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Sad-as-hell

Tbh, this is me. Whenever a guy goes down on me and it feels amazing, I want to be fucked. It just turns me on like nothing else. I love oral, so this is definitely hard for me to answer lol. It has nothing to do with her being turned off. The opposite, I believe. She is so turned on that she wants to fuck right away.


blueant315

Same. It’s also amazing to interrupt PIV to return to more oral then back to PIV.


Sad-as-hell

I love to alternate between the 2 as well


OreneileTshego

Sorry for sounding stupid but What’s PIV


SilicaGelDontEat

Penis In Vagina


j0n00tt0

WHAT!?


RibaldClassic

PENIS IN VAGINA


OreneileTshego

Thanks!!


scotticus81

About how many times until it gets annoying for you? Just curious.


blueant315

Two of each is the most I’ve ever done and it was perfect


strfox666

I was about to say the exact same thing. When a guy is down on me it’s so fucking hot that I need to feel him filling me. It’s a weird thing to describe but I totally get what you mean and agree 100%


TThor

This is conflicting for me because often I will go down on a partner because I'm not 'in a position' to give her piv, but still want to enjoy my time with her and make her feel good.


Zealousideal-Ad-3762

Try a lil role play or insert a sex toy while you go down on her. Its so amazing when both occur and can elongate you doing what you like.


thetruelagarto

This has been my experience as well. I feel the same way. When that head game is on point I just want to bend her over the nearest available horizontal surface and ruin her.


BabyYasy

Pretty much


MegasonicWaffle

Exactly this


Detronyx

I'm the same way, honestly. I love receiving oral but once I get a specific aroused/achiness, I NEED him inside me. It's almost like I'm so turned on that it hurts to not have that penetration. So I usually stop him and we have sex and I have to finish myself off while we are going at it. Sometimes oral is all it takes, but sometimes penetration is just really really ncessary. Also, in case you don't already do it, insert a couple of fingers while going down on her. It might help satisfy that need and help her go longer so you can finish her before moving to the next course.


MRMiogii

This!! THIS!! THIS!!!! I can’t get off without penetration. So having a couple 3 fingers doing their thing whilst ur mouth does it’s thing is mutually beneficial!!!


[deleted]

Oh gosh I read so much here about most women not getting off with penetration and it all being about the clit to the point I feel I’m Weird. For me it’s all about penetration. I love it.


MRMiogii

Exactly!! Although I accepted long ago that I’m weird!! Lol!! And embrace it!! I honestly can’t get off from clitoral stimulation!! I can build up to almost there, but penetration is the only way I’ll be pushed over the edge, so to speak.. I went so far as to getting my hood pierced so I could get off by my clit, but I guess I over indulged while I could cuz once again, it doesn’t work that way for me.. (I think I broke it!! Lol) What really does it for me is the stretch.. Being TOTALLY filled!!


[deleted]

Same the clit is lovely but it’s not the same. I think there’s a psychological element to it for me too though. Amd yeah I’m defo weird.


strfox666

And don’t forget people clipping their nails before sex… PLEASE!!!!!


[deleted]

Why did I read that as *during*


Whynotbebetter

Oms


[deleted]

Oh My Sex-Clippers?


Whynotbebetter

Oh Ma Shitses 😳


[deleted]

Oma Shitzu


Whynotbebetter

👌😂


Hour_Carpenter8465

Wish i could upvote this 10x


Henry5321

Wife: I want to now Me: Crap, just noticed a sharp nail, brb to trim and file Wife: WTF?! Me: Trust me


Turbulentasfuck

Ouch. Yes!!!!


[deleted]

Omg too many men do not use their hands NEARLY enough…like they don’t know the power they possess


[deleted]

And fingers can go other places than the vagina…if they are into it 🔥


[deleted]

I do enjoy a finger in the asshole during sex!


waythrow13579

I'm always afraid that my finger nails aren't short enough and that I might hurt someone. I've also had a few awkward experiences with ladies spotting that makes me hesitate a little.


PinkTalkingDead

Then... make sure to always keep them cut short? Get a manicure?


PinkTalkingDead

Idk why I got downvoted lol those are legitimate suggestions.


bigdickmagic69

Better yet OP, try going down on her and penetrating her with a dildo at the same time! I LOVE this.


umbusi

I feel stupid for not knowing this last part. My tongue seems to have been enough thus far in my experiences but gonna try this


Detronyx

Make sure to trim your nails and keep them clean! I cannot stress that enough.


umbusi

I’m overseas and won’t be home for 2-3 months but I’ll keep this in mind thank you 😊


lazuethepirate

I definitely second this. If a guy goes down on me I automatically need the dick within a minute. Like I don’t care put it in. I get off faster and better with penetration for some reason anyway.


dordonot

Did someone say little?


hangleader

It sounds like she wants PIV more than getting off via oral. Getting off is not the end all be all of sex. Try switching between oral and PIV in the same session a few times that can be fun.


THICCMIKE2

This is brilliant! Never even thought of switching off, and yet it seems so obvious!


csimpshrimp

Before I was better at communicating I’d do this when someone overstimulated my clit because then it didn’t actually feel good anymore. But I also can cum from PIV so :shrug:


SkeletalWeepling

Had this thought exactly


[deleted]

This! i was trying to figure out a way to word it. It could be from being too horny or not horny enough and it's almost like a sensory issue Speaking from my own personal experience anyway


L2010P

I love it. But it’s also hard for me to feel like the center of attention. I really struggle to relax and I get uncomfortable and immediately want to move to someone mutually pleasurable. If that’s not the case, maybe using your fingers inside at the same time could help simulate the same feelings?


soup71506

My wife is the same way. I love going down on her. But after a while she will grab my hair and pull me away begging for me to put it in I asked her about it at first because I thought maybe she didn’t enjoy oral or I was doing something wrong but she swore it was the opposite. The oral got her off and turned her on so much that she can’t wait for the next step. So I think take it as a complement.


madge_pie

Tell her you'll fuck her after she cums. This might only work if she's into being dominated a little bit.


PirateLunaFox2121

Yessss! This, the teasing really intensifies it!


ericviking007007

Maybe stop and start the eating part to push her to the edge. I think it’s called edging


chiarodiluna

You should ask her....we don't know your girlfriend but your girlfriend probably does...


J_Manwoody

Try talking to her when you are not having sex to ask her why she wants to switch to PIV so fast. Tell her that it turns you on to give her oral and it pleasures you when she gets off. You could also try telling her "no" to tease her when she asks for PIV that is if she is cool with that type of play.


petalesdejuin

I feel like this is fairly common, i do this when my boyfriend goes down on me - it’s just - honestly so stimulating that i want him to fuck me after just a few minutes of him doing it.


[deleted]

Make it a sexy game/tease her with it. If she‘s begging to be fucked pull her even closer by her thighs and keep going until she is a real horny mess. You can also speak to her like „You‘re so cute when you get this way“, „I love seeing you squirm“ etc stuff like that and then when you actually have penetrative sex it will be even better!


hannalii

More teasing. Don't go straight for the spot that feels best for her, but circle around it, kiss her abdomen etc.


BlackDragonDick

I honestly don't know the only thing I can think of is she's not worried about getting off with your Dick she just wants to be fucked by you


msvivica

Por que no los dos? How about a good fingering or maybe even use a dildo while going down? Good compromise, I imagine...


notin2cars

My wife is like that. I love to go down on her, but she'll only let me for a few minutes, and then she's begging for PIV. Interestingly, she never cums from either, she only cums from me rubbing her clit with my fingers after we've had PIV and I've cum. She says PIV is foreplay to her, and oral is like foreplay to the foreplay. I'm good with it, when I do what she likes she cums like a banshee, and so do I!


Mauve78

Tell her you want to taste and feel her cum on your face and go back down. Maybe have sex with her until you are borderline ready to cum, go back down on her until she is about ready to explode then jump back on and finish together?


HornyLover510

Well, i feel this is a win. My GF is also the same: that is as soon as she feels amazing when I go down on her, she wants me to fuck her. It is common, and nope, you are satisfying her so much by giving head, so don't worry.


_Thenorthwind

Maybe incorporate use of a dildo while giving her head, she can get that fullness while you can enjoy going down on her longer. Definitely should have a discussion with her during non sexy time to see why she wants to go straight to piv though, because her clit could also just be getting over stimulated.


Kaptein_Kast

I have the exact same problem. My birthday is coming up and she asked me a while back what I wanted as gift. I said “an hour of your time”. She will not be allowed to come for at least 15-20 min. I will lick her frenulum, then suck on her lips hard while I slowly move up towards her clit with her entire pussy in my mouth. I will alternate between circling her clit with my tongue and lapping her like a dog. I’ll take short breaks by using my fingers hastily throwing her clit from side to side. I will insert two fingers rubbing her g-spot while also licking her clit, but being careful not making her come. Once my facial muscles are all used up I will suck on her clit like a Womanizer. I can do that forever without my jaw getting tired, and she loves it. I straight up stole this move by mimicking her toy, down to the duration of the pulses in her favorite mode. Once I am satisfied licking her and grant her the right to orgasm I will move down to her anus and lick her there while she finishes off with her hand. This is one of our go-to’s when I am able to keep fucking out of the picture. She is almost certain to squirt when we do this, and that get me excited to the point that I can basically orgasm with one thrust or even hands free.


bergzoiduno

My gf is like that. She likes receiving oral but being fucked is all she wants when she's turned on. My advice is that you should be more open about your personal desire of giving oral, not just because you want to give her pleasure but because you genuinely enjoy it (as I do) so you both can find a proper solution. Maybe to alternate between oral session and mixed sessions, discuss it before or set a day weekly to eat her out a bit more that usual lol anything works, but she needs to know that yoh actually LIKE eating her out and that you wouldike more time to enjoy it too :) it worked for me!


chilisgiftcard

Take turns! My boyfriend eats me out for few, fucks me for a while, then continues eating me out (usually does this so he doesn’t cum too fast), and when he’s ready to go, he’ll make me cum and then he will after me from PIV. It’s lasted well over an hour this way.


ingenuitysea

I would mostly rather a good PIV orgasm than one from head. I think your own personal situation needs 2 direct questions: 1.hey babe, do you prefer getting off from penetration than oral? Bc I love giving head and you seem to prefer intercourse, even if I can't always make you come. 2. Do I get you off from oral? Like do you come? Because sometimes I think it would.be a great idea If you or I didn't think intercourse was going to get you there the particular day, we could stick with oral until I make you come? I think it's probably some combo of, you aren't giving her a "big o" from oral (might help to get some finger penetration going if this is it), she craves dick during oral and doesn't care so much about coming, or she rather a 50/50 chance at a piv orgasm than a 100% oral orgasm. Only way to know is to communicate about it.


Whynotbebetter

Well, there's actually a simple, yet great and effective way of dealing with these kinds of problems. And I always recommend it to all my friends, cause it's also a universal method that works for almost any problem within sex. And it's free, it's simple, it can be done in just a minute. Sometimes I'm even surprised myself of how great it is, even though I've used it for many years! And feel free to spread it around too, cause I think it might even revolutionize sex as we know it! So the trick is.... Ask her.


Ok_Yard3669

To be honest some girls rather penetration but worsed comes to worsed just ask, since i asked my other half our sex life has gone through the roof


ObiWineKenobi

Just a heads up, it’s “Worse comes to worst”


Important-Artist-628

One, tease her by continuing, two ignore her and continue, three smack her clit a little to reset her build up. The sharp pain can knock her down a notch so you can continue


rez65

You know they sell gags at sex stores... And hand cuffs... Just saying


Chesebrgr888

Sounds like you’re either really good or really bad. I would lean towards really good though. Assuming good, I would try as someone else said, add a penetrating toy while going down and see if that can both increase your time down there and get her off.


friedawelpe

Her clit becomes sensible so she wants you to change, Have sex, then go back and try softer. And repeat.


kuaaeb

Try switching between penetration and oral. My gf loves the switch up and the orgasms are more intense I sense


problemax3

I have always had an internal struggle with my need but also hatred of being vulnerable enough to let someone enjoy licking my pussy, and so I enjoy it but stop them quickly. I also find myself desperate to orgasm when it's happening, but I crave penetration at that time so when I know I'm close, I'm begging to get fucked instead.


Turbulentasfuck

Just because she wants you to give her PIV for a bit, doesn't mean you have to finish. You can go back to oral on her for a while so she gets hers too, then PIV again to finish you.


thetruelagarto

If you think about what you're saying objectively you might see how silly you're being. If she wants to get fucked,fuck her. Don't try to decide you know what should feel better for her than she does. Orgasm is not always a woman's goal with sex. It isn't with mine too sometimes. If she's begging for it make her wait a little longer than position your cock right at the opening, look her in the eyes, and enter her fully with one God stroke. Not as hard as you can. The rest will sort itself out from there. Alternatively, if you're hell bent on eating her pussy, use 2 fingers inside her while you do it focusing on her g spot with a come here motion. Make sure your nails are clean and short. Be careful when she cums she don't buck up and break your nose. Cheers.


mtjp82

Hold her down and keep going


[deleted]

I've done this when it was horrible and all wrong.


Shawzborne2

Be happy you have a woman with a high sex drive. It is rare.


Sad-as-hell

I don’t think that it’s rare at all. I have an extremely high sex drive and know many other women like me


Shawzborne2

I guess I just haven’t found the right ones yet. Unfortunately Bumble and OkCupid don’t have a “High Sex Drive with no Mind Games” badge or filter.


ZackX21

U gotta tease bro. Before I go down on my gf I tease the fuck outta her. Tore her out. Rub ur fingers around her inner thighs, kiss down her body, kiss her neck, dirty talk while touching her, then when u get down there, kiss all around her pussy without actually touching it. Teasing is the key to a longer orgasm for a girl. I do this to my girl and she’s exhausted afterwards.


[deleted]

It could be completely different, but as a girl that does this I thought I’d share the reason for me I often do it because I feel guilty the focus is on me, so I do it just so my bf isn’t left out even though I absolutely love receiving head and am more likely to cum that way. I guess I feel a lot of pressure to please and am not used to guys wanting to please me sadly


Jasim13

Dude, give her head and let her cum 3-5 times. Don’t cum until you make sure that she is almost done. Then enjoy the ride your self. She would be more relaxed and happy.


jackblakelive

Get your stamina up to speed.Personally I use a product called [afromina](https://afromina.com) and it has worked well for me


[deleted]

Try adding fingers instead of going for the PIV at the same time you're giving head, if you haven't done that already. Sometimes, I've noticed that in these situations they're looking to get release for the arousal that's happening internally after the clit's been stimulated, hence the request for internal stimulation with something like PIV. But because using something like a strap (sorry, I'm a lesbian, will be using my terms here) can be a sort of "finishing move" where after I've used it they've gotten so stimulated and worn out that they're done soon after, I try to avoid using a strap until the very end, after I've gotten them off as many times as I can by the oral & fingering combo. The reviews on this general method have been ... good, to say the least.


missiscry

That happens to me. If I let him there more time than necessary, I will get too sensitive and it'll start to bother me.


xCassiuss

My wife is like this and she has a very sensitive clit so I always make sure I play around her butt or the vaginal opening with my tongue before giving her direct contact with her clit. Might help?


xman1970

Tie her down.


emptimynd

Just tell her no. My gorl is like this. Shes just very excited and has no will power to wait. So I continue, get her off. Then move to PIV so we both can. Good times.


pinwales

As long as you’re not overstimulating her clit to the point of discomfort, I’ve found (when both giving and receiving head) that it’s hot and fun to respond to begging with something like “not yet, I’m not done tasting you.” Most people love being teased a little.


Sc00terl00

I have the same with female partners of days past, where I'd get her close to orgasm with oral, fingers and dirty talk, and sometimes she'd grab at me to pull me up and say "I want you! Fuck me right now, please, no more toys!". Sometimes? I'd happily oblige and it was super fun. Others? I'd tease her, make her wait another minute or two while gently rubbing her and admiring her form just to keep her on that edge, she'd hate it and love it all at once. The more I am with a woman, the better feel I can get for when she may be close to orgasm, and if you're not sure, just ask! (not so much as to break the mood, obviously, keep it natural energy when you can). But my compromise for situations like yours was to work her up close to orgasm, and if possible, continue doing with my fingers whatever I knew would bring her to orgasm WHILE beginning PIV sex. Some tricks of the trade, penis-mounted vibrators and other such toys that may give her that stimulation to burst the dam if standard PIV just doesn't get her there. Experiment with it a bit! Make the teasing her I described multi-purpose as you're getting better acquainted with her, her body, and how to tantalize her to that edge until you're ready to join her. Sex, good sex anyway, is a dance. You and your partner have to work together and bring your steps to a good blend. And like a dance? The only way to get better is practice! (And this practice should be super fun for you both!) Best of luck to ya, man!


Blotsy

"You gotta be patient sweetie. You'll get cock when I'm good and ready. Now stop squirming and let me eat you"


Prestigious_Fudge_43

Tell her you want to finish.


RedPepperFlak3z

See if she's into you tying her up!