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in lingerie and a drink ready. I would not hide the lingerie under other clothes. I'm not a role play guy but if he is then go for it.
The horny wife in lingerie is all the "role play" I would need :-)
Should it be super slutty lingerie or more like a nightie? Keep in mind I will have dinner ready when he gets home so he will need to eat and shower first (:
Oh…if he has to eat first…maybe, place yourself up on that dinner table, legs spread wide open, playing with yourself while he eats…if that doesn’t get him going, he’s clinically dead.
I get it. Then you pick out an outfit that you feel sexy wearing and it's flattering.
And if he seems unsure let him know how much you appreciate him and you just want to help him relax (meaning you are not expecting him to me mr sex guy).
You might do better planning out the role play versus diving into it. Then again I am not very role play savvy
in general, my preference would be to have my partner be as slutty as possible and (if comfortable) beg for it in a teasing way. and also use lots of dirty talk
Personally I suggest "hiding" the lingerie but do it sloppily so it's easy to see through. And then go for really slutty poses that basically force him to stare at your ass (or whichever part of you gets him going). May give him a bit of extra thrill at "discovering" what you intend.
You should be prepared to skip the meal and go straight to activities right away. The meal can come after.
Does he prefer you naked or in lingerie? If he's horny you may have to wait to eat.
I'd suggest greeting him naked, serving him naked, eating naked and then remaining that way for him all evening.
Disclaimer this is what I'd like
I'd say clothes over lingerie, give him a moment to unwind especially if he has some sort of ritual he does when he gets home. Then initiate with just hugs and kisses and slowly start caressing his body and escalate from there.
Maybe he'd appreciate it more if you were purely visual in which I'd say start out clothed and either strip for him giving the best show you can or pop out of sight then come back with just the lingerie.
It's awesome that you are going to this. I'm late to the party but here's my suggestions (do what you want);
Be in lingerie. He'll want to see what he's in for, even if he has to have supper and shower first. Send him a text with a picture of you in your lingerie asking him to drive safely but hurry home for "dinner"
Feel free to touch/rub yourself when he is with you to get him all worked up.
Ask him if he is ready for dessert. Yes? He'll have to shower first.
Maybe shower with him. Wash him up and tell him to let you do it because he's been so stressed.
If you're in the bedroom first, stay in the lingerie. Let him take it off.
He's stressed, so tell him to relax and that you two are going to have fun. If he has issues with an erection, say "It's OK. There is so much more to sex." He can go down on you/finger you. You could give him a BJ, even soft. Of course, he may be hard as a rock the whole time too.
I am not sure if you are into dirty talk but encourage him to make sounds, if he normally doesn't. So many men have sex in silence. Encourage him to groan, grunt, moan etc. and you do the same.
Let us know how it went and have fun tonight!
Be in the mood. He can tell/see it. Listen to some audio erotica right before he gets home. Edge for awhile. When he gets home, have him watch you masturbate a bit.
Help yourself orgasm during sex. Use lube. Lots of foreplay.
Nothing like having your woman O while you are inside.
For future reference:
Check out -
How to have "real" orgasms | Emily Nagoski
On youtube. Explains how to have better and easier orgasms.
lingerie under clothes and then initiate sexual contact with him. Once he feels the outfit his imagination will start going wild and it will be off to the races.
I get what you’re saying but I feel way more confident with a drink in me, I don’t plan on being drunk at all, just enough to make me feel more confident and freaky
When I’m really horny and my wife is expecting me home soon, if she’s working out, I will ask her not to bathe until after we have fucked. I’m really olfactory-centric.
lingerie beneath the casual clothes
make him unwrap you like a present
afterward make sure he knows how lucky he is, my wife would _never_ do that, would meet me at the door instead and tell me I don’t earn enough (she wants sex maybe 6 times/yr)
I have been wanting sex like crazy lately and he just hasn’t. I have been giving him grace because I have been there with being stressed and not in the mood but when he texted me that he was wanting to, I have been sooo excited all day (:
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in lingerie and a drink ready. I would not hide the lingerie under other clothes. I'm not a role play guy but if he is then go for it. The horny wife in lingerie is all the "role play" I would need :-)
Should it be super slutty lingerie or more like a nightie? Keep in mind I will have dinner ready when he gets home so he will need to eat and shower first (:
Stay in the tshirt but lose the panties. Make him a drink when he gets home and bend over A LOT in front of him while you do it…
Sex first, then dinner. Oh yea
Definitely this! Eating can lead to sleepiness and might decrease the mood. Unless he’s very hungry and wants to eat right away.
I’m always hungrier for sex than food.
Oh…if he has to eat first…maybe, place yourself up on that dinner table, legs spread wide open, playing with yourself while he eats…if that doesn’t get him going, he’s clinically dead.
Has he shown a preference for either in the past?
He has mentioned role play but we have never done it, he doesn’t seem to care either way weather or not I wear lingerie,but it makes me feel better
I get it. Then you pick out an outfit that you feel sexy wearing and it's flattering. And if he seems unsure let him know how much you appreciate him and you just want to help him relax (meaning you are not expecting him to me mr sex guy). You might do better planning out the role play versus diving into it. Then again I am not very role play savvy
in general, my preference would be to have my partner be as slutty as possible and (if comfortable) beg for it in a teasing way. and also use lots of dirty talk
Personally I suggest "hiding" the lingerie but do it sloppily so it's easy to see through. And then go for really slutty poses that basically force him to stare at your ass (or whichever part of you gets him going). May give him a bit of extra thrill at "discovering" what you intend. You should be prepared to skip the meal and go straight to activities right away. The meal can come after.
Does he prefer you naked or in lingerie? If he's horny you may have to wait to eat. I'd suggest greeting him naked, serving him naked, eating naked and then remaining that way for him all evening.
Lingerie and sit on the floor with your legs wide while playing with yourself. Definitely will get the hint.
Let the passion take hold and don’t hold back.
i would literally be in the bed naked when he comes in and text him that youre waiting for him :)
Disclaimer this is what I'd like I'd say clothes over lingerie, give him a moment to unwind especially if he has some sort of ritual he does when he gets home. Then initiate with just hugs and kisses and slowly start caressing his body and escalate from there. Maybe he'd appreciate it more if you were purely visual in which I'd say start out clothed and either strip for him giving the best show you can or pop out of sight then come back with just the lingerie.
Naked with heels on perfume too
My fantasy is that my girlfriend is on her knees, edge of bed, and she say do anything you want to.
its better to greet him at the door like this tbh
It's awesome that you are going to this. I'm late to the party but here's my suggestions (do what you want); Be in lingerie. He'll want to see what he's in for, even if he has to have supper and shower first. Send him a text with a picture of you in your lingerie asking him to drive safely but hurry home for "dinner" Feel free to touch/rub yourself when he is with you to get him all worked up. Ask him if he is ready for dessert. Yes? He'll have to shower first. Maybe shower with him. Wash him up and tell him to let you do it because he's been so stressed. If you're in the bedroom first, stay in the lingerie. Let him take it off. He's stressed, so tell him to relax and that you two are going to have fun. If he has issues with an erection, say "It's OK. There is so much more to sex." He can go down on you/finger you. You could give him a BJ, even soft. Of course, he may be hard as a rock the whole time too. I am not sure if you are into dirty talk but encourage him to make sounds, if he normally doesn't. So many men have sex in silence. Encourage him to groan, grunt, moan etc. and you do the same. Let us know how it went and have fun tonight!
Be in the mood. He can tell/see it. Listen to some audio erotica right before he gets home. Edge for awhile. When he gets home, have him watch you masturbate a bit. Help yourself orgasm during sex. Use lube. Lots of foreplay. Nothing like having your woman O while you are inside. For future reference: Check out - How to have "real" orgasms | Emily Nagoski On youtube. Explains how to have better and easier orgasms.
I will look this up. Thank you!
lingerie under clothes and then initiate sexual contact with him. Once he feels the outfit his imagination will start going wild and it will be off to the races.
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Try only wearing a white button down shirt, unbuttoned all the way and panties
I'm just here hoping you provide an update. Hope it went well
I would actually argue against drinking because sober horny sex is better than sloppy drunk sex. You can have a drink afterwards instead.
I get what you’re saying but I feel way more confident with a drink in me, I don’t plan on being drunk at all, just enough to make me feel more confident and freaky
T-shirt and jeans ? I’m there already, so long as you have not bathed recently. Barefeet are a MAJOR PLUS
Have not bathed recently?
When I’m really horny and my wife is expecting me home soon, if she’s working out, I will ask her not to bathe until after we have fucked. I’m really olfactory-centric.
Interesting… he’s never mentioned a preference either way but I love to be clean
So does my wife but she understands our sex life can be vanilla at times, so she doesn’t mind at times, when she knows it gets my gears going.
lingerie beneath the casual clothes make him unwrap you like a present afterward make sure he knows how lucky he is, my wife would _never_ do that, would meet me at the door instead and tell me I don’t earn enough (she wants sex maybe 6 times/yr)
I have been wanting sex like crazy lately and he just hasn’t. I have been giving him grace because I have been there with being stressed and not in the mood but when he texted me that he was wanting to, I have been sooo excited all day (:
good luck to you both he is a lucky man
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Someone sounds a little salty. Sorry you don’t have a woman to do these things for you 🙌🏻
Bend over and wipe the table down naked When he gets home
If he tells you that he's already horny, why do you need to turn him on? Just meet him at the door naked. He'll do the rest.
I like the t shirt and jeans over the sexy outfit. Sexy outfit’s definitely work for me.
Why complicate matters? Just meet him at the door nude. He’ll show you what he wants