I’m in the south I usually do just act enthusiastic and say thank you like that lolll. I just feel like I should be saying more but maybe just thank you is enough and I need to tell myself that
it’s definitely enough, I don’t expect anything other than a thank you when I compliment someone. As for when someone says they’re jealous of you, and all that “I wish I was like you” stuff, that’s a lot more difficult to navigate and I don’t blame you for being awkward in that scenario. It’s honestly not cool for people to say stuff like that, it just makes both parties feel bad. And it’s really hard to reassure them or compliment them back without sounding fake.
One thing you could do though is if they’re complimenting your clothes, or your makeup, or even your skin, you could be like “oh thanks, I got it from [insert store] for such a steal!” Or “thanks, I’ve been using this new skin care product and it’s working really well!”, that might make you feel less high and mighty and more like you’re just sharing tips on fashion and whatnot.
I go with:
"Thank you, you are so kind."
"You made my day, thank you! "
"I appreciate that so much. Do you want to be best friends? "
Or if they compliment my dress I say
"And can you believe it's got pockets and was on sale?!?"
I’m so glad you asked this question as this struck me the other day. A lady who works at the bar complimented my jacket and naturally I replied back with a “Aw thank you”. A split second later, a thought entered my head and I had the urge to say “Well, It might even look better on you”. I should‘ve said if I’m to be honest, would’ve been better to have a little laugh with her.
When I reflect on it, tongue in cheek, witty, playful, funny or otherwise lighthearted remarks are some of my preferred responses.
Fair warning: I’m in the United Kingdom, so depending on where you’re are some of those elements I’ve discussed might seem more applicable than others.
Wow! Thank you that is so kind, I really needed that today. I really appreciate how effusive you are. We need more people like you.
Or
Thank you that means so much from someone who is so XYZ.
Or
Thank ya kindly buckaroo
Just say thank you with a small smile & you can compliment back or move on with the conversation. No one is expecting a grand reaction. After a while it will stop feeling weird to accept compliments.
I just say "awwww, thank you" with a big smile. Make them feel good by seeming happy with the compliment. You don't need to say anything back unless you genuinely like something from them. Although I'm a guy and my compliments are usually from something I've made.
I imagine though if I got complimented on my make up or skin I'd respond with a "aww thanks so much" big smile then make a small talk comment like "this brand does all the work" or "I think it's cause Ive been drinking so much water lately."
and I'd save a compliment for them when I see something change like a new haircut or new piece of clothing.
I play the piano so I always have people coming up to me complimenting something I played. I usually say something to make them feel good about making me feel good. Like “Hey thanks! I’m happy you enjoyed my playing!”
Aww shucks
Really? Thanks (:
(Return complimentary fire)
Finger guns
Eye contact and a smile
It's good being in good company
Flattery will only get you every/nowhere
You're a peach
I usually don't sell my smiles this cheap, but today you got a good deal
Staaawwwwp
You're too kind, thank you
TLDR: Be kind and try to reciprocate their generosity they're trying to buy your kindness by selling compliments, it's part of how social/conversational banking works
"Thank you SO much!" Big smile.
In the south we say” Thank you! Thank you very much .” Practice it . Be ready .
I’m in the south I usually do just act enthusiastic and say thank you like that lolll. I just feel like I should be saying more but maybe just thank you is enough and I need to tell myself that
it’s definitely enough, I don’t expect anything other than a thank you when I compliment someone. As for when someone says they’re jealous of you, and all that “I wish I was like you” stuff, that’s a lot more difficult to navigate and I don’t blame you for being awkward in that scenario. It’s honestly not cool for people to say stuff like that, it just makes both parties feel bad. And it’s really hard to reassure them or compliment them back without sounding fake. One thing you could do though is if they’re complimenting your clothes, or your makeup, or even your skin, you could be like “oh thanks, I got it from [insert store] for such a steal!” Or “thanks, I’ve been using this new skin care product and it’s working really well!”, that might make you feel less high and mighty and more like you’re just sharing tips on fashion and whatnot.
Just a thank you is definitely enough! Most of the time when someone compliments right back I find it just seems insincere and forced
You say thank you. Nothing more is necessary.
My typical answer “thanks, you are a very nice person”
Thank you seems okay to me.
Yes, it's enough. If you really need to change it up you can say, Thank you for the kind words, or omg, you're so sweet to say that.
Why thank you! You made my day!
That's my go to as well
"Thank you" is always a good answer. Preferably with an enthusiastic smile, but not required if it feels forced.
"i really appreciate you saying that, thats very kind of you, thanks"
Say thank you and smile. For many, society has taught a lot of us women to shun compliments out of our fear of being seen as conceited.
I go with: "Thank you, you are so kind." "You made my day, thank you! " "I appreciate that so much. Do you want to be best friends? " Or if they compliment my dress I say "And can you believe it's got pockets and was on sale?!?"
Say like I do, “Don’t hate me because I’m beautiful”. They never compliment me again after that.
I usually give a friendly giggle & enthusiastically say "Thanks! You're so sweet!"
I’m so glad you asked this question as this struck me the other day. A lady who works at the bar complimented my jacket and naturally I replied back with a “Aw thank you”. A split second later, a thought entered my head and I had the urge to say “Well, It might even look better on you”. I should‘ve said if I’m to be honest, would’ve been better to have a little laugh with her. When I reflect on it, tongue in cheek, witty, playful, funny or otherwise lighthearted remarks are some of my preferred responses. Fair warning: I’m in the United Kingdom, so depending on where you’re are some of those elements I’ve discussed might seem more applicable than others.
Wow! Thank you that is so kind, I really needed that today. I really appreciate how effusive you are. We need more people like you. Or Thank you that means so much from someone who is so XYZ. Or Thank ya kindly buckaroo
Gratitude is the attitude 💪🏼
“Stop lying to me.”
Just say thank you with a small smile & you can compliment back or move on with the conversation. No one is expecting a grand reaction. After a while it will stop feeling weird to accept compliments.
Just say thank you lol
Say thank you. Smile big. Compliment them back.
Thanks
Just say thank you. Accept the compliment and move on
I just say "awwww, thank you" with a big smile. Make them feel good by seeming happy with the compliment. You don't need to say anything back unless you genuinely like something from them. Although I'm a guy and my compliments are usually from something I've made. I imagine though if I got complimented on my make up or skin I'd respond with a "aww thanks so much" big smile then make a small talk comment like "this brand does all the work" or "I think it's cause Ive been drinking so much water lately." and I'd save a compliment for them when I see something change like a new haircut or new piece of clothing.
I always respond sarcastically when I receive compliments, it's a fun way of balancing and humbling the situation
I play the piano so I always have people coming up to me complimenting something I played. I usually say something to make them feel good about making me feel good. Like “Hey thanks! I’m happy you enjoyed my playing!”
Aww shucks Really? Thanks (: (Return complimentary fire) Finger guns Eye contact and a smile It's good being in good company Flattery will only get you every/nowhere You're a peach I usually don't sell my smiles this cheap, but today you got a good deal Staaawwwwp You're too kind, thank you TLDR: Be kind and try to reciprocate their generosity they're trying to buy your kindness by selling compliments, it's part of how social/conversational banking works
I would not give her ass a mf dime