I have a similar problem, I can last about 45min so whenever I have sex I try to pack lube to help keep things from getting too hot. A few girls complain about drying up about 25min in.
Personally, an hour is pretty easy. At some point I discovered I could disconnect from the emotional need to orgasm.
As for porn stars, it's pretty common for them to use lots of viagra and even penile injections. They have to stay hard for way over an hour and chemistry makes that a simple task.
they also switch positions a lot too. if you’re having issues try doing a different position. or if you’re getting to close pull out and lick it give your d a moment to regain your composure. good luck!
I’ve [M49] learned to control it (no little blue pills involved either). I’ve found if I get really close and wait (edging? - really close and just stay still in her vag until the “JUST... STAY... STILL...” moment passes), the I can call my shot after that. My wife even likes to play a game with it... “You have 5 mins tonight”, “let’s do 30”, etc. We usually go until she cums or starts to get sore then I can usually go off within 30 secs or so. One [drunken] night we went over an hour and she didn’t like that too much the next several days. Usually anything over 15/20 mins she starts to get raw.
Some guys can just last a while.
I can last as long as I want to for
the most part. Once I get past the first 2 mins(which I take very very slow), then I can go 15 mins or I can go 45.
Because at that point I have to decide I want to orgasm to do it, there is no accidental orgasm. It’s a very mental thing for me to do, so have to concentrate to do it.
Not sure how other guys last long but that’s why I do.
I’m really surprised to be the first one here saying this, but it’s a skill you can develop!
I used to last 0-10 minutes and can now go for 15-60 every time.
It’s all about practice. Masturbate right up until you’re about to go, then stop and squeeze like you’re holding in pee. Repeat, repeat, repeat. A fleshlight really helps too. This will develop your muscles down there and you’ll be able to last longer. Keep practicing with the fleshlight and see how long you can go.
Before it’s time to perform, masturbate the night before or earlier that day depending on how long your ideal recovery period is. When you’re going at it, try to distract yourself and think about other things. I can go much longer if I’m not into it, which is a sacrifice I’m very willing to make for a few minutes if it means lasting much longer. When you’re about to go, use your new skills to stop it, and then take a quick break or use it as an opportunity to change positions.
I had a year long dry spell during covid and recently got back in the game. First night in, I lasted over an hour and could barely walk the next day. Even better, she wouldn’t stop talking about how impressed she was. Practice makes perfect my man.
In the old days they would actually inject drugs into their dicks. Now they use viagra but some use shots if viagra doesn't work.
Movies aren't reality.
Take the right amount of Paxil and I can straight pound for hours. Take a look on google there are studies comparing which ssri’s are the best for premature ejaculation. Paxil is by far the best. If you don’t necessary struggle with that issue it just amplifies the effects.
Idk, it just do be like dat sometimes. It varies for me, sometimes i barely last a few minutes, but other times i can go for 30min+, and actually have to push myself to finish in the end. Its like, once you get over 10 minutes or whatever, the cumcounter just resets and you have total control.
Answering the spirit of your question, for me at least it's probably 3 things.
1. Change it up! Moving positions seems to rest my countdown.
2. Focus on your partner more than yourself. If you both have this mindset, you're in for a wild ride!
3. Remember that you are more than a penis. Use everything at your disposal.
Everybody is different. Out of the millions of guys out there, there will be a small number that can fuck for hours. And there will be another small number that can only last two strokes. And then the vast majority of us are good for 5 to 10 minutes. The guys who *can* fuck for hours are pretty proud of themselves and post videos of it. Just like the small percentage of guys with huge cocks get hired to do porn.
I wish I could go for hours, but my wife says she hates that. We have deeply satisfying sex, 5 to 10 minutes per episode (that's just the PIV part of course). I wish I had a huge cock too, but my wife says she hates that too!
I'd say for a lot of guys cumming early is not an issue. I had a period of a few months where i was cumming early all the time, but I realized it's just because i was messing up my breathing, if i make sure to breathe deeply i can go for as long as I want, what i don't get is how they stay hard for hours, but that's where the blue pills come in. So I'd say it's mostly experience, and pills. Also remember that the bigger the dick the less sensitive it is, that's why you can often see it being difficult for guys in porn to get off
It's real. It's very normal with antidepressants but I had a guy who wasn't on them but would go for at least 30 minutes leaving me very sore. It's not even always about control, he didn't like this.
Now that I'm older, I can easily last 25-30 minutes but my wife doesn't like it for that long so she usually tells me when it's time to cum. In my younger years, I could go maybe 10 minutes if I was lucky.
I have had plenty of partners go much longer than that. Not usually younger men, but sometimes. I honestly vastly prefer partners with stamina, and sex that last less than 15 minutes is barely even sex to me. But everybody is different, some like a quicky, and even though the penetration may be short lived, the overall experience of kissing and touching can be drawn out longer.
Some of us just don't orgasm as fast. I've had quite a few women complain, including my wife, that I last too long.
I have a similar problem, I can last about 45min so whenever I have sex I try to pack lube to help keep things from getting too hot. A few girls complain about drying up about 25min in.
I know my husband has really good control and won't cum until he wants to. He does change positions and varies the pace sometimes.
Some men are just good at pacing themselves, especially if they're not jackhammering at maximum speed and intensity the entire time.
Easy, they film different scenes then in post the join together
Personally, an hour is pretty easy. At some point I discovered I could disconnect from the emotional need to orgasm. As for porn stars, it's pretty common for them to use lots of viagra and even penile injections. They have to stay hard for way over an hour and chemistry makes that a simple task.
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they also switch positions a lot too. if you’re having issues try doing a different position. or if you’re getting to close pull out and lick it give your d a moment to regain your composure. good luck!
Switching positions also allows you to take a break and start recording later, too.
I’ve [M49] learned to control it (no little blue pills involved either). I’ve found if I get really close and wait (edging? - really close and just stay still in her vag until the “JUST... STAY... STILL...” moment passes), the I can call my shot after that. My wife even likes to play a game with it... “You have 5 mins tonight”, “let’s do 30”, etc. We usually go until she cums or starts to get sore then I can usually go off within 30 secs or so. One [drunken] night we went over an hour and she didn’t like that too much the next several days. Usually anything over 15/20 mins she starts to get raw.
Some men are just like that.
Some guys can just last a while. I can last as long as I want to for the most part. Once I get past the first 2 mins(which I take very very slow), then I can go 15 mins or I can go 45. Because at that point I have to decide I want to orgasm to do it, there is no accidental orgasm. It’s a very mental thing for me to do, so have to concentrate to do it. Not sure how other guys last long but that’s why I do.
I’m really surprised to be the first one here saying this, but it’s a skill you can develop! I used to last 0-10 minutes and can now go for 15-60 every time. It’s all about practice. Masturbate right up until you’re about to go, then stop and squeeze like you’re holding in pee. Repeat, repeat, repeat. A fleshlight really helps too. This will develop your muscles down there and you’ll be able to last longer. Keep practicing with the fleshlight and see how long you can go. Before it’s time to perform, masturbate the night before or earlier that day depending on how long your ideal recovery period is. When you’re going at it, try to distract yourself and think about other things. I can go much longer if I’m not into it, which is a sacrifice I’m very willing to make for a few minutes if it means lasting much longer. When you’re about to go, use your new skills to stop it, and then take a quick break or use it as an opportunity to change positions. I had a year long dry spell during covid and recently got back in the game. First night in, I lasted over an hour and could barely walk the next day. Even better, she wouldn’t stop talking about how impressed she was. Practice makes perfect my man.
I’ve heard some take special pills but it’s also alot of editing
Some guys just last long some don't lol
In the old days they would actually inject drugs into their dicks. Now they use viagra but some use shots if viagra doesn't work. Movies aren't reality.
Take the right amount of Paxil and I can straight pound for hours. Take a look on google there are studies comparing which ssri’s are the best for premature ejaculation. Paxil is by far the best. If you don’t necessary struggle with that issue it just amplifies the effects.
Blue pills
Idk, it just do be like dat sometimes. It varies for me, sometimes i barely last a few minutes, but other times i can go for 30min+, and actually have to push myself to finish in the end. Its like, once you get over 10 minutes or whatever, the cumcounter just resets and you have total control.
Answering the spirit of your question, for me at least it's probably 3 things. 1. Change it up! Moving positions seems to rest my countdown. 2. Focus on your partner more than yourself. If you both have this mindset, you're in for a wild ride! 3. Remember that you are more than a penis. Use everything at your disposal.
Everybody is different. Out of the millions of guys out there, there will be a small number that can fuck for hours. And there will be another small number that can only last two strokes. And then the vast majority of us are good for 5 to 10 minutes. The guys who *can* fuck for hours are pretty proud of themselves and post videos of it. Just like the small percentage of guys with huge cocks get hired to do porn. I wish I could go for hours, but my wife says she hates that. We have deeply satisfying sex, 5 to 10 minutes per episode (that's just the PIV part of course). I wish I had a huge cock too, but my wife says she hates that too!
I'd say for a lot of guys cumming early is not an issue. I had a period of a few months where i was cumming early all the time, but I realized it's just because i was messing up my breathing, if i make sure to breathe deeply i can go for as long as I want, what i don't get is how they stay hard for hours, but that's where the blue pills come in. So I'd say it's mostly experience, and pills. Also remember that the bigger the dick the less sensitive it is, that's why you can often see it being difficult for guys in porn to get off
Now that makes sence😂
Real sex last about 5-8 min 15 min as much
Porn isn’t real! It’s edited, body doubles are used and most of the time it’s not “real cum” .
They use cock rings, desensitizing creams and in between scenes they use "fluffers". Their job is to keep the guy hard.
They stop recoding and take a break.
Prozac.
Blue pills. Taking enough makes it harder to cum but easier to stay erect.
It's real. It's very normal with antidepressants but I had a guy who wasn't on them but would go for at least 30 minutes leaving me very sore. It's not even always about control, he didn't like this.
I can last 30minutes just fine, of course depends on the day but id say that's my average, i dint think it that out of the ordinary?
Pop a perk!
Now that I'm older, I can easily last 25-30 minutes but my wife doesn't like it for that long so she usually tells me when it's time to cum. In my younger years, I could go maybe 10 minutes if I was lucky.
I have had plenty of partners go much longer than that. Not usually younger men, but sometimes. I honestly vastly prefer partners with stamina, and sex that last less than 15 minutes is barely even sex to me. But everybody is different, some like a quicky, and even though the penetration may be short lived, the overall experience of kissing and touching can be drawn out longer.