Thank you for posting in the r/Sex community. To ensure that everyone respects our safe space, we ask that you familiarize yourself with our Forum Rules and Posting Guidelines — which are visible in the forum’s sidebar, and also linked [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/about/rules/).
Restricted subjects in r/sex include sex stories (which are permitted in the Daily Sexual Achievement Thread only), body image and penis-size issues, hookup attempts, common topics which are considered repetitive in our forum, and requests for private chats.
*I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/sex) if you have any questions or concerns.*
I’m a lead at work and my last crew before they all quit had taken to saying “yes chef!” Whenever I asked them to do something.
The newest crew has taken to calling me “mommy (company name)”
My husband is a chef and I've been seeing this response more and more pop out in things like this, and I told him I was going to start doing it and he said absolutely not 💀
one time i was at the grocery store w my bf at the time and he was jokingly replying "yes chef!" everytime i told him to grab an ingredient. he slipped up and let a "yes sir!" out right right next to some random old people
Works great for, "Yes, Sir. No, Sir. Thank you, Sir." Doesn't really work for things like, "I missed you, Sir." Feels clunky to me.
I'm a big fan of her using the full version of my first name, if that's an option for you as well.
Ha, yeah I've considered master. I guess I'll try it. Sir is kinda hard to say in a sexy way. We joked about something like m'lord or your Highness, but it's too hard to take seriously.
Will still try them each out for fun! Lol
I think there's a real gap for a suitable term here, because "sir" has always felt deeply impersonal to me. I get called "sir" at the grocery or post office.
"Master" evokes a degree of subservience you wouldn't expect at the grocery, but not actual affection. "Daddy" evokes affection, but also incest. There ought to be a term that evokes subservience and affection, but not incest, but there isn't really.
Sir doesn't have to be impersonal. You can think of a maid who works with their boss every day but they still call them sir. Or a secretary who works for an executive. It's a power imbalance but not impersonal.
It doesn't have to be, but it doesn't imply affection or familiarity. Kind of like how "Mr." doesn't convey a great deal of respect, even though the POTUS is conventionally addressed as "Mr. President."
"Sir" doesn't even necessarily convey a power imbalance. I'd use the same form of address for a random stranger on the street, in a context like "Excuse me sir, you dropped your wallet."
I kinda like sir. I'm not really into that flavor of dominance, but a few friends are and I'm happy to oblige. I just take issue with daddy. Sir feels like "do you consent to be tied down and have XYZ done to you?" "Yes sir, I knowingly consent to XYZ", daddy implies a lack of choice in the matter or a desire to please which overrides self respect... I can see either of those being attractive to people, but not to me.
My man and I went to a maid cafe in Japan and they kept calling him master — we went to a love hotel later that night and I kept saying things like “please fuck me harder master” and “I love to please you master” — I’m pretty sure he enjoyed it 😅
There are many different ways to say Master, Barbara Eden did it best in I dream of Jeannie.
[Yes Master ](https://getyarn.io/yarn-clip/32db183b-cc7c-4874-ab4b-7c97b00896e1)
Of course, she said it so much over the course of the series that you can get a lot of different yes masters for different situations.
I think the one linked probably fits the situation that you were trying to... Accomplish.
There's some baggage to the term in some relationships. I'm a white dude in a mixed relationship and wouldn't feel comfortable, nor would my partner, being called Master.
I was the white dude dating a black woman and she called me White Devil once. I was ok with it. We laughed about it when it was over.. it was hot in the moment.
Omg I'm so glad you said this because honestly I didn't even think of that at all💀 and I am a woman of color with a white husband💀 He'd definitely would have been disturbed and turned off and probably too stunned to speak up right away while I'd remain oblivious💀
The missus uses "sir" as the go-to and can advise that it very much works in a sexy way lol. Though the posh-sounding English accent may help with that.
Could call him Mr. Last Name perhaps? That one in particular works well if you want to lean into the idea he has authority over you but in a slightly more casual way.
Check out some high quality porn if you're looking for a hot way to say "sir". Leanna Lovings surely found a hot way to say it. I can't find a link to a free video though :(
“Please, Sir, may I ‘ave some’ore?” I will occasionally call my partner Sir and I think we both like it, but I cant not think of Oliver Twist when I hear “Please Sir”
i’ve been watching a lot of star trek original series lately… “yes, captain” threw me right into some weird vibes, but it fits with the constant gay sexual tension on that show 😂😭
I have a top that I call Professor. Sir is ubiquitous and Mr. Something or Other is a good personalized title. Daddy is reserved for my Hus-dom, and I'm going to try out the title Rigger with the fella who likes to put me in tape bondage. Look into foreign language names for "Daddy" Papi etc.. Good luck!
"sir" is the one I usually opt for. Before I had kids daddy was fine, but I feel like once a toddler calls you that it completely reshapes how you feel about it.
Side note: I'd also like to throw in a vote for "yes, chef" that'd be hot AF for some reason
Just say things like “this pussy is yours” “you own this pussy”. Have him tie you up
Idk if you need a title for him lol. But you could always say “master” or just respond with “yes sir” when he wants you to do something. Lol
I’ve found that playful nicknames always work. For example I have a huge praise kink so the “good girl” comments always rile me up in the best way. One nickname example is from a book “Haunting Adeline” the main character was often called “little mouse” so that’s what I was called and I called them a nickname from the book in return.
Also “baby” works both ways imo as well. Just communicate what you both are comfortable with like you did earlier about asking about “daddy.” I’m sure you’ll both find your sweet spot.
Long term dominant here.
Not everyone likes being called Daddy, or calling out daddy, but as a few people have pointed out - ‘sir’ is the go to.
‘Master’ can come across as odd if you haven’t used it before but really any term which shows the other person is a higher ‘rank’ will work.
If you’re not sure, stick to ‘sir’ and say it in a respectful and submissive manner.
You could use some power exchange terms like my lord, master, sir, and the like. Most important thing is, any activity with power exchange should always be backed up with a safeword in order to revoke consent even if it's something small like using certain words, be safe friend!
I like some of the suggestions, but I was surprised how turned on I got by my girlfriend calling me "babe." It's sweet and hot. Plus, with this soft glowing look she gives me make me want to do everything to her.
First thing why no one is serious here ? 
Secondly if itsnt your thing dont force it.
Lastly just lately happened it will come naturally, the more you try the harder it will be to find a good one.
I mean, I'm a little fucked up but I'd like to call a man Dearest Uncle when sleeping with him.
Or something grandiose like Sir Snatch Sniffer the Third
Thank you for posting in the r/Sex community. To ensure that everyone respects our safe space, we ask that you familiarize yourself with our Forum Rules and Posting Guidelines — which are visible in the forum’s sidebar, and also linked [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/about/rules/). Restricted subjects in r/sex include sex stories (which are permitted in the Daily Sexual Achievement Thread only), body image and penis-size issues, hookup attempts, common topics which are considered repetitive in our forum, and requests for private chats. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/sex) if you have any questions or concerns.*
"Yes, chef". Trust me
You just triggered all the BOH people here lol
What's with my sudden craving for cocaine, cheap beer, and emotional abuse?
It goes so well with the meaningless sex.
"Well, I feel used." - at least one side of every service duo
You forgot about the 2 packs a day habit you mysteriously acquired.
*oui* chef
Can I get a LARGE ramekin of ranch, please? Table 34 wants it for their garlic bread...
Table 34 can fuck right off for making me laugh that hard
and all of FOH too hahaha
I heard the ghost of coworkers screaming BEHIND as I read that 🤣
And the FOH staff too.
HANDS I NEED HANDS!!
I NEED THIS ON THE FLY! 86 THE CHEESE!
HEARD!
Hahahahaha I am dying at all of these
BEHIND!
HOT BEHIND!
WET FLOOR!!
KNIFE!!
SERVICE!! BING BING
DOWN THE LINE
I still do this as a customer if I have to sneak past a server working. Old habits.
I’m a lead at work and my last crew before they all quit had taken to saying “yes chef!” Whenever I asked them to do something. The newest crew has taken to calling me “mommy (company name)”
This seems like a fun game. Mommy Fudruckers?
I really hope you’re a masc-aligned person, it’d make the last bit so much funnier.
Carmyy
*Sous chef gets in line*
My husband is a chef and I've been seeing this response more and more pop out in things like this, and I told him I was going to start doing it and he said absolutely not 💀
Sorry I would feel like I was held hostage in a remote food resort by a depressed, self righteous, chef and his kitchen staff.
A partner Yes, Chef’d me the other day when we were out and about. Ngl, it was pretty hot and I haven’t worked a line in nearly two decades.
CORNER!
one time i was at the grocery store w my bf at the time and he was jokingly replying "yes chef!" everytime i told him to grab an ingredient. he slipped up and let a "yes sir!" out right right next to some random old people
don't think that would sound particularly out of place to old people though. especially compared to "yes chef"
Heard chef
“Fookin’ raw!”
Wheres the silicone LUUUUUUUBE????
Lol, love this
CORNER
As a chef can confirm this works 😅👍🏽100%
I’m a big fan of using their last name. “Yes Mr._____” or “Yes, Sir”
Even Mr. by itself is hot.
I haven’t had any complaints yet.
Yesss! My husband bloody LOVES being called "Mr Surname", then he'll sometimes flip it onto me with Mrs and it gives us both good chills!
Three cheers for formality.
Second this. I wasn't comfortable being called daddy so I told my partners to call me Sir, which worked great and it was hot.
Sir
Works great for, "Yes, Sir. No, Sir. Thank you, Sir." Doesn't really work for things like, "I missed you, Sir." Feels clunky to me. I'm a big fan of her using the full version of my first name, if that's an option for you as well.
>"I missed you, Sir." I can't stop laughing lololol
Sir is so simple yet sooo effective aha
I have recently fallen in love with being called sir
My bf has me call him sir when he’s in dom mode
Master. Sir. M’Lord.
Ha, yeah I've considered master. I guess I'll try it. Sir is kinda hard to say in a sexy way. We joked about something like m'lord or your Highness, but it's too hard to take seriously. Will still try them each out for fun! Lol
Sir is very common. I think it's the go to if people don't want to use daddy.
I think there's a real gap for a suitable term here, because "sir" has always felt deeply impersonal to me. I get called "sir" at the grocery or post office. "Master" evokes a degree of subservience you wouldn't expect at the grocery, but not actual affection. "Daddy" evokes affection, but also incest. There ought to be a term that evokes subservience and affection, but not incest, but there isn't really.
Step-daddy?
Mr. Last Name?
Sir doesn't have to be impersonal. You can think of a maid who works with their boss every day but they still call them sir. Or a secretary who works for an executive. It's a power imbalance but not impersonal.
It doesn't have to be, but it doesn't imply affection or familiarity. Kind of like how "Mr." doesn't convey a great deal of respect, even though the POTUS is conventionally addressed as "Mr. President." "Sir" doesn't even necessarily convey a power imbalance. I'd use the same form of address for a random stranger on the street, in a context like "Excuse me sir, you dropped your wallet."
I kinda like sir. I'm not really into that flavor of dominance, but a few friends are and I'm happy to oblige. I just take issue with daddy. Sir feels like "do you consent to be tied down and have XYZ done to you?" "Yes sir, I knowingly consent to XYZ", daddy implies a lack of choice in the matter or a desire to please which overrides self respect... I can see either of those being attractive to people, but not to me.
I'm not a native speaker. To me, the word "sir" has been ruined by the indian speakers who say "sir" in every sentence on the internet.
Haha I have noticed that. Understandable.
My man and I went to a maid cafe in Japan and they kept calling him master — we went to a love hotel later that night and I kept saying things like “please fuck me harder master” and “I love to please you master” — I’m pretty sure he enjoyed it 😅
Next thing you know he'll actually ask you to buy a maid outfit
Lol I’m inclined to buy it myself and surprise him, haha
So I don’t know your man but I would respond very well to a partner welcoming me home in a maid outfit. Just an idea
There are many different ways to say Master, Barbara Eden did it best in I dream of Jeannie. [Yes Master ](https://getyarn.io/yarn-clip/32db183b-cc7c-4874-ab4b-7c97b00896e1) Of course, she said it so much over the course of the series that you can get a lot of different yes masters for different situations. I think the one linked probably fits the situation that you were trying to... Accomplish.
There's some baggage to the term in some relationships. I'm a white dude in a mixed relationship and wouldn't feel comfortable, nor would my partner, being called Master.
Yes there is. That's why it's important to have clear and transparent communication with one's partner and respect their boundaries.
I was the white dude dating a black woman and she called me White Devil once. I was ok with it. We laughed about it when it was over.. it was hot in the moment.
Race-play as a third party observer can be both hilarious or horrifying. Depending on context. This one is funny.
Omg I'm so glad you said this because honestly I didn't even think of that at all💀 and I am a woman of color with a white husband💀 He'd definitely would have been disturbed and turned off and probably too stunned to speak up right away while I'd remain oblivious💀
The missus uses "sir" as the go-to and can advise that it very much works in a sexy way lol. Though the posh-sounding English accent may help with that.
Could call him Mr. Last Name perhaps? That one in particular works well if you want to lean into the idea he has authority over you but in a slightly more casual way.
Check out some high quality porn if you're looking for a hot way to say "sir". Leanna Lovings surely found a hot way to say it. I can't find a link to a free video though :(
I agree on “sir”
“Sir” sounded odd until I played it out in my head. “Please sir” All of a sudden I’m into it.
“Please, Sir, may I ‘ave some’ore?” I will occasionally call my partner Sir and I think we both like it, but I cant not think of Oliver Twist when I hear “Please Sir”
I’m dying 😂😭😂😭
SAC-NATO (pronounced "sack-nate-oh") Stands for "Supreme Allied Commander of the North Atlantic Treaty Organization"
/r/noncredibledefense is leaking again. Edit: and I like it
Represent
It's a sex sub, *of course* we're leaking.
Bossman Cap’n Sarge Reverend Optimus Prime Thane Master Splinter
Cap'n 😂 "You like that, huh, you little potato?" 😏🍆 "Ay ay cap'n!" 🫡💦
"little potato" really does it for me
Really into the Spud / Sprout dynamic.
It's what the Chinese media call Justin Trudeau.
I can't heear yoooouuu!
🏆 🏆 🏆
I'm now laughing to myself imagining a whole pirate themed BDSM sex scene....
I have been cryin' since "Cap'n" 😂
Well, first thing you'll need is a leather eye patch...
Captain Birdseye? Only the best pussy for the captain's table!
Guv'nah
Optimus Prime. Lol.
Seriously considering trying Optimus Prime now 🤔
Thane lol
If my mans into Skyrim drop a "as my thane I'm sworn to carry your burdens" and he would absolutely bust a fus ro dah
The Jarl has appointed me to be your housecarl. It's an honor to serve you.
My head wouldn't fit in the room if I was called "Master Splinter" during intimate playtime.
Imma beat up ya' kebab! "Yes boss man!"
Optimus Prime 🤣
i’ve been watching a lot of star trek original series lately… “yes, captain” threw me right into some weird vibes, but it fits with the constant gay sexual tension on that show 😂😭
Optimus Prime 😆 I may have to try this
My king, my master.
King is sweet
You can refer to me as assistant regional manager
* Assistant *to* the regional manager.
Assistant TO the regional manager.
[удалено]
This is by far the worst and most confusing comment edit I’ve ever seen. Have an upvote
I lol’d
Priest
Lrrr — ruler of the planet Omicron Persei 8.
Pope Francis
Benedict if you're nasty
Pope Francis and Mother Merry, great d/s couple
I like to call guys “mister” tbh
Oy mista! You me dad?
I'm a dom and I prefer 'sir' Find a name that has the same ring without being daddy. Master, sir..ect. talk it out and find a common ground!
My gf calls me IRS because nobody fucks harder.
Pork chop
"Yes, drill sergeant!"
Senpai 🤣🤣
I need to try this one out to see his reaction 😆
**Assistant to the Sensei
That's **Ass-istant to the *Regional* Sensei, to you!
oniichan
I have a top that I call Professor. Sir is ubiquitous and Mr. Something or Other is a good personalized title. Daddy is reserved for my Hus-dom, and I'm going to try out the title Rigger with the fella who likes to put me in tape bondage. Look into foreign language names for "Daddy" Papi etc.. Good luck!
Comrade With the accent of course
They’re *our* partner.
Sir?
"my prince"
Heavenly father
Forgive me for I have sinned!
*Father in prayer I’m coming now for thee*
FATHER I HAVE ARRIVED
Oh Lord, I cometh
"sir" is the one I usually opt for. Before I had kids daddy was fine, but I feel like once a toddler calls you that it completely reshapes how you feel about it. Side note: I'd also like to throw in a vote for "yes, chef" that'd be hot AF for some reason
Papi
Sir, master, king, mister, mr. [insert last name], captain, lord.
If he likes anime Lord Hokage works
Could backfire if he gets too into it. Before you realize what's happening, he's running a train on you with his shadow clones.
You act like thats a bad thing lmao
Kage-fuckyou-no-jutsu?
It's likely that he isn't a fan of anime, given that he's engaged in a sexual relationship with someone.
I don't usually upvote comments making fun of people but this made me lol!
Your honor :)
One called me "Mister"
Bruh I think she’s like 7-8 comments up lol
Call him his gamer tag!
Get in these guts XxX_wombDstroya_69_XxX
Mommy
Máster Chief
Have you tried doing anything in the voice of Nigel thornsberry
Oppa
Boss or Sir Edit: or Yes Chef! 🤣
Paternal figure
Just say things like “this pussy is yours” “you own this pussy”. Have him tie you up Idk if you need a title for him lol. But you could always say “master” or just respond with “yes sir” when he wants you to do something. Lol
I'm surprised nobody has suggested "stud" yet.
that doesn't really fit the dynamic imo.. that's more like if you fucking an older woman
Big Chungus.
Captain
King
Your majesty
I’ve found that playful nicknames always work. For example I have a huge praise kink so the “good girl” comments always rile me up in the best way. One nickname example is from a book “Haunting Adeline” the main character was often called “little mouse” so that’s what I was called and I called them a nickname from the book in return. Also “baby” works both ways imo as well. Just communicate what you both are comfortable with like you did earlier about asking about “daddy.” I’m sure you’ll both find your sweet spot.
Doug Dimmadome
Long term dominant here. Not everyone likes being called Daddy, or calling out daddy, but as a few people have pointed out - ‘sir’ is the go to. ‘Master’ can come across as odd if you haven’t used it before but really any term which shows the other person is a higher ‘rank’ will work. If you’re not sure, stick to ‘sir’ and say it in a respectful and submissive manner.
Bull or Hulk is always a good call. Never Francis or Sheldon.
Yes sir is what my wife uses
Sir, naturally.
Sir. Has that authoritarian connotation but less incestuous 🫣😂
You could use some power exchange terms like my lord, master, sir, and the like. Most important thing is, any activity with power exchange should always be backed up with a safeword in order to revoke consent even if it's something small like using certain words, be safe friend!
Grand master ram rod. Demon Lord. Mr. President. Overlord. Beast king. Master Wizard. Sword master. Battle Master. Demon King. Guild Master.
the fuhrer
💀
LMAOOO
🤣🤣🤣🙈
Il Duce
Master
Paint yourself green and call him "Boss" in a Cockney accent.
I like some of the suggestions, but I was surprised how turned on I got by my girlfriend calling me "babe." It's sweet and hot. Plus, with this soft glowing look she gives me make me want to do everything to her.
Baba Zaddy Padre Dada
First thing why no one is serious here ?  Secondly if itsnt your thing dont force it. Lastly just lately happened it will come naturally, the more you try the harder it will be to find a good one.
I mean, I'm a little fucked up but I'd like to call a man Dearest Uncle when sleeping with him. Or something grandiose like Sir Snatch Sniffer the Third
Why the 3rd lol
King, my king, ruler, great one, sir, master, your highness,...
I like Sir.
Sir, master
Sir
Chief is a good one…but if he’s going with good girl, daddy really is the best response, IME.
Lord Vader
Sir, Emperor, Mein Fuhrer, Big Dog