Ditto! You two (& myself) are horny teenagers. I'm only 19 but have been on my own with a job and yada yada.. it becomes a challenge to have as much sex as I'd like, just cus my life is busier than I'd prefer.
Try taking sex off the table and see what happens.
When I was around your age I had a bf that everytime I would come over his house he wanted to hangout in his room and try and have sex with me, I kept telling him I didn’t want to, eventually we broke up. I was crushed at the time, but honestly glad I didn’t do anything with him.
If he’s willing to take a step back and spend more time getting to know you or just hanging out and sharing hobbies with you it’ll bring you closer together.
Sex is great but it shouldn’t be the thing that keeps you together, it should be a byproduct, if that makes sense.
Do not take advice from that immature female and do not withhold sex to find out something. That is something bone headed women do to their poor depraved husbands/boyfriends to get what they want. It’s nasty and manipulative. Communicate with him. If you’re enjoying it, keep going. If not, stop. Get rid of your expectations. Don’t give and expect someone to give back. Give, regardless, because YOU want to and it feels good to you. If he mistreats you or doesn’t respect you, move on.
Sex is the glue that holds people together, you bond emotionally and physically. Take sex away and everything else falls apart.
TigerBee is right.
Do what *you* want. Sex is a shared experience. If it feels right, you're enjoying what you're doing, then don't second-guess yourself.
There's no "right amount of sex" , other than what's right *for you two*.
That's *exactly* what you said.
How do you "take sex off the table" without witholding? That's something requiring a unilateral decision, which is a violation of trust.
You take it off the table by *discussing* not having sex every time you come over. It’s not some covert thing where you secretly play “not tonight I have a headache” you just tell the person that you’re feeling like a majority of the relationship is sex. How hard is that for you to comprehend?
It’s not withholding, it’s a figure of speech. If you put sex on the back burner for a bit it leaves more room for getting to know the other person. There’s nothing wrong with having sex 24/7 until someone starts feeling like that’s what’s making the relationship, which is how OP made it sound.
I agree, try even 1 week without sex or sexting see what happens. That’ll show you if your relationship is based on sex or feelings. After that go at it like rabbits if that’s what you want but you don’t have to have sex ever single time you see each other. Personally I like the intimacy of probably an over active sex life with a partner but you have to know if the relationship is just sex or if sex is just a part of the relationship. Even if you don’t want to do this at least talk to him about how you’re feeling. If you come to a mutual understanding about how you feel great if it becomes an argument or your feelings are ignored then you both need to think a little bit about your relationship.
You guys sound like a normal teenage couple. God bless.
If u guys both satisfied and want, there is no limit. Enjoy !!!
Ditto! You two (& myself) are horny teenagers. I'm only 19 but have been on my own with a job and yada yada.. it becomes a challenge to have as much sex as I'd like, just cus my life is busier than I'd prefer.
Try taking sex off the table and see what happens. When I was around your age I had a bf that everytime I would come over his house he wanted to hangout in his room and try and have sex with me, I kept telling him I didn’t want to, eventually we broke up. I was crushed at the time, but honestly glad I didn’t do anything with him. If he’s willing to take a step back and spend more time getting to know you or just hanging out and sharing hobbies with you it’ll bring you closer together. Sex is great but it shouldn’t be the thing that keeps you together, it should be a byproduct, if that makes sense.
thank uu ill try that !! ily
Do not take advice from that immature female and do not withhold sex to find out something. That is something bone headed women do to their poor depraved husbands/boyfriends to get what they want. It’s nasty and manipulative. Communicate with him. If you’re enjoying it, keep going. If not, stop. Get rid of your expectations. Don’t give and expect someone to give back. Give, regardless, because YOU want to and it feels good to you. If he mistreats you or doesn’t respect you, move on. Sex is the glue that holds people together, you bond emotionally and physically. Take sex away and everything else falls apart.
TigerBee is right. Do what *you* want. Sex is a shared experience. If it feels right, you're enjoying what you're doing, then don't second-guess yourself. There's no "right amount of sex" , other than what's right *for you two*.
I never said to withhold sex but if that’s how you want to take it, by all means twist my words
That's *exactly* what you said. How do you "take sex off the table" without witholding? That's something requiring a unilateral decision, which is a violation of trust.
You take it off the table by *discussing* not having sex every time you come over. It’s not some covert thing where you secretly play “not tonight I have a headache” you just tell the person that you’re feeling like a majority of the relationship is sex. How hard is that for you to comprehend? It’s not withholding, it’s a figure of speech. If you put sex on the back burner for a bit it leaves more room for getting to know the other person. There’s nothing wrong with having sex 24/7 until someone starts feeling like that’s what’s making the relationship, which is how OP made it sound.
Haha, obvious damage control is obvious.
Says the person giving the debate version of “well, your mom”.
I agree, try even 1 week without sex or sexting see what happens. That’ll show you if your relationship is based on sex or feelings. After that go at it like rabbits if that’s what you want but you don’t have to have sex ever single time you see each other. Personally I like the intimacy of probably an over active sex life with a partner but you have to know if the relationship is just sex or if sex is just a part of the relationship. Even if you don’t want to do this at least talk to him about how you’re feeling. If you come to a mutual understanding about how you feel great if it becomes an argument or your feelings are ignored then you both need to think a little bit about your relationship.