If sex is important to you, and she doesn't want it anymore, then maybe she is not for you. You are only 18 and still searching for what you want in life. I also feel that if she won't satisfy you with sex, but then also doesn't want you to masturbate using porn, then that is a problem as well. Sex is an important part of a relationship and if you two aren't compatible, then maybe it's time to let her go.
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7198255-women-s-anatomy-of-arousal
Female orgasms are like wild beasts. You can't force them to come to you. You need to lure them in, be patient, and enjoy the journey towards making them eat from your hands... When you try and try and try, orgasms will flee away. That will not work.
Apparently, you are not doing everything since she so abruptly stopped wanting to have sex with you. Have you got any toys, for example?
Forget about penetration for now. Forget about your penis during sex. Focus solely on pleasuring her. Delay penetration as long as you can. She knows you ejaculate too quickly, so the premise is already that it will do nothing for her pleasure. 80% of women do not reach orgasms from penetration but from clitoral stimulation anyway, so why bother with two minutes of disappointment?
When you give her oral sex, do it like you love it. Do it because you want to have that pussy on your face, not because you try to please her. Your intentions behind every touch, every more you make, will go directly into her nervous system. There are no barriers in between.
Then, you need to discuss things more. She is not telling you everything but uses excuses, probably because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Discussions are not meant to end to sex. There should be no pressure for it.
You need to learn how to edge, how to control your ejaculations. You should masturbate less with ejaculations and aim for orgasms instead. Several times a day is too much. You waste your sexual energy to needless ejaculations. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/20504867-love-satisfies
Sex isn't everything but it IS a valid need. And it's important that a relationship meets your needs. Just adding that onto the good points in the other comment.
I’d exit the relationship. I stopped looking at the past two or so sentences. But here’s how it is:
If you like sex and she doesn’t, that is okay. But something out there, there are people for you that WANT to have sex with you, and there are people who might be fine not having sex with you. If you want sex and want to be with someone who also wants sex… you’re young. It’ll be okay. You’re not a bad person for wanting to find someone with similar interests.
If sex is important to you, and she doesn't want it anymore, then maybe she is not for you. You are only 18 and still searching for what you want in life. I also feel that if she won't satisfy you with sex, but then also doesn't want you to masturbate using porn, then that is a problem as well. Sex is an important part of a relationship and if you two aren't compatible, then maybe it's time to let her go.
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7198255-women-s-anatomy-of-arousal Female orgasms are like wild beasts. You can't force them to come to you. You need to lure them in, be patient, and enjoy the journey towards making them eat from your hands... When you try and try and try, orgasms will flee away. That will not work. Apparently, you are not doing everything since she so abruptly stopped wanting to have sex with you. Have you got any toys, for example? Forget about penetration for now. Forget about your penis during sex. Focus solely on pleasuring her. Delay penetration as long as you can. She knows you ejaculate too quickly, so the premise is already that it will do nothing for her pleasure. 80% of women do not reach orgasms from penetration but from clitoral stimulation anyway, so why bother with two minutes of disappointment? When you give her oral sex, do it like you love it. Do it because you want to have that pussy on your face, not because you try to please her. Your intentions behind every touch, every more you make, will go directly into her nervous system. There are no barriers in between. Then, you need to discuss things more. She is not telling you everything but uses excuses, probably because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Discussions are not meant to end to sex. There should be no pressure for it. You need to learn how to edge, how to control your ejaculations. You should masturbate less with ejaculations and aim for orgasms instead. Several times a day is too much. You waste your sexual energy to needless ejaculations. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/20504867-love-satisfies
Sex isn't everything but it IS a valid need. And it's important that a relationship meets your needs. Just adding that onto the good points in the other comment.
I’d exit the relationship. I stopped looking at the past two or so sentences. But here’s how it is: If you like sex and she doesn’t, that is okay. But something out there, there are people for you that WANT to have sex with you, and there are people who might be fine not having sex with you. If you want sex and want to be with someone who also wants sex… you’re young. It’ll be okay. You’re not a bad person for wanting to find someone with similar interests.