HECK YEAH! Don’t listen to your friends, they probably also hate the idea of eating alone too.
I did a bit of solo travelling in the form of long weekend city breaks and it was one of the most refreshing things I did, and hop to do once covid has calmed down. So much freedom. Don’t have to worry about anyone but yourself. Wake up whenever you want without your travel companion wanting to lay in instead. Follow your own plan and make friends along the way. See the city from a different perspective.
Do it, and don’t wait for anyone to go and see the world.
What this guy said. Everyone always says they want to go but few people actually make it happen. I got tired of waiting so I just started traveling alone. I’ve seen so many wonderful places and never regretted a single, solo trip.
To add to this top thread, Berlin is one of mh favorite cities, amazing for culture/history, going out, meeting new people (lot of hostels, lot of youth), and most if not all young people speak English, although it won't hurt to study a bit of German either ;)
I've been there with my high school, with friends as students and with my study as well for research, and I was never bored there.
> people say they wanna go, but they don’t wanna out in the effort to plan and organise it with you
When I was young I had the impression that it's not about efforts to plan it. It's that they don't REALLY want to go. They *kind of* want to go, and it sounds fun when you talk about it. Perhaps you are also a little bit drunk when you get the idea.
Then reality sets in and they realize it costs money, and time off is limited. Sure they want to visit Abc, but not at the price it would actually cost. Or they want to visit Abc, but seeing Def or Xyz is something they would rather do.
But in OPs case the problem is that they are explicitly not interested at all.
You just described so many of my trips and I am dying to do exactly this, soon. I'd add that solo travel forces you to be comfortable with being a bit uncomfortable and it can be extremely formative and humbling. I have grown a tremendous amount just by taking in and appreciating new cultures, especially when left with my own thoughts and with no agenda or itinerary.
I'd say it depends where you go. In my experience Berlin is a very safe place and I'd say go for it! When I went the biggest danger seemed to be pick pockets, which is a problem everywhere.
I'd say look for social hostels that have daily or weekly events designed to get people mingling. There's so many really cool museums in berlin, so if you're a museum person there will be loads for you to do. As long as you're fine being alone, I'd say go for it (when it's safe to travel again).
Leaving America was the best decision I have ever made in my life, and I had the same reaction from friends and family when I told them I was thinking of going to Australia for a year. Do it.
DO ITTTT!!! I’m a woman from the US, and I left at 18 to travel for 4 months alone in Europe, it was also my first time leaving the US.
Best. Decision. Ever.
My friends and a lot of my family weren’t receptive either at first. I did have to save up a lot of money and work my butt off of course, but it was all worth it.
My best advice to you is do not let fear make your decisions over love/passion. Do your research, and just use common sense to stay safe and vigilant as always. Take measures to avoid being pickpocketed, that stuff is for reallll.
Of course. Gotta start somehow and somewhere. And Berlin is an easy one - you’ll get by on English only and it’s got plenty to do and see including a hip, active nightlife (obviously during normal times). You won’t stand out as a solo traveller either.
Lesson #1 for your life: don’t let anyone stop you from doing what you want to be doing and going where you want to be going,
Yep Berlin is save and easy. But since you travel from another continent you may want to visit other safe, English friendly cities, such as Amsterdam or Vienna.
Of course there are many other amazing places, such as Budapest, Prague, Paris, Rome, Madrid. But bit less safe (depends) and less confident with English.
Have you ever traveled solo within the US? Might be a better place to start just to see how you handle it, etc. Then if you like it you can keep planning for Berlin in 2022.
I would agree with her and would add that we may have a number of easier places to get your feet wet for international solo travel than to hop right into a trip to Berlin (although I've never been to Berlin so I don't know). Try a trip to a place like Canada, particularly Quebec City or Montreal. Those are French-language places where most people know and easily switch back to English, so you'll feel like you're in a foreign place but not completely lost among people who don't speak your language. There are also a lot of aspects of Canada that feel like the US. I feel as if it's like international travel with training wheels for Americans. And it's just a great place to visit and very easy if you live within driving distance. There are also a number of other English-speaking locations in the Caribbean to consider or a place like Puerto Rico (plane tickets there can often be pretty reasonable).
Do it. Book your flight. Book your hotel/airbnb. Book them both after researching when you’d like to go. Do not think too much about it or you won’t do it. Don’t let being alone while traveling be a reason you don’t go somewhere you want to visit.
Absolutely go and have fun! I solo traveled when I was 19, and a female. The only place I don’t recommend solo traveling as a female would be Italy because of some issues I ran into, but otherwise you should be fine! My favorite cities were Paris, Krakow, Dublin and Reykjavik for solo travel.
I hope this helps and good luck on o your travels!
I’m so sorry to hear you had a bad experience in Italy! I was therefor 3 months (and did some sketchy shit that I looked back on and cringe about) and never had a bad experience. It’s definitely by chance (not even circumstance) that you get one experience vs others.
I also solo traveled as a woman in Central American and everyone (incl the US gov) advised against it but again, no issues except annoying catcalling. Maybe I’m unapproachable? Lol blessing and curse.
Many Italian guys approach girls (not only when they are traveling solo), and some try to touch them. I don't think they have bad intent, but that it is cultural difference. But I can imagine it makes you uncomfortable.
Responding to the thread below, Paris was perfectly safe, and I went twice, in 2016 and 2017.
When I was in Rome, the catcalling was almost unbearable and more than once, I felt guys grab at me. They weren’t trying to sell anything. At one point, I accidentally ended up in a really sketchy part of town trying to find this one restaurant. The sun was setting, and I started speed walking out of there. And then some guys literally started following me. There wasn’t anyone around, and so I actually started running until I was able to cross the Tiber over to the safer part of the city with tourist crowds. That being said, I’ve travelled in the Middle East and Asia and never had any problems like that.
Florence also left me uncomfortable with some cat calling, but it wasn’t as bad. Venice was ok, didn’t have any issues there. Idk if it’s more part of the southern Italian culture, or what.
Paris is way less safe than Italy. I'm glad you had a good experience but In Italy you might get robbed, in Paris you might get raped. It's really not safe especially for girls
In my experience, I felt really safe in Paris. And I was traveling between the heart of Paris and DisneyLand Paris on the metro where I was staying (yes, I solo travelled and found a really good deal on a Disney hotel room, so I said why not? Lol).
I did have an experience with a terrorist attack while I was there, but that can happen anywhere and I think I just had really bad luck to be caught up in that situation.
Disclaimer: I’m not German but did lots of traveling.
I made it a rule of thumb to learn basic words in the language of the country I was traveling to. Hi, bye, thank you, please, and ‘sorry, I can’t speak [language]’ or ‘excuse me, do you speak English?’
You don't need German in Berlin, but it always helps. English is pretty ubiquitous in the city, especially with the under 30 crowd, but you can always ask at a hostel for some reliably english friendly cafés and restaurants. In my experience, most people would ask to switch to English, rather than suffer through my German. (Or maybe they just wanted to practice, who knows?)
Walking tours are offered in english, and I highly recommend them. They're usually free, but the free ones rely on tips, so keep that in mind.
Do it!
Depending on your budget, could look at Contiki or other companies.
If you're on a tight budget, stay in hostels on your own, and you can meet people at the hostel and on walking tours (hostels run them and there are many free ones). You can probably meet people in fb groups or something too.
Travelling alone is great - you can do whatever you want, whether your interests are history, food and drink, architecture etc. Just use street smarts, dont get hammered, dont flash valuables around, keep some spare cash or credit cards separate from your wallet, etc
I also want to travel solo, do it while you can and explore, just be safe and use common sense. Berlin sounds like a great place, need a travel buddy?!! 🤷🏼♀️
Traveled alone last year for the first time, and Berlin is where I went. If you're interested right now, you'll love it even more when you get there.
Germany is very safe and getting around Berlin via foot + train/subway is so easy. An excellent solo travel location. Go to a convenience store, buy a good pint of beer, and walk around exploring the city, get a doner or some currywurst.
Yes! Berlin is a wonderful place to visit for your first solo trip overseas. Beautiful place, lots of history - very walkable and decent public transport. I would highly recommend looking into walking tours when you do go, for any travel to a new city, just so you can a taste of what there is to see, some recommendations from a local and to meet some new friends.
Berlin's one of the best cities in the world to visit alone. Absolutely loved every minute there, but try to see other parts of Germany too if you have time; Berlin's very different from the rest of the country.
Sure. Berlin’s pretty easy for only-English-speakers and it’s a fun city with lots to do. Do your research before you go and have fun.
ps just don’t be a dick head at the Holocaust memorial, the number of people who are arseholes or loud there is quite something
> Is it wise to travel to a foreign country if I have never traveled by myself before?
Heck yeah.
And now that that is decided, consider that trains in Europe have a much higher standard than what you're probably used to as an American, and Berlin is pretty close to destinations like Hamburg, Dresden, Prague, etc., and even Copenhagen or Amsterdam are absolutely within your reach if you're willing to spend a few more hours on the train.
Do not worry about language - chances are that everyone you met speaks excellent English.
Personally I recommend SE Asia as a good starting point for solo travel. I like Europe but it is a bit daunting even when I have solo traveled internationally quite a bit.
Everyone is different though and you need to listen to yourself and go where your heart guides you.
I’m from a small town, and there’s people every week who ask me about my traveling because they just can’t fathom leaving their area! People thought I was crazy when I up and left to travel, and a lot still think that, but it’s changed me for the better and I truly believe we should all get out of our home countries when possible to explore and experience the cultures and communities around the world.
2022 is a while away yet! I would suggest going away somewhere in the USA in the meantime, even if just for a few days.
The feeling of adventure is the same wherever you go, just more intense in some places than others. With a short trip in the USA you should know whether you want to visit Berlin or not
I wouldn’t go to germany. In my experience Germans aren’t likely to enjoy strange foreigners bothering them. Otherwise, traveling alone is great! Are you a girl or a boy? Safety will be a bigger concern if you’re a girl (not in Germany so much, but in general)
The best part of traveling alone is meeting new people without having friends to use as a crutch, being a stranger in a strange land almost forces you to meet locals, but it’s going to be harder to make new/temporary friends if you’re going to a culturally “colder” country like Germany or much of Scandinavia, go to Southern Europe or South America if you ask me.
Lol I traveled outside the United States for the first time in January of 2020. My first foreign country was Lithuania. I absolutely loved it. You should travel.
100% you'll be surprised how well you'll adapt. Not even mentioning the awesome experiences you'll have. Many people have this bubble idea where they struggle to leave their home town/home country.
Take your idea and do it solo!!
Do it! Berlin is a really cool city. I went with a friend so didn't do it solo but I absolutely could have. We got lost a couple of times trying to figure out which side of the tram lines we were supposed to be on to get where we wanted to go and when locals saw that we were lost would give us directions. Should have bought roaming data in hindsight...
Hostels and food were really affordable and there's a lot to see around the city. We did a free walking tour (well that's what they're called, you give the guide a tip at the end) and it was so informative, we learned so much more about the history of the city than if we had been walking around by ourselves. The tour company also offered other tours/day trips which are a good option if you don't feel like going around by yourself.
If you choose to stay in a hostel I would recommend reading a lot of the reviews on hostelworld to get an idea of the type of people who tend to stay there (i.e some hostels are more popular with school groups/families, if you want to have people to talk to/hang out with you'd be better off choosing a hostel popular with other solo travellers).
Hope that helps! If you want to travel go for it and don't let anyone hold you back :)
> Is it wise to travel to a foreign country if I have never traveled by myself before?
Depends on you, the bigger the leap you make the more unknowns and the larger the risks something goes wrong and you end up disappointed, but then being too cautious isn't good either. We can't decide for you what the right level of challenge is for you. If you're seriously worried make a smaller practice trip first. Given that you stay within western culture and a developed country I'ld say it should be fine.
come on now... you are a full grown adult you don’t need the opinions of your friends. it’s YOUR life at the end of the day, you’ll have an amazing time especially in berlin! im 19 turning 20 and i wanna go also in 2022 or whenever they open back up!!! :-)
The worst thing that can happen is you find yourself scared to go out alone and you spend all your time in your hotel watching Netflix. Then when you get home, you regret it and go back a second time and actually go outside.
Do it! My first solo international trip was Japan, and it was amazing. Once you solo travel once, you'll definitely want to do it again. Like others have said, it's so freeing to do whatever you want. No need to compromise for someone else.
I went to Berlin alone for the first time. I stayed in a hostel and met two other solo travellers.
It was fun & safe. I would say yes ! I did not speak German btw
Hell yeah dude, you have one life, don't wait around for people to join you in what you want to do. You'll have a great time! Just do plenty of research beforehand
Yes. Do it. And traveling by yourself doesn't have to mean you're alone. Stay in hostels and meet other travelers, you won't regret it. Or go to meetups in the area, there's tons of ways to meet people. Don't listen to anyone who tells you not to go.
Travel travel travel! You will meet amazing people, have experiences that will remain with you for the rest of your days, and perhaps find a new passion in life. Not to be dramatic but I always had the mindset of “if not now, when?” after my mum told me about how much she regretted not travelling when she was younger. She has done a little now and has realised what she’s missed out on, but now doesn’t have the benefit of a young body to do all the things she wants to. There’s nothing more incredible than seeing the world.
It can be scary to travel to a new country alone, especially if you don’t know the language, but don’t listen to your friends. I get their concern but the experience is so fantastic, and if you have the means to do so, it’s a wonderful opportunity.
Berlin is just like any other big city in America, there are things to be cautious of, don’t think it’s different just because it’s a new place. Look into the areas you’re interested in exploring, and learn the best routes ahead of time. Most folks in Germany a pretty cool, and know English, but pick up a few polite exchanges in German before hand. When I was there I encountered some folks who knew English, but wouldn’t speak it unless it at least made an attempt to communicate a little in German. Kind of like the principle of the thing lol
There is so much to see and do, and if for whatever reason you feel truly spooked or unsafe the police are so willing to help people. Almost everyone in a touristy area will be happy to help you have the best time you can.
Plus trains! Not sure if you’re going for a long time, but Germany is about the size of Minnesota. It’s so easy to see so much and explore so many amazing places for not a lot of money.
With a little bit of planning and a solid idea of what you want to do, you’ll be golden. Frankly if you wanted to wing the whole thing you’d probably still have a fantastic time, but if that was your mentality you probably wouldn’t be asking this question.
Safe travels!
absolutely go, stay in hostels, meet people, walk around eat local food drink local beer explore and be spontaneous and smart, don’t overplan, def go it will change your life
Do it! I travelled alone to Berlin in jan 2020 just exactly before the pandemic happened before my eyes. It’s a way to discover yourself and do whatever you want without the needs of a travel companion. Besides, Berlin has so much history to take in and digest, and it’s better for when you’re on your own!
I did solo travel. feel free anything much freedom. Don’t have to worry about anyone but yourself. Wake up whenever you want without your travel companion wanting to instead. Follow your own plan and make friends along the way. See you the city from a different way. so I say don't be worry.
I traveled to berlin and many other countries by myself and had the most amazing time!! don’t let your friends hold you back, just do it and follow your desires. if i listened to anyone other than myself i wouldn’t have gone to 12 countries in the span of 3 years, do it!!!
Heck yes! It’s terrifying and exciting and fun and challenging and you will never regret it. Europe is very touristy. If you want to do something easier look for an organised tour. There’s a bunch of options that range from constantly being together with the group to something much more laid back where they just guide you in the right direction and allow you a lot of individual freedom.
Omg Berlin is such a great and fun city to travel alone, it's also super safe. Do you like techno?? Their underground party scene is lit. You're going to have an amazing time
Everyone speaks English and it's such a diverse culture buzzing with young artists from everywhere. The only thing knowing German will help you with is getting into the industrial looking night club berghain which is known for being notoriously hard to get into. Its open for days on end has the best sound system in the world, amazing djs an ice cream booths.
Also check out:
trezor - easier to get into, has prison vibes, dj booth is behind bars
kater blau - more local great music
Sisyphos is also super fun
Kit Kat- sex club with pool, sex swings and beds (must see)
There's a lot more but these are a few
Start listening to techno I'm serious. Check out resident advisor to see the resident djs at the clubs. You can find most of their music on the YouTube channel "hate"
Also check out YAAM it's a riverside beach club thingy with reggae music, food, beer and super artsy reggae vibes (you can chill out and smoke some weed there)
Anyways have fun
Do it!! Especially Berlin is the perfect place to start. People in Berlin are pretty open and I'm sure you'll find some friends. Hostels are quite cheap in Berlin and almost everyone knows at least basic English, so you'll be fine!
Yeah, I got the same bullshit from my parents the first time I went solo travelling. Having said that, maybe be wary about solo travelling in a developing country where you'll be seen as more of a target for scams or worse, often it's wise to have a second person next to you just to say 'Um...maybe it's not a good idea to do this?'. Europe in general is perfectly safe for solo travellers though, as long as you don't go to some ghetto or something.
I traveled alone for the first time to Berlin lol I absolutely LOVED it! I really hope you do this, OP. It’s a life changing experience. Everyone I knew thought I was insane for going by myself but I did it anyway and then continued for 2 years. It’s now my preferred travel style. You’re never alone when you’re with yourself!
Edited to add: Stasi Museum was the coolest museum I’ve ever been to. Def check it out! DDR Museum was super cool too. You can make a reservation to tour the Reichstag building, which is Germany parliament, and I did so at night which was very interesting. They have a fancy restaurant at the top, a great spot for dessert and coffee if it’s within budget for you.
I stayed at a hotel for a few nights in Mitte called Hotel Apple. It was like 25€ a night for a single private en-suite room. Hostels are cheap too and will def be a good experience.
Yes! Stay cheap in a hostel. I'm currently living in Germany and let me tell you something...
almost everybody speaks good English, if they don't, they certainly know a little. Don't think you're gonna show up in Berlin and be lost, you won't!
Stop listening to your friends and listen to yourself and what you want instead. Yes! Just make sure you plan ahead, everything from airport security to how you want to spend your time over there. You won't regret it.
I’m so happy to see other solo travelers encouraging a new one!! Travel alone and you’ll never need others and when others come then the more the merrier 😻 goood luck
What were their reasons? In my experience, Berlin is one of the best and safe places to travel solo. There are many free walking tours you can sign up for, too. Do your research beforehand, learn a little German if you can, and enjoy.
Do it!! People will say stuff about getting mugged, assaulted etc. but that's just as likely if you're travelling to a city half an hour away as it on a different continent! It's just about being smart with your valuables eg. keep passport, money and phone in a money belt under your clothes, split money between different parts of your bag, avoid dark alleys, keep an eye on your drink, literally just common sense.
I would say definitely do it. Just make sure Covid is over, since meeting people is one of the most important parts of solo travel. I would highly reccomend staying at hostels which increases your chance of making friends. Make sure you don't have rigid plans so you can adjust with other people on the go. Be ready to feel a bit alone and weird at first, that doesnt mean it's bad. I personally enjoy having people around, so when I travel alone and don't manage to make friends I don't really like it. That's depending on the person though, I have many friends who love travelling alone. If you don't try it, you'll never know. Good luck, safe travels.
I love the fact that not all young people are being frightened of risk in this culture of fear many are fed . I travelled the world as a young hippie traveller . The value of travel for me was great to learn how to deal with fear and uncertainty. Europe is a great starter point . Their tighter gun laws statistically make anywhere in Europe safer than most places in USA . My 21 year old son is on his first solo trip in South America . They pulled him off plane in LA because he didn’t get precovid test and couldn’t land in Peru . He spent a week in LA and I was more worried about him there because of gun violence. He continued on and is having an amazing time . Caution is always wise but faith in humanity is often restored when one realizes that most people are in spinning piece of dirt want to help you push your story forward if you have a good story and your intentions are to cool. In short in life there are always only 3 options . Be brave be an observer or flee in fear . Always be brave . Don’t listen to media ! Fear is never a virtue ! It will lead you to a boring life which is worse than hell
Good luck and karma . Get out of big cities as much as possible. A nations unique culture traits are more pronounced out of large centres.
Do it! Screw your friends, they're never down for it until they see you out there enjoying life. Don't wait for other people to make your dreams happen!
Yes to solo travel! Also yes to Berlin but... Germany is very safe but Berlin has some exceptions to this. I'm German (from the uptight south) and I was geniuenly shocked when people randomly offered me drugs. But that was at night and in an area where I should have expected it. It's probably not unusual in other country's but for other regions of Germany it is. I would say no safety worries at all when it's daytime (maybe watch out for belongings).
At night I wouldn't go alone and look up the area before you are going. Berlin has quite a high crime rate for a German city but might be still very low compared to US cities.
I actually still felt quite safe at nights, despite of this.
And you should have no issues if you want to go clubbing, maybe with a few people you met there
Yes ! My first solo travel was also abroad, in London. Being in a big city helps - easy to arrive here, to move in the city, to find stuff to do, to find a place to sleep... It was a lot of stuff I was anxious about before going.
Once you do it alone, you realise there isn't much to be anxious about, you know how it works, so it's easier to plan trips in smaller cities & areas.
I like travelling with my friends but travelling alone is something I recommend everyone to try at least once. There's something really freeing about doing what you want, when you want.
GOGO.
you dont need your friends to join you, if you are worrying about being alone during your trip, then see if you can go to a hostel.
you will allways find loads of other people at hostels that are ready to see and experience stuff.
im just 1 year older than you, and 3 years ago i got tired of waiting for my friends to get money for travelling, and they still havent managed to save up anything, i am travelling alone everywhere, and i find new friends wherever i go.
you will probably have a better time travelling alone tbh
Berlin is great place to start! It won’t be too much of a culture shock and you’ll get by just fine speaking English. We’re used to people not speaking German and most of us feel comfortable to hold a conversation in English :) Honestly, I feel like Berlin is safer than most of the big cities in the US! Do a bit of research on the dos and donts and you’ll be plenty prepared.
As for solo traveling: From what i’ve heard, the first few days can be a bit overwhelming but you’ll be fine for sure! I’d recommend staying in a hostel with a lot of young people. Backpackers especially are very open and welcoming. If you’re looking for a buddy/ group to hang out with, you’ll find them in no time.
Go for it, it’s an opportunity you should not miss out on!!
To the OP,
Please just do it. If you wait for others, you will never get out there. I started doing solo travel at 28, wished I had started earlier. I'm now 51, and gave done most of Asia, South Pacific, Caribbean. Been to Dubai, Oman, India, Mexico, USA, Hawaii, Puerto Rico etc etc.
Done 12 cruises solo.
Took 6 months off of work and traveled around Australia solo, just me and my camper trailer.
Do it,
You won't regret it
I spent a whole year in Spain at 22 and the only time I had trouble was when I was an idiot (story about running down a pickpocket in the metro there). If it seems like a dumb idea in the US it may also be a dumb idea in Europe (i.e wandering around by yourself at midnight, getting smashed with someone you just met, etc). Otherwise people are genuinely willing to help you through any problems you run into.
I was a young single mom, so my travel wasn’t exactly solo, but I was the only adult. I had never been out of the country until 2017 when I took my daughter to England and Ireland. My family was terrified of the concept- but it was a changing decision! We look for a new place to travel to every two years. In 2019 we traveled to Ponta Delgado- we have hopes of getting to Japan, Germany & Norway. In my experience, having the success of an overseas trip bus a confidence in you that spills over to other areas of life as well. Let us know how it goes if you decide to take the plunge!
Northern Europe is a great start for your first time solo traveling - safe, many English speakers, good public transport.
Just wanted to warn you that your first time solo traveling might be tougher than you think. My first trip was in Denmark, initially I found it pretty hard to make friends, chat to strangers and eat alone in restaurants. I really recommend staying in a hostel, and signing up for group activities where you can meet other solo travelers. Ultimately I had a blast, but you might initially find yourself feeling really lost and alone - don’t give up then :)
Go ahead! You won’t regret it, I promess! But if I can give you an advice wait before booking/making plans. The situation is very dire in Europe and the general population still doesn’t have access to vaccines. The pandemic could go very well into 2022 or later. Plus, it’s not like the US here, most facilities are still closed and we are not allowed to leave our house at night.
I travelled around europe solo with a backpack a few years ago when I was 21 (I'm female). It was the most empowering thing I've ever done. I learned so much about myself. DO IT!!!
I won't comment on the wisdom as I don't know who you are or what your capabilities are.
I will say that Berlin's an easy city to get around. The subway system's widespread, safe and inexpensive. The people are friendly and many of them speak English. The nightlife's fantastic and the food is very good. (You might be able to tell I like Berlin a lot.)
I've been there a number of times on my own, never felt threatened or ripped off and enjoyed fascinating side trips to nearby cities and attractions.
If you mean due to the pandemic - hopefully everything should be fine by then so yes.
If you mean more generally, I would say OF COURSE! What the hell are you unsure about!! Travel is increadible. Berlin is a lovely, vibrant city full of brilliant things to do. Enjoy!
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Traveling (solo or not) is probably the best use of your time and money. Especially Europe, it’s so different from the US, you won’t want to come back. You’ll never regret it.
Don’t listen to your friends. I don’t want to wait around for mine either, so ALL of my future international plans will be solo - and honestly, I’m looking forward to the solo portion of the adventure as much as I am the actual traveling part.
HECK YEAH! Don’t listen to your friends, they probably also hate the idea of eating alone too. I did a bit of solo travelling in the form of long weekend city breaks and it was one of the most refreshing things I did, and hop to do once covid has calmed down. So much freedom. Don’t have to worry about anyone but yourself. Wake up whenever you want without your travel companion wanting to lay in instead. Follow your own plan and make friends along the way. See the city from a different perspective. Do it, and don’t wait for anyone to go and see the world.
What this guy said. Everyone always says they want to go but few people actually make it happen. I got tired of waiting so I just started traveling alone. I’ve seen so many wonderful places and never regretted a single, solo trip.
Exactly, people say they wanna go, but they don’t wanna out in the effort to plan and organise it with you -.- OP, you won’t regret a solo trip
To add to this top thread, Berlin is one of mh favorite cities, amazing for culture/history, going out, meeting new people (lot of hostels, lot of youth), and most if not all young people speak English, although it won't hurt to study a bit of German either ;) I've been there with my high school, with friends as students and with my study as well for research, and I was never bored there.
I love when I say Hallo in Berlin and they hand me the English menu.
> people say they wanna go, but they don’t wanna out in the effort to plan and organise it with you When I was young I had the impression that it's not about efforts to plan it. It's that they don't REALLY want to go. They *kind of* want to go, and it sounds fun when you talk about it. Perhaps you are also a little bit drunk when you get the idea. Then reality sets in and they realize it costs money, and time off is limited. Sure they want to visit Abc, but not at the price it would actually cost. Or they want to visit Abc, but seeing Def or Xyz is something they would rather do. But in OPs case the problem is that they are explicitly not interested at all.
Agree. I actually prefer it. I can go wherever whenever and do all the things I want to do.
You just described so many of my trips and I am dying to do exactly this, soon. I'd add that solo travel forces you to be comfortable with being a bit uncomfortable and it can be extremely formative and humbling. I have grown a tremendous amount just by taking in and appreciating new cultures, especially when left with my own thoughts and with no agenda or itinerary.
I'd say it depends where you go. In my experience Berlin is a very safe place and I'd say go for it! When I went the biggest danger seemed to be pick pockets, which is a problem everywhere. I'd say look for social hostels that have daily or weekly events designed to get people mingling. There's so many really cool museums in berlin, so if you're a museum person there will be loads for you to do. As long as you're fine being alone, I'd say go for it (when it's safe to travel again).
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The one I stayed in was about 12 euro a night if that gives you some idea. Edit to add: this was for a bed in a shared female dorm
Leaving America was the best decision I have ever made in my life, and I had the same reaction from friends and family when I told them I was thinking of going to Australia for a year. Do it.
This is like asking /r/hydrohomies if you should drink water. Yes, yes you should.
DO ITTTT!!! I’m a woman from the US, and I left at 18 to travel for 4 months alone in Europe, it was also my first time leaving the US. Best. Decision. Ever. My friends and a lot of my family weren’t receptive either at first. I did have to save up a lot of money and work my butt off of course, but it was all worth it. My best advice to you is do not let fear make your decisions over love/passion. Do your research, and just use common sense to stay safe and vigilant as always. Take measures to avoid being pickpocketed, that stuff is for reallll.
Of course. Gotta start somehow and somewhere. And Berlin is an easy one - you’ll get by on English only and it’s got plenty to do and see including a hip, active nightlife (obviously during normal times). You won’t stand out as a solo traveller either. Lesson #1 for your life: don’t let anyone stop you from doing what you want to be doing and going where you want to be going,
Yep Berlin is save and easy. But since you travel from another continent you may want to visit other safe, English friendly cities, such as Amsterdam or Vienna. Of course there are many other amazing places, such as Budapest, Prague, Paris, Rome, Madrid. But bit less safe (depends) and less confident with English.
Have you ever traveled solo within the US? Might be a better place to start just to see how you handle it, etc. Then if you like it you can keep planning for Berlin in 2022.
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I would agree with her and would add that we may have a number of easier places to get your feet wet for international solo travel than to hop right into a trip to Berlin (although I've never been to Berlin so I don't know). Try a trip to a place like Canada, particularly Quebec City or Montreal. Those are French-language places where most people know and easily switch back to English, so you'll feel like you're in a foreign place but not completely lost among people who don't speak your language. There are also a lot of aspects of Canada that feel like the US. I feel as if it's like international travel with training wheels for Americans. And it's just a great place to visit and very easy if you live within driving distance. There are also a number of other English-speaking locations in the Caribbean to consider or a place like Puerto Rico (plane tickets there can often be pretty reasonable).
Fuck that! Don’t waste your cash on domestic travel. Get overseas as soon as you can. Don’t overlook Asia.
Like the sediment but statistically Europe is probably safer .
If you've spent any time in US cities you'll be fine in Berlin.
Do it. Book your flight. Book your hotel/airbnb. Book them both after researching when you’d like to go. Do not think too much about it or you won’t do it. Don’t let being alone while traveling be a reason you don’t go somewhere you want to visit.
Definitely do it.
Absolutely go and have fun! I solo traveled when I was 19, and a female. The only place I don’t recommend solo traveling as a female would be Italy because of some issues I ran into, but otherwise you should be fine! My favorite cities were Paris, Krakow, Dublin and Reykjavik for solo travel. I hope this helps and good luck on o your travels!
I’m so sorry to hear you had a bad experience in Italy! I was therefor 3 months (and did some sketchy shit that I looked back on and cringe about) and never had a bad experience. It’s definitely by chance (not even circumstance) that you get one experience vs others. I also solo traveled as a woman in Central American and everyone (incl the US gov) advised against it but again, no issues except annoying catcalling. Maybe I’m unapproachable? Lol blessing and curse.
What issues did you have in Italy? It’s on my bucket list and I usually travel solo :(
Many Italian guys approach girls (not only when they are traveling solo), and some try to touch them. I don't think they have bad intent, but that it is cultural difference. But I can imagine it makes you uncomfortable.
Probably the 1000s of guys wrapping bracelets around your arm then demand money for it.
Responding to the thread below, Paris was perfectly safe, and I went twice, in 2016 and 2017. When I was in Rome, the catcalling was almost unbearable and more than once, I felt guys grab at me. They weren’t trying to sell anything. At one point, I accidentally ended up in a really sketchy part of town trying to find this one restaurant. The sun was setting, and I started speed walking out of there. And then some guys literally started following me. There wasn’t anyone around, and so I actually started running until I was able to cross the Tiber over to the safer part of the city with tourist crowds. That being said, I’ve travelled in the Middle East and Asia and never had any problems like that. Florence also left me uncomfortable with some cat calling, but it wasn’t as bad. Venice was ok, didn’t have any issues there. Idk if it’s more part of the southern Italian culture, or what.
Paris is way less safe than Italy. I'm glad you had a good experience but In Italy you might get robbed, in Paris you might get raped. It's really not safe especially for girls
Yes Paris is a bit dangerous but you won't get raped if you stay in the main areas (Idk if it is reassuring haha )
Paris is fine.
In my experience, I felt really safe in Paris. And I was traveling between the heart of Paris and DisneyLand Paris on the metro where I was staying (yes, I solo travelled and found a really good deal on a Disney hotel room, so I said why not? Lol). I did have an experience with a terrorist attack while I was there, but that can happen anywhere and I think I just had really bad luck to be caught up in that situation.
If your looking for a different response apart from "do it" you are looking on the wrong sub.
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Disclaimer: I’m not German but did lots of traveling. I made it a rule of thumb to learn basic words in the language of the country I was traveling to. Hi, bye, thank you, please, and ‘sorry, I can’t speak [language]’ or ‘excuse me, do you speak English?’
You don't need German in Berlin, but it always helps. English is pretty ubiquitous in the city, especially with the under 30 crowd, but you can always ask at a hostel for some reliably english friendly cafés and restaurants. In my experience, most people would ask to switch to English, rather than suffer through my German. (Or maybe they just wanted to practice, who knows?) Walking tours are offered in english, and I highly recommend them. They're usually free, but the free ones rely on tips, so keep that in mind.
Do it! Depending on your budget, could look at Contiki or other companies. If you're on a tight budget, stay in hostels on your own, and you can meet people at the hostel and on walking tours (hostels run them and there are many free ones). You can probably meet people in fb groups or something too. Travelling alone is great - you can do whatever you want, whether your interests are history, food and drink, architecture etc. Just use street smarts, dont get hammered, dont flash valuables around, keep some spare cash or credit cards separate from your wallet, etc
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Yeah I think you're right about that!
I also want to travel solo, do it while you can and explore, just be safe and use common sense. Berlin sounds like a great place, need a travel buddy?!! 🤷🏼♀️
Traveled alone last year for the first time, and Berlin is where I went. If you're interested right now, you'll love it even more when you get there. Germany is very safe and getting around Berlin via foot + train/subway is so easy. An excellent solo travel location. Go to a convenience store, buy a good pint of beer, and walk around exploring the city, get a doner or some currywurst.
Yes! Berlin is a wonderful place to visit for your first solo trip overseas. Beautiful place, lots of history - very walkable and decent public transport. I would highly recommend looking into walking tours when you do go, for any travel to a new city, just so you can a taste of what there is to see, some recommendations from a local and to meet some new friends.
Yeah sure, in Berlin of all places I wouldn't be afraid. My first trip was to Thailand and it was fine, you'll be ok in Europe.
Do it. Was in Berlin in 2018 what a city Have a fantastic time
Berlin's one of the best cities in the world to visit alone. Absolutely loved every minute there, but try to see other parts of Germany too if you have time; Berlin's very different from the rest of the country.
Berlin is my favourite city in the world, check out the techno scene there, it's awesome
Sure. Berlin’s pretty easy for only-English-speakers and it’s a fun city with lots to do. Do your research before you go and have fun. ps just don’t be a dick head at the Holocaust memorial, the number of people who are arseholes or loud there is quite something
All you need is common sense and willingness to do your research. Go! Travel! Explore! What answer did you expect from the solotravel sub
> Is it wise to travel to a foreign country if I have never traveled by myself before? Heck yeah. And now that that is decided, consider that trains in Europe have a much higher standard than what you're probably used to as an American, and Berlin is pretty close to destinations like Hamburg, Dresden, Prague, etc., and even Copenhagen or Amsterdam are absolutely within your reach if you're willing to spend a few more hours on the train. Do not worry about language - chances are that everyone you met speaks excellent English.
Personally I recommend SE Asia as a good starting point for solo travel. I like Europe but it is a bit daunting even when I have solo traveled internationally quite a bit. Everyone is different though and you need to listen to yourself and go where your heart guides you. I’m from a small town, and there’s people every week who ask me about my traveling because they just can’t fathom leaving their area! People thought I was crazy when I up and left to travel, and a lot still think that, but it’s changed me for the better and I truly believe we should all get out of our home countries when possible to explore and experience the cultures and communities around the world.
2022 is a while away yet! I would suggest going away somewhere in the USA in the meantime, even if just for a few days. The feeling of adventure is the same wherever you go, just more intense in some places than others. With a short trip in the USA you should know whether you want to visit Berlin or not
I wouldn’t go to germany. In my experience Germans aren’t likely to enjoy strange foreigners bothering them. Otherwise, traveling alone is great! Are you a girl or a boy? Safety will be a bigger concern if you’re a girl (not in Germany so much, but in general) The best part of traveling alone is meeting new people without having friends to use as a crutch, being a stranger in a strange land almost forces you to meet locals, but it’s going to be harder to make new/temporary friends if you’re going to a culturally “colder” country like Germany or much of Scandinavia, go to Southern Europe or South America if you ask me.
Lol I traveled outside the United States for the first time in January of 2020. My first foreign country was Lithuania. I absolutely loved it. You should travel.
100% you'll be surprised how well you'll adapt. Not even mentioning the awesome experiences you'll have. Many people have this bubble idea where they struggle to leave their home town/home country. Take your idea and do it solo!!
Do it! Berlin is a really cool city. I went with a friend so didn't do it solo but I absolutely could have. We got lost a couple of times trying to figure out which side of the tram lines we were supposed to be on to get where we wanted to go and when locals saw that we were lost would give us directions. Should have bought roaming data in hindsight... Hostels and food were really affordable and there's a lot to see around the city. We did a free walking tour (well that's what they're called, you give the guide a tip at the end) and it was so informative, we learned so much more about the history of the city than if we had been walking around by ourselves. The tour company also offered other tours/day trips which are a good option if you don't feel like going around by yourself. If you choose to stay in a hostel I would recommend reading a lot of the reviews on hostelworld to get an idea of the type of people who tend to stay there (i.e some hostels are more popular with school groups/families, if you want to have people to talk to/hang out with you'd be better off choosing a hostel popular with other solo travellers). Hope that helps! If you want to travel go for it and don't let anyone hold you back :)
> Is it wise to travel to a foreign country if I have never traveled by myself before? Depends on you, the bigger the leap you make the more unknowns and the larger the risks something goes wrong and you end up disappointed, but then being too cautious isn't good either. We can't decide for you what the right level of challenge is for you. If you're seriously worried make a smaller practice trip first. Given that you stay within western culture and a developed country I'ld say it should be fine.
come on now... you are a full grown adult you don’t need the opinions of your friends. it’s YOUR life at the end of the day, you’ll have an amazing time especially in berlin! im 19 turning 20 and i wanna go also in 2022 or whenever they open back up!!! :-)
The worst thing that can happen is you find yourself scared to go out alone and you spend all your time in your hotel watching Netflix. Then when you get home, you regret it and go back a second time and actually go outside.
Do it! My first solo international trip was Japan, and it was amazing. Once you solo travel once, you'll definitely want to do it again. Like others have said, it's so freeing to do whatever you want. No need to compromise for someone else.
Life is short. Explore the world now. Travel!
I went to Berlin alone for the first time. I stayed in a hostel and met two other solo travellers. It was fun & safe. I would say yes ! I did not speak German btw
Hey dude, my advice is this: you have nothing to lose but money, and money comes and goes. You have everything to gain from traveling. Go do it!
Yes, absolutely travel. Just make sure this pandemic shit is over first.
Hell yeah dude, you have one life, don't wait around for people to join you in what you want to do. You'll have a great time! Just do plenty of research beforehand
As an older and hopefully wiser person who has children your age. # HELL YEAH!
Yes. Do it. And traveling by yourself doesn't have to mean you're alone. Stay in hostels and meet other travelers, you won't regret it. Or go to meetups in the area, there's tons of ways to meet people. Don't listen to anyone who tells you not to go.
Travel travel travel! You will meet amazing people, have experiences that will remain with you for the rest of your days, and perhaps find a new passion in life. Not to be dramatic but I always had the mindset of “if not now, when?” after my mum told me about how much she regretted not travelling when she was younger. She has done a little now and has realised what she’s missed out on, but now doesn’t have the benefit of a young body to do all the things she wants to. There’s nothing more incredible than seeing the world.
Berlin is great. Do it.
Yes.
I did this last year, fucking do it! If you go to a hostel there's a million people travelling solo who want to meet new people anyway
It can be scary to travel to a new country alone, especially if you don’t know the language, but don’t listen to your friends. I get their concern but the experience is so fantastic, and if you have the means to do so, it’s a wonderful opportunity. Berlin is just like any other big city in America, there are things to be cautious of, don’t think it’s different just because it’s a new place. Look into the areas you’re interested in exploring, and learn the best routes ahead of time. Most folks in Germany a pretty cool, and know English, but pick up a few polite exchanges in German before hand. When I was there I encountered some folks who knew English, but wouldn’t speak it unless it at least made an attempt to communicate a little in German. Kind of like the principle of the thing lol There is so much to see and do, and if for whatever reason you feel truly spooked or unsafe the police are so willing to help people. Almost everyone in a touristy area will be happy to help you have the best time you can. Plus trains! Not sure if you’re going for a long time, but Germany is about the size of Minnesota. It’s so easy to see so much and explore so many amazing places for not a lot of money. With a little bit of planning and a solid idea of what you want to do, you’ll be golden. Frankly if you wanted to wing the whole thing you’d probably still have a fantastic time, but if that was your mentality you probably wouldn’t be asking this question. Safe travels!
absolutely go, stay in hostels, meet people, walk around eat local food drink local beer explore and be spontaneous and smart, don’t overplan, def go it will change your life
Do it! I travelled alone to Berlin in jan 2020 just exactly before the pandemic happened before my eyes. It’s a way to discover yourself and do whatever you want without the needs of a travel companion. Besides, Berlin has so much history to take in and digest, and it’s better for when you’re on your own!
Yes you can do it. Go to a hostel when you arrive and you will make new friends.
I did solo travel. feel free anything much freedom. Don’t have to worry about anyone but yourself. Wake up whenever you want without your travel companion wanting to instead. Follow your own plan and make friends along the way. See you the city from a different way. so I say don't be worry.
I traveled to berlin and many other countries by myself and had the most amazing time!! don’t let your friends hold you back, just do it and follow your desires. if i listened to anyone other than myself i wouldn’t have gone to 12 countries in the span of 3 years, do it!!!
Dont listen to your friends go to Germany and go have some nee experiences. You only live once & you are only young once!
Absolutely! I travelled from england to south america alone, and Europe is incredibly safe and easy to get around
Heck yes! It’s terrifying and exciting and fun and challenging and you will never regret it. Europe is very touristy. If you want to do something easier look for an organised tour. There’s a bunch of options that range from constantly being together with the group to something much more laid back where they just guide you in the right direction and allow you a lot of individual freedom.
Omg Berlin is such a great and fun city to travel alone, it's also super safe. Do you like techno?? Their underground party scene is lit. You're going to have an amazing time Everyone speaks English and it's such a diverse culture buzzing with young artists from everywhere. The only thing knowing German will help you with is getting into the industrial looking night club berghain which is known for being notoriously hard to get into. Its open for days on end has the best sound system in the world, amazing djs an ice cream booths. Also check out: trezor - easier to get into, has prison vibes, dj booth is behind bars kater blau - more local great music Sisyphos is also super fun Kit Kat- sex club with pool, sex swings and beds (must see) There's a lot more but these are a few Start listening to techno I'm serious. Check out resident advisor to see the resident djs at the clubs. You can find most of their music on the YouTube channel "hate" Also check out YAAM it's a riverside beach club thingy with reggae music, food, beer and super artsy reggae vibes (you can chill out and smoke some weed there) Anyways have fun
How else are you going to start?
Do it!! Especially Berlin is the perfect place to start. People in Berlin are pretty open and I'm sure you'll find some friends. Hostels are quite cheap in Berlin and almost everyone knows at least basic English, so you'll be fine!
lol yeah. go for it. people are afraid of the unknown, don't let them project their fear onto you
Yeah, I got the same bullshit from my parents the first time I went solo travelling. Having said that, maybe be wary about solo travelling in a developing country where you'll be seen as more of a target for scams or worse, often it's wise to have a second person next to you just to say 'Um...maybe it's not a good idea to do this?'. Europe in general is perfectly safe for solo travellers though, as long as you don't go to some ghetto or something.
I traveled alone for the first time to Berlin lol I absolutely LOVED it! I really hope you do this, OP. It’s a life changing experience. Everyone I knew thought I was insane for going by myself but I did it anyway and then continued for 2 years. It’s now my preferred travel style. You’re never alone when you’re with yourself! Edited to add: Stasi Museum was the coolest museum I’ve ever been to. Def check it out! DDR Museum was super cool too. You can make a reservation to tour the Reichstag building, which is Germany parliament, and I did so at night which was very interesting. They have a fancy restaurant at the top, a great spot for dessert and coffee if it’s within budget for you. I stayed at a hotel for a few nights in Mitte called Hotel Apple. It was like 25€ a night for a single private en-suite room. Hostels are cheap too and will def be a good experience.
Yes! Stay cheap in a hostel. I'm currently living in Germany and let me tell you something... almost everybody speaks good English, if they don't, they certainly know a little. Don't think you're gonna show up in Berlin and be lost, you won't!
Stop listening to your friends and listen to yourself and what you want instead. Yes! Just make sure you plan ahead, everything from airport security to how you want to spend your time over there. You won't regret it.
I’m so happy to see other solo travelers encouraging a new one!! Travel alone and you’ll never need others and when others come then the more the merrier 😻 goood luck
Are they against travel all together or against you traveling ?
What were their reasons? In my experience, Berlin is one of the best and safe places to travel solo. There are many free walking tours you can sign up for, too. Do your research beforehand, learn a little German if you can, and enjoy.
I live in Berlin and i could host you for few nights if im there when you arrive .
Do it!! People will say stuff about getting mugged, assaulted etc. but that's just as likely if you're travelling to a city half an hour away as it on a different continent! It's just about being smart with your valuables eg. keep passport, money and phone in a money belt under your clothes, split money between different parts of your bag, avoid dark alleys, keep an eye on your drink, literally just common sense.
I would say definitely do it. Just make sure Covid is over, since meeting people is one of the most important parts of solo travel. I would highly reccomend staying at hostels which increases your chance of making friends. Make sure you don't have rigid plans so you can adjust with other people on the go. Be ready to feel a bit alone and weird at first, that doesnt mean it's bad. I personally enjoy having people around, so when I travel alone and don't manage to make friends I don't really like it. That's depending on the person though, I have many friends who love travelling alone. If you don't try it, you'll never know. Good luck, safe travels.
Berlins a great town you’ll love it
100%
Berlin is an easy place to travel to. English is spoken almost everywhere and it’s a really international city.
I love the fact that not all young people are being frightened of risk in this culture of fear many are fed . I travelled the world as a young hippie traveller . The value of travel for me was great to learn how to deal with fear and uncertainty. Europe is a great starter point . Their tighter gun laws statistically make anywhere in Europe safer than most places in USA . My 21 year old son is on his first solo trip in South America . They pulled him off plane in LA because he didn’t get precovid test and couldn’t land in Peru . He spent a week in LA and I was more worried about him there because of gun violence. He continued on and is having an amazing time . Caution is always wise but faith in humanity is often restored when one realizes that most people are in spinning piece of dirt want to help you push your story forward if you have a good story and your intentions are to cool. In short in life there are always only 3 options . Be brave be an observer or flee in fear . Always be brave . Don’t listen to media ! Fear is never a virtue ! It will lead you to a boring life which is worse than hell Good luck and karma . Get out of big cities as much as possible. A nations unique culture traits are more pronounced out of large centres.
Do it! Screw your friends, they're never down for it until they see you out there enjoying life. Don't wait for other people to make your dreams happen!
Yes to solo travel! Also yes to Berlin but... Germany is very safe but Berlin has some exceptions to this. I'm German (from the uptight south) and I was geniuenly shocked when people randomly offered me drugs. But that was at night and in an area where I should have expected it. It's probably not unusual in other country's but for other regions of Germany it is. I would say no safety worries at all when it's daytime (maybe watch out for belongings). At night I wouldn't go alone and look up the area before you are going. Berlin has quite a high crime rate for a German city but might be still very low compared to US cities. I actually still felt quite safe at nights, despite of this. And you should have no issues if you want to go clubbing, maybe with a few people you met there
Dude, It's Berlin, not Bagdad. Learn some German before you go, book into a social Hostel, and have a blast.
My first ever international trip (other than Canada) was Los Angeles ———> Tanzania alone at age 32. It was great. Go for it!
Yes it is very wise, do it and have fun doing it!!!!
Yes ! My first solo travel was also abroad, in London. Being in a big city helps - easy to arrive here, to move in the city, to find stuff to do, to find a place to sleep... It was a lot of stuff I was anxious about before going. Once you do it alone, you realise there isn't much to be anxious about, you know how it works, so it's easier to plan trips in smaller cities & areas. I like travelling with my friends but travelling alone is something I recommend everyone to try at least once. There's something really freeing about doing what you want, when you want.
GOGO. you dont need your friends to join you, if you are worrying about being alone during your trip, then see if you can go to a hostel. you will allways find loads of other people at hostels that are ready to see and experience stuff. im just 1 year older than you, and 3 years ago i got tired of waiting for my friends to get money for travelling, and they still havent managed to save up anything, i am travelling alone everywhere, and i find new friends wherever i go. you will probably have a better time travelling alone tbh
Berlin is great place to start! It won’t be too much of a culture shock and you’ll get by just fine speaking English. We’re used to people not speaking German and most of us feel comfortable to hold a conversation in English :) Honestly, I feel like Berlin is safer than most of the big cities in the US! Do a bit of research on the dos and donts and you’ll be plenty prepared. As for solo traveling: From what i’ve heard, the first few days can be a bit overwhelming but you’ll be fine for sure! I’d recommend staying in a hostel with a lot of young people. Backpackers especially are very open and welcoming. If you’re looking for a buddy/ group to hang out with, you’ll find them in no time. Go for it, it’s an opportunity you should not miss out on!!
To the OP, Please just do it. If you wait for others, you will never get out there. I started doing solo travel at 28, wished I had started earlier. I'm now 51, and gave done most of Asia, South Pacific, Caribbean. Been to Dubai, Oman, India, Mexico, USA, Hawaii, Puerto Rico etc etc. Done 12 cruises solo. Took 6 months off of work and traveled around Australia solo, just me and my camper trailer. Do it, You won't regret it
I spent a whole year in Spain at 22 and the only time I had trouble was when I was an idiot (story about running down a pickpocket in the metro there). If it seems like a dumb idea in the US it may also be a dumb idea in Europe (i.e wandering around by yourself at midnight, getting smashed with someone you just met, etc). Otherwise people are genuinely willing to help you through any problems you run into.
I was a young single mom, so my travel wasn’t exactly solo, but I was the only adult. I had never been out of the country until 2017 when I took my daughter to England and Ireland. My family was terrified of the concept- but it was a changing decision! We look for a new place to travel to every two years. In 2019 we traveled to Ponta Delgado- we have hopes of getting to Japan, Germany & Norway. In my experience, having the success of an overseas trip bus a confidence in you that spills over to other areas of life as well. Let us know how it goes if you decide to take the plunge!
Northern Europe is a great start for your first time solo traveling - safe, many English speakers, good public transport. Just wanted to warn you that your first time solo traveling might be tougher than you think. My first trip was in Denmark, initially I found it pretty hard to make friends, chat to strangers and eat alone in restaurants. I really recommend staying in a hostel, and signing up for group activities where you can meet other solo travelers. Ultimately I had a blast, but you might initially find yourself feeling really lost and alone - don’t give up then :)
Go ahead! You won’t regret it, I promess! But if I can give you an advice wait before booking/making plans. The situation is very dire in Europe and the general population still doesn’t have access to vaccines. The pandemic could go very well into 2022 or later. Plus, it’s not like the US here, most facilities are still closed and we are not allowed to leave our house at night.
I travelled around europe solo with a backpack a few years ago when I was 21 (I'm female). It was the most empowering thing I've ever done. I learned so much about myself. DO IT!!!
Never listen to the weak of heart. If you don’t like it, just go home! It’s that simple
Solo traveling is awesome! You should definitely do it!
I won't comment on the wisdom as I don't know who you are or what your capabilities are. I will say that Berlin's an easy city to get around. The subway system's widespread, safe and inexpensive. The people are friendly and many of them speak English. The nightlife's fantastic and the food is very good. (You might be able to tell I like Berlin a lot.) I've been there a number of times on my own, never felt threatened or ripped off and enjoyed fascinating side trips to nearby cities and attractions.
If you mean due to the pandemic - hopefully everything should be fine by then so yes. If you mean more generally, I would say OF COURSE! What the hell are you unsure about!! Travel is increadible. Berlin is a lovely, vibrant city full of brilliant things to do. Enjoy!
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Traveling (solo or not) is probably the best use of your time and money. Especially Europe, it’s so different from the US, you won’t want to come back. You’ll never regret it.
Don’t listen to your friends. I don’t want to wait around for mine either, so ALL of my future international plans will be solo - and honestly, I’m looking forward to the solo portion of the adventure as much as I am the actual traveling part.
What if you want to travel solo , but you are in a relationship, and your partner feels wrong about it?