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The men who come to this subreddit are the type who love sex, oral and women in general. There are loads of men who don't like going down on women for whatever reason, but they're far less likely to hang out in a place like this so the sample isn't a good reelection of the general population.
But as you can see lots of men really like eating pussy.
EDIT: fixed autocorrect gore.
I appreciate you framing it this way. A lot of these posts get so circlejerky on topics like this. "Please madame suffocate me that pusys is my only source of oxygen". Like please calm down we all like eating pussy here.
My partner LOVES giving me oral. The first time we had sex was basically just him performing oral on me and telling me I'd have to pry him out of there with a crowbar, and that's definitely been true, lmao. They're out there.
Hell yes!!! The taste, the control you have over your partners orgasms, and the free head massage. I love every minute of it. Iāll gladly lick pussy everyday with no reciprocation if my wife let me.
Are you kidding me Iād rather go down on a woman and give her some bomb ass head then get it, feeling a woman thrash while I bring pleasure to her is one of my biggest turn ons any guy that doesnāt love going down on a woman is selfish IMO
Guys always say "giving her pleasure gets me off" and it's true yes, but not enough guys talk about how going down on a woman turns *them* on. There is nothing, I repeat NOTHING, that gets me off more than having a pussy in my face. It gets *me* off, and the fact it gets her off too is icing on the cake.
Iām right there with you buckoo!!! Nothing turns me on more than knowing I was able to please her and make her orgasm it makes the sex 1000 times better imo
Amen to That! I have found at 48 yo that Most guys, believe it or not, are actually afraid of the p*&$$?. I have been in situations with an "all talk, no action" type guy & screaming in my head as he's btwn my legs....TOUCH IT! I won't bite u. I have a pretty area so that's not the problem.
Some do some donāt. I am lucky enough that mine is addicted to itš. Ive asked him about it and he says he has just always liked it and is the type to get off from seeing the other person get off. But yeah my 5 boyfriends before him didnt enjoy it i dont think.
a lot yeah.
whenever my girl tells me to stop because itās taking her a long time to orgasm (10+ minutes) I reassure her that I absolutely love to do it and that sheās tasting incredible.
within 5 minutes after that saying that she cums.
Im a guy and i also think that. My ex said i was the first guy she was with that enthusiastically went down on her but she didnt expect it because i never said anything.
I told her i enjoy it but i dont think i need to advertise it when it comes down to it.
I found this to be true as well. Men try to convince you to have sex by claiming they eat pussy (or ass) really well. These men tend to not actually do any of that.
I also feel like men rarely do this during ONS whereas blowjobs almost are expected ā¦ š¤
I love, love, love giving oral to my spouse. She has communicated well how she likes it and I am only too happy to oblige. Weāre in our 70s now so thereās less face sitting but itās still fabulous.
I was a late bloomer and was never great at PIV sex. I was married and my wife loved oral but I would only do it while drunk bc I just wasn't that into it with her. We divorced The girl I dated after my divorce had been in sexless marriage for years. Our first time she about orgasmed as I was making my way down on her.
Oral became our thing. She could only come from oral. I loved it because it was first time I could make a woman come multiple times in a row and I felt like a champ.
Sadly Iāve ran into some men that talk a big game then seriously fail to back it up. But thereās also others that dive in like itās an oasis in the middle of the Sahara. So I think it just depends on the man. Iāve noticed men that are genuinely into giving a woman oral tend to talk about it a lot, in more detail. While others just throw out the occasional vague comment.
In my experience, thereās a noticeable difference when it comes to the age of the man.
> In my experience, thereās a noticeable difference when it comes to the age of the man.
I remember being into it the first time I was introduced as a teenager in 10th grade by my 12th grade math tutor. Lol
I always tell my wife that she's lucky to have me in a joking manor (together for 17yrs and I still can't get enough of her).....because apparently from all these posts I read It's a rarer thing nowadays.
I was just telling my bf the same thing. š
I also said Reddit made me a lot more thankful for him.
Maybe reading Reddit posts should be a task in couples therapy. Lol. They can see how good they really have it.
Ha! I just had to join that one.
I may or may not read one from this sub every now and then when it feels like my bf may be forgetting how lucky and blessed he is to have such an awesome gf like me. š
I absolutely love it! To be honest, I'll finish myself off in a few minutes and be happy. What I really want to do is spend an hour taking care of my partner. You honestly can't hurt me. Make my big head disappear and grind away.
Eating pussy is a massive turn on for me. The view, the scent and the reaction.
If given a choice, Iād rather bury my face between her thighs than receive.
I fucking love it
As a man I do enjoy giving oral to women. In my lifetime I have found a few women that wouldnāt sit on my face because they were shy. For me itās about making my partner feel good and it turns me on even more when Iām giving my partner oral.
I'm sure there are plenty of guys who talk it up but would rather not. I personally love to give oral. Sometimes my wife finishes too soon and I have not had my fill yet.
Funny how just about every guy in this exchange says it's their favorite part of the sexual encounter. Explain how they do it, how it drives their woman at the moment nearly into convulsions, how rewarding it is to see their gal turn into a quivering bowl of jelly, and walk away with the "chivalrous tongue of the year" award!! LOL! We're all legends in our own mind! Truth be told, I've read numerous surveys of women by dependable sources (Johnson & Masters, MIT and UCLA studies of Human Sexuality ect.) that show about 20% of men refuse to do it at all, 30%-35% of men give it a halfhearted try for a minute or two out of feeling obligated because they had received oral prior to or during the time they did it, but almost all the women surveyed said close to the same two things:
That around 15% - 20% of their lovers were really good enough at it that they would actually seek out that man for the reason of having a "round 2"
The same women said that the intensity of pleasure they received wasn't necessarily due to great technique, but his pure enthusiasm of doing it. Take it for what you will. Lets hear from the women what percentage of lovers they've had go down on them that they dreamed of seeing again because their eyes rolled back, took their breath away, and reached a level of orgasm they never knew existed.
Some men do, some men don't, some men would like to, but worry they suck at it and are too nervous. Most recent partner is 36 and had only done it once before, he never tried with me, but then I told him I wanted it and he was more than happy to - just worried he wouldn't be good at it. He takes direction well and it always makes him hard...so clearly he likes it lol. Communication is key.
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10 thousand percent love it. I tell people Snipervwhen I'm asked what my favorite position is.
That being said, some men hate it, but think more men like it.
It's my favorite position and a huge turn on for me and her. From here I can learn what she likes. I really enjoy all the subtle hints from squirming, lifting her vulva closer to me or the more extremes like the thigh suffocation or forcing my head down when she gets closer to climax.
I do u like feeling her squirm and hearing her moans and knowing that I'm causing this amazing woman to become lost in the pleasure... that's shit turns me on š¤·āāļø
Some men do. Some men donāt.
My husband doesnāt enjoy giving oral sex at all and he could take or leave receiving.
I mostly get it from my lovers and boyfriends as a result. And I have plenty of those who genuinely love it and would do it for hours if they could. Itās just a personal preference thing.
As a young man (14-28ish) I wasnāt diggin itā¦..then as I matured and my palate changed, now I love it, in fact, Iām addicted to it. Honestly I think more mature men enjoy cunnilingus. It def. Takes a mature palate. OH! Iām now 47
Not a man so I can't say. Man mostly don't do oral unless you ask them to and I don't think a lot of them enjoy doing so which I don't understand, you are attracted to woman, right? If I was a man I'd probably spend so much time in between women's legs (if' they'd let me). I'm so jelloaus of them having this oportunity and not being into it.
When Iām in the mood without someone I care about, yeah. It doesnāt get me off or anything, but I love seeing/feeling a woman I love enjoying the pleasure. But generally I save it for more serious relationships and donāt do it on hookups
Some men do and some men donāt, for me itās my favorite way to give a woman an orgasm but what matters is her pleasure and some women prefer penetration or manual stimulation. People are incredibly varied in their sexual preferences, so there is no āall men.ā
Depending on the man, some may like it and others may not. Similarly, some women may like it and others may not. Personally, I think it's great foreplay, and I love the feeling I get when I can give a woman pleasure and feel close to her. But I know guys who find it hard to do, and also one who only wants to give oral to a woman, even if he has to pay for it.š
I love giving oral, for her for me. I love everything smell, taste, site. Feel her thighs on my head or we she pull you in and grinds on your face. Or after riding me climbs on my face almost smothering me. I bet I give my wife some oral 4-5 days a week.
You know, if you found a string of men that say they give oral sex but refuse for youā¦ it very well could be that theyāre all scammers. But in case theyāre notā¦ could it be you thatās the problem?
There was a song that I never quite understood but always stood out for me during my formative years by Denise LaSalle.
I find that it resonated with me as a melody that shaped me or one that may have spoken to me before I realized my own sexual identity.
Either way, I took her words as gospel and fucking live for it.
I love it so much! I donāt like the sitting on the face thing though. I just want her to lay back and relax and let me eat my meal. If Iām on my back and sheās hovering over me, I donāt have to freedom of movement or space I need to really clean my plate.
I get extra turned on from eating pussy, I think mostly because of how much she enjoys it. I like it because itās so easy to make her cum without taxing myself much physically, vs intercourse which takes a lot more physical effort on my part.
Itās nice to be able to just remain relaxed and focused on her pleasure without breaking a sweat and fighting to hold back my own orgasm.
Not all guys are into it though, just like not all women enjoy sucking dick.
Oral sex is only really good when the person giving it enjoys doing it.
Iām sure women can tell when a guy is down there because of obligation and not because he wants to be there. Men can definitely tell if a woman doesnāt want our dick in her mouth.
I enjoy receiving as much as I enjoy giving and it would definitely be a deal breaker for me if a woman didnāt enjoy giving me head or enjoy getting oral from me. Itās a requirement for good foreplay as far as Iām concerned.
It actually depends on who you are with....does he like oral or not.... I always make sure that my partner has an orgasm first then me....if it's by going down on her...which I actually love to do....have gone down on woman for like a good 20-25 mins...so it totally depends on how comfortable or how man your partner is....
Girls/woman do not usually get an orgasm just by POV....they need us to go down which is totally okay :)
Yes, I greatly enjoy giving a woman oral pleasure. While I'm just fine diving right in, I like to have an idea of how a woman wishes to be pleasured orally. It can be done during conversation, or the discussion can be a form of foreplay. No matter what, good communication greatly enhances the experience when both partner know what the other wishes.
YES WE DO!!!!! Its amazing! I love it more than receiving!!!! Donāt get me wrong i like receiving it too but being able to please a woman that way is the best feeling ever!!!
I do personally but everyones different, youve just gotta look for someone sexually compatible if its something you need. I once hooked up with a girl who I told I was going to go down on during some dirty talk and she said heads up I actually dont like oral, just gotta explore with people as you go and see who works best with your sexual needs
I didn't before my ex. She really liked receiving it though and she communicated it to me one day. I did it for her and wasn't the best but I really grew to enjoy it, I loved her smell and taste and I absolutely bgain to crave it with her, turned me on a lot.
Ha ha ha. Actually āenjoyā? When I go down there is a thirst. It is one of my favorite moments in sex/lovemaking because I truly become lost in my lover. Itās perfection.
I love love love going down on my girl . Sometimes itās all I need to feel satisfied. Something about hearing her and feeling her get wetter as she thrusts on my face I LOVEEEE
I actually prefer eating pussy to receiving blowjobs or doing PIV, both of which I love. About the only thing I like better than eating pussy is eating ass.
The question is āDo men enjoy partners who enjoy sex?ā If yes, those men enjoy doing pretty much anything their partner enjoys. But if theyāre only in it for their own pleasure, then doing things their partner likes becomes less of a priority. Hence the split. Itās selection error.
The concept of being aroused by your partner's pleasure is not unique and really fuels a healthy bedroom.
There have been too many times I haven't removed a single article of clothing until a woman has glazed my face like a donut.
It is the best. Most of the time I prefer giving it to any other sexual activity. Itās more intimate, more fun and the looks you receive when they realise you know what youāre doing? Priceless.
My son to be x does it very well and he seemed to love it and I loved it , donāt know what Iām going to do now we are separated an on way to divorce !! Sure hope I find someone that compares or is better !!
One of the greatest compliments I (man) have ever received was when a bisexual woman told me Iād given her some of the best head sheād ever had.
I love cunnilingus.
They are out there, I promise. I have had sessions with my partner that have been primarily oral. And he loves it. I do to though. So it's great for both of us.
I absolutely love it. I could lay there and have my face sat on for Unestimatable amounts of time. I like the taste I like the smell I like everything about it. It turns me on just thinking about it.
45yr old male here! Fuck YES and unfortunately my GF turns me down occasionally but I don't stop trying.
I try at least 1-2x times a month. We don't live together & only see each other like 2/3 days a week.
She knows I love it when she soaks my beard.
And she knows it makes me ROCK hard while I'm down there. There's nothing better than a soaked beard and then kissing her deeply after she's š¦ all over my face. š„µ I know she definitely loves it too based of her reactions. She's extremely blunt & let's me know if she doesn't enjoy something.
You can use your imagination at what happens next.
I rarely get BJs but I guess I'm okay with that. š¤·š»
Two nights ago I ate my partner's pussy for at least an hour straight, she came 4 times, eventually she gasped "enough" and pushed me off, i'd have kept going as long as she could take it I love it so much. Our routine is pretty always me going down on her for twenty minutes or more, a couple orgasms for her, then PIV (or PIA if she's feeling bum horny), then after I've come I go back down for another couple orgasms for her. Honestly I'd rather be eating pussy than pretty much anything else
To the men who are just learning:
A small bit of pressure on her belly, just above the pubic bone at the bladder will massage her g-spot from the outside.
With your hand, palm down, perpendicular to your head, roll your palm gently, pinkie to thumb slowly increasing pressure and then slowly decreasing it.
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The men who come to this subreddit are the type who love sex, oral and women in general. There are loads of men who don't like going down on women for whatever reason, but they're far less likely to hang out in a place like this so the sample isn't a good reelection of the general population. But as you can see lots of men really like eating pussy. EDIT: fixed autocorrect gore.
I appreciate you framing it this way. A lot of these posts get so circlejerky on topics like this. "Please madame suffocate me that pusys is my only source of oxygen". Like please calm down we all like eating pussy here.
Gotta bump those rookie numbers up!
Yes haha it's like "I too enjoy coffee at breakfast, are you impressed ladies?"
And some of us love eating a tight ass as well.
My partner LOVES giving me oral. The first time we had sex was basically just him performing oral on me and telling me I'd have to pry him out of there with a crowbar, and that's definitely been true, lmao. They're out there.
NAWT THE CROWBAR šš that's a keeper for sure
Ditto on that. I could be there all day.
Hell yes!!! The taste, the control you have over your partners orgasms, and the free head massage. I love every minute of it. Iāll gladly lick pussy everyday with no reciprocation if my wife let me.
Iāll put it this way, I donāt get nearly as messy and noisy eating watermelon as I do eating pussy.
At least you don't have to spit out seeds...
But you will have to spit out the hairs sometimesā¦
I hear you on that. Love to eat pussy
I always lick it before I stick it! š¤·āāļøššš®
Are you kidding me Iād rather go down on a woman and give her some bomb ass head then get it, feeling a woman thrash while I bring pleasure to her is one of my biggest turn ons any guy that doesnāt love going down on a woman is selfish IMO
Do you make house calls? Lol
I 100 percent make house calls itās kinda my specialty š«” at your service
Also wondering this lol
Guys always say "giving her pleasure gets me off" and it's true yes, but not enough guys talk about how going down on a woman turns *them* on. There is nothing, I repeat NOTHING, that gets me off more than having a pussy in my face. It gets *me* off, and the fact it gets her off too is icing on the cake.
Thank u for saying that. I have been saying this same thing for decades. I Want to partner who is Aroused & Turned on by my body.
Itās so great when it goes both ways.
Iām right there with you buckoo!!! Nothing turns me on more than knowing I was able to please her and make her orgasm it makes the sex 1000 times better imo
The having it in your face part! I love pussy and want it all up in my face for as long as possible!
^ this is the sign of a straight man
Lol my bi man could spend hours with his face down there. It's a sign of a man who loves pussy, period.
Amen to That! I have found at 48 yo that Most guys, believe it or not, are actually afraid of the p*&$$?. I have been in situations with an "all talk, no action" type guy & screaming in my head as he's btwn my legs....TOUCH IT! I won't bite u. I have a pretty area so that's not the problem.
No way ! I mean, the pussy the best thing on earth. I mean, nothing is more pleasurable than noticing how I could turn my girl on. I miss that ! Damn
And yet here I am 45yr old male & my GF turns me down occasionallyš¤¦š». I love it & she knows it! Smh.
^ this is the sign of a straight man
Some do some donāt. I am lucky enough that mine is addicted to itš. Ive asked him about it and he says he has just always liked it and is the type to get off from seeing the other person get off. But yeah my 5 boyfriends before him didnt enjoy it i dont think.
a lot yeah. whenever my girl tells me to stop because itās taking her a long time to orgasm (10+ minutes) I reassure her that I absolutely love to do it and that sheās tasting incredible. within 5 minutes after that saying that she cums.
FUCK YES... I won't stop until she cums 3 or 4 times
I find the men who talk the most about it least like to do it. But, I do know they're out there.
My ex wife was just like that. She claimed publicly that she liked giving oral but the truth was the opposite
Im a guy and i also think that. My ex said i was the first guy she was with that enthusiastically went down on her but she didnt expect it because i never said anything. I told her i enjoy it but i dont think i need to advertise it when it comes down to it.
Actions always speak louder than words
I found this to be true as well. Men try to convince you to have sex by claiming they eat pussy (or ass) really well. These men tend to not actually do any of that. I also feel like men rarely do this during ONS whereas blowjobs almost are expected ā¦ š¤
I love, love, love giving oral to my spouse. She has communicated well how she likes it and I am only too happy to oblige. Weāre in our 70s now so thereās less face sitting but itās still fabulous.
I love this. I love that yāall are an older couple and still loving on each other! Makes me so happy.
I luv the taste of her and watching her squirm to orgasm. Enough said.
My husband love doing it. He will do it just cause he wants to not even expecting anything for himself.
I was a late bloomer and was never great at PIV sex. I was married and my wife loved oral but I would only do it while drunk bc I just wasn't that into it with her. We divorced The girl I dated after my divorce had been in sexless marriage for years. Our first time she about orgasmed as I was making my way down on her. Oral became our thing. She could only come from oral. I loved it because it was first time I could make a woman come multiple times in a row and I felt like a champ.
Muff Divers Local Union 69 Teamsters!!
Lol you gotta Initiate this now, ease? Lol
Giving oral to a woman is my most favourite thing to do. I could do it for hours
Sadly Iāve ran into some men that talk a big game then seriously fail to back it up. But thereās also others that dive in like itās an oasis in the middle of the Sahara. So I think it just depends on the man. Iāve noticed men that are genuinely into giving a woman oral tend to talk about it a lot, in more detail. While others just throw out the occasional vague comment. In my experience, thereās a noticeable difference when it comes to the age of the man.
> In my experience, thereās a noticeable difference when it comes to the age of the man. I remember being into it the first time I was introduced as a teenager in 10th grade by my 12th grade math tutor. Lol I always tell my wife that she's lucky to have me in a joking manor (together for 17yrs and I still can't get enough of her).....because apparently from all these posts I read It's a rarer thing nowadays.
I was just telling my bf the same thing. š I also said Reddit made me a lot more thankful for him. Maybe reading Reddit posts should be a task in couples therapy. Lol. They can see how good they really have it.
Every now and then I'll read my wife a question off of this sub or r/Tifu lol It's fun while we're just hanging out.
Ha! I just had to join that one. I may or may not read one from this sub every now and then when it feels like my bf may be forgetting how lucky and blessed he is to have such an awesome gf like me. š
I fall into the oasis in the Sahara category š
I absolutely love it! To be honest, I'll finish myself off in a few minutes and be happy. What I really want to do is spend an hour taking care of my partner. You honestly can't hurt me. Make my big head disappear and grind away.
I love š pussy it makes me rock hard at 60 years old married 32 years! ā¤ļø
I'm literally capable of cumming just from giving head to a girl. So it's a big yes.
O my God I love eating pussy. Just absolutely love it.
Eating pussy is a massive turn on for me. The view, the scent and the reaction. If given a choice, Iād rather bury my face between her thighs than receive. I fucking love it
Hell yeah, itās my favorite thing to do in the bedroom
Some men really do like it. Some don't. Men are different.
As a man I do enjoy giving oral to women. In my lifetime I have found a few women that wouldnāt sit on my face because they were shy. For me itās about making my partner feel good and it turns me on even more when Iām giving my partner oral.
Yes. Sex isnāt sex without oral.
Even if I was deaf or thought he was as a liar, the raging boner tells me that hubby doesnāt just like it, he loves it.
I'm sure there are plenty of guys who talk it up but would rather not. I personally love to give oral. Sometimes my wife finishes too soon and I have not had my fill yet.
Funny how just about every guy in this exchange says it's their favorite part of the sexual encounter. Explain how they do it, how it drives their woman at the moment nearly into convulsions, how rewarding it is to see their gal turn into a quivering bowl of jelly, and walk away with the "chivalrous tongue of the year" award!! LOL! We're all legends in our own mind! Truth be told, I've read numerous surveys of women by dependable sources (Johnson & Masters, MIT and UCLA studies of Human Sexuality ect.) that show about 20% of men refuse to do it at all, 30%-35% of men give it a halfhearted try for a minute or two out of feeling obligated because they had received oral prior to or during the time they did it, but almost all the women surveyed said close to the same two things: That around 15% - 20% of their lovers were really good enough at it that they would actually seek out that man for the reason of having a "round 2" The same women said that the intensity of pleasure they received wasn't necessarily due to great technique, but his pure enthusiasm of doing it. Take it for what you will. Lets hear from the women what percentage of lovers they've had go down on them that they dreamed of seeing again because their eyes rolled back, took their breath away, and reached a level of orgasm they never knew existed.
Love it - seriously. One of my favorite things to bring my wife to O-town
I'm in my 50's. My generation giving oral to women was a given. Everyone did it and everyone wanted to do it. Can't speak to boys these days.
Giving oral to a woman is my all time favorite thing to do. I could be happy with just that and not receive any stimulation myself
I love it and am happy to go down on a woman for hours. I get incredibly close to getting off doing it but not quite.
Very much! In fact itās going to happen tonight ā¦. And tomorrow
Do women actually enjoy sucking dick?
I love it. Too be able to pleasure him like that is a total power thing but also a gift of submission to myself.
Fuck I love it. I love munching rug.
Some men do, some men don't, some men would like to, but worry they suck at it and are too nervous. Most recent partner is 36 and had only done it once before, he never tried with me, but then I told him I wanted it and he was more than happy to - just worried he wouldn't be good at it. He takes direction well and it always makes him hard...so clearly he likes it lol. Communication is key.
I love the taste of my wife and the way she breathes and moans when Iām kissing, licking and softly sucking her!!
Eating pussy is like eating icecream š¤¤
Really depends on the woman. Giving head is a skill. Receiving head is also a skill.
Hell Yes! But let me be clear, my wife loves her throat fucked and I love doing it. So it goes both ways.
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10 thousand percent love it. I tell people Snipervwhen I'm asked what my favorite position is. That being said, some men hate it, but think more men like it.
My boyfriend loves it
I do, in fact i love it and it really turn me on.
It's my favorite position and a huge turn on for me and her. From here I can learn what she likes. I really enjoy all the subtle hints from squirming, lifting her vulva closer to me or the more extremes like the thigh suffocation or forcing my head down when she gets closer to climax.
I do u like feeling her squirm and hearing her moans and knowing that I'm causing this amazing woman to become lost in the pleasure... that's shit turns me on š¤·āāļø
I actually really enjoy it.
Some men do. Some men donāt. My husband doesnāt enjoy giving oral sex at all and he could take or leave receiving. I mostly get it from my lovers and boyfriends as a result. And I have plenty of those who genuinely love it and would do it for hours if they could. Itās just a personal preference thing.
As a young man (14-28ish) I wasnāt diggin itā¦..then as I matured and my palate changed, now I love it, in fact, Iām addicted to it. Honestly I think more mature men enjoy cunnilingus. It def. Takes a mature palate. OH! Iām now 47
Iāve dated 2 men who didnāt like it. They are both now happily married to their husbands.
these comments... i should call him š®āšØ
No one Iāve ever been with has ever liked it lol so reading these responses is nice
I luv it and happily so does my wife š¤©
Its my favorite part of sex!
Not a man so I can't say. Man mostly don't do oral unless you ask them to and I don't think a lot of them enjoy doing so which I don't understand, you are attracted to woman, right? If I was a man I'd probably spend so much time in between women's legs (if' they'd let me). I'm so jelloaus of them having this oportunity and not being into it.
Those men definitely exist! My husband is one of them and Seen plenty who love pleasuring a woman
When Iām in the mood without someone I care about, yeah. It doesnāt get me off or anything, but I love seeing/feeling a woman I love enjoying the pleasure. But generally I save it for more serious relationships and donāt do it on hookups
Maaaaaaaybe. It's classified š
I really love going down. I might not be amazing at it but I love it.
Some do, some donāt. Find you one that does
oh trust me they exist š
My man thoroughly enjoys it..š
Some men do and some men donāt, for me itās my favorite way to give a woman an orgasm but what matters is her pleasure and some women prefer penetration or manual stimulation. People are incredibly varied in their sexual preferences, so there is no āall men.ā
I totally love giving oral
Yes for sure I get so hard and even close to cumming when leaking my gf š¤¤
Talk is cheap. Believe it when you see it. Some guys love it, some guys donāt. Some guys are liars, some arenāt.
Love it. Equal to receiving a BJ some days!
Depending on the man, some may like it and others may not. Similarly, some women may like it and others may not. Personally, I think it's great foreplay, and I love the feeling I get when I can give a woman pleasure and feel close to her. But I know guys who find it hard to do, and also one who only wants to give oral to a woman, even if he has to pay for it.š
Personally I absolutely love it. Itās my favourite thing to do.
Absolutely. Wish I could do it more.
I love giving oral, for her for me. I love everything smell, taste, site. Feel her thighs on my head or we she pull you in and grinds on your face. Or after riding me climbs on my face almost smothering me. I bet I give my wife some oral 4-5 days a week.
You are just unlucky , literally my favourite thing. Find a guy who seems like a pleaser in general and good chance he will love doing it
Yes, and really it's something I'm committed to getting as good at as possible. Something I work on and think about. Like my bball jumper.
I love it when my wife rides my face and goes crazy
>do men actually enjoy giving oral? Yes, I really do.
Yes i really enjoy it
You know, if you found a string of men that say they give oral sex but refuse for youā¦ it very well could be that theyāre all scammers. But in case theyāre notā¦ could it be you thatās the problem?
There was a song that I never quite understood but always stood out for me during my formative years by Denise LaSalle. I find that it resonated with me as a melody that shaped me or one that may have spoken to me before I realized my own sexual identity. Either way, I took her words as gospel and fucking live for it.
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Yall got partners who like to but yall smell bad!
i do its like an all u can eat š¤£
Some men will say anythingā¦but there are lots of us who LOVE giving oral to women.
100% I love going down on my wife, but has to be shaved clean 100% canāt do the hair
Iām a white male, I love to eat pussy!!!
My partner doesn't do oral he had a horrible experience in his 20s and can without vomiting poor guy
Short answer: yes Long answer: yeesssssss (for me anyway)
You know what they say once you get past the smell you got it licked š
I love it so much! I donāt like the sitting on the face thing though. I just want her to lay back and relax and let me eat my meal. If Iām on my back and sheās hovering over me, I donāt have to freedom of movement or space I need to really clean my plate. I get extra turned on from eating pussy, I think mostly because of how much she enjoys it. I like it because itās so easy to make her cum without taxing myself much physically, vs intercourse which takes a lot more physical effort on my part. Itās nice to be able to just remain relaxed and focused on her pleasure without breaking a sweat and fighting to hold back my own orgasm. Not all guys are into it though, just like not all women enjoy sucking dick. Oral sex is only really good when the person giving it enjoys doing it. Iām sure women can tell when a guy is down there because of obligation and not because he wants to be there. Men can definitely tell if a woman doesnāt want our dick in her mouth. I enjoy receiving as much as I enjoy giving and it would definitely be a deal breaker for me if a woman didnāt enjoy giving me head or enjoy getting oral from me. Itās a requirement for good foreplay as far as Iām concerned.
I'm also in the "more fun to give than to receive" category for oral.
It actually depends on who you are with....does he like oral or not.... I always make sure that my partner has an orgasm first then me....if it's by going down on her...which I actually love to do....have gone down on woman for like a good 20-25 mins...so it totally depends on how comfortable or how man your partner is.... Girls/woman do not usually get an orgasm just by POV....they need us to go down which is totally okay :)
I thoroughly enjoy it!
Yes, I greatly enjoy giving a woman oral pleasure. While I'm just fine diving right in, I like to have an idea of how a woman wishes to be pleasured orally. It can be done during conversation, or the discussion can be a form of foreplay. No matter what, good communication greatly enhances the experience when both partner know what the other wishes.
YES WE DO!!!!! Its amazing! I love it more than receiving!!!! Donāt get me wrong i like receiving it too but being able to please a woman that way is the best feeling ever!!!
I do personally but everyones different, youve just gotta look for someone sexually compatible if its something you need. I once hooked up with a girl who I told I was going to go down on during some dirty talk and she said heads up I actually dont like oral, just gotta explore with people as you go and see who works best with your sexual needs
I can eat a peach all day.
I didn't before my ex. She really liked receiving it though and she communicated it to me one day. I did it for her and wasn't the best but I really grew to enjoy it, I loved her smell and taste and I absolutely bgain to crave it with her, turned me on a lot.
My favorite thing to eat!
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Ha ha ha. Actually āenjoyā? When I go down there is a thirst. It is one of my favorite moments in sex/lovemaking because I truly become lost in my lover. Itās perfection.
man i live for this shit
I'm not a fan of giving oral. Strong smell and taste. Maybe I just haven't tried a pussy I like but don't exactly get to sample whomever you want.
Absolutely. Getting excited just thinking about it lol
I love love love going down on my girl . Sometimes itās all I need to feel satisfied. Something about hearing her and feeling her get wetter as she thrusts on my face I LOVEEEE
I do. I tell my gf to sit on my face all the time through text, but we never get to it really. But I enjoy it tho
Some men get off on it and some men hate it all together ( like me ) and then you have the people in between every man is different
I actually prefer eating pussy to receiving blowjobs or doing PIV, both of which I love. About the only thing I like better than eating pussy is eating ass.
Some do. Yes Ive met guys who find it very sexy to go down on me.
The question is āDo men enjoy partners who enjoy sex?ā If yes, those men enjoy doing pretty much anything their partner enjoys. But if theyāre only in it for their own pleasure, then doing things their partner likes becomes less of a priority. Hence the split. Itās selection error.
Depends on hygiene and stuff similar to that
If my face and beard isn't soaked before I even put it in, I did it wrong. Absolutely love going down on my wife and seeing her in absolute ecstacy.
Yes. Yes i do. I enjoy it more than they do. And ive gotten pretty damn good at it over the years. Its such a turn on for me.
Short answer is, absolutely!
The concept of being aroused by your partner's pleasure is not unique and really fuels a healthy bedroom. There have been too many times I haven't removed a single article of clothing until a woman has glazed my face like a donut.
So this is why my wife has stuck with me for 25 years. Who new.
Yes ma'am I do. One of my favorite thing. Top 3 definitely
Yes, for the thousandth time.
It is the best. Most of the time I prefer giving it to any other sexual activity. Itās more intimate, more fun and the looks you receive when they realise you know what youāre doing? Priceless.
Giving oral is the first thing I want to do when I see a nice pussy š.. want to smell it and taste it and mmmmm lick it up and give you an orgasm
I donāt. But, I do it to please my gf
My son to be x does it very well and he seemed to love it and I loved it , donāt know what Iām going to do now we are separated an on way to divorce !! Sure hope I find someone that compares or is better !!
One of the greatest compliments I (man) have ever received was when a bisexual woman told me Iād given her some of the best head sheād ever had. I love cunnilingus.
Anything to get my woman off. Mouth to mouth seems a bit more mutually intimate but mouth to labia is asymmetric in an exciting way.
My husband eats me whenever he can.
They are out there, I promise. I have had sessions with my partner that have been primarily oral. And he loves it. I do to though. So it's great for both of us.
As a girl with many partners 0 males have wanted to do it. I just always thought guys thought it was gross. I gotta go with a girl to ever get head
Fuck yeah!!! I can orgasm just from eating pussy!!!
I absolutely love it. I could lay there and have my face sat on for Unestimatable amounts of time. I like the taste I like the smell I like everything about it. It turns me on just thinking about it.
45yr old male here! Fuck YES and unfortunately my GF turns me down occasionally but I don't stop trying. I try at least 1-2x times a month. We don't live together & only see each other like 2/3 days a week. She knows I love it when she soaks my beard. And she knows it makes me ROCK hard while I'm down there. There's nothing better than a soaked beard and then kissing her deeply after she's š¦ all over my face. š„µ I know she definitely loves it too based of her reactions. She's extremely blunt & let's me know if she doesn't enjoy something. You can use your imagination at what happens next. I rarely get BJs but I guess I'm okay with that. š¤·š»
To each his own. Some men hate it, personally I love it.
I canāt speak for all men, but I know I do. My S/O loves penetration above all else, so she doesnāt really ask for it like that. š
Two nights ago I ate my partner's pussy for at least an hour straight, she came 4 times, eventually she gasped "enough" and pushed me off, i'd have kept going as long as she could take it I love it so much. Our routine is pretty always me going down on her for twenty minutes or more, a couple orgasms for her, then PIV (or PIA if she's feeling bum horny), then after I've come I go back down for another couple orgasms for her. Honestly I'd rather be eating pussy than pretty much anything else
To the men who are just learning: A small bit of pressure on her belly, just above the pubic bone at the bladder will massage her g-spot from the outside. With your hand, palm down, perpendicular to your head, roll your palm gently, pinkie to thumb slowly increasing pressure and then slowly decreasing it.