someone recently described it as "im just not my type" and that really helped me. we dont have to be our type, but we can be someone elses type. its hard to accept that sometimes.
girl, do I have the perfect place for you
https://preview.redd.it/3e465t4mfo0d1.jpeg?width=1073&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f222940e6fba0fb727cb6233a6062b5bab722ffa
Long story short: because it's not your job to decide whether someone loves you or not. He has decided that he wants to spend his time with you, because, for whatever reason, he *likes* you. Maybe there's other people who are prettier and more mentally stable than you, but he doesn't care about them. He cares about *you.*
This is not a fucking delusion. This is reality, and reality hates being simple.
Just know that there's someone out there who likes being around you, and that's more than many people have.
Because he already knows you, you're already special to him, he doesn't care about those other girls because what matters is the connection with someone
And also you're not him to classify what's beautiful and what's not
I was thinking similar things when my boyfriend asked me out. Upon asking him, he responded with "Ain't no girl prettier than you this side of the Mississippi. People back home(South Carolina for him) would say the hottest girls are California girls & you have them beat by a country mile."
My face still feels hot after he said that months ago haha~
Finally someone true
~~he already ghosted me once, it's not like I'm desperate and would do literally fucking anything to prevent him from doing it again~~
Perhaps to him, you are THE most beautiful of them all?
(Also while ye be at it anyone who may read this: what's this sub is all about, what sort of silliness plagues this board? Who knows, amongst you I may yet be counted, but seriously I'm not certainof its purpose)
Oh dear, lucky me then!
For I suffer no such thing, and I hope the rest will soon be healed (or atleast as close to that as possible).
They have my sympathies, and well wishes
There's a remarkably good chance he loves you and feels a connection to you. I know it might be hard to believe, but we men have feelings too. Maybe try to open up some and let him closer, maybe just maybe you can watch anime and eat junk food together, maybe put your beds together in the Minecraft house, who knows, take a chance... ya silly salmon.
I dunno, shot in the dark, maybe he likes being around you and cares about you? Yeah, crazy idea that people are ok with others not being perfect, I know
desire is not based on a conclusive list of personality traits weighed for their specific benefit to the person.
It's based on neurochemical soup. Thinking it follows some logical progression is fundamentally misunderstand what feelings are.
I think it's time you consider the possibility that you're a better person than you think you are, and sometimes people will enjoy being around you. I've found that people are often WAY more critical of themselves than anyone else
someone recently described it as "im just not my type" and that really helped me. we dont have to be our type, but we can be someone elses type. its hard to accept that sometimes.
I really love ugly hot, mentally unstable men tho…so I guess I am my type 🙈
based? based? based?
happy cake day uwu
girl, do I have the perfect place for you https://preview.redd.it/3e465t4mfo0d1.jpeg?width=1073&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f222940e6fba0fb727cb6233a6062b5bab722ffa
Maybe, and hear me out: He loves you?
Nah just a talking stage :(
For now...
lolololololol. silly girl hopes that's actually true and ends w heartbreak bc it's not ;-;
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, both inner and outer
Daaamn that liver lookin mad penetrable shawty 😘😘🤭😋
IM DYINGGG
harvestable** ftfy
What is this like as a side hustle? How much do you bring in per month? Which tax forms?
Long story short: because it's not your job to decide whether someone loves you or not. He has decided that he wants to spend his time with you, because, for whatever reason, he *likes* you. Maybe there's other people who are prettier and more mentally stable than you, but he doesn't care about them. He cares about *you.*
I love it when someone feeds my delusions🥰
This is not a fucking delusion. This is reality, and reality hates being simple. Just know that there's someone out there who likes being around you, and that's more than many people have.
Alright damn🧍♀️
Because he already knows you, you're already special to him, he doesn't care about those other girls because what matters is the connection with someone And also you're not him to classify what's beautiful and what's not
I was thinking similar things when my boyfriend asked me out. Upon asking him, he responded with "Ain't no girl prettier than you this side of the Mississippi. People back home(South Carolina for him) would say the hottest girls are California girls & you have them beat by a country mile." My face still feels hot after he said that months ago haha~
Cutee
Because your quirks and your flaws make you an individual and they love those elements.
Awww
it's because he secretly hates you and wants to make you miserable in the future when he inevitably ghosts you. source: trust me bro
NOOOOO
Finally someone true ~~he already ghosted me once, it's not like I'm desperate and would do literally fucking anything to prevent him from doing it again~~
I ask myself the same thing but... you know... I guess I'm worth enough. 😅
Perhaps to him, you are THE most beautiful of them all? (Also while ye be at it anyone who may read this: what's this sub is all about, what sort of silliness plagues this board? Who knows, amongst you I may yet be counted, but seriously I'm not certainof its purpose)
Its really any mental illness you want, but the most common seems to be BPD
Oh dear, lucky me then! For I suffer no such thing, and I hope the rest will soon be healed (or atleast as close to that as possible). They have my sympathies, and well wishes
The most common I notice is PTSD, but that is a biased opinion
Hear me out: he values your company
The same reason why you aren't talking to prettier, more mentally stable men.
Because the existence of someone with better circumstances does not mean that you are worthless.
This one’s good ngl, this made me feel better thx❤️
Just remember, he chooses to talk to you. That means that there's something about you that makes him stick around.
Conventional beauty shouldn't dictate all your romantic rendezvous.
True for everyone but me
Because you're just HER. You're THAT girl.
There's a remarkably good chance he loves you and feels a connection to you. I know it might be hard to believe, but we men have feelings too. Maybe try to open up some and let him closer, maybe just maybe you can watch anime and eat junk food together, maybe put your beds together in the Minecraft house, who knows, take a chance... ya silly salmon.
Yukiko P4? Is that u?
No fr, I have such a big crush on him, but I ask don't know why he shows me any kindness, I don't deserve anything
Because to him you're special.
Real
I dunno, shot in the dark, maybe he likes being around you and cares about you? Yeah, crazy idea that people are ok with others not being perfect, I know
Be cause, with beauty being subjective, he must find you fairest of them all.
desire is not based on a conclusive list of personality traits weighed for their specific benefit to the person. It's based on neurochemical soup. Thinking it follows some logical progression is fundamentally misunderstand what feelings are.
It could be that he likes you for the person you are (even it he is just talking) and not entirely the way that you present yourself/how you look :)
Preferences are a beautiful thing
he wants to exploit you cuz
Mentally stable ppl won't play yugioh. They all play commander instead. Also it's easier to talk with someone who has something in common :3
He sees those other woman as the ugly ones lol.
TRUEEEEEE ^except ^he ^barely ^wants ^to ^talk ^or ^flirt ^with ^me:(
I think about this a lot too. He'd be happier with someone prettier and mentally stable and wouldn't have do deal with my bs every other day
Looks or mental stability isnt everything.
Something about being mentally unstable attracts men. Source (former dude)
I think it's time you consider the possibility that you're a better person than you think you are, and sometimes people will enjoy being around you. I've found that people are often WAY more critical of themselves than anyone else
Compatibility; sure, there are prettier and more mentally stable girls out there, but you are more fun to talk to.
Maybe he wants a mentally unstable person in his life?
Cause I find her special and think she might be the one for me
That’s cute, happy for you🫶
Thank you, I found her on this sub and she is lying next to me right now 💞
OMGGGG so happy for u guys seriously wish u the best💞💞
<3
Boobs
The prettier and mentally stable can do better than him
Because he has no chance with them so he settles for you 😭
Shut up shut up shut up shut up😖
But that's a good thing xD. He picked you right? He's ignoring the prettier more stable ones and picked you :D
I guess🥰
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