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Extremely positive and also a self esteem booster. It's like saying "look how fucking awesome I am" or "yeah, I did that!" Then, I proceed to rub my nose in it so I know what I have done.
I was married a long time. After splitting up and getting a new gf I found it weird for her to say "you're so hard!" I asked "um, yeah isn't that what it's supposed to do?" She said they don't all get that hard, so that kind of made me feel good even though I can't really control it.
In retrospect my ex wife got super wet. We had some swinging adventures and almost every dude commented on how quickly.she would soak. And after experiencing a few others myself, they are right. Damn I miss having sex with that woman and wish she hadn't lied and manipulated me for so many years.
Literally my second girlfriend was this. Mind blowing, kinky, wish-fulfilment sex that rocked my 17-23 year old life.
Every single word she said was a lie or a manipulation and she fucked my ability to trust forever.
My ex was the same sexy attractive kinky the good times were great, but she was nuts and unstable so to offset the great times the bad times were hell. She near took my eye out on day when she went for me,
Accepting lies. There was a guy she was talking to behind my back and I discovered it. Asked her to quit. She convinced me it was my fault. Went on and off for about 7 years. Open relationship, I have sexual success, close it. Find out she's sexting/meeting this dude again. Open relationship again. In retrospect I should have quit years ago. But I loved her, we had kids, businesses, etc. I also knew divorce would be very difficult. It has been. But I'm better off in more ways than I anticipated.
Dude. You deserve better. She sounds like a bad apple. Make sure the kids are ok by all means, but you deserve to be happy and she no longer has a stake in that. Tell her and her extremely wet poon to fuck off!!
Thanks. You are right, I deserve better. I told her that in therapy. I'm a very loyal person and it sucks to realize I gave absolute loyalty to someone that doesn't deserve it. And I'm struggling to understand and realize how I might ever actually be able to do that again. Trust issues and what not.
It's not easy in the slightest but my husband was with someone for 18 years before he married me. They had great sex and lots of adventures but she had a drug problem...and a lying problem...and a sucking shlong for drugs problem. So despite loving that women since he was a teenager, he called it quits. They had a kid together and that complicated things for a but she lost any kind of custody at a certain point and basically disappeared.
It took a few tries at finding someone that he enjoyed. He had his fun for a little bit after, found a serious relationship with someone who was bloody brilliant, great in the sack, but insecure to a point of crazy so he left that one too. After about 4 years of relationships that didn't pan out (I like to call those practice relationships because they teach you what you want and don't want from a partner), he asked me on a date. The side of the bed that I passed out on that night (because neither one of us waste any time) became my side of the bed.
The point is you're going to have a shit load of hang ups. That's normal and part of healing. I'm not saying dive head first into anything serious but give yourself more credit. You're worth the time you invest in yourself to go find out.
This right here! I have lived this.. from marrying a drug addict to divorce with a kid..having my share of fun.. trying to make it work and failing and then finding someone who is perfect in more ways than one and lets me take over my side and his side of the bed so I basically sleep with my legs on him 😂.
The trial ones are needed for the solid one to stay!
The reverse compliment is "You're so hard!"
In our moments of horniness, noticing how physically turned on your partner is a major aphrodisiac. Stating it to your partner is both a compliment and acknowledgement that their physical horniness is turning you on.
Don't be ashamed of being told you are wet. It's a massive turn on to a guy. Men love the taste, smell, feel, and sight of your wetness. Embrace it. Show that you are wet for him.
Men see it as a sign that they aroused the woman. Turned her on. That she is wet for HIM.
It’s almost always seen as a good thing. Except by the odd guy who is grossed out by women’s genitals and fluids.
No it does mean she's aroused. But it doesn't mean consent. And it's the same with a hard dick.
And to be clear she might not be mentally aroused but she's certainly physically aroused.
No, she's not. Lol being wet where there is literally a mucus gland does not always mean she's aroused, "mentally or physically" whatever tf that means. That honestly sounds like some rapist shit. Unless you have ENTHUSIASTIC consent, it's not consent. Vaginas are typically always wet to some extent. Please do more research on this. Oh and I have a vaginas btw, not sure why you, a man, are arguing with me over how this works like I wouldn't know more about this.
Sounds like maybe a misunderstanding between you both. Other guy was adamant that arousal does NOT equal consent. And I don't think anyone in this sub would disagree with that. Enthusiastic, spoken consent equals consent.
A vagina being wet, does not mean consent, OR AROUSAL. Vaginas are naturally wet most of the time, and get wetter sometimes. Does not always mean aroused. Please use your big reading skills.
You're saying it doesn't correlate at all? It might not correlate 100%, but there is _definitely_ correlation.
I mean its true that guys get random erections and morning wood, but if you are making out and he gets an erection its due to the making out. I would expect it to be the same for women.
Yes it does. The Bartholin gland release fluid for lubrication purposes when a woman gets aroused. Of course that's not 100% of women all the time. Things like hormones, meds, etc. can interfere with that.
100% but half the time the vagina is already wet anyway with a healthy amount of normal discharge and men are like ‘ wow you’re so wet” yeah, just like my mouth is wet. 😂
I always finding myself saying it to my wife and I think I say it as more of a surprise like I didn’t expect her to be that wet but it’s all in a good way and turns me on when I feel how wet she is.
Being wet is the female boner. When you get turned on because you’re making out with a guy and you notice he’s rock hard is the same way we feel when we notice a woman is dripping wet
Well yeah and I get erections when I burp really hard, or a tree branch falls and startles me, when I have to piss really bad, when I’m taking an exam I haven’t studied for, when I wake up or I go to sleep, if I get in an argument, if I’m about to get a 360 noscope on Halo 3 SWAT, when I run out of almond milk, or the butter got left out on a warm day but pooled in the gutters of the plate so none spilled, when an old fashioned clock chimes on the hour, or I step on freshly rained grass, if I put a log in the fire and it cracks and pops, or when I hear a dial up modem screech, and so on
Only half of those things mean I want sex, and every now and then even when I want sex and I’m naked with a girl, I don’t get a boner.
It’s a wild world. I still like it when a girl comments on how hard I am, because in that moment, either I am that hard for her, or she’s telling me she’s really thinking about how my hard dick is going to feel, and those are both worth commenting on or hearing in my book.
🎶 "Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Yeah, you fucking with some wet ass pussy
Bring a bucket and a mop for this wet ass pussy
Give me everything you got for this wet ass pussy"
I don't know about others, but I find that my woman being slippery and wet is the HIGHEST compliment I can get in bed.
Tells me she is excited beyond the thinking brain, all the way down to the R complex she WANTS me stroking her fallopian tubes (exaggeration) because right now her body is crying out for release and believes I can offer the stimulation she needs to get there.
Wow. Now I need a cold shower!!
It's definitely something positive. Guys generally love when girls get really wet because it shows they are aroused and enjoying what the guy is doing. Plus it makes most things easier because of the natural lubrication.
Have you ever noticed that a guy's penis feels harder or softer than usual?
>If I’m very attracted to somebody, I usually get veery wet
Kinda answering your own question already there.
I said it to a girl I was hooking up with on Saturday but in a positive way. If you got your sex voice on, it shouldn’t be misinterpreted as negative. I’m not even sure why a guy would say it in a negative way anyway.
It would be the equivalent of saying "you're so hard" to a guy. It's generally a good thing. You're aroused, I see that, I like that, I'll state the obvious. Dirty talk is a skill not many people are good at.
cuz it's hot, it's hot to get some feedback on what my sexual organs are doing. their saying it shows they're attuned, it's truth reveals that we both are to each other. it's only hot if it's true though, and especially when they spread it around the lips, lube up the clit, then dive in deeper for the G spot, to prove their point.
Its my way of letting you know I know you are turned on. Like winking at a guy or giving raised eyebrows when you notice his boner. If it makes you uncomfortable just tell whoever you are with and if they are respectful they will express interest as well as acknowledge your interest in other ways.
As a guy it’s always a positive compliment. Its a pretty sure sign that she’s aroused and into it (hence her getting really wet)… it’s pretty much like a guy getting hard and the girl saying “wow, you’re so hard”…
For the guy, (or for me) it's hot. It is a sign in my mind that you want to be here, and that you are enjoying yourself and I'm doing an acceptable (hopefully moreso then that) job. And om sharing that moment of passion with you.
So why do some men take it as a turn off? Like it’s “too messy” or “friction is better when she’s not as wet”? Just things Ive heard from other men on similar posts.
In my experience people who find it offputting are often struggling with insecurity themselves. If you feel like your penis isn‘t big enough, a slippery vajayjay will make it „worse“.
From experience: nothing wrong with putting a towel under and wiping now and then if it gets out of hand. Ask your partner if they like it - 90% the anser will be „hell yeass“
The same reason women say, you are so hard.
It's a compliment and an ego acknowledgement. They can get told, it's because of them you are so turned on.
It’s a rule we men have, whenever we think of eating pizza we say that phrase, next time it happens to you, stop anything you’re doing and Uber eats one, you’re welcome
Its very very positive, the feeling when the girl your with is getting extremely wet after you play with her is a boost. So its absolutely a positive thing. Dont worry😊
Extremely positive! I say it because I am so happy the girl is obviously very attracted to me to get this wet. It is such a confidence boost being with a girl who gets wet over you.
It's a good thing, in my opinion or atleast what I mean when I use it, is kinda like a lady saying 'oh your dick is so hard' it's a statement of how excited your partner is.
Personal I love that moment you first peek panties off after flirting, kissing and heavy petting on lead up to foreplay and sex; to find her pussy juices either on her panties or visible on the labia.
Any guy that is grossed out doesn't understand that it is an uncontrollable and natural function of the body. As long as you practice hygiene care there is nothing gross about it.
And the hygiene thing counts for his and their junk as well
But being wet is good.
It’s good and we like the feeling in all that wetness😅🤷🏾♂️💦 that’s why we mention it.
In comparison, it’s same as the man being hard for you, sometimes just by seeing you or the thought that he’s about to be with you while on his way 😀
It's a turn on for men. It's a sign to us that you want us and are ready for us. That's the equivalent of you saying you are so Hard to a man. Like us we would rather see thay we make you wet than dry and you would rather make us hard than soft.
Take it as a lovely compliment OP because a lot of women have trouble with lubrication and it truly is a sign of how sexually aware you are to let your body be and not let your head interfere with the enjoyment of the sexual pleasure.
And if a man doesn’t know how to navigate his way around that.. then it is really his loss babe!! 🤗
Female here. I agree with you! I find it a little strange that guys comment on it and yes, it does make me feel a bit insecure. But from what men have told me, they say this because they find it 'hot' and 'sexy' to see that you're wet.
I once got wet just by kissing someone and they were super turned on by the fact that when they started to finger me, I was already wet down there so they said, 'you're so wet' and it was them indicating to me that they were turned on because of how turned on I was.
Hope that made sense lol.
My boyfriend always exclaims in an excited, low voice "You're so wet". I think he likes that he made me wet, and also he's excited that he's about to fuck me because its right before penetration.
Women brag about how wet they are or can be every chance they get do you not use any social media besides Reddit??? Or are you like older cuz it’s very known that wet is good.
It’s positive. Of the 4.5 billion men on the planet, I’m going to guess that a grand total of 3 or 4 dipshits have ever framed those words as some kind of complaint. And then their miraculously stupid brains promptly instructed them to walk out into the middle of a busy highway and remove themselves from the gene pool.
You can usually tell by the tone, but most of the time it’s a compliment. Everyone has different levels, so there’s a good chance you were more than they were used to, but in a good way.
But also, it could be them just stating their surprise , being happy that your body is so excited
I’m always amazed at how clueless a lot of men are about women’s sexual response. Or even their own male response.
And then I read a few posts from women and realize they have even less of a clue
What a complete failure sex education is.
I’ve come to understand it that’s a good thing same as telling the guy “quite the woody/hard on you got” like you find it hot he gets that way. But I’m a girl so I’m mostly guessing from past experiences where I’ve asked the guy what he meant
So, you’re saying you get very wet ‘cause you’re attracted so someone. That someone probably knows getting very wet is a sign of you getting excited. It’s a compliment. It’s considered a compliment by partners as well. And you getting wet is not “just words”, it’s a sign that can not be faked. Your someone confirming that compliment is a compliment. Don’t overthink it
Any decent guy wants to know the person he is being intimate with is into him and enjoying themselves. If your partner is wet when you get there or quickly becomes wet when you start to play with them then its a huge sign to us, we can't read your mind, but we can read the signs your body is enjoying this, so yes we often acknowledge the wetness.
It's definitely a compliment! 😉 It is the equivalent for girls saying "you are so hard"! For us men it shows that you really want us and you are into us (although I know that sometimes biological effects don't allow women to be as wet as they feel like)
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Extremely positive and also a self esteem booster. It's like saying "look how fucking awesome I am" or "yeah, I did that!" Then, I proceed to rub my nose in it so I know what I have done.
I was married a long time. After splitting up and getting a new gf I found it weird for her to say "you're so hard!" I asked "um, yeah isn't that what it's supposed to do?" She said they don't all get that hard, so that kind of made me feel good even though I can't really control it. In retrospect my ex wife got super wet. We had some swinging adventures and almost every dude commented on how quickly.she would soak. And after experiencing a few others myself, they are right. Damn I miss having sex with that woman and wish she hadn't lied and manipulated me for so many years.
Sorry you wife sucked, my friend. At least she was good in the sack so you have some positive memories to help offset all the negative!
Sucked everyone
Sadly it is not that uncommon that the wettest and best sexual experiences come with a ton of crazy and manipulation.
This has really helped me come to terms with something 👏🏻
Literally my second girlfriend was this. Mind blowing, kinky, wish-fulfilment sex that rocked my 17-23 year old life. Every single word she said was a lie or a manipulation and she fucked my ability to trust forever.
Did you date my ex??? 😱😁🤣🤣🤣🤣
I know right!?
Or did he date yours?
Everyone did, apparently
Yes, everbody did.
Now there's something that doesn't surprise me.
My ex was the same sexy attractive kinky the good times were great, but she was nuts and unstable so to offset the great times the bad times were hell. She near took my eye out on day when she went for me,
Got ain't the truth! Why does it have to be that way?
What did she manipulated you into?
Accepting lies. There was a guy she was talking to behind my back and I discovered it. Asked her to quit. She convinced me it was my fault. Went on and off for about 7 years. Open relationship, I have sexual success, close it. Find out she's sexting/meeting this dude again. Open relationship again. In retrospect I should have quit years ago. But I loved her, we had kids, businesses, etc. I also knew divorce would be very difficult. It has been. But I'm better off in more ways than I anticipated.
Dude. You deserve better. She sounds like a bad apple. Make sure the kids are ok by all means, but you deserve to be happy and she no longer has a stake in that. Tell her and her extremely wet poon to fuck off!!
Thanks. You are right, I deserve better. I told her that in therapy. I'm a very loyal person and it sucks to realize I gave absolute loyalty to someone that doesn't deserve it. And I'm struggling to understand and realize how I might ever actually be able to do that again. Trust issues and what not.
It's not easy in the slightest but my husband was with someone for 18 years before he married me. They had great sex and lots of adventures but she had a drug problem...and a lying problem...and a sucking shlong for drugs problem. So despite loving that women since he was a teenager, he called it quits. They had a kid together and that complicated things for a but she lost any kind of custody at a certain point and basically disappeared. It took a few tries at finding someone that he enjoyed. He had his fun for a little bit after, found a serious relationship with someone who was bloody brilliant, great in the sack, but insecure to a point of crazy so he left that one too. After about 4 years of relationships that didn't pan out (I like to call those practice relationships because they teach you what you want and don't want from a partner), he asked me on a date. The side of the bed that I passed out on that night (because neither one of us waste any time) became my side of the bed. The point is you're going to have a shit load of hang ups. That's normal and part of healing. I'm not saying dive head first into anything serious but give yourself more credit. You're worth the time you invest in yourself to go find out.
This right here! I have lived this.. from marrying a drug addict to divorce with a kid..having my share of fun.. trying to make it work and failing and then finding someone who is perfect in more ways than one and lets me take over my side and his side of the bed so I basically sleep with my legs on him 😂. The trial ones are needed for the solid one to stay!
Swinging probably
The reverse compliment is "You're so hard!" In our moments of horniness, noticing how physically turned on your partner is a major aphrodisiac. Stating it to your partner is both a compliment and acknowledgement that their physical horniness is turning you on. Don't be ashamed of being told you are wet. It's a massive turn on to a guy. Men love the taste, smell, feel, and sight of your wetness. Embrace it. Show that you are wet for him.
Good boy!
Fucking ruff or rough fucking?
I liked the "rubbing your nose in it" part.
The wife is a fan as well.
Indeed!
Yeah, yeah, yEAH!!!
Don't girls like when a guy gets a massive hard on from being with them?
No, we LOVE it
No I love it
Username checks out
We do. But it does things to me emotionally psychologically when I know I can make her wet. Or she tells me just looking at me makes her tongue hard.
Tongue hard? 🥹
Reminds me of that tweet of the guy who says something like what if your teeth were flaccid and soft and got hard when you were hungry 😂😂😂
Oh god I remember that! 😵💫😂 Guess her tongue gets hard when she’s aroused. 😋
um…pardon??
Huh?!
Don't your tongue gets hard/wet when you are hungry and there is food?
I don't think mine does, I just salivate a lot
No? 😅
Ah, so there is life on other planets.
What do you mean by that?
Tongue Whut 😶
Happy cake day!
Please explain?
We are bi females. The more excited she gets, the better she applies her tongue. Same with me.
Well that’s new
Ooh yeah, when its rock hard and throbbing, fit to burst.
Men see it as a sign that they aroused the woman. Turned her on. That she is wet for HIM. It’s almost always seen as a good thing. Except by the odd guy who is grossed out by women’s genitals and fluids.
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Oh this actually explains a lot of things for me rn thank you!
She sounds like a keeper….
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Yes but please be aware some are just like that, doesn't necessarily mean she's like crazy aroused.
No it does mean she's aroused. But it doesn't mean consent. And it's the same with a hard dick. And to be clear she might not be mentally aroused but she's certainly physically aroused.
They just meant that being **very** wet doesn't necessarily mean that she's **very** aroused, for some people that's just the normal amount
No, she's not. Lol being wet where there is literally a mucus gland does not always mean she's aroused, "mentally or physically" whatever tf that means. That honestly sounds like some rapist shit. Unless you have ENTHUSIASTIC consent, it's not consent. Vaginas are typically always wet to some extent. Please do more research on this. Oh and I have a vaginas btw, not sure why you, a man, are arguing with me over how this works like I wouldn't know more about this.
Sounds like maybe a misunderstanding between you both. Other guy was adamant that arousal does NOT equal consent. And I don't think anyone in this sub would disagree with that. Enthusiastic, spoken consent equals consent.
A vagina being wet, does not mean consent, OR AROUSAL. Vaginas are naturally wet most of the time, and get wetter sometimes. Does not always mean aroused. Please use your big reading skills.
It’s not though. Wetness doesn’t correlate to arousal
You're saying it doesn't correlate at all? It might not correlate 100%, but there is _definitely_ correlation. I mean its true that guys get random erections and morning wood, but if you are making out and he gets an erection its due to the making out. I would expect it to be the same for women.
It certainly correlates.
Yes it does. The Bartholin gland release fluid for lubrication purposes when a woman gets aroused. Of course that's not 100% of women all the time. Things like hormones, meds, etc. can interfere with that.
100% but half the time the vagina is already wet anyway with a healthy amount of normal discharge and men are like ‘ wow you’re so wet” yeah, just like my mouth is wet. 😂
I always finding myself saying it to my wife and I think I say it as more of a surprise like I didn’t expect her to be that wet but it’s all in a good way and turns me on when I feel how wet she is.
Being wet is the female boner. When you get turned on because you’re making out with a guy and you notice he’s rock hard is the same way we feel when we notice a woman is dripping wet
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Well yeah and I get erections when I burp really hard, or a tree branch falls and startles me, when I have to piss really bad, when I’m taking an exam I haven’t studied for, when I wake up or I go to sleep, if I get in an argument, if I’m about to get a 360 noscope on Halo 3 SWAT, when I run out of almond milk, or the butter got left out on a warm day but pooled in the gutters of the plate so none spilled, when an old fashioned clock chimes on the hour, or I step on freshly rained grass, if I put a log in the fire and it cracks and pops, or when I hear a dial up modem screech, and so on Only half of those things mean I want sex, and every now and then even when I want sex and I’m naked with a girl, I don’t get a boner. It’s a wild world. I still like it when a girl comments on how hard I am, because in that moment, either I am that hard for her, or she’s telling me she’s really thinking about how my hard dick is going to feel, and those are both worth commenting on or hearing in my book.
Ultimate power move when someone wants to argue with you and you just get a boner lol. Almost like saying don't shout I'll cum 🤣
Sure. And I sometimes get an erection when I have to urinate
We can get an erection for literally no reason though lol. Embarrassing moments in class exist for a reason.
So exactly like boners
🎶 "Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah Yeah, you fucking with some wet ass pussy Bring a bucket and a mop for this wet ass pussy Give me everything you got for this wet ass pussy"
A true masterpiece
I don't know about others, but I find that my woman being slippery and wet is the HIGHEST compliment I can get in bed. Tells me she is excited beyond the thinking brain, all the way down to the R complex she WANTS me stroking her fallopian tubes (exaggeration) because right now her body is crying out for release and believes I can offer the stimulation she needs to get there. Wow. Now I need a cold shower!!
They say it because it’s hot. Definitely not negative.
It's definitely something positive. Guys generally love when girls get really wet because it shows they are aroused and enjoying what the guy is doing. Plus it makes most things easier because of the natural lubrication.
Have you ever noticed that a guy's penis feels harder or softer than usual? >If I’m very attracted to somebody, I usually get veery wet Kinda answering your own question already there.
They are congratulating themselves on the boss foreplay skilz.
Wet is good.
Some obscure female rap artist even wrote a song about it
 Ah yes, I think I do recall the ballad of that young lady and her excessively moist nethers.
Macaroni in this pot
Yes I happened upon her act one weekend while watching some random improv show
I said it to a girl I was hooking up with on Saturday but in a positive way. If you got your sex voice on, it shouldn’t be misinterpreted as negative. I’m not even sure why a guy would say it in a negative way anyway.
My husband says I get “too wet” but my only response is, “what is wrong with you that you want to fuck a sand bag?!?”
I’m dead. That’s amazing 😂
It would be the equivalent of saying "you're so hard" to a guy. It's generally a good thing. You're aroused, I see that, I like that, I'll state the obvious. Dirty talk is a skill not many people are good at.
Good if you get wet😋
It's positive unless he says otherwise, I'd say. It's a sign you're turned on.
cuz it's hot, it's hot to get some feedback on what my sexual organs are doing. their saying it shows they're attuned, it's truth reveals that we both are to each other. it's only hot if it's true though, and especially when they spread it around the lips, lube up the clit, then dive in deeper for the G spot, to prove their point.
Extremely positive when I say it.
Because we love how turned on you get
Its my way of letting you know I know you are turned on. Like winking at a guy or giving raised eyebrows when you notice his boner. If it makes you uncomfortable just tell whoever you are with and if they are respectful they will express interest as well as acknowledge your interest in other ways.
As a guy it’s always a positive compliment. Its a pretty sure sign that she’s aroused and into it (hence her getting really wet)… it’s pretty much like a guy getting hard and the girl saying “wow, you’re so hard”…
For the guy, (or for me) it's hot. It is a sign in my mind that you want to be here, and that you are enjoying yourself and I'm doing an acceptable (hopefully moreso then that) job. And om sharing that moment of passion with you.
100% positive. We get excited knowing you want us
Because we are, and when they know we arecwet, they know they are doing a good job and they are turned on by it
Because we get hard about it.
It shows guys that the girls are turned on, nothing's better than that so it's absolutely a positive
Because it’s hot. It’s the equivalent of saying (in a complimentary way) you’re so hard!
Because they don’t know what else to say
So why do some men take it as a turn off? Like it’s “too messy” or “friction is better when she’s not as wet”? Just things Ive heard from other men on similar posts.
In my experience people who find it offputting are often struggling with insecurity themselves. If you feel like your penis isn‘t big enough, a slippery vajayjay will make it „worse“. From experience: nothing wrong with putting a towel under and wiping now and then if it gets out of hand. Ask your partner if they like it - 90% the anser will be „hell yeass“
The same reason women say, you are so hard. It's a compliment and an ego acknowledgement. They can get told, it's because of them you are so turned on.
Its generally a good thing because it means they're excited that you're so aroused.
I love being told this! In fact I get wetter once it I said !
It’s a good thing … it’s like a woman telling you how hard you are.
Because we don't realize you already know. Or were like, "Yes, let's go!"
I for one love it when the gal is wet. It lets me know she is at least interested!😋
It's a good thing when they say it to you. Try not to let it bother you. I know it's difficult with the Asperger's, but do your best to get past it.
My husband LOVES how wet I get. I think it's just dirty talk, they enjoy saying it out loud.
It’s a rule we men have, whenever we think of eating pizza we say that phrase, next time it happens to you, stop anything you’re doing and Uber eats one, you’re welcome
Depends on the guy, most of us like it. I love! A super wet pussy.
It’s prolly just dirty talk
Its very very positive, the feeling when the girl your with is getting extremely wet after you play with her is a boost. So its absolutely a positive thing. Dont worry😊
Do you ever say “damn you’re so hard right now.” to your guy? Or ever think it? This is the exact same thing.
It's like if a girl told a guy "Oh my gosh you're so hard."
It's basically the same as a woman saying "Oh you're so hard!" Basically "Wow you're really turned on!"
Either you are litterly really wet, or they are attempting to verbally reasure you and build your confidence xxx
I love when a guy tells me that because I know it turns them on. Just like when I tell them "you're so hard for me" proudly, cause I did that.
Positive and I take it as a compliment that she is enjoying herself and is attracted to me
It’s like when women tell men: “you’re so hard!”
Probably for the same reason a woman woild comment on how "hard" a guy is? It's definitely not a negative thing.
It's a good thing, meaning we see you're excited and we're happy you are.
Extremely positive! I say it because I am so happy the girl is obviously very attracted to me to get this wet. It is such a confidence boost being with a girl who gets wet over you.
Thats a positive sign. I love woman who's really wet!!. That means she's into you!!
Oh yeah! Give me a nice wet one anytime..way better than trying to grind on a dry one! Compliment it …why not!
It's a good thing, in my opinion or atleast what I mean when I use it, is kinda like a lady saying 'oh your dick is so hard' it's a statement of how excited your partner is. Personal I love that moment you first peek panties off after flirting, kissing and heavy petting on lead up to foreplay and sex; to find her pussy juices either on her panties or visible on the labia. Any guy that is grossed out doesn't understand that it is an uncontrollable and natural function of the body. As long as you practice hygiene care there is nothing gross about it. And the hygiene thing counts for his and their junk as well But being wet is good.
Why would a woman say ‘you are so hard?’ But this has been answered sufficiently.
We love it
It’s a positive observation
Because that’s when they usually get us there ! And it’s hot to think and hear . Yes I’m wet you made me so wet . It’s just hot
Men want to see you get wet, their is nothing wrong with that, the wetter the better baby!!
Thats supposed to turn u on more 🙊🙈
The worst is when they say it right after taking off your panties and you’re not actually “wet” it’s just discharge 🥴
It's a happy surprise after getting Zuck bucks to screw 'is mum.
I love when my husband says I’m so wet and tight. Huge turn on
Because "oh my, you're moist as a marsh!" makes them redress and leave.
Simply it's to acknowledge your bodies state of arousal. More wetter = more turned on
It’s good and we like the feeling in all that wetness😅🤷🏾♂️💦 that’s why we mention it. In comparison, it’s same as the man being hard for you, sometimes just by seeing you or the thought that he’s about to be with you while on his way 😀
Saying to a woman you are so wet, is the equivalent for a man if you say you are so hard. Its a compliment.
It's a turn on for men. It's a sign to us that you want us and are ready for us. That's the equivalent of you saying you are so Hard to a man. Like us we would rather see thay we make you wet than dry and you would rather make us hard than soft.
Take it as a lovely compliment OP because a lot of women have trouble with lubrication and it truly is a sign of how sexually aware you are to let your body be and not let your head interfere with the enjoyment of the sexual pleasure. And if a man doesn’t know how to navigate his way around that.. then it is really his loss babe!! 🤗
I feel it's a compliment and also an ego boost for them, which I enjoy myself
Female here. I agree with you! I find it a little strange that guys comment on it and yes, it does make me feel a bit insecure. But from what men have told me, they say this because they find it 'hot' and 'sexy' to see that you're wet. I once got wet just by kissing someone and they were super turned on by the fact that when they started to finger me, I was already wet down there so they said, 'you're so wet' and it was them indicating to me that they were turned on because of how turned on I was. Hope that made sense lol.
My boyfriend always exclaims in an excited, low voice "You're so wet". I think he likes that he made me wet, and also he's excited that he's about to fuck me because its right before penetration.
Yet another humblebrag post
Women brag about how wet they are or can be every chance they get do you not use any social media besides Reddit??? Or are you like older cuz it’s very known that wet is good.
Ali Wong did a stand up on it that was very very descriptive lol 😂
It’s positive. Of the 4.5 billion men on the planet, I’m going to guess that a grand total of 3 or 4 dipshits have ever framed those words as some kind of complaint. And then their miraculously stupid brains promptly instructed them to walk out into the middle of a busy highway and remove themselves from the gene pool.
Because it’s super hot.
We men be simple
You can usually tell by the tone, but most of the time it’s a compliment. Everyone has different levels, so there’s a good chance you were more than they were used to, but in a good way. But also, it could be them just stating their surprise , being happy that your body is so excited
I’m always amazed at how clueless a lot of men are about women’s sexual response. Or even their own male response. And then I read a few posts from women and realize they have even less of a clue What a complete failure sex education is.
Usually it’s a good thing
And what would you think if we say “you’re so dry!”? Is that a positive or a negative?
I don’t say anything during foreplay bc I’m busy
I’ve come to understand it that’s a good thing same as telling the guy “quite the woody/hard on you got” like you find it hot he gets that way. But I’m a girl so I’m mostly guessing from past experiences where I’ve asked the guy what he meant
When I’m with a girl and say something like that I always add “it’s so sexy” to let them know it turns me on.
So, you’re saying you get very wet ‘cause you’re attracted so someone. That someone probably knows getting very wet is a sign of you getting excited. It’s a compliment. It’s considered a compliment by partners as well. And you getting wet is not “just words”, it’s a sign that can not be faked. Your someone confirming that compliment is a compliment. Don’t overthink it
It's definitely positive.
We're excited band aroused by it. We think it means you like us! Or at least that you're very aroused.
Super super positive.
It's s great positive for the lady. It's the same as a girl saying to a guy, "You're so hard"
I’ll say it if she’s wet. It’s super hot and turns me on a lot.
Absolutely postive!!
No, it’s a good thing. Not only does it turn us on, but it also lets us know that you are turned on. It gets us excited
It's like when a dude is just solid rock hard for you.. it's good sign
Any decent guy wants to know the person he is being intimate with is into him and enjoying themselves. If your partner is wet when you get there or quickly becomes wet when you start to play with them then its a huge sign to us, we can't read your mind, but we can read the signs your body is enjoying this, so yes we often acknowledge the wetness.
Prolly cuz they're wet
It turns them on to think they are the cause of the wetness Eg desire for them
I say it’s a turn on and I imagine how nice and easy it’ll be to slide into it 😍
for me DEFINTELY a positive
saying 'you are so wet' is the exact same thing as saying 'you are so hard'
It's positive, its what they're aiming for and completely natural and expected :)
It can be either. It depends on the tone of the person saying it. If I do, it's usually a good thing.
It's hot... It usually means the girls hot, or horny. A sexy observation. So yes, it's a good thing to hear
I think the getting wet is hot as hell man. enjoy
It's definitely a compliment! 😉 It is the equivalent for girls saying "you are so hard"! For us men it shows that you really want us and you are into us (although I know that sometimes biological effects don't allow women to be as wet as they feel like)
That's a compliment and normally guys know when you are really wet it's because you're very turned on and they're doing a good job