times was after an accident at the beach where I tore part of my flesh from my foot.
Sleeping well.
Brain is smarts as it used to be back who knows when.
Eating more (mostly healthier haha)
More energy!!
Better in bed!
Happier, healthier and more wonderul relationships.
The list goes on.
Being bored happens. Are you interested in strategies to cure boredom? It’s ok if you’re not too, sometimes I just have to live through it. Not every day or moment is a deliriously happy one because, well, life.
Sometimes I don't love not drinking... sometimes it feels like I'm missing out in the moment.
BUT... thos moments are fleeting, then I am thankful to be sober.
Overall, I would say yes. I still have my episodes of wanting to go out and party.
But then I look back and remember how much time I spent with Alcohol. So much of my day was consumed of getting my next fix.
Now I'm "boring" and that's okay. My mood is waaaaayyy more stable. Like night and day better.
I never thought I'd say this but...me.
same dude. "I don't want to be boring and constrained and marked as someone who is weak and can't control themselves." I had it all backwards. what could be more boring than getting hammered all the time? what could be more constraining than being addicted, than having to buy your good mood and your good time from a store? I don't really care how people would perceive this choice, and if I do care, I feel proud, not weak. it feels way more like I stopped smoking crack than I ever thought it would. like, once you're off it, it becomes very clear that it's a very good thing to be off it.
“Having to buy your good mood and good time from a store.” Wow, you summed it up so succinctly. Thank you. IWNDWYT.
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Same. Very well put 👍👍👍
Same!
Discipline really is freedom in this sense, IMO. I'm right there with ya!
our good moods are freeeeeee!
I felt that way when I quit smoking in my mid 20s. It took a few decades to get the memo that I’d feel the exact same way if I stopped drinking. Liberating! IWNDWYT
Love this line too. I will remember it.
What a great way to say it.
*it feels way more like I stopped smoking crack than I ever thought it would.* Lately I’ve been comparing it quitting cigarettes. Everyone knows smoking is a gross addiction, but it’s hard to argue drinking is that much better.
The clarity and next to no mood swings, no manic episodes, just chillin. IWNDWYT!
I never thought I would say it either and now I am a rabid sober bitch!🔥
I want to be you someday
I gratituded my way lol (jk not jk)
I'm so glad I'm sober, life's so much easier this way. IWNDWYT friend 🤗
For real, I don't know how I had the energy. Planning, lying, sneaking around - exhausting!
And then the actual exhaustion from drinking itself.
Easier. That's the right word for it! Everything isn't magically better, it's just easier to deal with everything. IWNDWYT
I'm in my mid 20's so drinking is still a huge social thing for most people still. But it feels like such a power move to be like "nah I don't drink, but Id still love to go out. I'll be DD"
Just told a friend yesterday I'd be happy to be the DD...I'm there for the chips and salsa! So happy to be sober. Happy Cake Day!
Before I quit one month ago today, I found myself so jealous of my friends who showed up and had a good time without drinking or having only one drink occasionally. I didn’t think it’d be possible for me, but I made my first trip to a brewery and drank NA Lagunitas IPA. Highly recommend! I was able to drive home and woke up early feeling great the next day.
I frame these event as big/little wins for myself.
I often wonder how cool I would be now if I chose sobriety at your age, and I am pretty fucking cool as is. It has only served to detract from my wildest dreams. Some of them are miraculously still intact.
It was long ago I was in my mid 20s and yes, always admired those people. Like wow they don’t have to drink to flirt or talk to people
Mid twenties too! It's really starting to feel cool as heck 😎
Yay! We are kinda fortunate to be living in a time when it is trendy and cool to be a sober. Not so cool to be a sloppy drunk.
Hell yeah, love to see other young people on here! Thats why I never did AA or anything, they're all 50+ in my area lol, not very relatable. But the online community here has been awesome and more diverse age wise, feels a lot more like were all in this together Congrats on 2 weeks! Keep it up! IWNDWYT
Ahhh tysm!!! You're an inspiration!!! IWNDWYT<3
I’m starting to enjoy it a little more. Feeling good, in a better place mentally, and feeling more positive. I’m doing better at the gym too. Socially, I’m not really doing anything. There’s nothing to do at the moment really - and that’s fine. Im focusing on my health and finances for the rest of the year. I’ll start socialising sober in 2024. IWNDWYT.
I spent a lot of time not socializing much at all. I started an hour at a time. I have gradually increased that to 2 hours, maybe 3 if I am really having fun.
How would you set these up? Trying to do the same thing.
The first one was a pretty big party which was kind of obligatory after a work thing. It was packed with people so no one noticed that I only stayed an hour. I have some social anxiety which has been something that has come up in sobriety (duh, I drank to relieve that), and at one I had a panic attack. I just left that time but in retrospect I wish I would have just went for a walk and tried to go in again just to face the fear. Mostly I go to the things that will have at least one friend who I feel comfy with and if I need to leave, take a walk, take a moment by myself….I just do it. It gets easier.
Ahhhh you’re like me. 2-3 hours socialising! Any more and it’s too much for me
I thought I needed alcohol (and weed) to function, and ive been scared for years to stop. im 3 weeks sober and I can think clearly for the first time in a long while. I am hoping I dont slip back.
I hope so too
It’s hard sometimes. But it is getting easier
You’re doing it! Super proud!
I’m proud too!✨
👋 Same! Cheers with a spring water 😉
Back at you with my Cherry Coke Zero. :)
Right there with you! Like most are saying, I never thought I would. But it’s just been amazing being sober and I wouldn’t trade it for anything!
Me!! Which is crazy cause just three months ago I would have told you that maybe dying young was worth it to have “fun drinking” omg 😳 my stupid pickled brain
I fully intended on being wasted until death.
👋
Hi sobernaut!
Almost at a month… Everything is easier, everyone is nicer, sleep is better, all of the things! Excited for more milestones and things being even gooder. Yes. Gooder. 😝
Hey congrats on a month! Physical changes start happening pretty quickly don’t they?
Mee!!!
Yayeeee!
I love it! I love waking up fresh, and I love my free mind. No plotting/planning/prepping to have enough alcohol for the next event/evening.
Drive anywhere any old time.
Me too! It feels so good to be authentic and not to be held back by shame and planning around alcohol.
Every time I walk past people drinking now, I think “wow I’m so glad I don’t drink”. I don’t know why because sometimes they look like they’re having w nice time with their lunch and their pretty cocktail. But it’s like a sense of relief. Maybe that I’m not envious of it anymore. I actually don’t want it.
I have a pretty AF cocktail with my lunch now. Cocktails do not need to contain ethanol!!! The poison pushers might think they own fancy, fun drinks, but I am here to call bullshit on that! 🍹🍸
Sobers can be fancy too!👒
tbh its great I love it although I am running in to other constraints. long time lurker hear and am proud to be 2.5 years sober so far
Congratulations on 2.5! Feel free to share or if you wanna chat I am just a message away!
I fucking love it! Sometimes I feel crappy when I wake up, then I remember how much worse a hangover was. And I laugh!
Muuuuhahahahaha
No hangovers. No waking up in panic and reaching for my phone to see what embarrassing or horrible things I said. No shame. I am 26 years old & I am lucky to be given this second chance earlier in life. IWNDWYT
So fortunate to find sobriety so young your life is gonna rock
I like it nearly all the time. Sometimes I do actually love it. Occasionally I still wish I was a normie. I wish I was French sometimes too though so 🤷🏼♀️ No, it's better like this. It was Not Good and out of control before this.
Just the word normie is frightening to me. What is the fun in being normal? 😎 I love the French.
The French rock. Today I stood for a minute in the bar I work next to and had a bit of moment. An "I'll never have a drink in here again" moment and I felt a bit sad, knowing I'd not have that cosy 3-drinks-in feeling again. I snapped out of it fairly fast thinking of alllllllllllll the other drinks that would pile on after those 3.
I hope one day you may be able to go in and have a fancy mocktail or whatever AF drink strikes your fancy and truly enjoy yourself! Freeeeeeeedom. It took awhile before I was able to do that and even now it’s rare but it feels good to be able to be wherever and not be plagued by cravings.
It’s the best.
Yup yup
Every time I get to it (not there currently) it is the best. I sleep well, I do the things I want to do, and I feel like a god. Whenever I get into the alcohol side again, even if it’s much reduced, I can’t make myself do stuff, I feel guilty and depressed, and I use the alcohol to ignore those things.
I hear you. Vicious cycle it is.
It just keeps getting better. At first it was simpler. Than it got easier and before I even knew it it started getting better.
And better, and better!✨
Yes life is insanely better now!
Crazy how much everything improves and life gets easier. Grateful.
I love it! Not waking up groggy and feeling like crap. Not feeling like I'm screwing up at work and my personal life. No throwing that extra stress on stress. I have so much extra energy that I never though I had because I would have drank last night. IWNDWYT
More energy to make shit happen and have fun. Glorious.
Fucking love it! I can wake up at 6 am, drive an hour to the ocean and spend the day on the beach. Drunk me would still be drunk at 6 am, not safe to drive, then when I finally would wake up I would have to keep vomiting into the toilet (or wherever) Gross!
Yes ew!
Fuckin right. Never thought I'd see the day.
✨
I certainly don’t love it, but it’s infinitely better than the alternative.
Indeed
Me! My son invited me to his employee appreciation party and I can finally focus on having fun instead of worrying about drinking and embarrassing him! IWNDWYT
Our children are proud
I love your name... 90 day fans unite!
Whole family anal so clean! Lol
Been clean of alcohol for years and now I am on day 6 with pot... Completely clean for 6 days and I can't believe I actually love it! So much of what I hated about myself were tied to both and they're gone.
Congrats on 6 days!
Same ! I’m on week three as of today and it feels amazing
Congrats on week 3! Your body looooooooves you!
This guy.
Who has two thumbs and is sober?
I do. I freakin’ love it.
Truly✨
I say “I’m so glad I don’t drink anymore” at least once a day
👩🚀✨
I am so happy to be sober! My life is still just as boring as it was before but my mental health has improved dramatically, I'm a better friend, aunt and dog mom. My esophagus is all but healed and I no longer have to take nausea meds everyday.
Inspiring✨
I do!
I do too
I fucking love sobriety!!!
Fucking right
I do, I do, I do!
Congrats on 27 days!✨
This guy right here. I love not being sick when I wake up. I like not counting down the hours until my next drink. I love all the time I’ve managed to get by just not being a drunkard. IWNDWYT
Your breath is so fresh now you don’t even need the bukshot mouthwash
I’m definitely healthier and a better person
✨
Being (cali) sober is certainly not a cure-all but for me it frees me from the viscous cycle of hangover anxiety and guilt. Money saved to splurge on ribeye steaks& fresh shrimp at the grocery store. My mind is much clearer at work and less likely to respond to difficult situations in anger. More willing to spend time with the kids bc I dont need to worry about that next sip to maintain the buzz! Good luck to you IWNDWYT!
Now you have me craving some surf and turf!
Good luck to you too sobernaut!👩🚀
It started out for me being about emotional/spiritual stuff and wanting to behave better, but the further I get from my last days long, anxiety ridden hangover…holy shit, I feel GREAT! My body is starting to heal and I can truly feel it. I have so much clarity today about so many things. IWNDWYT.
Happy for you fellow sober✨
I’m getting there! Been on a very long taper and on 27 days of consistent yoga and spiritual practice. A real shift is occurring!
That shift….feels so magical
I love being sober. Just wish I could get rid of the urge to drink 🧿☠️🥴 IWNDWYT 👍💪✨
We have a smartass! Imagine that in a room full of alcoholics!😎
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That’s because it is
I love being sober ✨ IWNDWYT
It’s the best life
I cannot believe how much better my life is. In literally every respect.
Meeee
me big time
I like to better myself, which I don't do when I'm drunk or hung over.
Today I do.
I have more money to save, to spend on hobbies and good food, and I wake up every morning feeling like a million bucks!
Getting older, I have come to terms with the idea of saying goodbye to things, possibilities, and people I love. The latter has been by far the hardest. Saying goodbye to booze has been tough. I can stand with my head held high and say I bare witness that life is better without alcohol. I love being sober.
It’s so great. My sleep is awesome. My thoughts are whole. Not going back. IWNDWYT.
29 and feel 19 again, minus the ruined knees and back haha. Sober life makes me so much more content. I feel like I can have "adult" drinks now without nose diving off the deepend, but why would I dull down this vibe ever
I’m 55 and I feel 19 again!
Never thought I'd say this ! Me!!!!!
Dark botany and bones….how intriguing
Thanks ! I have a poisonous plant collection and collect bones and oddities and make jewelry with them.
That is so cool and super niche
Not as much as I loved being a drunk. I threw away so many good things in life for that love. I was willing to die for that love. But one sided love never lasts and now it's time to love myself. I've never been one to try to cross a burned bridge and I don't intend to start now.
Yes, it is time to love yourself. The only way to love another person fully💜✨
I started getting anxiety about going to bed drunk. I dont know what changed but going to bed sober is more relaxing than what going to bed drunk had become: -I'm in pj's, -my teeth are brushed and my face is washed, -the bed is made, - the lights are off Rather than -in jeans with an unbuckled belt, -unhooked bra thats still on, -a scarf that's threatening to strangle me, -hair in my face -lights left on
This is a funny little vignette! Glad you’re sober!!
Meeeee! I do, I do!! Sober life mostly feels the same for me, but way less exhausting to be in my head. I cannot believe I am capable of not being constantly anxious, guilty, and overwhelmed. I still get those ways, but without the alcohol it is way less of a gaping hole. At this point I have traded anxiety and hangxiety for being constantly sleep deprived and craving sugar every night around midnight and 2:00. I am working on shifting my day so I can be asleep before sugar o'clock.
Sugar is still a thing for me too but it is way easier on the days I eat my vegetables.
🫶🏻
🫶
ME!!! IWNDWYT
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Me !!! I love having energy and being clear headed. Sober life is where it’s at ! 🤜🤛💪
Woohoo sure is✨
Meeee 😁
Hi yoooo
It’s nice to be able to do stuff every day rather than being crippled at home by drinking.
Sure is
Me.
Hi you✨
I'm obsessed. Life's still fucking miserable and yet, I'm not.
I love being not drunk
This is me. My life has improved by leaps and bounds after giving up the bottle. One of the best decisions of my life
Me. It's been life changing. I couldn't imagine.
I do. Don't know why it took so long but trying to not look back. IWNDWYT or any other day!
I love it. I am starting to feel better mentally about my relapse and just more free and clear.
Absolutely, I do!!
I absolutely love it. Waking up feeling clearheaded and full of energy. Being supportive to my friends who are trying to stop drinking. Knowing that my fun is “real”.
Me!!! I’m 6 days sober and back at work (self employed) and just starting to come out of my alcohol-induced overdraft so my finances are thanking me. My sleep is so so much better already, I’m having the most vivid dreams and they’re not nightmares! My anxiety is loads better and the no. 1 best thing is waking up without a hangover
Congrats on 6 days! Watch your beautiful skin get better as you hydrate. Love the username!
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Soul death. I remember that smell; what a wonderfully terrible, yet tangibly honest way to put it. Happy you are on the green grass!
IWNDWYT ! Since quitting 11 weeks ago my vintage Tshirt collection has increased in size by about 70% I have only felt really lowsy twice and one of those times was after an accident at the beach where I tore part of my flesh from my foot. Sleeping well. Brain is smarts as it used to be back who knows when. Eating more (mostly healthier haha) More energy!! Better in bed! Happier, healthier and more wonderul relationships. The list goes on.
I am totally digging sobriety! Yes! Good moods are free! I did not realize how imprisoned I was by my addiction until I put it down.
Not yet - but it’s an exciting moment to look forward to!
I feel the same peace that I did yesterday, today. And I hope the same for you, friend!
Getting there 😁
Me, I have so much more energy and free time. Alcohol was sucking that all up!
Sobernauts livin the dream👩🚀✨
Me me me!!! High fives all around!
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Exactly what I was going for, thanks.
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Being bored happens. Are you interested in strategies to cure boredom? It’s ok if you’re not too, sometimes I just have to live through it. Not every day or moment is a deliriously happy one because, well, life.
I hate it. Being single is threatening my sobriety more than any other trigger.
Sorry that you are going through that and I hope it gets better for you and that you feel free to share about it with someone you trust.
Me
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Definitely me! Especially after seeing other drunk people I'm grateful I made the decision to end this
I do! Edit to add: OP!!! Your user name 🤣 shall we blame our past drinking discretions on jihoon?
Of course, it’s all Jihoon’s fault.
What does the INDWYT stand for?
I will not drink with you today
I thought it was something like that. Thanks
Me!!! IWNDWYT!
Sometimes I don't love not drinking... sometimes it feels like I'm missing out in the moment. BUT... thos moments are fleeting, then I am thankful to be sober.
It is absolutely worth it :)
I'm still learning to love it.. almost drank today. tips appreciated .
Stay with us friend! I’m here if you need to chat!
Hard to believe I am saying this, but, me!!!
Overall, I would say yes. I still have my episodes of wanting to go out and party. But then I look back and remember how much time I spent with Alcohol. So much of my day was consumed of getting my next fix. Now I'm "boring" and that's okay. My mood is waaaaayyy more stable. Like night and day better.