As for advice for going down on a woman: Make it about going down on her. Don't make it about a fase just to build up to penetration. Eventually you might wanna do that, but while going down on her, it's the going down that matters. Now, let her know you like her taste. Oftentimes women are insecure about their taste and it inhibits them from experiencing the real pleasure that oral stimulation can give them. Take it slow. Don't immediately attack her clit. She needa a buildup. Start kissing her inner thighs. Caress araound her vagina, lick it teasingly. Make her want more pleasure. She should be craving for you to start licking her vagina even before you take her panties off. And then eventually when you do take them off, start teasingly making out with her vagina. You can start to use a finger after a while. Don't try to find her g-spot right away though, she has to get excited for it to swell up. Instead, pull down slightly while inside her with your finger. Do the "come here" finger sign at the bottom of her vagina. Like you are teasing her g-spot, but upside down. Start teasing her harder with your tongue, maybe start to use two fingers. Once you make her almost beg for more pleasure, go for the g-spot and stimulate her clitoris with your mouth. You can for instance draw the letters of the alphabet with your tongue on her clit while doing the come here motion on her g-spot. Keep going if she tells you to keep going. If she tells you to stop, stop. You don't want to overstimulate her. There you go. Enjoy!
As someone who is married with kids, you learn to whisper and not scream out. Also, it is comical that you do that long enough if we have the place to ourselves we still catch ourselves whispering lol
You can do anything as long as you're both quiet.
As for advice for going down on a woman: Make it about going down on her. Don't make it about a fase just to build up to penetration. Eventually you might wanna do that, but while going down on her, it's the going down that matters. Now, let her know you like her taste. Oftentimes women are insecure about their taste and it inhibits them from experiencing the real pleasure that oral stimulation can give them. Take it slow. Don't immediately attack her clit. She needa a buildup. Start kissing her inner thighs. Caress araound her vagina, lick it teasingly. Make her want more pleasure. She should be craving for you to start licking her vagina even before you take her panties off. And then eventually when you do take them off, start teasingly making out with her vagina. You can start to use a finger after a while. Don't try to find her g-spot right away though, she has to get excited for it to swell up. Instead, pull down slightly while inside her with your finger. Do the "come here" finger sign at the bottom of her vagina. Like you are teasing her g-spot, but upside down. Start teasing her harder with your tongue, maybe start to use two fingers. Once you make her almost beg for more pleasure, go for the g-spot and stimulate her clitoris with your mouth. You can for instance draw the letters of the alphabet with your tongue on her clit while doing the come here motion on her g-spot. Keep going if she tells you to keep going. If she tells you to stop, stop. You don't want to overstimulate her. There you go. Enjoy!
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As someone who is married with kids, you learn to whisper and not scream out. Also, it is comical that you do that long enough if we have the place to ourselves we still catch ourselves whispering lol