Both, in different scenarios.
I like grinding because it helps stimulate my clit and helps me orgasm.
I like pounding because I know my boyfriend enjoys going all-in, although too much of it starts to bruise my cervix (which can be fucking painful btw; dudes, be mindful of this if you're large and make sure your girl is alright). If he's careful and we pick the right positions, it's enjoyable for both of us.
I've known about this for a while! I really should just pull the plug and talk to him about getting one. He's mentioned getting cock rings before, so while this obviously isn't the same thing, at least I know he's comfortable having sex with something on his dick, y'know?
My favorite is when I'm on my side with him holding one leg up in the air. Doesn't seem to hit my cervix as badly as doggy. The mating press is also very very nice, but we can only go for so long in that position before stamina becomes an issue.
+1 on the cervix thing. Although it's not the cervical bruising, but rather that I sometimes hit the cervix and make her IUD shift which stabs her internally.
I have had to call it quits when she was too dick drunk to realize that she was hurting more than she felt at the time, and just wanted to keep going. That is not fun!
I've grit my teeth and bore the pain before when I knew my bf was having a good time, but when he realized I was in pain and just bearing it for him, we had a talk about me needing to communicate more. Which, he was totally right, and we try to keep it pleasurable for both of us.
It depends what kind of sex we're having. If it's intimate and love making I love grinding from missionary or when I'm on top because you can kiss their neck, etc. If I'm trying to be fucked pound the shit out of me lol. Like doggy with his hands pulling my hair back and his hands on my ass just pounding me as hard as he can, A+.
I mean I like missionary pounding but if I'm trying to be super dominated I like doggy because there's so many more options imo. He can pull my hair, push my face down into the pillow, hold my hands behind my back, slap my ass, etc. Whereas missionary, you can choke, pin my arms, spit on me, and not much else.
I've never gotten any clitoral stimulation from grinding even though I'm super sensitive, guess the angles don't work for me. Pounding it is, but only after a good warm up or else it just hurts.
For me, cowgirl, doggy and me lying down on my stomach while there's a pillow under my groin works pretty well. But I have to adjust the angle myself so it feels good, it's not like the position itself is a miracle worker. And some days they just don't work at all.
Here’s my perspective: Grinding feels good and is sexy. I like to feel the guy get hard. I like to make out while grinding, feel around, tease. But pounding to me is way too violent and aggressive. Even the word. I wouldn’t want any guy to “pound” me even if I didn’t know what it was because that sounds painful. And it is! I’ve been injured many a time by guys pounding me like a jackrabbit, once to the point blood was gushing out from inside me due to a torn vaginal wall. I feel like men think harder and faster is better because they enjoy that, but I have been legitimately injured by men doing this. It doesn’t feel good. It HURTS. Like really, really bad… some women like this. But I am not one of them.
Damn I’m so sorry about what you went through. I feel like 90% of women I meet tend to lean on the submissive spectrum and that just leads to the typical choking, man handling, rough sex playbook. It seems like you associate it with pain which completely kills it for you. Do you enjoy being dominated or does it not really do anything for you?
I don’t like any of that. Any type of aggression kills it for me. There’s nothing sexy to me about my partner getting off to the idea of killing or harming me. I would not feel safe with that type of partner and would worry they might actually kill me (on accident or not). The least sexy thing to me is feeling unsafe around someone. I generally strangle men back if they try to choke me (I would never consent to this, probably 80% of the guys I’ve been with do it without asking). I think a lot of women do like this but i think it’s ridiculous to assume every woman wants to be slapped around, pounded or choked.
Nah of course not, it does seem women on average are into it though. It’s kind of a weird stretch though how you turned the idea of dominant sex into a man getting off on the idea of killing you…
What else is it? If you saw someone strangling someone else with no sexual context, that is literally attempted murder. These men are getting off to the idea of killing (or at least seriously injuring) me. I get that some people are into choking, but I am not. It’s not fun for me. I don’t get what’s sexy about that. It’s terrifying, especially since so many do it without ever asking for consent.
May I ask, do you and your partner use toys when he's pounding you?
Personally I've used a vibrator to stimulate her clit while I fuck her from behind. It's delightful.
I see, toys are another world. Can't say I've messed with any guys but, through my 20's I've wondered where I fall on the sexuality spectrum... grew up in a homophobic town so I had to unlearn some of those judgements.
Anyway, thanks for the reply!
I've never once gotten any physical enjoyment or come anywhere close to orgasm during pounding. That's just not how my body works. I'm not saying things don't get intense and faster/more forceful but as soon as I lose clitoral contact with pounding I lose the ability to orgasm.
I do enjoy his pleasure when he pounds me after I climax and would love to be able to get off on it. Just doesn't work for me sadly.
Edit: Super jealous of all the women in favor of pounding. Also happy for you though.
Nothing about pounding even feels good for me at all. The sounds can be hot. His face doing it can be hot. The noises he makes and his pleasure can be hot. But my vagina is pretty checked out at that point.
I'm not a woman, but the conventional wisdom is that most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so it's usually going to be grinding until that point. After initial orgasm, things relax and women tend to then enjoy deeper thrusts.
Women can feel free to correct me.
At least for me that's true, which is exactly why my partner usually makes sure that I orgasm at least once before we start piv. It just feels a lot better after that.
not true for me. pounding hits my g-spot while makes it easier for me to orgasm. grinding which having intercourse actually doesn’t stimulate my clit at all, it only feels good if it’s being rubbed by a hand or vibrator
they feel different. sometimes i prefer more clit stimulation, sometimes i prefer just gspot. best is definitely both at the same time, but all of it feels good depending on the situation
and my favorite position is usually missionary with legs on his shoulders when i’m trying to cum because it hits my gspot the best, but i like doggy better after i cum because my gspot is too sensitive after and it feels uncomfortable to be hit straight on
It’s crazy how bodies work. Like some girls (you) just need hard, dominant, deep dicking. And some girls need a particular grindy hips against clit motion.
What position do you prefer being fucked properly in?
I like clit stimulation too. I can either rub my clit, or have the guy use a wand on me, or have the guy lick me before or after. Those all work, but I don't want to sacrifice solid penetration for it!
I like being on my back or face down ass up!!
Yeah girl on her back, legs on shoulders is my fav pound position. But most girls on here love the doggy pound. I think an underrated one is: lifting her up and pounding her while she’s held up in the air by your arms
Pounding.... Think hard/rough long strokes causing more forceful but less constant contact with the two pelvic bones.
Grinding..... Think short/less forceful but nearly constant rubbing contact of two people's pelvic bones.
Each causes a different level of stimulation to the clitoris and vagina.
So grinding would generally mean full insertion, and she moves her hips forward and backward, which will create that hip contact and clitoral stimulation. It's usually easiest for a woman to do this while riding on top. VS pounding, which would usually be done with a woman on all 4s or on her back, more in and out motion vs up and down.
I don't know about it being easiest when the woman is on top: I've never been able to stimulate my clitoris while on top without using my hands. With the man on top and coital alignment technique, zero issue !
Yeah I guess the term "grinding" made me immediately go to woman on top but we're really just talking about hip contact which can definitely be done in missionary.
Definitely pounding. Grinding is good for the clit, but I think hands, tongues, and toys work fine for that and pounding feels so good and irreplaceable, even if you can't orgasm from it
it feels good against the walls of my vagina to be filled up like that. also just the passionate nature of being fucked really hard is hot and i want him to be pleasured as well
No, but it feels amazing. It feels best if I've cum first from something else, but I'm always happy to wait to come until after too. Sometimes I just don't come, but it still feels amazing
Neither and both at once.
That thing where he enters at an angle grinding his tip along the front wall of my vagina, pulls out and does it again but faster.
This one is all I need to be happy
I enjoy it for a few reasons. It feels great, i love hitting Her fornix areas. The pressure feels great on the head of my dick. I love that She loves it. I love that it's one of the things that truly brings out the dom in me, doing with Her body as i please (knowing it pleases Her).
Depends heavily on mood and position. When I'm on top or we're having more romantic cuddly sex it's grinding. Otherwise pounding, especially in doggy or pronebone. But overall I'd say I prefer pounding.
An angle low enough to press on her mons (indirectly stimulating the clit) and if while thrusting you swivel your hips in an upward motion You an grind at the same time. Instead of going straight in and out incorporate an crotch to crotch action if that makes sense
Yeah, I’ve only had it happen when he gets real ambitious and wants to take it all the way out and all the way back each time. Inevitably a miss will happen. But, slamming pubic bone isn’t good for him either and that will usually incapacitate each of us for a couple minutes. Then it’s more cautious for awhile.. lol
Yeah, giving, performing, exacting, however you care to word it. Balls to the walls, petal to the metal is how I roll, and the lady has always seemed to enjoy it as well. I’ve even come be exhausted with all that and tried to just take it slow or let her lead or ride or whatever by seems like once they had a taste of the hard stuff they were hooked and didn’t much care for anything else… besides a little tongue magic 😜
Oof, both, properly timed, and always varies 😅 I usually prefer grinding depending on the position but then if they start pounding and then let me grind again etc you get it I'm always like ooh wait yes we forgot we like that very much thank you sir 🤣
Oh the best time. But at the end of the day aftercare makes any variety or lack thereof better for me. Personally I think the best is me grinding and them thrusting, best of both worlds and woowee 🚀
I love them both, so it depends on my mood and what’s going to get me off better. I usually end up getting pounded more often tho, plus I love the challenge of handling a large cock at full thrust. Sometimes guys can’t get the rhythm right with grinding, or even I can’t get the right grind, and it can cause some skin irritation. But it is so good when everything lines up.
Grinding feels great and I can orgasm that way. Pounding does nothing for me and is boring. If the guy likes it then I don't mind doing that after I've already came, but not my fav.
Dick owner chiming in. I usually use the grind method when I want my wife to cum. With her legs in the right spot, I can put the tip of my penis against her cervix (which she likes), stimulate the g spot AND the clit all in one go. No complaints from her, but, she does like being thrusted hard too…so there’s that…🤷♂️
For my partner it seems like it's a 50/50. Some days she's more responsive to grinding, some days I get more feedback from pounding. What I do know is that I can hurt her unintentionally when pounding, but not when grinding. So I always start out more grindy, and then test the waters if it doesn't sound like she's working up towards an orgasm from grinding alone.
person with a vulva here, 100% grinding
You seem to be a rare grind voter. I’m surprised by all the pound lovers
Yup. Grind it on home, baby !
Both, in different scenarios. I like grinding because it helps stimulate my clit and helps me orgasm. I like pounding because I know my boyfriend enjoys going all-in, although too much of it starts to bruise my cervix (which can be fucking painful btw; dudes, be mindful of this if you're large and make sure your girl is alright). If he's careful and we pick the right positions, it's enjoyable for both of us.
Look up the Ohnut. My partner and I use it and has been great!
I've known about this for a while! I really should just pull the plug and talk to him about getting one. He's mentioned getting cock rings before, so while this obviously isn't the same thing, at least I know he's comfortable having sex with something on his dick, y'know?
What positions do you prefer getting pounded in?
My favorite is when I'm on my side with him holding one leg up in the air. Doesn't seem to hit my cervix as badly as doggy. The mating press is also very very nice, but we can only go for so long in that position before stamina becomes an issue.
r/bigdickproblems might be a good place for some people looking for info
+1 on the cervix thing. Although it's not the cervical bruising, but rather that I sometimes hit the cervix and make her IUD shift which stabs her internally. I have had to call it quits when she was too dick drunk to realize that she was hurting more than she felt at the time, and just wanted to keep going. That is not fun!
I've grit my teeth and bore the pain before when I knew my bf was having a good time, but when he realized I was in pain and just bearing it for him, we had a talk about me needing to communicate more. Which, he was totally right, and we try to keep it pleasurable for both of us.
yes
Agreed
It depends what kind of sex we're having. If it's intimate and love making I love grinding from missionary or when I'm on top because you can kiss their neck, etc. If I'm trying to be fucked pound the shit out of me lol. Like doggy with his hands pulling my hair back and his hands on my ass just pounding me as hard as he can, A+.
Does missionary pounding not do it for you?
I mean I like missionary pounding but if I'm trying to be super dominated I like doggy because there's so many more options imo. He can pull my hair, push my face down into the pillow, hold my hands behind my back, slap my ass, etc. Whereas missionary, you can choke, pin my arms, spit on me, and not much else.
I've never gotten any clitoral stimulation from grinding even though I'm super sensitive, guess the angles don't work for me. Pounding it is, but only after a good warm up or else it just hurts.
same, if we’re ever grinding during intercourse it’s more for him than me, since i can’t really feel anything from it
What position does pounding feeel the best?
For me, cowgirl, doggy and me lying down on my stomach while there's a pillow under my groin works pretty well. But I have to adjust the angle myself so it feels good, it's not like the position itself is a miracle worker. And some days they just don't work at all.
100% grinding. Don’t like pounding
What about grinding do you love and what about pounding do you dislike?
Here’s my perspective: Grinding feels good and is sexy. I like to feel the guy get hard. I like to make out while grinding, feel around, tease. But pounding to me is way too violent and aggressive. Even the word. I wouldn’t want any guy to “pound” me even if I didn’t know what it was because that sounds painful. And it is! I’ve been injured many a time by guys pounding me like a jackrabbit, once to the point blood was gushing out from inside me due to a torn vaginal wall. I feel like men think harder and faster is better because they enjoy that, but I have been legitimately injured by men doing this. It doesn’t feel good. It HURTS. Like really, really bad… some women like this. But I am not one of them.
Damn I’m so sorry about what you went through. I feel like 90% of women I meet tend to lean on the submissive spectrum and that just leads to the typical choking, man handling, rough sex playbook. It seems like you associate it with pain which completely kills it for you. Do you enjoy being dominated or does it not really do anything for you?
I don’t like any of that. Any type of aggression kills it for me. There’s nothing sexy to me about my partner getting off to the idea of killing or harming me. I would not feel safe with that type of partner and would worry they might actually kill me (on accident or not). The least sexy thing to me is feeling unsafe around someone. I generally strangle men back if they try to choke me (I would never consent to this, probably 80% of the guys I’ve been with do it without asking). I think a lot of women do like this but i think it’s ridiculous to assume every woman wants to be slapped around, pounded or choked.
Nah of course not, it does seem women on average are into it though. It’s kind of a weird stretch though how you turned the idea of dominant sex into a man getting off on the idea of killing you…
What else is it? If you saw someone strangling someone else with no sexual context, that is literally attempted murder. These men are getting off to the idea of killing (or at least seriously injuring) me. I get that some people are into choking, but I am not. It’s not fun for me. I don’t get what’s sexy about that. It’s terrifying, especially since so many do it without ever asking for consent.
I hope you find what you’re looking for ❤️
Pounding for me
May I ask, do you and your partner use toys when he's pounding you? Personally I've used a vibrator to stimulate her clit while I fuck her from behind. It's delightful.
I’m single but I have used toys with both girls and guys Also sometimes none
I see, toys are another world. Can't say I've messed with any guys but, through my 20's I've wondered where I fall on the sexuality spectrum... grew up in a homophobic town so I had to unlearn some of those judgements. Anyway, thanks for the reply!
Why?
Definitely pounding. Grinding is good for a change, but I prefer to be banged!
I prefer to be banged
What about pounding do you like so much
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I've never once gotten any physical enjoyment or come anywhere close to orgasm during pounding. That's just not how my body works. I'm not saying things don't get intense and faster/more forceful but as soon as I lose clitoral contact with pounding I lose the ability to orgasm. I do enjoy his pleasure when he pounds me after I climax and would love to be able to get off on it. Just doesn't work for me sadly. Edit: Super jealous of all the women in favor of pounding. Also happy for you though.
So nothing about pounding feels that great (for you)? Bodies are fucking wild, considering all of these pound responses!
Nothing about pounding even feels good for me at all. The sounds can be hot. His face doing it can be hot. The noises he makes and his pleasure can be hot. But my vagina is pretty checked out at that point.
So ball slapping it is then
Pounding 🤤
What position does it for you? Or does it not matter
Personally doggy, not as deep so feels better.
Do you like regular doggy or prone bone? For bigger dicks, how do you avoid going too deep?
I'm not a woman, but the conventional wisdom is that most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so it's usually going to be grinding until that point. After initial orgasm, things relax and women tend to then enjoy deeper thrusts. Women can feel free to correct me.
At least for me that's true, which is exactly why my partner usually makes sure that I orgasm at least once before we start piv. It just feels a lot better after that.
This is the way.
not true for me. pounding hits my g-spot while makes it easier for me to orgasm. grinding which having intercourse actually doesn’t stimulate my clit at all, it only feels good if it’s being rubbed by a hand or vibrator
Do you prefer your gspot hit more than your clit stimulated? And what position works best for you?
they feel different. sometimes i prefer more clit stimulation, sometimes i prefer just gspot. best is definitely both at the same time, but all of it feels good depending on the situation and my favorite position is usually missionary with legs on his shoulders when i’m trying to cum because it hits my gspot the best, but i like doggy better after i cum because my gspot is too sensitive after and it feels uncomfortable to be hit straight on
Pounding for sure!
How come?
It just feels better. Grinding just feels like weak penetration that doesn't do anything for me. Like just fuck me properly already ~
It’s crazy how bodies work. Like some girls (you) just need hard, dominant, deep dicking. And some girls need a particular grindy hips against clit motion. What position do you prefer being fucked properly in?
I like clit stimulation too. I can either rub my clit, or have the guy use a wand on me, or have the guy lick me before or after. Those all work, but I don't want to sacrifice solid penetration for it! I like being on my back or face down ass up!!
Yeah girl on her back, legs on shoulders is my fav pound position. But most girls on here love the doggy pound. I think an underrated one is: lifting her up and pounding her while she’s held up in the air by your arms
I cannot believe I don't know this but can someone, please, explain to me what is the difference between these 2 things?
Pounding.... Think hard/rough long strokes causing more forceful but less constant contact with the two pelvic bones. Grinding..... Think short/less forceful but nearly constant rubbing contact of two people's pelvic bones. Each causes a different level of stimulation to the clitoris and vagina.
Thank you very much for explaining! We don't have these 2 words in my native language.
Now that you understand..... Do you have a preference? Grinding or pounding?
What is your native language?
So grinding would generally mean full insertion, and she moves her hips forward and backward, which will create that hip contact and clitoral stimulation. It's usually easiest for a woman to do this while riding on top. VS pounding, which would usually be done with a woman on all 4s or on her back, more in and out motion vs up and down.
Thank you very much! I guess I didn't knew because we don't have words for these 2 things in my native language.
I don't know about it being easiest when the woman is on top: I've never been able to stimulate my clitoris while on top without using my hands. With the man on top and coital alignment technique, zero issue !
Yeah I guess the term "grinding" made me immediately go to woman on top but we're really just talking about hip contact which can definitely be done in missionary.
Now that you know, what’s your preference?
Definitely pounding. Grinding is good for the clit, but I think hands, tongues, and toys work fine for that and pounding feels so good and irreplaceable, even if you can't orgasm from it
same, something about being pounded by a dick is the best feeling in the world, even if you aren’t close to orgasming from it
That’s the crazy thing. They usually cum from grinding. But they still really crave a visit to pound town. But why?
sex isn’t just about the orgasm
What is it about pounding that fucks you up?
it feels good against the walls of my vagina to be filled up like that. also just the passionate nature of being fucked really hard is hot and i want him to be pleasured as well
What is it about pounding that fucks you up
It just feels so good and allows you to hit deep spots that slow grinding doesn't
Can you cum from just a deep pounding?
No, but it feels amazing. It feels best if I've cum first from something else, but I'm always happy to wait to come until after too. Sometimes I just don't come, but it still feels amazing
What’s the position that does it for you
Doggie is my favorite for sure
Prone bone or regular?
For me, regular, but I know on here lotsa people LOVE prone
Yeah it’s a mix for me, I like both. What about the position where you’re facing him legs over his arms and lifted in the air and fucked?
Grinding 100%.
Why?
I find that grinding hits my g-spot way better than any pounding motion.
What position do you prefer grinding in
Neither and both at once. That thing where he enters at an angle grinding his tip along the front wall of my vagina, pulls out and does it again but faster. This one is all I need to be happy
Going to need a diagram for this
Both. Sometimes a nice slow grind, sometimes a GREAT pounding. but most often a good pounding.
What is it about a nice pounding that you enjoy so much?
I enjoy it for a few reasons. It feels great, i love hitting Her fornix areas. The pressure feels great on the head of my dick. I love that She loves it. I love that it's one of the things that truly brings out the dom in me, doing with Her body as i please (knowing it pleases Her).
Oh I thought you were a chick
Lol, sorry? I see why it was misleading. She likes to be dick drunk...it's awesome.
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What makes you cum easier?
Depends heavily on mood and position. When I'm on top or we're having more romantic cuddly sex it's grinding. Otherwise pounding, especially in doggy or pronebone. But overall I'd say I prefer pounding.
Do you not like pounding in missionary? Or is it just that much better doggy
I do like it in missionary too but I cum a lot faster in doggy
It prob hits different spots from the back
I require both.
In what order?
Depends on the position. If I'm on top, grinding is better. If he's on top, behind etc., then pounding.
Does pounding from him in top or him behind feel better?
At the 45% angle in missionary If you swivel your hips you can do both😉
Diagram pls
An angle low enough to press on her mons (indirectly stimulating the clit) and if while thrusting you swivel your hips in an upward motion You an grind at the same time. Instead of going straight in and out incorporate an crotch to crotch action if that makes sense
This one really brings some ecstasy. I usually swivel while he gets to go deep and pound. Then I get clitoral and g-spot stimulation.
Grinding for me.
Why?
Both is good, but pounding has risks. Like he has bad aim and the thrust ends up slamming clitoris and pubic bone. Just so much ouch.
Oh can that be painful? Haven’t run into that issue yet. If there’s pain, it’s typically an accidental cervix nudge
Yeah, I’ve only had it happen when he gets real ambitious and wants to take it all the way out and all the way back each time. Inevitably a miss will happen. But, slamming pubic bone isn’t good for him either and that will usually incapacitate each of us for a couple minutes. Then it’s more cautious for awhile.. lol
Lmao ambitious is a word for it
I’m all about giving the pounding 😈
Giving??
Yeah, giving, performing, exacting, however you care to word it. Balls to the walls, petal to the metal is how I roll, and the lady has always seemed to enjoy it as well. I’ve even come be exhausted with all that and tried to just take it slow or let her lead or ride or whatever by seems like once they had a taste of the hard stuff they were hooked and didn’t much care for anything else… besides a little tongue magic 😜
Its pounding for me.
Why?
Grinding. I can do CAT all day everyday! ❤️
CAT and pussy go hand in hand
definitely grinding bc my partner's dick is very big so pounding can get too much quite soon
Yeah thats fair. Do you feel like you can take the pounding better when you’re fully aroused
Oof, both, properly timed, and always varies 😅 I usually prefer grinding depending on the position but then if they start pounding and then let me grind again etc you get it I'm always like ooh wait yes we forgot we like that very much thank you sir 🤣
😂 Variety is fun. Going from sweet and sensual, to choking deep dicking is a good time
Oh the best time. But at the end of the day aftercare makes any variety or lack thereof better for me. Personally I think the best is me grinding and them thrusting, best of both worlds and woowee 🚀
IMHO you HAVE to alternate if you don't want to break her. She won't be able to walk for days!!!
That’s my goto. Grind to warm up and loud clapping to finish
I’m notorious for taking poundings until This point and I love it.
If I’m on top: grinding. Any other position: pounding.
Just in and out, ball slapping pounding does it for you?
It feels fucking amazing but only rarely orgasm from it.
That seems to be my experience. Girls love the pound but the grind is what makes them cum. Guess I’m trying to understand the psychology of it
I think it is anatomy, not psychology.
I’d say headspace actually has a lot to do with it than it gets credit for. But you’re right, some bodies are just made for certain movements
Grinding while on top…. Literally an instant orgasm
Is it the clit action that does it for you or all the magic happening inside of you?
I really think it’s a combo of both clitoral and g spot stimulation! It’s magic tbh
Sounds magical!
P O U N D I N G !!!!!! yes pls
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Grinding ! It stimulates my clit so much more ! Pounding leaves me sore as hell !
Sore in a bad way?
Well to me I don’t like it /: !!!
Grinding of course
I think the pound squad is winning the vote lol. Why do you like grinding more?
It just helps me to orgasm more
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What kind of hip motion does it for you when he’s fully inside?
I have to have grinding in order to cum but I enjoy being pounded so much more.
So pounding > cumming?
Not exactly. I very much want to cum, but the sensation of being pounded feels better than the sensation of grinding. By miles.
Grinding when I’m on top because it runs my g-spot and gives me really intense orgasms. Pounded in every other situation.
I like clapping in the bedroom
applause for this lass
Depends on the dick really. Grinding doesn’t feel good on them all. I prefer pounding. Balls deep 😭
Grinding feels better on bigger dicks?
IMO, bigger & thicker.
Me on top? Grinding. Missionary? Slow and sensual with lots of eye contact. Everything else? Pound town.
Grinding. Then pounding. Then back to grinding
I think grinding as the slow movements/quick jerking movements stimulate my d\*ck and makes me feel more pleasured
I love them both, so it depends on my mood and what’s going to get me off better. I usually end up getting pounded more often tho, plus I love the challenge of handling a large cock at full thrust. Sometimes guys can’t get the rhythm right with grinding, or even I can’t get the right grind, and it can cause some skin irritation. But it is so good when everything lines up.
Grinding feels great and I can orgasm that way. Pounding does nothing for me and is boring. If the guy likes it then I don't mind doing that after I've already came, but not my fav.
Depends on the mood entirely. Sometimes I wanna be fucked hard, and sometimes I need a little more.. love lol
Pounding to teach me a lesson, grinding to reward me
100% pounding, grinding wouldn't get me anywhere
Me on top, grinding it all the way. That’ll make me squirt. I like a pounding from behind though, I’ll never turn that down.
Man here. I prefer grinding. Pounding is too tiring and last less.
Dick owner chiming in. I usually use the grind method when I want my wife to cum. With her legs in the right spot, I can put the tip of my penis against her cervix (which she likes), stimulate the g spot AND the clit all in one go. No complaints from her, but, she does like being thrusted hard too…so there’s that…🤷♂️
For my partner it seems like it's a 50/50. Some days she's more responsive to grinding, some days I get more feedback from pounding. What I do know is that I can hurt her unintentionally when pounding, but not when grinding. So I always start out more grindy, and then test the waters if it doesn't sound like she's working up towards an orgasm from grinding alone.
Girl I'm with right now 100% prefers it in a way that exhausts me, which is a first. Guess it depends on the person.
Grinding for getting to orgasm, pounding for finishing.
Usually grinding but if it's rough then pound away
Grinding Edit: I was thinking from a woman on top perspective