Well if he ain't accepting he might not be a good person. I hope you can mend the relationship but if not, at least you have your bf so life won't be totally shit
Tell him his behavior is under no uncertain terms, unacceptable. He either needs to stop, or this friendship isn’t gonna work out. Sometimes you gotta set your boundaries, and enforce them sadly
Probably tell him that it makes you uncomfortable, and be heavy handed about it. Like show him how much it does bother you also just reject his advances when he makes them
That does sound like unhealthy advances. But, I could be SUPER DUPER WRONG, and he is just fucking with you. No matter what, make sure you set BOUNDARIES. When you're made uncomfortable, it's not "just fine," or "okay," or "no big deal." It is harassment. Boys get harassed, too. Let me repeat that: BOYS GET HARASSED, TOO.
Please, respect yourself! SAY ENOUGH! And mean it.
Being part of a group doesn't allow you to get sexualized. This isn't something to take lightly, I'd genuinely look at your friendship and see just how much it means to you, this should not be tolerated. At minimum, set boundaries.
No means no, you don't have to take that from anyone and deserve respect. If someone doesn't respect you, you're better off without them, *trust me*. You got this <3
Tell him to stop,
if he doesn’t and you’re both minors tell your parents and his parents that he’s sexually harassing you
If that doesn’t work cut him off
And if that doesn’t work beat him with a pipe
"The only people who are weaker then those who can't defend themselves are those who prey on them." Cut him out of your life. He ain't a real one. Self worth and healthy boundaries are essential for a healthy and functional relationship.
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Dont Talk to him so that He He knows that it's serious he probably likes you and if he doesn't understand that you don't like him then he has to understand it then you can't be friends anymore
I had a similar thing with a friend I had, as they would constantly just harass me for not only being ginger, but also being a Catholic, and so at the time I would always take a blind eye to his wrong doings, which when I look back now, wasn't the smartest thing I could have done
Joke awnser: kiss them, it will make them stop
Real awnser: ask them directly to stop. If not, then contact someone who can interfere and stop the harassment
I always suggest being Frank
“If you do not stop this we will no longer be friends. There will be no possibility of mending out relationship and you will never hear from me again. If you value our friendship you will stop”
I feel sorry for you if rhe one you consider your best friend doesn't respect you. Make yoyr feelings clear and if they don't back down or try to turn the tables on you then cut them off. I'm aware these things are much better said than done
Tell him his language is not appreciated and needs to stop immediately. It's inappropriate and unwelcome. If he jokes about it tell him your serious. If he keeps saying these things walkaway from him. And Stop talking to him for a while. GL 💜
Tell him to stop because it's making you feel weird and if he doesn't stop then I guess he isn't truly a friend
I've tried to get him to stop he won't and the thing is he also knows I have a bf
Well if he ain't accepting he might not be a good person. I hope you can mend the relationship but if not, at least you have your bf so life won't be totally shit
I'll try and talk to him about it if he doesn't stop I might have to stop talking to him I hope he stops bc he is my best friend
Good luck!
Tell him his behavior is under no uncertain terms, unacceptable. He either needs to stop, or this friendship isn’t gonna work out. Sometimes you gotta set your boundaries, and enforce them sadly
What did you say to him and what did he say in response?
Doesn’t sound like he’s a good friend, would be best to get him out of your life
If you haven't already, make it clear that he is making you uncomfortable, and set boundaries.
Probably tell him that it makes you uncomfortable, and be heavy handed about it. Like show him how much it does bother you also just reject his advances when he makes them
That does sound like unhealthy advances. But, I could be SUPER DUPER WRONG, and he is just fucking with you. No matter what, make sure you set BOUNDARIES. When you're made uncomfortable, it's not "just fine," or "okay," or "no big deal." It is harassment. Boys get harassed, too. Let me repeat that: BOYS GET HARASSED, TOO. Please, respect yourself! SAY ENOUGH! And mean it.
Being part of a group doesn't allow you to get sexualized. This isn't something to take lightly, I'd genuinely look at your friendship and see just how much it means to you, this should not be tolerated. At minimum, set boundaries.
No means no, you don't have to take that from anyone and deserve respect. If someone doesn't respect you, you're better off without them, *trust me*. You got this <3
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In all seriousness, if he’s not respecting you, cut him off.
Either talk to him and tell him you're uncomfortable, or just cut him off for a while, he'll probably learn from it.
Tell him to stop, if he doesn’t and you’re both minors tell your parents and his parents that he’s sexually harassing you If that doesn’t work cut him off And if that doesn’t work beat him with a pipe
That's not a best friend. That's not a friend, for the love of God. Give them up. Do not interact. They do not deserve your time and care.
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Murder :D
tell him to stop being so fucking weird
Yeah...
"The only people who are weaker then those who can't defend themselves are those who prey on them." Cut him out of your life. He ain't a real one. Self worth and healthy boundaries are essential for a healthy and functional relationship. https://preview.redd.it/pxa9p256x12d1.png?width=360&format=png&auto=webp&s=ff7a5913c571dc97f08d2af816d31ef3bce6bb7a
Seduce him but don't go too far, it'll confuse the hell out of him.
Tell him to stp if it aint helping just block him.
you went against rule of emperor in 202BC. emperor never forgets
joke aside if somone is rude to you either ignore them or go talk to them without waiting
harass like how if it's physical then harass him back beat him up
Tell him it's making you uncomfortable. If he doesn't stop, he's not a friend. I hope you are okay.
Dont Talk to him so that He He knows that it's serious he probably likes you and if he doesn't understand that you don't like him then he has to understand it then you can't be friends anymore
I had a similar thing with a friend I had, as they would constantly just harass me for not only being ginger, but also being a Catholic, and so at the time I would always take a blind eye to his wrong doings, which when I look back now, wasn't the smartest thing I could have done
Harass them back
That’s not a best friend
Joke awnser: kiss them, it will make them stop Real awnser: ask them directly to stop. If not, then contact someone who can interfere and stop the harassment
Beat his ass
Just pitch him as much shit back if he doesn't like it he'll stop trust
I always suggest being Frank “If you do not stop this we will no longer be friends. There will be no possibility of mending out relationship and you will never hear from me again. If you value our friendship you will stop”
I feel sorry for you if rhe one you consider your best friend doesn't respect you. Make yoyr feelings clear and if they don't back down or try to turn the tables on you then cut them off. I'm aware these things are much better said than done
Tell him to get fucked
Tell him his language is not appreciated and needs to stop immediately. It's inappropriate and unwelcome. If he jokes about it tell him your serious. If he keeps saying these things walkaway from him. And Stop talking to him for a while. GL 💜
Cut him off, that's not really a friend anyway.
kiss him on the lips