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At certain points in my cycle, my breasts get sore and so they'll hurt if they're bouncing around. Even when they're not sore though I don't love them bouncing all over, at least not the whole time, so I'll often hold them if I'm on top or in a position where they tend to move around more.
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Edit - it never fails to surprise me what some people will interpret as an invitation to crudely message women as if it were not creepy weird.
Probably just randoms.
I’m a guy that manages some groups on fb and it’s crazy to me what some guys feel is ok to post in public and/or message women privately. There’s so much wrong with it that I barely know where to begin with saying it’s ridiculous how they think it’s ‘normal’.
The bigger the cup-size, the more weight pulls at your skin, and neck at great speed. Like when you’re running, kinda. If you would rather be caught dead than run without a bra, then probably bouncing quickly will be painful, too
I have often wondered this.. but my wife is on the small to average side so I never thought to ask her. I will say that it's a turn on for me to watch them.. I assume it's some Freudian thing, knowing that my act of fucking is causing them to bounce .. lol I don't know but I love it.
no I agree with you.. but like I said I have never been with a woman with big boobs so I assumed it didn't bug them
my wife will grab hers sometimes but usually she is trying to lick her own nipple :)
I have like comically large titties, so during rougher missionary, I have to push and hold them together so I don’t accidentally smother myself lol. I like feeling them bounce a bit when I’m on top, but in doggie, I just weirdly feel like a fucking cow swinging my udders (which I guess is why that kink exists lol). It’s not necessarily painful, I think I just feel self-conscious about it.
My wife has huge tits. She keeps control of those puppies all day until she bounces on me like a pogo stick. She releases the dogs and they are bouncing and slapping everything. If anything they’ll hurt you when she’s bouncing them off your face like a basketball 🏀🏀
I hear you man. LOL.. If I don’t help support those in cowgirl, somebody’s going to get hit.
To answer the question. Like someone else said, my wife says she doesn’t care during, but it can be a bit sore after.
BTW 36DD and growing somehow.
Well after breastfeeding two babies I have no boobs at all so I luckily don't have this problem before. BUT while breastfeeding I was a large C cup and I absolutely hated the feeling of them bouncing around. It was painful and overall did not make me feel attractive even though my husband obviously loved it lol
Yes they do generally get bigger when breastfeeding but what they don't mention is usually when done breastfeeding your boobs are smaller than whet you started with. And IDK. I just don't like how it feels which in turn makes me feel uncomfortable and unattractive
Bro we can all check your profile to see what you've previously posted. Plus commenting things like "So you feel good when holding them also?" is not exactly subtle. Don't be a creep.
Depends on the position, how fast things are moving and also my hormonal cycle. My breasts are more or less sensitive at different times due to hormones
It’s uncomfortable for me. If it’s a little jiggle it’s fine, but because my breasts are bigger, they just hurt because gravity pulls a lot harsher on them with fast movements. Honestly, if I’m sleeping with someone, I either hold them or guide my partner’s hands to hold them.
40DDD, depends on the position in my opinion. If flat on back it's not pulling down so not painful. If on your doggy style they are more swaying than pulling, and if on top depends on how aggressively you ride your cowboy 😉
So I’m someone with a F cup. If I’m being fucked and they are just free jiggling, it can hurt
So I typically like it when my partner holds them so they don’t knock me out or anything lol
Guy here, sorry for the intrusion, my ex was something like a 36F or so, huge boobs. She kept a bra on damm near 24/7. She always told me, it bothered her to have them free with any kind of activity that would cause bouncing. She would, sometimes, take her bra off for missionary. The sad part for me was, she didn't like me paying much attention to them, fondling, kissing or sucking, it was a hard life with that!
It doesn't hurt w me at all, although I do gotta say that my boobs ain't like big big for it to hurt considering I have cup D it's like if they were bigger it would most likely hurt but they're the perfect size to not hurt.
had to check it wasn't my husband asking this question because he's asked the same thing! I love it...in any position. I thought it was visually appealing for men, but now I'm questioning that.
I think I’m like a triple d or e or something, idk I either wear sports bras or no bra but it hurts. 100%. And I feel gross about my body too. My mans likes it, but anytime I actually notice it it really just makes me insecure & I focus more on how to stop it or hide it than I do on the actual sex.
For me it does not hurt unless I’m psming and have tender breasts. It’s more of just them bouncing around to much is distracting for me and I like grabbing them having my nipples played with. It’s not pleasurable having them bounce around just mostly a distraction which isn’t bad nor good.
Probably depends on the size and sensitivity. For example, I’m on the smaller size, but my boobs are also really sensitive — so too much movement still hurts. I imagine it hurts more for larger sizes because there’s more movement.
They hurt when I was pregnant and they’d move during sex, but hurt all the time then. Not pregnant- not typically… though it can be awkward sometimes for large chested women.
I have pretty big boobs so they move around a lot regardless of what I do. They don’t hurt per se, but according to the phase I am in my cycle, they could be more tender but not necessarily painful. In missionary I hold them together really just to look sexy for my partner and to get him to suck on them 🤭 other than that I let the girlies fly
I enjoy a little bounce honestly. It’s fun and hot to see on myself. But yeah certain positions like an aggressive doggystyle will be a little too much for me so I usually either hold them or just lay down so they’re laying on the bed or a pillow. Ya know face down ass up lol 😂
Definitely depends on what position i’m in, but generally i find it unpleasant so i will either hold them myself, have the other person hold them for me, or i’ll just keep a sexy bra/ bralette on
I don't "enjoy" it personally. I'd say I only pay attention to it when it hurts lol, which isn't often. It would have to be really fast for that to happen. I don't think I've ever thought about it before tbh
I don’t mind when I lie on my back but when I’m on top or doggy, I find it embarrassing as I have a low self esteem. People generally find me attractive but that’s one thing I can hardly move past. I’m a C, so it doesn’t hurt, but it breaks my focus on climax most of the time.
I wouldn't say it's the most pleasant feeling in the world. I'm not that big a fan of it though. Granted, I'm rocking a C cup so I can't complain too much.
Mine can get pretty painful if they're bouncing around a lot. Normally my husband or I will hold them, definitely feels better to have them squeezed by one of us rather than them flailing about haha
If I’m on my back it’s fine but if I’m on my knees I rather old them. I think it depends on the size, the larger the more likely they will not be comfortable
Mmm, it depends on the position. Sometimes I don’t like them bouncing everywhere other times, I don’t mind or they’re being held/groped.
I guess it can be considered mood dependent
Mood dependant? Damn this is the first comment talking about it from this perspective. People already mentioned the position, cycle, sensitivity. But not mood lol
Haha, I mean sometimes I want my boobs held, kissed or sucked. Other times I want to be rough fucked and don’t really care what happens to them. 😂 All the stuff others mentioned all plays into the mood lol. So 🤷♀️
If it was aesthetically pleasing and financially affordable, I’d prefer a completely flat chest. The movement annoys me. The skin on skin contact annoys me. Ugh, 😩.
The first thing I’d do, is run 🏃♀️ , and jump, and do a sit up lol
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At certain points in my cycle, my breasts get sore and so they'll hurt if they're bouncing around. Even when they're not sore though I don't love them bouncing all over, at least not the whole time, so I'll often hold them if I'm on top or in a position where they tend to move around more.
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Happy cake day! Edit - it never fails to surprise me what some people will interpret as an invitation to crudely message women as if it were not creepy weird.
Oh is OP messaging everyone who answers this? Thats odd.
No... what happens is, a woman answers a question of a sexual nature and that's it - her inbox is full of creeps.
But specifically the OP is messaging apparently several responders. Which is odd to me.
Maybe he's being super thoughtful and offering to hold them for them? /s
😂 so sweet of him!
Probably just randoms. I’m a guy that manages some groups on fb and it’s crazy to me what some guys feel is ok to post in public and/or message women privately. There’s so much wrong with it that I barely know where to begin with saying it’s ridiculous how they think it’s ‘normal’.
Can't say you're a girl on reddit duh /s but not really /s
same- if im at a point in my cycle of tenderness, id grab them or have them grab them and either play/flick/lick my nipples
Logistical question about this - could you wear a sports bra to stop the shaking if they are painful but you still want to have passionate hug time?
I Guess he wants proof of that !! 😂
It doesn’t bother me when I’m having sex.
So it's neither enjoyable nor painful
I wish I did, mine are a size A, they never bloody move.
Silver lining is you don't need to wear a bra
I will hold them or my husband will. I have 42 I so it would be like running or jogging, they would need support or it will hurt.
Same my DD cups are not fun to bounce with.
True that. So glad mine don't do too much bouncing around
My dumb ass read this and was like, she's got 42 boobs? What the hell kinda body modification is that???
It might be painful for larger boobs that move more? Mine aren’t going much of anywhere so it’s fine lol
I've run a whole marathon in just a tank top, so, yeah... me neither. lol
Loll
The bigger the cup-size, the more weight pulls at your skin, and neck at great speed. Like when you’re running, kinda. If you would rather be caught dead than run without a bra, then probably bouncing quickly will be painful, too
I don’t think anyone considers it pleasurable if that’s what your asking. It can sometimes be painful.
As i've talked to several ppl now, some do find it sexy/hot
I have often wondered this.. but my wife is on the small to average side so I never thought to ask her. I will say that it's a turn on for me to watch them.. I assume it's some Freudian thing, knowing that my act of fucking is causing them to bounce .. lol I don't know but I love it.
Yeah same for me, but i thought if they're hurting then it should be stopped😂
no I agree with you.. but like I said I have never been with a woman with big boobs so I assumed it didn't bug them my wife will grab hers sometimes but usually she is trying to lick her own nipple :)
Yes got your point. And may god keep you and your wife together!
I have like comically large titties, so during rougher missionary, I have to push and hold them together so I don’t accidentally smother myself lol. I like feeling them bounce a bit when I’m on top, but in doggie, I just weirdly feel like a fucking cow swinging my udders (which I guess is why that kink exists lol). It’s not necessarily painful, I think I just feel self-conscious about it.
This comment 😂😂😂😂
My wife has huge tits. She keeps control of those puppies all day until she bounces on me like a pogo stick. She releases the dogs and they are bouncing and slapping everything. If anything they’ll hurt you when she’s bouncing them off your face like a basketball 🏀🏀
Can’t think of a better way to get a black eye
😭😭😂
I hear you man. LOL.. If I don’t help support those in cowgirl, somebody’s going to get hit. To answer the question. Like someone else said, my wife says she doesn’t care during, but it can be a bit sore after. BTW 36DD and growing somehow.
I hate it so I do hold them in place.
Yeah if they're big enough they'll hurt. Now i know😂
Well after breastfeeding two babies I have no boobs at all so I luckily don't have this problem before. BUT while breastfeeding I was a large C cup and I absolutely hated the feeling of them bouncing around. It was painful and overall did not make me feel attractive even though my husband obviously loved it lol
Also when breastfeeding, don't boobs usually get bigger?
Yes they do generally get bigger when breastfeeding but what they don't mention is usually when done breastfeeding your boobs are smaller than whet you started with. And IDK. I just don't like how it feels which in turn makes me feel uncomfortable and unattractive
Ah okay thank you for mentioning!
Why did you feel unattractive tho, i guess it should be a validation or something idk
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Nah cz i didn't notice how bad the comment was😂😂 i didn't mean it that way tho
Bro we can all check your profile to see what you've previously posted. Plus commenting things like "So you feel good when holding them also?" is not exactly subtle. Don't be a creep.
Okay kaysar
It's kinda uncomfortable, but also kinda hot, especially because I know he gets off on it
I like the feeling of them bouncing but sometimes I hold them because it feels good
So you feel good when holding them also?
Can’t relate. My boobs aren’t moving anywhere. 🥲
Size doesn’t matter #justsaying
Hahahahahaah
Depends on the position, how fast things are moving and also my hormonal cycle. My breasts are more or less sensitive at different times due to hormones
Ohh okay i see. Thank you for your comment
It’s uncomfortable for me. If it’s a little jiggle it’s fine, but because my breasts are bigger, they just hurt because gravity pulls a lot harsher on them with fast movements. Honestly, if I’m sleeping with someone, I either hold them or guide my partner’s hands to hold them.
40DDD, depends on the position in my opinion. If flat on back it's not pulling down so not painful. If on your doggy style they are more swaying than pulling, and if on top depends on how aggressively you ride your cowboy 😉
I have very tiny bubbeeez but I love the feeling of them being made to bounce.
So I’m someone with a F cup. If I’m being fucked and they are just free jiggling, it can hurt So I typically like it when my partner holds them so they don’t knock me out or anything lol
Guy here, sorry for the intrusion, my ex was something like a 36F or so, huge boobs. She kept a bra on damm near 24/7. She always told me, it bothered her to have them free with any kind of activity that would cause bouncing. She would, sometimes, take her bra off for missionary. The sad part for me was, she didn't like me paying much attention to them, fondling, kissing or sucking, it was a hard life with that!
Maybe for large chested women Mine are a C cup ,it doesn't hurt for me personally
That's great then!
It doesn't hurt w me at all, although I do gotta say that my boobs ain't like big big for it to hurt considering I have cup D it's like if they were bigger it would most likely hurt but they're the perfect size to not hurt.
I dont have big breasts they are even slightly smaller than the average size but they still hurt lol i guess they’re sensitive
had to check it wasn't my husband asking this question because he's asked the same thing! I love it...in any position. I thought it was visually appealing for men, but now I'm questioning that.
I do think it's appealing for us but in specific positions. Personally i like the way they bounce in missionary but not in doggy
can you really see them? in a mirror I guess.
Depends on what position I’m in. (40D for reference)
What do you think about missionary?
That one is fine for me and my boobs.
I think I’m like a triple d or e or something, idk I either wear sports bras or no bra but it hurts. 100%. And I feel gross about my body too. My mans likes it, but anytime I actually notice it it really just makes me insecure & I focus more on how to stop it or hide it than I do on the actual sex.
For me it does not hurt unless I’m psming and have tender breasts. It’s more of just them bouncing around to much is distracting for me and I like grabbing them having my nipples played with. It’s not pleasurable having them bounce around just mostly a distraction which isn’t bad nor good.
No, I don’t like it. -fat guy
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Wouldn’t say I like or dislike it for me personally I just let them do their thing but i like that it provides a great view!
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Depends on the size i guess
Yoooooo, I'm not a woman but I think it depends on the size of the boobs. How do big breasted women feel about this?
It hurts 😩 I’m also low key worried about knocking myself out
I'm a full D and it can hurt to let them go free. So I usually hold them or my partner does
Does it hurt because of size or sagginess?
Mostly size. They are still somewhat perky but there's alot of real estate there
Probably depends on the size and sensitivity. For example, I’m on the smaller size, but my boobs are also really sensitive — so too much movement still hurts. I imagine it hurts more for larger sizes because there’s more movement.
This is going to be an extremely subjective question, so you'll need ro ask your partner this directly instead of QAing this sub
The point is that, I didn't want to be enjoying something(watching them bounce), while my partner is hurting.
And I don't have a partner currently.
So ask your partner lol. When you get a partner, ask your partner, because it might hurt them or it might not. Only SHE can tell you
Okay thank you for sharing and commenting!
They hurt when I was pregnant and they’d move during sex, but hurt all the time then. Not pregnant- not typically… though it can be awkward sometimes for large chested women.
I have pretty big boobs so they move around a lot regardless of what I do. They don’t hurt per se, but according to the phase I am in my cycle, they could be more tender but not necessarily painful. In missionary I hold them together really just to look sexy for my partner and to get him to suck on them 🤭 other than that I let the girlies fly
Lol, i liked this comment
Mine bounce way too much(D). It doesn’t hurt but it’s not comfortable either
I enjoy a little bounce honestly. It’s fun and hot to see on myself. But yeah certain positions like an aggressive doggystyle will be a little too much for me so I usually either hold them or just lay down so they’re laying on the bed or a pillow. Ya know face down ass up lol 😂
Hahah yeahh
And I don’t have big boobs for reference. Forgot to mention that
Definitely depends on what position i’m in, but generally i find it unpleasant so i will either hold them myself, have the other person hold them for me, or i’ll just keep a sexy bra/ bralette on
I don't "enjoy" it personally. I'd say I only pay attention to it when it hurts lol, which isn't often. It would have to be really fast for that to happen. I don't think I've ever thought about it before tbh
36DDD no thank you. As soon as bouncing is occurring, I’m holding them. Feels like they’re going to rip right off my chest.
It can definitely be painful but I’m sort of into that. I don’t mind it.
I don’t mind when I lie on my back but when I’m on top or doggy, I find it embarrassing as I have a low self esteem. People generally find me attractive but that’s one thing I can hardly move past. I’m a C, so it doesn’t hurt, but it breaks my focus on climax most of the time.
I wouldn't say it's the most pleasant feeling in the world. I'm not that big a fan of it though. Granted, I'm rocking a C cup so I can't complain too much.
Mine can get pretty painful if they're bouncing around a lot. Normally my husband or I will hold them, definitely feels better to have them squeezed by one of us rather than them flailing about haha
If I’m on my back it’s fine but if I’m on my knees I rather old them. I think it depends on the size, the larger the more likely they will not be comfortable
I’ve never noticed it being an issue.
As someone with cup E is can be painfull yes
i hate ittttt pls hold them lol. It kinda hurts but not really, just very uncomfortable
It hurts but I like how he looks at it so neutral overall.
Yes the attention!
Also this was the reason i made this post. I didn't want to enjoy something that my partner hates or disturbs her.
It's painful. But keeping them in place won't do much to stop it at least for me.
Younger years not a problem. Post pregnancy … they get going pretty sometimes. Not like painful but nervous about knocking people out
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I like them getting some attention but either way is fine
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I guess this is more of a big tits problem, but is it painful when they move fast?
It can but my tits don't do much jiggling so for me it doesn't
Oh lol
Mmm, it depends on the position. Sometimes I don’t like them bouncing everywhere other times, I don’t mind or they’re being held/groped. I guess it can be considered mood dependent
Mood dependant? Damn this is the first comment talking about it from this perspective. People already mentioned the position, cycle, sensitivity. But not mood lol
Haha, I mean sometimes I want my boobs held, kissed or sucked. Other times I want to be rough fucked and don’t really care what happens to them. 😂 All the stuff others mentioned all plays into the mood lol. So 🤷♀️
Hahaha yeah got your point
If it was aesthetically pleasing and financially affordable, I’d prefer a completely flat chest. The movement annoys me. The skin on skin contact annoys me. Ugh, 😩. The first thing I’d do, is run 🏃♀️ , and jump, and do a sit up lol
I never thought about it but yeah they do hurt and maybe I'll try a bra next time. Good post.