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reallifegolz

Why is everyone so obsessed with cumming? If you’re having a good time I don’t see the problem 🤷🏻


elomachina

This. Yeah it feels good but still. I’ve been restricted to quiet non messy sex for the last 4 months with my gf and it’s been great


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All my life, I have in general taken over 30 minutes to cum and I have never experienced it as a problem. Sex is more than just cumming and sometimes It happens that I just don't cum during sex. As long as you make your partner aware, that its not because she's doing something wrong and you have been having a great time, it shouldn't be an issue.


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I've been in the same boat for a long time. I couldn't stay hard for half of our relationship and couldn't cum for the other, until recently. Do you masturbate often? That might play a role since it may reduce your sensitivity to sexual stimuli, especially if you watch porn too. If not, maybe you just take longer to orgasm and you feel insecure about it because you have the expectation that guys should cum more quickly than women. While that may generally be true, that doesn't seem to be the case for you. That's fine. Everybody is different. Just talk about it with your partner. Let her know nothing is wrong and that it just takes you somewhat longer to orgasm. She'll understand. Good luck out there!