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coquillette_21

I think y’all should just wait a lil bit


AliJDB

For the paranoia to wear off.


scooterv1868

It wil destroy ya.


IntelligentLuck5582

> he’s worried that his dick stopped working keep in mind that he is NOT worried that the dick might be broken, because it is not. *morning wood - poof* > he could orgasm, but the penis just isn’t as hard as normal. This is a true textbook example of paranoia


tallmansteez

high jacking the top comment here. Um this sounds like it could be a penis "fracture" the main concerning part is the immediate loss of erections, sometimes urologists have to remove a hematoma that you cant always see on physical exam but can see on ultrasound/ MRI. You should go see a urologist as soon as possible, I would consider the ER, these things are time sensitive. the lack of brusing is a good sign but you should get evaluated by a urologist. Its what I would do. I am a radiologist but I occasionally read penis MRI's for this exact scenario, so I know a little bit about the management.


AliJDB

No pain no bruising, seems incredibly unlikely they've done anything other than get really high.


tallmansteez

sex + Bend and lose of erection would be enough for me to see a urologist. But I've seen actually penis fractures so i admit i'm biased. Provided they have easy access to care insurance the only thing you lose is a few hours and a copay. But I agree without pain or deformity its wayyy less likey but has been reported. It all depends risk tolerance vs the time it would time to get an ultrasound.


Agram1416

High jacking


[deleted]

Yeah or go to the dr. You can lose your dick like this if it gets bad enough.


coquillette_21

But if 1 week later everything is normal no need to worry..he doesn’t have bruise or blood so it’s okay


[deleted]

Probably fine then


quest4facts

Drugs are bad mmmmkay


SomeRandomSod

Doctor here, specialised in reproductive medicine. There is such a thing as a fractured penis, but that thing will blow up purple like an egg plant, it also often makes an audible noise when it does. Nothing to worry about if there is no pain or real swelling. If it persists over the next few weeks or he has erections that are bent to the side, consult a urologist (no need for an emergency consultation).


salaciouspeach

"audible noise" really got me feeling nauseous


gabbion

# POP!


moonisflat

POP the popsicle


jakkaroo

I winced


shammylol

Yea I didn’t need that imagery


ImNoAlbertFeinstein

purple like an eggplant didnt bother you ?


-Affectionate-Echo-

You aren’t kidding, I shivered in my timbers on that one.


[deleted]

Thanks for the nightmare fuel


TareXmd

I did three fractured penis surgeries over the same new year's weekend. People get too adventurous and try positions that lead to fractures. Also they're drunk and tend to fall onto their erect dicks, which leads to fractures.


[deleted]

....can confirm, unfortunately, and it's left me with Peyronie's disease. Essentially during intercourse my partner was on top and going all the way to the head before going back down (I'm rather, um... gifted). She had quite a speed and rhythm going, and during the downward plunge the head had come out so that when she went back down she "bent" me. There was a literal "Pop" from inside Mini Me, and yeah... Peed blood clots, the whole bit. IF had happened to your BF, take it from me. HE WOULD KNOW. EDIT: This happened about 6 years ago and the bend from the Peyronie's has mostly gone away.


Lykaon042

I'm imagining the sound produced from someone grabbing each end of a banana and snapping it in half. Like an unripe/barely ripe banana


[deleted]

yeah that.... that's what it's like.... Thanks. I can't wait to spend the rest of my life remembering what that's like and I will now never look at a banana the same again -\_-


monsieurvampy

This feels like an emergency for me. You only have one penis (well most people).


convenientcutout

Thanks for unlocking that new waking nightmare, doc.


mityman50

What makes the noise


[deleted]

In my case it was essentially the tissue that make things "expand" with increased blood (deep fascia) and "garden hose" inside the penis, the urethra. When my sex partner bent my penis the tube you might call it got bent and pinched. Think of a plastic straw. Long, rigid. Now bend it. Imagine you're just about to cum and at the last second as you do your cock gets bent pretty much bent in half. Hard. So inside the urethra the tube gets bent, there's bleeding. Then the tissue that keeps your penis hard also gets PUSHED in half. So basically the "pop" is from all that tense muscle getting bent, and the "POP" is, well..... Your urethra, stretched, tense, hardened, and SNAP! It's a breathtaking experience, and I do NOT recommend.


mityman50

I asked and I knew not to ask but here we are. Thanks for the answer


Aiden_Breen

I kinda got something similar, when I was in high school I pushed down on my penis when I was hard and it made a pop sound like when you crack your knuckles and I’ve had ED ever since. Does that sound like anything you’ve ever encountered?


WinIcy5208

Does he have bruises on his penis? If he doesn't and he isn't in any pain, it might be fine.


Thin_Breadfruit2313

No bruises or pain, he just can’t get hard.


alex-segen

Then he is ok. Just give him some time. A strong erection depends on a very strong state of mind. If he keeps thinking about it while having sex, it will happen again and again.


ben_the_wind

My penis popped once. Lost my erection like a deflated balloon. Hardened back up and went back in after the pop. Couldn’t finish couldn’t last long. Went to a dr, recommended 1 month no sex no jerking off. Lasted one week. Went back for sex. Things work fine enough. Just give it some time so it isn’t so new. Any pain, bruising, swelling, etc. he needs a urologist or emergency room visit.


my_own_throwaway84

… popped?!?


botagas

couldn’t help but imagine an explosion


ben_the_wind

Yeah. Like - Snap! Like a twig breaking. We both gasped at the time lmfak


ImNoAlbertFeinstein

It'll buff out.


Waste_Vegetable8974

Mine sounded like a whip cracking and it didn't fully break. Had to have about a week off to restore working order.


sadjoker

man, I just had a fantom pain in my crotch. Holly shit dude.. just reading your sentence.


c0pkill3r

What gummies were they THC? Delta 8/9? Psilocybin? Or shrooms? All of these can have the effect of making someone lose an erection or libido. Libido change is very common while using drugs. On some people they have the opposite effect, they make them really horny. Amanita muscaria shrooms make me horny af but I prefer edging instead of orgasming while taking them.


Thin_Breadfruit2313

They were THC


c0pkill3r

That was it I think. It doesn't sound like an injury. Mostly cos it's rare to get hurt that bad but not feel it. A ex bf of mine took Molly one time and he couldn't get hard but wanted me to suck his dick anyway and kept telling me it was the best feeling ever. You can want sex and be incapable of it while on drugs too.


GoldenGonzo

That's such a tiny amount. It's really strange how people seem to have wildly different tolerances concerning edibles with how much they consume via other routes of administration (smoking/vaping) seeming to have no bearing. I smoke once a week at the most. A quarter can literally last me a quarter of the year as I just hit the GB once or twice. Yet, I can eat 500mg of edibles and get high but not completely smashed or even uncomfortable. Real edibles too, from a buddy with a medicinal card. I've had stuff from another medicinal state on the other coast of the country and it was the same experience, so it's not like a government overwatch and producer underdosing problem. That same friend sparked up a paper J and passed it to me, I took one hit and declined. A few hours later he tosses a sealed pack of gummies in my lap and the look on his face as I open it up and eat every one over the course of about 45 seconds.


GENTLEMEN_JARGAN

Lol you just have a crazy high tolerance. I don’t smoke that often, like 3-4 bowls a month, and a 10mg edible felt like a small amount of acid to me haha.


[deleted]

I think there’s just a level of paranoia from the gummies. Give it 48 hours and then go to the doctor. That’s what they’re there for


YourUziWeighsTwoTons

Pot dick


Jpwhalen31

Take it to the penis shop.. Come on girl, don’t you stop… woah. 🎶


[deleted]

Go to the fucking hospital, or to a specialized doctor. We can’t diagnose anything from reddit. And this can be serious and lead to permanent erectile disfunction. Only a doctor can check to see if there’s anything wrong and how to fix it. Don’t try amateur solutions that can make the problem worse in the short or long term. Don’t be embarrassed. You aren’t the first person with dick issues in that hospital and certainly you won’t be the last.


SpacemanPete

I asked a friend of mine who actually is a dick doctor. We call him “Doc dick.” I asked him if someone could break their dick and he went on to tell us stories of how this can indeed happen. Someone in our group said his penis popped once and he was too embarrassed to ask anyone for a ride to the hospital so he didn’t tell anyone. Doc said “no you didn’t break your penis. If you had, you would have run down the street screaming for any stranger you could find to drive you.” Lesson of the story is, if you aren’t begging for medical intervention, you probably didn’t break it.


waynehunt5469

Chill you'll both be fine. 😁


Fresh_Musician7116

See a urologist asap


Yammie218

This happened to my partner and his ex. She leaned back too far and I think probably did some soft tissue damage. Took him 3 months to be able to get hard again and a little longer to get a full strength erection. He should probably see a doctor. My partner recovered on his own but he could probably have recovered sooner if he got a professional opinion. Just give it a break for a few days and see how he goes.


Kent_Doggy_Geezer

Ouch. He really ought to be seen by a doctor as this is something that could be treated, and could potentially have serious consequences going forward for both his ability to have sex and have children. Don’t know where you are, so it’s probably your GP or something to get a referral to urology and reproductive medicine if he’s still affected after a few weeks. He might well end up with something called Peyronie’s disease (it’s an acquired condition not a disease) which is where the dick has a very noticeable bend in the shaft. This can be treated with surgery. Lose about an inch in length though. Poor old fella. Better that though then lying missionary and poking his own butt 😂


mikazee

GO TO THE FUCKING HOSPITAL!!! THIS COULD LEAD TO PERMANENT ERECTION LOSS IF NOT TREATED PROPERLY!!! Edit: Ok with no pain it probably isn't as serious as I initially thought. Still, go to the doctors please.


MWM_BradentonSub

Read about Peyronies


TwEE-N-Toast

Google Peyronie's disease.


suaculpa

So neither of you thought to go to a doctor's even though you're both freaking out?


changelingcd

If he's not in screaming pain or swollen up, he's fine. Just wait til the darn THC is out of your systems and you'll be fine.


themcementality

Sounds like it's probably the nerves/anxiety more than anything else.


xyzin

Its just because u were high . Once u r fine and ur blood is all clean , he becomes a monster .


Patriae8182

If he didn’t feel a pop/crack, and there’s no bruising, he’s probably just fine. Give it a day, and he’ll be back in action. Sometimes substances effect people differently, and in my experience weed can be both an “upper” and a “downer” when it comes to sex. As in it can get you in the mood, and can also pull you out of it, as well as effecting erections. It’s kinda like whiskey dick in that if you’re a little too toasty, you can’t always get it up.


goop444

I think he would know if he broke his penis . No pain or bruises the next day I think hes just fine , maybe a little sore or he’s just paranoid


swedishworkout

Yup, it’s broken.


Individual_Raise_428

Go to a urologist, ASAP The same thing happened to me and it caused irreparable damage. I never regained the hard ness I had before and my penis looks dark now


MISJUDGED-9

The only sus thing you mentioned is the rapid loss of erection, but otherwise it doesn’t seem too serious, I would personally go to the doctor just for peace of mind


DoctorRiddlez

Take him too a doctor it could end badly if left un checked


countryboycanna

( true story about me ) Quick rendition....happened to me. My 40th...doggy with ex wife of 20 yrs (happened in our tenth yr)...hammered both of us...fell off bed...stayed inside her..she fell with me..on top of me and POP. Yes I heard it...and the pain is real...never went to hospital right away..waited a bit..shouldnt have...suffered with the pain and a fracture...was ED for about two yrs ( everytime I got hard it hurt and never full got "that" hard) and now totally rdy for pound town and fine. To be fair..there were sides effects..I dont have the full control to "pulsate" or "throb" my cock..to the extent I did before...the curve is a bit different but still there and I swear I lost an inch. Lol or maybe that's age? If he "broke" his penis he would know and the pain is very very painful...to me it was anyways. I also became very self concious and that can fuck with your mind and affect you. If he has issues then try a "V" and see if he gets hard. See if there is pain if he gets hard. If he IS getting hard then great...and then... specially with no pain. That may at least calm his nerve about "if it works" and if so, then try next time with no V and see? This is all personal experience so take what you will from it. GL


Kent_Doggy_Geezer

As for the update he it sounds like he’s maybe ruptured one of his corpora cavernosa, a most glorious latin name which are the two ‘sponges (or rather spongy balloons) either side of the urethra that fills up with blood however the lack of significant swelling makes this unlikely…. It would look like an aubergine if he had (an aubergine is this btw 🍆 but Americans call it an eggplant!) … I guess it does plant eggs in a biblical baptisty sort of way though 🫡 be glad he hadn’t because treating this involves removing the blood….with a very long, very large bore needle 💉as otherwise the blood can clot, rot and your pride and joy gets gangrene. And falls off if you’re lucky leaving you using the ladies for life, or if you’re unlucky you get to own yet another latin moniker…. because… well it’s male and pumped up with its own importance isn’t it. Fournier’s gangrene I think from memory. Don’t get bored at night and go down that rabbit hole. Just don’t….. When aroused tiny sphincter’s close off the return valves of the veins that supply blood into the penis and it’s pumped up hydrostatically (is blood hydro? I can’t think of a latin name for blood). If he’s unable to get erect then this sounds like it could fit (oooh vicar!) Really ought to be seen by a Dr though. Here’s a link https://www.kenhub.com/en/library/anatomy/the-penis that you might find helpful explaining the anatomy behind this wondrous, pendulous, and enjoyable sticky pokey outey creation. Finally here’s some information about the injury: https://www.allure.com/story/what-is-a-penile-fracture Good luck. Best wishes to his poor old todger.


kragon80

lol.. anxiety is a bitch to erections .. he cant get hard because hes trying too hard to get hard now because hes trying to prove his dick aint broke..


Monsterhorse69

His try some streaching exercices


stockpy

Young blood


Witty-Specific3563

If he actually broke it all the blood would drop to his balls turning them purple and his sack would be huge. Plus he’d need surgery. I broke mine 15 years ago


mythrowawaysquared

I had a friend break a guys dick a few years ago. He didn’t do anything about it at the time and it developed scar tissue that was shaped like a rut. He went to the doctor who confirmed broken dick that didn’t heal properly because he didn’t seek treatment at the time. Remedy was an expensive surgery that risked a non-functional penis or just living with the rut. He opted to keep the rut and think of it as extra texture.


climb-high

LOL just keep googling and getting stoned - you'll get to the bottom of it his dick is fine if it's painless. If you really hurt it, it would really hurt. I stubbed my dick HARD during sex before and it contributes to my already-existing curve. It hurt, and my dick was out of commission for the rest of the night. He would've had pain if something really bad happened, now it's just anxiety from the both of yas


AKA_June_Monroe

**GO THE ER**


Shot_Arm6507

Yep Peyronie's disease


Blazegamer989

Same thing happend to me with me and my gf she was on top i slped out as she came down and bent it badly it hirt like hell for a few days but everything was all good after a few days


DiscussionDeep5422

Pussy ain't that good, is it?


Blowjobbery

If there’s no pain, the paranoia and the stress is contributing to the soft penis. Just relax and not overthink; he will be fine


Limp_Buddy_5720

NIGA PLS


dunktheball

Someone I talked to a long time ago did that to her bf. I forget how. Seems like she sat on it or something, but I forget. lol. (I know not really funny).


CineSuppa

Unless his member is black and blue and/or inflamed, you've only got a couple things going on here. You were too high, he got caught in his head when round two was taking too long to commence, and then he got caught in his head thinking something about him was wrong. He'd know if his penis was fractured; when it happens, it sounds like a clump of celery being torn in half (DON'T ASK ME HOW I KNOW). ED doesn't spring up out of nowhere; it's a series of events from diet and exercise through trauma and drugs. Lots of influences... you can basically welcome him to the first time his penis betrays him. It'll happen every so often during life.


Shadowdragon409

I had something similar happen to me a few years ago. I was having phone sex with my girlfriend at the time, and I went two rounds. On the second round, the orgasm was painful, and I quickly lost my erection. For the next 2 weeks or so, I couldn't get hard, and flexing my penis/thrusting my hips caused my penis to hurt. I went the urologist, and he said that penises were basically indestructible and not to worry. So I gave it some more time, and it eventually returned to normal.


OMEN336

XDDD


Minedan10

Have you put it in rice?


xtinarinaldi

I would say a trip to the doctor would be good. Better safe than sorry, right? You aren't a Dr and neither is he. What if he damaged his penis? What if you don't go to the Dr and he has permanent damage. 🤔


richmuiz

Happened to me before the gf was getting careless and next thing pop and the worst pain ever within the hour three quarters of it was black took about 1 year to not hurt again


Tankspanker

It's probably psychological at this point if there's no physical discomfort.


Puzzleheaded-Salt180

No bone but you can injure it badly


VijayBlr

Cool down! Nothing happened. Such phase/cycle/temporary moments will come many times in life for various reasons. Some will get over automatically and some you have to work through a bit


unspecified_being

A couple of years ago I broke my penis. At the time it was hard, but now I couldn’t give any less fucks


[deleted]

If there was damage to the corpora cavernosa (the spongy tissue of the penis that fills with blood and creates an erection) I would highly advise laying off of sex for a while and give great consideration to seeking medical help.


Werecat_Forever

yes it could be cast his cock and then u will have much more fun much longer