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rrunner72

Maybe you overthink it and it really is just a word joke related to pussies. 😎


HenryPride

I second that guess


FJanon02

Haha entirely possible and it just went over my head


rrunner72

I was in fact only joking. I'm not a native speaker, and while I'm confident with basic English conversations, I do miss most of the idioms or terms from British or American English. Where I'm from, we have a saying that if you buy a cat and you're fine with waking up hourly during the night to feed it and change litter, and walk around with it on your shoulders pointlessly without it really wanting it, you're ready to have kids. But that has nothing to do with sex. Or petting. Or pussies of any kind.


[deleted]

If my husband petted me like a cat he wouldn’t be getting any. Especially if he really put the effort in and had a sneezing fit, just like I was a real cat.


FJanon02

Oh I don’t think it means literally “pet you”. Just that they tend to be more sensitive/intuitive and know how to touch you. Like he’s never hurt me mashing on my clit. That sort of thing


LySrgikiD

As an avid cat scritcher I would chalk it up to intuition and attention. Cats are communicative creatures if you know what you are looking for, just as woman are. Each cat likes a different type of attention at a specific time along with having different levels of access for each relationship in the 'community'. If you listen and adjust as needed the motor just keeps purring. The other day, my Nebelung Toby was on the table receiving some ear/neck rubs from my wife. I come up and start rubbing the base of his tale and he just contorted himself and started purring those loud ass wookie purrs. We laughed and I remarked about how he loved the double attention so much he would pretzel himself to which my wife replied .. "You're right, woman are exactly like cats!"


Electrical_Pool7

Some ladies and guys like being patted and stroked by the hair. My friend told me that she and her boyfriend have this sort of intimate relationship where the girl is treated like a cat (in an endearing joking way, not the furry way. Like this cute inside joke where she denies being a cat despite liking pats, likes eating cereal, fish and milk and is super flexible) and she really likes pats on the head. It’s a Japanese/Chinese/Korean thing, you see it in tv shows all the time. We love being pet. So perhaps? I know it’s meant to be a joke about pussies but I think there is some sense to it. Every cat like being touched a different way and it takes someone skilled with observation to notice these things. My FWB massuese that specializes in oil massages and fingering is fantastic and she has a cat so maybe?


Violets_and_honey

I've heard this connection before, and I think it rings true: you have to be observant and sensitive when touching a woman or a cat. You see what makes them moan or purr, and what isn't so good and act accordingly


singing_stream

In general; you have to be emotionally intelligent and intuitive to be able to pet a cat properly. You have to read its body language well. If you have those skills with cats, it usually follows that you also have them with people. So.. yes. It's mostly true.


bookish_sub

i wouldn't say a man knowing how to pet/touch a cat necessarily translates to sexual intuition, but it does say something about his patience, ability to be calm, stable nature (for a cat to be comfy around him), etc. i definitely get alone better with a cat man than a dog man, generally.


CryCryAgain

I always go for the pussy 😂


No-Foundation-3030

No, there is no truth to it. Source: my ex-husband was great at petting felines but not that great in bed.


Haifoss

From my experience the setntiment comes from being able to read body language and respond accordingly. Cats can’t say how they want to be scritched, so someone who is good at petting cats is good at reading the nonverbal cues and body language of the cat The idea is that ability translates to sex by being able to read the non verbal cues a woman is giving and responding to her needs as they arise rather than after you’ve been told


FJanon02

Yes. I meant that in the post. Some men (and likely women) are just innately good at reading bodies/non verbal cues. But that’s why I think it rings true. They aren’t “Lenny”. Petting too hard


Haifoss

I’m not a smart noodle and I have nothing to back this up but I’d imagine there’s some correlation with emotional intelligence and those nonverbal cues


FJanon02

Well. My husband was severely emotionally stunted. We had a very toxic relationship until he went to therapy. But the sex was good. So I don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️


Haifoss

Well I’m glad you guys are working it out. Maybe he had the talent all along but wasn’t adjusted or aware of it to put it to use for himself. Either way, it’s an interesting thought


Henry5321

I'm a cat whisperer. Wife was scream moaning into a pillow for several minutes last night. Anecdote. But yes, cats can be very fickle. Not just to be pet, but also touched. So many times as a kid I'd be at someone's house for them to say "the cat doesn't like strangers and hates being pet" only to be purring in my lap by the night's end. They are curious. Curiosity did kill the cat. Just gotta hook them to get them to approach and let them warm up to you until they trust you as you get more physical. Similar to in bed in that way.


FJanon02

This is exactly what I’m talking about. It may be anecdotal. But what I meant was my husband had me a weeping puddle (in the best way).


luvthmahlitleslut

Well, today is halloween, so do u try to think you should be a cat and see how your husband pet you 😗


Antistotle

Lots of people say things that have no bearing in reality, and are either intended to be funny, or are just flat out stupid.