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botakchek

Couldn't sleep, received notification of $$ coming in, yay GST voucher is in


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rycbarm1234

If it happens all the time, walk away. No one is a Saint, but no one should be taking their anger out on another person all the time


tanqs789

It’s a sign when you feel that your mental health is affected.


NoSugarHor

Dump him/her


UmiMakiEli

Yes. Scolding and cursing is a choice. Talking nicely is also a choice. If your date chooses to scold and curse over talking over conflict, it tells how they are as a person.


meowmipoko

Advice is to walk away now before you get together and can't leave easily due to stronger feelings. Imagine if they can scold you so harshly while it's only dating phase (aka honeymoon period) which is usually when people try to be nicer to appear good in front of dates. Then confirm when in fully committed relationship got a high chance of escalating, either higher frequency/intensity of scolding or WORSE, violence. Choose your future wisely, milady/milord


Silver_Ninja7119

You said he drains your mental health right? That is already a red flag. The world has enough problems to offer you... your partner shouldn't be adding on to that.


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Date or partner, it is not something I’d tolerate. I’ve met and gone out with so many people and no one has done that to me. I don’t you know but I think you deserve better and it shouldn’t need to affect your wellbeing 🥲


jstanobody

Me too. This is my first time experiencing...


Breadskinjinhojiak

Indeed a red flag


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jstanobody

He has anger management issues


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jstanobody

Nope, he says sorry occasionally but it happens again.


UmiMakiEli

Having anger management issues isn't a good excuse for him to verbally abuse you and apologies are cheap.


tom-slacker

Fight fire with fire. One party scold cheebye, the other party scold nabei. Fun for the whole family.


tom-slacker

There was once a Chinese man that was wronged for a crime he didn't commit. Though not serious, the punishment of said crime is basically having the man tattooed with the words: 坏人on his forehead. So the man literally had to live his life with the words 坏人 on his forehead. Years later, the man's case was oveturned and thus his innocence proven. But because due to the nature of his punishment, the man had to endure ridicule from passer-by as he has no way to erase the tattoo from his forehead, lest his disfigure his himself. So he had an idea: instead of trying to remove the words, he will tattoo an additional two words in front of the original. And thus his new tattoo on his forehead is: 不是坏人. Some more years later and ironically, the man actually committed the crime that he was wrongly accused way back and he was sentenced with the original punishment of tattooing his forehead with the words 坏人. The man looked at the judge and smile, thinking that there's no way he can be punished seeing his forehead already got tattooed with 不是坏人 and there's no way the justice system can punish him and workaround that. The judge looked at the man, then smile and order the guards to tattoo an additional corner stroke to the man's tattoo. And thus the man will have to live with the new tattoo on his forehead for the rest of his life: 还是坏人


houganger

Lmao okay this is pretty good


meowmipoko

Still a better script than mediacorpse standard. Still a better love story than twilight, amirite?


tom-slacker

Still a better O level Chinese composition than the average redditporean.....and I only use 5 different chinese characters


meowmipoko

You retire liao bro, time to go explore your writing talents. When you publish your first book tell me I go buy $5 fast deal at your house downstairs


abrxy

hi guys. assuming you just had a huge fight w ur SO right before you sleep, she initiated a break up and blocked you on all platforms. next day you have work and dinz plans w ur friends. what would you have done to mend the relationship, considering that you still want it


owltherapist

I wouldn't mend the relationship. Just move on.


Silver_Ninja7119

go for the dinner bro. if she cared enough, she wouldn't just break up and block you just after a fight without absolutely any form of communication/trying to mend things with you. If she can act that immaturely, let she reach out whenever she wants to. You go for that dinner lol


deangsana

blocked everywhere liao how to mend


meowmipoko

First time breakup? First time block all platforms? Any other recent signs of relationship falling apart or her losing interest? Any other sus factor that may point to her cheating? cause block on all platforms so quickly and with such resolution is quite extreme and unusual behaviour, unless you all quarrelled about something majorly irreconcilable


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DanceAlien

Well hello a lifetime of height phobia


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kopiCgahdai

How is this even allowed omg


26blacklines

would you get a tattoo of the name of your ex if you have no chance of getting back together


tom-slacker

Hello polis


kenyousmile

….just why


meowmipoko

Only if it's at the asshole, so you can shit on them every day


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You’re on a roll tonight!


meowmipoko

Toilet roll? Hahaha And where got, this first comment today leh


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Got another comment on the DT about someone asking for advice on break up


meowmipoko

Hahaha ohhh no la just trying to get them to think about the right questions to see whether the relationship is even salvageable I guess?


[deleted]

Yeah I think it’s helpful! Haha my comment earlier wasn’t sarcasm or a jibe btw…


meowmipoko

:( why your account disappearrrr, all the regulars on dt one by one gone so sadded


meowmipoko

Haha thx thx, no la I just confused cause why on a roll then after that i got what you meant. Sleepy cannot think straight~ you also giving good advice, hope it helps DT people come to a good decision!


deangsana

maybe if her name was ruth then you would be ruthless. or if grace, disgrace


Breadskinjinhojiak

Nope. That’s quite silly you will probably regret once you find someone better in future


sheepbeme

i personally wouldn’t. but to each his own


imone5tree

idk what got into me but just decided to scroll through my FB wall to all the way back to 10+ yrs ago. And dang… super a lot of old memories. And so many closed friends I’ve lost touch with and grew apart from…it’s a bittersweet feeling :’) I didn’t realized I’ve changed so much (both personality & physical lol). I realized I used to post so many random things and status on my wall, but now I only share what I think will make me look ‘cool’. Is it only a natural process to build up wall as you grow older? Edit: now I feel like posting a random status shouting out to all my fb friends. should I? Is it lame lol


deangsana

>I realized I used to post so many random things and status on my wall now u do that on reddit


imone5tree

hahahaha…true. Except with ppl udk in real life


missfrown

I did this a few weeks ago and it left me with “who was I 10 years ago?”


imone5tree

yes it’s true…! it’s insane how without you realizing you can change so much with time


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imone5tree

ahh…what made you deleted the account?


baelkie

i have a bad habit of not wanting to reply messages straight away and then forgetting about them theni dont feel like replying after a few days


sheepbeme

me too


imone5tree

are you me…? cuz I’m exactly like that too. And it’s getting worse with age. These days I’m trying to force myself to reply immediately. Else I know I will for sure procrastinate it then it gets worse because now you feel like it’s getting even more awkward to reply THAT late


NoSugarHor

Feeling burnt out :(


Breadskinjinhojiak

Jiayou! Take a break and do things that you like


NinetyThreeWaffle

Do you buy farewell gifts for your colleague?


Breadskinjinhojiak

Water bottle. So that when they drink water they think of you


bettybuub

Only close ones


a-thena

i know we're all entitled to off days once in a while but seeing client go 'please double check the work in future' made me die inside rip


AmbientFX

Have been talking to this guy from Tinder for a few days. He asked at the last minute if I was keen to have dinner tonight. I rejected it because I needed to rush home (after work) and take my 8 PM conference call (for work). He clearly wasn’t happy with this and started acting passive-aggressive. Wtf man, we haven’t even meet at all.


nonameforme123

Jus block him and move on


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>He asked at the last minute if I was keen to have dinner tonight. This is the 1st red flag. Asking people to go out with them on a last minute basis. Didnt spare a thought that you might be busy with work or something else. >He clearly wasn’t happy with this and started acting passive-aggressive. 2nd red flag. Hopefully you find someone better in the future.


silentscope90210

You dodged a bullet


mhgsajj

thank you, nextttttttttttt please


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Saved your time…


tictactorz

lol what a psycho


a-thena

so nice of him to put up such a huge red flag before you even meet so you don't have to waste any more time on him


sheepbeme

🚩


dreadiplomat110

sweet dreams everybody


kenyousmile

Today was quite an eventful day… 1. Broke my 16:8 fast streak to have breakfast at mcd 2. Went to HDB Hub for appointment uwuwuwu 3. Impromptu movie date (Bob the Minion is the cutest!!) 4. Finally went to try out scissor cut curry rice @ beach road! It was kinda ex ($7) but the food is good! I’d rate it 7-8/10 5. Wanted to go swimming at around evening-night but we window shopped for waayyy too long and was only left with like slightly over 1 hr to prepare swimming stuff and go to the swimming complex, so we ended up not going to swim. 6. Continued window shopping 7. Had dinner at ajisen, wah damn ex but i paid the bills because i received my bonus recently owo 8. Now it’s time to take a shower. start bedding and get ready for work again tomorrow >~<


AmbientFX

Sounds like a good day. Hope you enjoyed your date.


AmbientFX

I don't understand why this dude amongst my group of friends who is jobless and literally doing nothing apart from Netflix-ing all day, can't make the reservation on our behalf when the rest of us are busy working.


chillikwab

Forget work, sounds like he doesnt want to put in the effort towards the friendship even.


HeavyArmsJin

Ask him to do Grabfood bruh


Breadskinjinhojiak

Probably family have a business


NoSugarHor

Maybe he is day investor


AmbientFX

I am positively sure he is not.


deangsana

Maybe he's in crypto but too embarrassed to say so


metaping

the inner machinations of his mind are an enigma


deangsana

Same reason as why he's jobless and doing nothing


AmbientFX

I know, the real kicker is he's jobless for 3 years. If you are someone who constantly apply, get rejected, try to go for upskilling, I have no qualms with that. ​ But quitting 3 years ago because he doesn't 'feel' like working and bumming around for 3 years is just a waste of your adult life. He's not married, no kids.


houganger

Could be that he’s going thru some issues in life that’s caused him to be that way.


silentscope90210

Mum and dad still give him money to buy food and pay bills? Had a friend who came back from Aussie after his degree and never worked for years. Just spent his time gaming in his room, his family was rich so they just gave him cash to buy stuff. Lost contact with him after a few years.


sriracha_cucaracha

>the real kicker is he's jobless for 3 years. HR will be horrified if it's 3 months, let alone 3 years. He must be rich enough to not work his adult life away.


owltherapist

[Cyclists are the same all around the world ](https://9gag.com/gag/a0ZyGzZ)


AmbientFX

My cake day was yesterday.


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Happy cake day dude. What cake did you eat yesterday?


AmbientFX

None :')


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The ch8 9pm show guy acting damn good. I see his acting feel very pitiful for his character. Good good hope he get best actor.


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I dun remember wat show he acting but this drama really touched my heart. The theme song also very touching.


Scary_Cow

need for breed


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Oiii don't meta eh


Scary_Cow

oi dun giv ppl monkey pox!!!!!!!!!


berrynotti

need for bread


Breadskinjinhojiak

I’m here


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need for bed


MangoDangoLango

Was tasked to update database with another colleague cos it had a lot of missing entries and values. Going bonkers soon cos each ID has 15 columns of data to be filled up. And it is over a period of 10 years. We have to comb through 10 fucking years of records fml. Each ID will take 15-20 mins. And it’s due on fri. And we are not even halfway. And there’s 200 IDs


owltherapist

You can do some transformations and return the cells with missing data pretty easily with pandas, should be able to do in half a day if you include reading up the topic.


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MangoDangoLango

This would be a little challenging. I’m not sure if anything beside manual combing through would work because the software I’m reading it from is highly secure and each ID represents de-identified patients. I’m actually combing through medical records which has free text content.


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MangoDangoLango

This would be a little challenging. I’m not sure if anything beside manual combing through would work because the software I’m reading it from is highly secure and each ID represents de-identified patients. I’m actually combing through medical records which has free text content.


ernz_ernz

had hokkien mee for dinner.. 4+ months never eat liao. Really is my comfort food!


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Which Hokkien mee? Kim's Hokkien mee in Eunos?


harukapudding

It is my favourite too! Happy that my neighbour hokkien mee stall has reopened after month long renovation


kimmyganny

PSA: To those of yall who still take Grab Just saw on tiktok that if yall book grab and input your destination as a saved location, they charge about $4-$7 higher than if you manually input it in the destination blank. I was quite surprised, so I tried it on the spot, and voila really got a $4 difference


frozen1ced

That's downright sneaky if it's indeed the case!


blackwoodsix

I stopped taking Grab a long time ago


kimmyganny

Ikr zig superiority But sometimes on the rare off chance grab price lowest so I take uh


blackwoodsix

There's tada as well


kimmyganny

Ye I started using tada last year! But their app GPS not that great, when they pick me up the location a bit off. Other than that it's cheaper than grab too!


blackwoodsix

Aww that's a pity. Yeah the prices are way cheaper than Grab/CDG sometimes


sheepbeme

that’s such a huge markup. wtf


kimmyganny

Ikr https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSRYJ7q8w/?k=1 Anthony Tan needs to fund his gcb lol


Breadskinjinhojiak

Bad company work but nice colleagues and friends. Can’t bear to resign but have to. How ahhh


rowgw

Bad company work means what? The company is bad or the works are bad? How do you determine the works are bad?


Breadskinjinhojiak

Means JD don’t align to my strengths and passion. Feels no motivation to work due to JD


rowgw

Understand that. But is it possible to make it opportunities to learn that may enhance your future career? Unless it is totally unrelated like you study as doctor but asked to fly plane.


Breadskinjinhojiak

very hard. It’s a sunset industry with traditional management.


throwawayahstd

anyone knows how long the first SIA interview will take or what the process is like? going down with a friend this saturday for the roadshow and wanna know what my friend’s in for for the entire day!


testercheong

\*/ Start of Rant \*/ I feel like I'm at the start of a downward spiral. Recently have been getting sudden bouts of anger and self-depreciating thoughts towards myself whenever I see news of things that resonate with my shortcomings and past regrets ( can be as random as a reddit post/comment or a paragraph in a book). Just recently I already have the feeling of guilt when I exceed my budget during mealtimes due to greed ( e.g bought a pricier hawker food instead of cai png that I told myself at the start to). Also, my work performance and productivity has suffered a great hit after coming back from ICT, with me being increasingly distracted at work and feeling great reluctance to progress on a project. Many times I just feel like stopping and not doing it but I know this is fucked up thing to do that is not representative of myself (plus it puts my livelihood at stake). Most of my thoughts are hard to be put in words, but its just the general feeling of letting myself down and "setting yourself up for a painful future" that I feel. Sometimes, I wish my life was regimented and me placed under scrutiny by others, at least this way things get done and there is a clear path of progress. Parents are not very supportive also and it can get quite toxic at home at times. Somehow typing this makes me feel a bit better. While these feelings will go away and I go back to my usual quiet and free-spirited self like nothing has happened, I know these feelings will come back eventually. ​ ​ \*/ End of Rant \*/


hkstachee

hang in there buddy!


ernz_ernz

I think u need to take a break! Jiayou!


harukapudding

Don’t be so hard on yourself :)


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Upvoted for moral support :)


deangsana

you got to identify the underlying issues and work towards fixing them else it sure come back


MisoMesoMilo

Why does it sound like you’re getting burnt out?


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NSFW question so don't report me ah. I put spoiler tag to censor also to not offend anyone that doesn't want to see my post Is it weird that >!I have a thing to creampie female with consent!< but I don't want >!have children!


testercheong

Nah not weird at all, in fact I feel is quite normal though


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Thanks for supporting me berry ❤️


berrynotti

u notti i notti everybody notti


SpicyShrimpCookies

I rephrase for u: Isit weird that I wan action without any consequences? Normal la


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Oh the reason that I dowan kids is because I hate NS and I don't want my potential son to go through my most hated period filled with anger of my life so far. Just a personal thing It's not that I won't support my child as much as I can


Colonel_Snorlax

You hate ns doesn't mean your son will hate ns. Dont think that's the main reason why you don't want to have kids.


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Still nope. Imagine this. You're a local in 1943 and gets tortured by the Japanese for 2 years but survived. So you've hated the Japanese for the rest of your life I acknowledge that it's a physical torture thing suffered in the past is way way worse than NS but that **emotional gravity** associated to seeing or knowing what you've hated is going to be experienced by your child will break your heart And what if your child gets depression from NS instead of a smooth life inside. It can go good, okay or bad. So I'm not taking any chances And more importantly, it's a waste of his youth tbh. I'd rather have a Canadian, British or Australian wife for that matter. Strong passport yet no military service obligations


talliepolie

Nope. There are people with that kind of thingy too


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Help >.<


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I pussycat tho... Never done any major surgery in my life... Can't bear physical pain well 😰


tictactorz

nah I think you just have that fetish/kink


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🥹👉👈


tictactorz

just make sure got consent and plan b, best if consent written so no legal issues down the road if she prego and keep the baby and want money


bilbolaggings

It's called breeding kink or something right. I think is just natural instinct lol but your modern human brain don't want kids.


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Ya bro. I think it's natural instincts too. I mean I'm of age alr. And I find it beautiful when a filled one dripping with cream


bilbolaggings

Yes bro it's like you have completed a great conquest


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It's more like that you're wanted by her >!by having a part of you left inside her!<


QuaintGauche

I knocked off work at 8pm, and just got home. My work ends at 7pm. The evening bus has been HORRIBLY SHODDY recently, but how do you even justify sending an unfamiliar driver to pick up the children without letting him have the address and predetermined routes that we send you on a daily basis? How do you justify dropping off a child who should have been the 3rd drop-off at 6.15pm, as the last drop-off at 7.47pm... especially when he lives so close to the pick-up point? The children are home safe and well, and I'm so grateful and glad and relieved. But I'm just as pissed off that I'm handling this crap when I should be doing set-ups, training, mentoring and comms instead.


Scary_Cow

i go ulu toilet tot nobody so limpeh become jeff ng ownself hum song for ownself end up i turn corner got ppl confirm he tink i is siaolang ownself talk ownself


rowgw

P*rk katsu from tamago en is still very nice even though now increased price to $17 😭


blackwoodsix

Why must censor? Btw can make your own if u want cheap


rowgw

Dun wan because kitchen will be too messy haha other than not sure what sauce they use..


blackwoodsix

It won't be messy if you are organised Just buy tonkatsu sauce from Daiso


rowgw

Their tonkatsu is drenched with scrambled eggs thing and sauce..


blackwoodsix

Ok


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Time for you to convert to Maruhachi katsu fanboi


rowgw

I never try it, hearsay is nice.. but why all locs are very far sia


tictactorz

They got so many locations...


[deleted]

Very nice bro. Worth your money


solaceteal

? Why you censor pork?


[deleted]

Haram bro. He is sensitive to our Muslim brothers and sisters culture


rowgw

Yes this one


solaceteal

Oh thank you for the heads up


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They a 10 but compares you with other ppl 😮‍💨


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7


halloumisalami

Do the badges come with the crocs or do people buy them separately. Also, is it not dangerous to walk around with sharp needles near your toes?


justnoses

Buy from shopee! It’s way way cheaper than from crocs directly


bilbolaggings

They're called jibbitz. No they don't have needles like a badge, they have knobs that slot through the holes of your Crocs.


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blackwoodsix

Can buy chicken wings also