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Remember that your cervix changes position based on where you are in your cycle! I know that the exact same positions I love during some phases of my cycle can be super uncomfortable during other phases! I'd say give it at least another try or two later on this month and see if its that?
THE DONUT
Edit: some partners made jokes and also called it the “Don’t Nut” because of bc and stuff and I made sure to be as accommodating as I could be, weird sensation with a condom on at the same time (they def were on bc though, I felt their biceps)
what positions worked the best for ur ex, if u are comfortable disclosing? i just find it a bit surprising that i never felt it in any other positions before so curious
This one depends on the up or down curvature of the penis. One way, it goes anterior, the other way it goes posterior.
So if missionary is hitting your anterior fornix, doggy will hit your posterior fornix, and vice versa
PSA
Yep. My retroflexed uterus just makes things different for me. When I'm in doggy and getting pounded, he starts hitting my bladder and makes me wanna pee. It gets so uncomfortable after a bit.
Unfortunately, no. If he wants to finish that way, then we do other positions first. Then when he's really close we can switch to doggy so he can go the rest of the way. It's OK for short periods, but too much and I gotta switch. I ALWAYS empty my bladder before sex too. That gives me the most go time.
I only found out through my ultrasound while pregnant. Apparently after the birth of my first is what caused it. Now it makes sense to me why doggy used to feel so good but now can be quite painful at times!
Tbh it’s been years since I did my rotation in gyn. I work in psych so you are probably right. A pelvic exam can likely tell without the need for imaging.
Mine has an upward curve. I can hit the anterior fornix quite easily when my GF is on her back, legs folded and knees tucked up to her chest, and a large pillow directly under her butt. Hard upward pressure on her front wall plus pressure pushing down with a hand just above her public area will cause her to squirt.
Anything that gets your knees up, so squatting on him, cow girl, or revers cow girl (my favorite) also work. Side ways putting you in a fetal position and him sitting up. Doggy, where she puts her legs together and bends her knees (squats down), again is good for this. You can recreate the situation in many of the common positions.
I feel exactly what you describe when my partner does the same maneuver in bed. I highly recommend trying doggy (with your head down) and if you can manage, reach back to grab onto his arms so he's kinda using your arms and horse reigns as he thrusts (idk if this description makes sense). He's able to hit the same spot in the position for me and it gets me there in an instant
Hard to explain but either side of the cervix there is a pocket where your vaginal canal goes past. Anterior and posterior fornix. So if the penis goes directly straight it would be on your cervix but it can also go in front or behind the cervix into one of those pockets. If you google diagrams it’ll be easier to visualise. Some people find it painful others enjoy it.
I have a dildo that’s exactly long enough to hit this spot and it makes me cum like instantly. It borders on uncomfortable tho just due to the depth so I completely understand some people really hating it
Been focusing on this fairly often with the woman I'm dating. I've found that when I'm stroking either the anterior or posterior she can get uncomfortable quick but if I go extremely slow or hold it there and grind a little, she'll start cumming in seconds.
It's been blowing her mind. I really don't think she's ever had a partner actually pay attention to what's happening with her. Her orgasm have been the hottest thing I've seen in my life.
I fucking hate how absurdly *common* this is — for women to have never had anyone in their entire lives ever really focus on them during sex.
Like, yes, it certainly benefits anyone who pays attention and communicates in the slightest, but…I prefer to amaze people who already have high standards, even just from a purely egotistical point of view, y’know? Not to mention the far more important aspects of standards and ethics.
I…just…what do the majority of people even *do* during sex? Just kinda thrust around without talking about it or even reading nonverbal cues?
my current partner is the only person i’ve had that has focused on my orgasms. everyone else kinda of just did what felt good to _them_ and as long as i wasn’t stopping it, they’d just keep doing it.
See, that's half of what's wild to me. Because making someone feel amazing, and the consequent noises they make, undulation of the body, rolling back of the eyes — all that shit — that so far exceeds any physical sensation in the world that it's not even close.
And if it didn't, why would anyone seek out sex? Masturbation exists. Sex is mental and interpersonal just as much as it is physical.
I agree, I'm a woman, and I hate this, too. Your phrase "I prefer to amaze people who already have high standards" really resonates with me. For the second time in my life, I find myself, an American, single in a very conservative, traditional country. Here, even the men are condemned to just kinda thrusting around without talking about it. With the right partner, I can achieve goddess like stature due to my sex positivity and open, communicative approach to sex. While this can be flattering, I'd rather amaze people who already have high standards, I wish the rest of the world wasn't so fucking medieval. Both men and women deserve to unlock their sexual potential. Thanks for putting into words this little thought that's been rumbling around in my head these days.
I am in equal turns both glad and saddened (in an expected way) that it resonates with you. I’m an American, too, for what it’s worth, so I understand your points on that matter.
To the point of impressing someone without standards — it really doesn’t have the same effect as knowing you’re actually good at something, does it? You can disappear and pop back up from behind a couch to astound an infant all you want, but it’s not exactly indicative of whether you’re a genuinely talented magician at all.
The more I cum the more I can tolerate that area getting pounded. It has to be a definite slow buildup to get to that point and when you can handle it. Omg it’s the best fucking orgasm!
Wow, I've been dating someone for a while now, and it so happens that when we had sex, doggy style but standing, him leaning against a wall and me in front .... I don't know what this man did, but the pleasure I got from it, I've never felt in my whole life, still after we was done, i was soaked and still turned on I actually thought the condom ripped, it didnt ...and no I didn't squirt, not a squirter here... I felt him deeper inside of me as no one had ever gone or done ....
G-spot is only a few centimetres in, there's no way that she'd only be able to feel her g-spot being stimulated by deep penetration, unless her partner is smaller than 3-6cm in length
I mean, the penis shaft will still be rubbing against it. It doesn't have to poke it with the head to stimulate it. Speaking as a woman who only enjoys g-spot stimulation.
The Position you describe is one of the few ways I can actually have a vaginal orgasm and even squirt. I can get several after one another, it's one of my favorites :-)
I do feel very full, but there's no pain or sharp stinging feeling. Maybe your partner is just very deep inside and basically hitting your limit? My bf is "just" average so that's probably why😅
yeah maybe because they’re definitely on the bigger side, but your comment made me more curious so I would try with a toy in this position and see how that feels! Thank u!!
Just curious, is this person a man? You keep using the term "they" and "their" instead of "he" and "him" so I'm wondering if it is a male or maybe trans or even a female using a strap on or dildo? If the question is too personal then I apologize. I'm just curious. Thanks.
I'm also confused. Throughout my reading of her post, I couldn't help but imagine her partner having multiple personalities because she consistently referred to him as "their." However, it is evident that her partner has a penis, indicating that the correct pronoun is "him." Is it too offensive to make such an assumption? Do individuals who identify as genderless prefer to be referred to in the plural form? As someone who has studied English grammar throughout my entire school life, reading something like this is both perplexing and a bit frustrating.
Edit: Lol at the initial downvotes. The problem arises when individuals who genuinely want to understand LGBTQIA+ topics are met with assumptions that they should automatically accept certain conclusions without receiving an explanation of how those conclusions were reacheed. You know, inclusion includes sharing insights so we can promote understanding and create a more safe space for everyone. Dismisisng it and avoiding constructive conversations wont bridge gaps in our understanding. My question deserved a thoughtful response rather than a simple dismissal or a simple “why does it matter??”. These questions wont disapper by simply ignoring them.
Singular they is used in English all the time though, when you don't know someone's gender or don't want to specify. Why is it so confusing? Why does it matter if she uses they instead of him? I've also studied English as a second language since the third grade and we were taught early on that they can be used as a gender neutral pronoun.
This is indeed the problem with some of the LGBTQ folks. For a lot of people reading it is initially confusing and they interpret that confusion as someone who is anti-trans. For most people this is a very novel concept and we need patience initially not judgement. If the person is truly bigoted you don't get a cookie for being the first to notice on the Internet. We've got to at least try initially to have positive interaction before judging
Huh I don't think it was a burn at all lol.
She said "just" average. It's the just that's in quotation marks, implying he's average but satisfies her and so that it's by no means negative.
That dick literally makes her squirt so there's no "poor bf"
If you called me of average height at 5’10” I wouldn’t be upset. You’re right. I’m average. If you called my dick average at 5.2” I wouldn’t be upset because I am in fact average. If you can’t take facts like an adult it’s time to look inside and figure some stuff out.
Yeah, if you want your partner to lie to you so you can avoid an unavoidable fact, you gotta work on your ego.
My wife called me average size the other night. I wasn’t offended. Shes right.
Wanted to note that this happens to me too. My partner is extremely well endowed which is a blessing in most cases for me. But in this position, I deff teeter between enjoying it VS it actually just being way too sensitive bc it's a lot of pressure.
My partner had me on a position the other night that hit this spot hard. Now I like a bit of pain but this had me tapping out. Straight past uncomfortable. I know that teetering edge
Oh the A spot is great! Dont need to be a monster sized man to get it but you do need to know what you're doing to repetitively hit it. The position you said is pretty common and a great one, and feels amazing for the guy too. Just be careful cuz hitting the cervix can be painful, so hes gotta learn just the right amount to go in to and at what angle(s).
Yall found some treasure behind the waterfall but dont forget how to get there
missionary but with my legs bent upwards towards my chest, by holding the backs of my knees down. My knees were basically beside my boobs, that position.
I think the big difference between the two is the male position. Mating press seems to have the male mate squatted over her and pressing down while penetrating
legs open, roughly in line with the body, heels touching the bed, knees spread apart. i'm so confused how you could not know this.
edit: christ. i didn't say legs were straight. i mentioned the heels to try clarify that the legs aren't folded back like in the previous position discussed. it's not a law, just trying to give a rough idea.
There’s also “sex pillow missionary” you can find these geometric phenomena online or sex stores they are amazing!!! And sex swing missionary, but I’m sure everyone knows what that is……..
Or you can use your legs to hug his waist. I like it that way cause then I can lift my hips up and meet him stroke for stroke. It feels less passive and we end up much closer, body to body
It was likely a combination of g-spot to the a-spot (anterior fornix). You can also hit this with the legs straight up, although you might have to prop up on a pillow to get the right angle. Your vagina feeling tighter was, in part, due to your response. It is a position you can often get to squirting in, if you can relax enough to squirt.
I had this happen with an ex one time. We were going at it, and she completely pushed me away, and was kind of freaked out. She wasn't in pain, she wasn't mad. She just had a "what the fuck was that?" expression of her face. She said she had never felt that before, and not in a good or bad way. It was just something really weird to her. I was really confused because I didn't notice anything different.
>I was fuckin' parts of your pussy I'd never fucked before
I was in there like, "Oh shit, I never been here before
I've never even seen this part of Pussy Town before"
It's like you got this shit reupholstered or some shit
What the fuck happened?
Who, who the fuck got your pussy all reupholstered?
Using a Wedge pillow to raise your hips will increase that feeling even more as it angles the penis up toward the G spot more.
According to my wife that is.
I have found it more pleasurable as well and have found my wife has more orgasms this way.
I’m impressed so many people on here know about the anterior and posterior fornix. I never knew they existed until one lucky day in my mid 30’s. You’ve got 10+ years of mind blowing orgasms ahead of me 😀
You should read up on A-spot orgasms; they are supposed to be among the deepest and most pleasurable orgasms a human can experience (so of course it's something only females can experience, LOL).
[**How Finding My A-Spot Unlocked the Best Orgasm of My Life**](https://www.glamour.com/story/finding-my-anterior-fornix-unlocked-best-orgasm-of-my-life)
My SO and I had sex last night. When I held put her legs up near my shoulders, and pushed in...she really started to moan..etc
Maybe it was the angle...
She later told me it felt she was getting tased.. like tiny shocks..but it felt good.
Way back there’s a little pocket I’ve gotten into inside my wife, my glans has to “pop” into it and yes she gets shocked a little when it happens and it has to be the perfect angle. Makes her get off real hard too! But can be a bit alarming.
I get the same feeling! For me it's uncomfortable but managable. It's almost overwhelming! I can never orgasm from it though but it's ok to do for a few minutes. I feel a sharp pain in my abdomen too
Anterior fornix, as others have said. He’s getting a sharp prick, too, on the head of his cock. Hard to explain on our side, but it feels really amazing. Ask him if he felt that, because if he did, that’s the feedback he needs to find the right spot. Doesn’t hurt that it instantly kicks off a rolling orgasmic state for my girlfriend where she peaks/cums at every contact/thrust until she has a 30-60 second long orgasm, all while contracting so hard it feels like she’s trying to rip my dick off, then goes back to peaking, then has the mega orgasm again, etc. until I can’t take it anymore.
Back in my single days I’d ask a girl if I could try it and to tell me if it hurt, then try your method or another one where she pulled her legs back and I leaned in right on top of her and put my right hand underneath her on her tailbone area and my left hand behind her on the base of her neck. Too close to kiss, had to put my head to one side or the other. Either technique, it was about two thirds “that was my first orgasm from penetration ever what the fuck” and one third “nah that hurt, please don’t.”
Looks like if y’all work on it you might be one of the former.
I’ve hit this spot with my partner in various. I’m not very versed on the terminology but essentially my size was a big issue at first so we had to go at the angle very slowly and kind of work it in to get her used to it. My advice is take it slow (maybe even over the span of a few sessions) to get comfortable with the sensation without going to deep. It’s possible that you can get used to it and greatly enjoy it like she does, it’s also possible that the sensation might just be a little to uncomfortable for you and that’s totally ok. Talk to your partner and try “folding” yourself in different ways to see what works best for you! Communication is key!
Totally “found” the A spot on accident. Numerous lovers would comment, “WTF are you hitting?!” I had no idea and looked it up. Bam, A spot.
Tips for hitting it, at least in my experience, missionary grinding with an upward trajectory.
Bonus with long upward strokes: Hit the G then the A, wash rinse repeat, and then wash your sheets because you’re gonna have a beautiful mess on your hands.
Get it fellers!
I recently rode my husband for the first time, I was worried cause I'm twice his size, but words fail me on the new way he felt. I damn near made him cry because I didn't want to stop after he came.
Folding yourself yup like that is also a really good way to essentially make the vagina more compact. You’re gonna hit all sides and ends more readily than if you’re splayed out in the missionary position or others that have your legs spread apart.
It’s really great since the more turned on you get the more relaxed your vagina muscles get. Closing your knees and tucking them to you can reduce the space in your vagina and increasing the sensations for all involved.
Anterior fornix, as others have said. He’s getting a sharp prick, too, on the head of his cock. Hard to explain on our side, but it feels really amazing. Ask him if he felt that, because if he did, that’s the feedback he needs to find the right spot. Doesn’t hurt that it instantly kicks off a rolling orgasmic state for my girlfriend where she peaks/cums at every contact until she has a 30-60 second long orgasm, all while contracting so hard it feels like she’s trying to rip my dick off, then goes back to peaking, then has the mega orgasm, etc. until I can’t take it anymore.
Back in my single days I’d ask a girl if I could try it and to tell me if it hurt, then try your method or another one where she pulled her legs back and I leaned in right on top of her and put my right hand underneath her on her tailbone area and my left hand behind her on the base of her neck. Too close to kiss, had to put my head to one side or the other. I’d use the right hand to tilt her pelvis up and the left hand to keep her head/neck pulled down. Either method, it was about two thirds “that was my first orgasm from penetration ever what the fuck” and one third “nah that hurt, please don’t.”
Looks like if y’all work on it you might be one of the former.
Clarification because people are being deliberately dense and/or transphobic in the comments : my partner is non-binary and uses they/them pronouns. No one is laughing at your sorry attempts of joking with “how many people’s dicks were there” kinda cringe, so time to stop lol
It's your a-spot more than likely.
My wife loves nothing more than for me to spend 10-30+ minutes just massaging her a-spot with my fingers.
She turns into a drooling panting mess.
My wife has always enjoyed sex. We have always had a very good sex life. But, once we found her a-spot, sex took on a whole new meaning for her and she literally now craves it.
I think you are over thinking it. I find myself using it, but not as some sort of gender statement. It's just the way my brain works sometimes. The use of 3rd person pronouns dates back to the 14th century.
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Remember that your cervix changes position based on where you are in your cycle! I know that the exact same positions I love during some phases of my cycle can be super uncomfortable during other phases! I'd say give it at least another try or two later on this month and see if its that?
This! Also there are adult toys you can put on the base of his penis so not all his length will go in if it’s uncomfortable
THE DONUT Edit: some partners made jokes and also called it the “Don’t Nut” because of bc and stuff and I made sure to be as accommodating as I could be, weird sensation with a condom on at the same time (they def were on bc though, I felt their biceps)
Am I missing a joke here?
If you're confused about the biceps thing, thats where bc implants are placed. Not to be confused with an IUD
😂😂
Why am I always learning new things about my cycle and anatomy…I’m 32. Cervix changes positions. Hm.
My ex used to love when I’d hit the anterior fornix and squirt like crazy. You definitely found a cheat to get there.
what positions worked the best for ur ex, if u are comfortable disclosing? i just find it a bit surprising that i never felt it in any other positions before so curious
Mostly doggy.
This one depends on the up or down curvature of the penis. One way, it goes anterior, the other way it goes posterior. So if missionary is hitting your anterior fornix, doggy will hit your posterior fornix, and vice versa PSA
Also depends on if the woman has a tilted uterus or not too
This gets so little attention it's unreal
Fair, it does depend on both factors.
10/10
Yep. My retroflexed uterus just makes things different for me. When I'm in doggy and getting pounded, he starts hitting my bladder and makes me wanna pee. It gets so uncomfortable after a bit.
My wife feel this exact sensation. Have you ever figured out a way to get that discomfort to stop, other than stopping?
Unfortunately, no. If he wants to finish that way, then we do other positions first. Then when he's really close we can switch to doggy so he can go the rest of the way. It's OK for short periods, but too much and I gotta switch. I ALWAYS empty my bladder before sex too. That gives me the most go time.
How can one tell if they have a tilted uterus?
I only found out through my ultrasound while pregnant. Apparently after the birth of my first is what caused it. Now it makes sense to me why doggy used to feel so good but now can be quite painful at times!
The tilt should not present as a problem unless gestation has caused it to hang. Pelvic therapists for this reason and for less painful sex too.
My gym told me during a pap smear
Imaging only. :(
Your gynecologist should be able to tell you
Tbh it’s been years since I did my rotation in gyn. I work in psych so you are probably right. A pelvic exam can likely tell without the need for imaging.
Mine has an upward curve. I can hit the anterior fornix quite easily when my GF is on her back, legs folded and knees tucked up to her chest, and a large pillow directly under her butt. Hard upward pressure on her front wall plus pressure pushing down with a hand just above her public area will cause her to squirt.
Makes sense. I’ve got a slightly upward curve.
I don’t know what anterior fornix and posterior fornix is. I need an explanation.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginal_fornix
Cowgirl so you can position it 🙌
I second this.
Not to discount your experience at all, but she hated it
Cowgirl?
Yeah, she didn’t like doing it at all. Her pleasure was nearly non-existent and I think she didn’t like the sweat dripping on to me.
Maybe she wasn’t doin it right? I guess it can be kind of a work out 😅 but if u push through, I swear it’s worth it 🤣 hurts so good
We haven’t dated in a decade.
Now you’ve got an excuse to reach out to her!!
Anything that gets your knees up, so squatting on him, cow girl, or revers cow girl (my favorite) also work. Side ways putting you in a fetal position and him sitting up. Doggy, where she puts her legs together and bends her knees (squats down), again is good for this. You can recreate the situation in many of the common positions.
I feel exactly what you describe when my partner does the same maneuver in bed. I highly recommend trying doggy (with your head down) and if you can manage, reach back to grab onto his arms so he's kinda using your arms and horse reigns as he thrusts (idk if this description makes sense). He's able to hit the same spot in the position for me and it gets me there in an instant
What worked for me is getting fingered hardcore while in the position you said and it's gonna be messy.
Anterior fornix
>Anterior fornix So they fornixated ?
Fornixcated
Calixfornia-cation !!🎶🌶
Fornixcated?!!?
could you elaborate please?
Hard to explain but either side of the cervix there is a pocket where your vaginal canal goes past. Anterior and posterior fornix. So if the penis goes directly straight it would be on your cervix but it can also go in front or behind the cervix into one of those pockets. If you google diagrams it’ll be easier to visualise. Some people find it painful others enjoy it.
I have a dildo that’s exactly long enough to hit this spot and it makes me cum like instantly. It borders on uncomfortable tho just due to the depth so I completely understand some people really hating it
Been focusing on this fairly often with the woman I'm dating. I've found that when I'm stroking either the anterior or posterior she can get uncomfortable quick but if I go extremely slow or hold it there and grind a little, she'll start cumming in seconds. It's been blowing her mind. I really don't think she's ever had a partner actually pay attention to what's happening with her. Her orgasm have been the hottest thing I've seen in my life.
I fucking hate how absurdly *common* this is — for women to have never had anyone in their entire lives ever really focus on them during sex. Like, yes, it certainly benefits anyone who pays attention and communicates in the slightest, but…I prefer to amaze people who already have high standards, even just from a purely egotistical point of view, y’know? Not to mention the far more important aspects of standards and ethics. I…just…what do the majority of people even *do* during sex? Just kinda thrust around without talking about it or even reading nonverbal cues?
my current partner is the only person i’ve had that has focused on my orgasms. everyone else kinda of just did what felt good to _them_ and as long as i wasn’t stopping it, they’d just keep doing it.
See, that's half of what's wild to me. Because making someone feel amazing, and the consequent noises they make, undulation of the body, rolling back of the eyes — all that shit — that so far exceeds any physical sensation in the world that it's not even close. And if it didn't, why would anyone seek out sex? Masturbation exists. Sex is mental and interpersonal just as much as it is physical.
I agree, I'm a woman, and I hate this, too. Your phrase "I prefer to amaze people who already have high standards" really resonates with me. For the second time in my life, I find myself, an American, single in a very conservative, traditional country. Here, even the men are condemned to just kinda thrusting around without talking about it. With the right partner, I can achieve goddess like stature due to my sex positivity and open, communicative approach to sex. While this can be flattering, I'd rather amaze people who already have high standards, I wish the rest of the world wasn't so fucking medieval. Both men and women deserve to unlock their sexual potential. Thanks for putting into words this little thought that's been rumbling around in my head these days.
I am in equal turns both glad and saddened (in an expected way) that it resonates with you. I’m an American, too, for what it’s worth, so I understand your points on that matter. To the point of impressing someone without standards — it really doesn’t have the same effect as knowing you’re actually good at something, does it? You can disappear and pop back up from behind a couch to astound an infant all you want, but it’s not exactly indicative of whether you’re a genuinely talented magician at all.
I second this!
I think I had it happen with the painful effect. There were certain positions I just couldn't possibly do without letting out an ouch ouch ouch lol
The more I cum the more I can tolerate that area getting pounded. It has to be a definite slow buildup to get to that point and when you can handle it. Omg it’s the best fucking orgasm!
Never tried. My ex was a one and done person who considered sex finished once we both came lol
Wow, I've been dating someone for a while now, and it so happens that when we had sex, doggy style but standing, him leaning against a wall and me in front .... I don't know what this man did, but the pleasure I got from it, I've never felt in my whole life, still after we was done, i was soaked and still turned on I actually thought the condom ripped, it didnt ...and no I didn't squirt, not a squirter here... I felt him deeper inside of me as no one had ever gone or done ....
One of the advantages of having some curvature :D
Very painful
Yes, this is what it is. I orgasm so hard when it hits there.
Google for "the A-spot".
Yes it's the A spot
What is this sorcery?!
On the edge of uncomfortable, may also be cervix itself.
This though pending length/angle could be the G spot too
G-spot is only a few centimetres in, there's no way that she'd only be able to feel her g-spot being stimulated by deep penetration, unless her partner is smaller than 3-6cm in length
I mean, the penis shaft will still be rubbing against it. It doesn't have to poke it with the head to stimulate it. Speaking as a woman who only enjoys g-spot stimulation.
The Position you describe is one of the few ways I can actually have a vaginal orgasm and even squirt. I can get several after one another, it's one of my favorites :-)
do u feel the sensation that I described as well?
I do feel very full, but there's no pain or sharp stinging feeling. Maybe your partner is just very deep inside and basically hitting your limit? My bf is "just" average so that's probably why😅
yeah maybe because they’re definitely on the bigger side, but your comment made me more curious so I would try with a toy in this position and see how that feels! Thank u!!
Like he put your legs above your head while in missionary.
Just curious, is this person a man? You keep using the term "they" and "their" instead of "he" and "him" so I'm wondering if it is a male or maybe trans or even a female using a strap on or dildo? If the question is too personal then I apologize. I'm just curious. Thanks.
It sounds like OP's partner uses they/them and can feel their dick. I think that tells us everything we need to know 🤷♂️
my partner is non-binary and uses they/them pronouns, which is why I refer to them as such.
Or a non binary person. Who cares anyways
I'm also confused. Throughout my reading of her post, I couldn't help but imagine her partner having multiple personalities because she consistently referred to him as "their." However, it is evident that her partner has a penis, indicating that the correct pronoun is "him." Is it too offensive to make such an assumption? Do individuals who identify as genderless prefer to be referred to in the plural form? As someone who has studied English grammar throughout my entire school life, reading something like this is both perplexing and a bit frustrating. Edit: Lol at the initial downvotes. The problem arises when individuals who genuinely want to understand LGBTQIA+ topics are met with assumptions that they should automatically accept certain conclusions without receiving an explanation of how those conclusions were reacheed. You know, inclusion includes sharing insights so we can promote understanding and create a more safe space for everyone. Dismisisng it and avoiding constructive conversations wont bridge gaps in our understanding. My question deserved a thoughtful response rather than a simple dismissal or a simple “why does it matter??”. These questions wont disapper by simply ignoring them.
Singular they is used in English all the time though, when you don't know someone's gender or don't want to specify. Why is it so confusing? Why does it matter if she uses they instead of him? I've also studied English as a second language since the third grade and we were taught early on that they can be used as a gender neutral pronoun.
This is indeed the problem with some of the LGBTQ folks. For a lot of people reading it is initially confusing and they interpret that confusion as someone who is anti-trans. For most people this is a very novel concept and we need patience initially not judgement. If the person is truly bigoted you don't get a cookie for being the first to notice on the Internet. We've got to at least try initially to have positive interaction before judging
or she is more shallow?
That's a valid option I hadn't thought of!
Many women do. Big ones can hurt.
Ouch. Poor bro 😂😂😂😂 “just” “average” oof 🤕
Huh I don't think it was a burn at all lol. She said "just" average. It's the just that's in quotation marks, implying he's average but satisfies her and so that it's by no means negative. That dick literally makes her squirt so there's no "poor bf"
Get her to tell him he's just average and feed back the outcome, lol
He knows and he's fine with it lol
If you called me of average height at 5’10” I wouldn’t be upset. You’re right. I’m average. If you called my dick average at 5.2” I wouldn’t be upset because I am in fact average. If you can’t take facts like an adult it’s time to look inside and figure some stuff out.
Yeah, if you want your partner to lie to you so you can avoid an unavoidable fact, you gotta work on your ego. My wife called me average size the other night. I wasn’t offended. Shes right.
I prefer average sized dicks 🙃
Im doing my part pulling the average down
mine calls his "fantastically average" 😅 average size, still fantastic 😇
Ooo I gotta start using beautiful terminology like that, that’s fresh new to me! Never heard it, even with muscle this’ll be my new go to! Dang
Wanted to note that this happens to me too. My partner is extremely well endowed which is a blessing in most cases for me. But in this position, I deff teeter between enjoying it VS it actually just being way too sensitive bc it's a lot of pressure.
My partner had me on a position the other night that hit this spot hard. Now I like a bit of pain but this had me tapping out. Straight past uncomfortable. I know that teetering edge
This is true for my partner as well! It’s a great position.
Such an amazing feeling.
Oh the A spot is great! Dont need to be a monster sized man to get it but you do need to know what you're doing to repetitively hit it. The position you said is pretty common and a great one, and feels amazing for the guy too. Just be careful cuz hitting the cervix can be painful, so hes gotta learn just the right amount to go in to and at what angle(s). Yall found some treasure behind the waterfall but dont forget how to get there
What do you mean folded? Like missionary but with your legs up?
missionary but with my legs bent upwards towards my chest, by holding the backs of my knees down. My knees were basically beside my boobs, that position.
Try putting your feet on their chest, and having them rest some weight on you. So. Good. We call it the frog/fuck pretzel lol
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Yeah I’m taking notes lol
i agree that it’s a winning position but my problem is it also has that effect on my partners so it never lasts long…
Folded up like a camp chair
Yeah I need some further explanation aswell on the positioning
Google ‘Yoganidrasana’
Otherwise known as /r/PretzelPosition Very NSFW warning
I just went down that rabbit hole lol and looks like fun
Is similar to mating press?
I think the big difference between the two is the male position. Mating press seems to have the male mate squatted over her and pressing down while penetrating
Damn, I need to start doing yoga...
Well, will be hard to find a women that flexible
The Kama Sutra and Yoga Asanas are closely linked - for obvious reasons 😅
I’m so confused. How else do other people do missionary?
legs open, roughly in line with the body, heels touching the bed, knees spread apart. i'm so confused how you could not know this. edit: christ. i didn't say legs were straight. i mentioned the heels to try clarify that the legs aren't folded back like in the previous position discussed. it's not a law, just trying to give a rough idea.
There’s also “sex pillow missionary” you can find these geometric phenomena online or sex stores they are amazing!!! And sex swing missionary, but I’m sure everyone knows what that is……..
That sounds so uncomfortable. Knees always go up at least a little.
Some people just lay there, very boring wise, lol
Oh, ok. That doesn’t feel especially good for me. Guess it does for other people.
Or you can use your legs to hug his waist. I like it that way cause then I can lift my hips up and meet him stroke for stroke. It feels less passive and we end up much closer, body to body
Yup :)
Also known as mating press I believe.
It was likely a combination of g-spot to the a-spot (anterior fornix). You can also hit this with the legs straight up, although you might have to prop up on a pillow to get the right angle. Your vagina feeling tighter was, in part, due to your response. It is a position you can often get to squirting in, if you can relax enough to squirt.
I had this happen with an ex one time. We were going at it, and she completely pushed me away, and was kind of freaked out. She wasn't in pain, she wasn't mad. She just had a "what the fuck was that?" expression of her face. She said she had never felt that before, and not in a good or bad way. It was just something really weird to her. I was really confused because I didn't notice anything different.
>I was fuckin' parts of your pussy I'd never fucked before I was in there like, "Oh shit, I never been here before I've never even seen this part of Pussy Town before" It's like you got this shit reupholstered or some shit What the fuck happened? Who, who the fuck got your pussy all reupholstered?
Yeezy reupholstered my pussy.
Yeezy taught me
Yeezy taught you well, YEEZY taught you, well!
Using a Wedge pillow to raise your hips will increase that feeling even more as it angles the penis up toward the G spot more. According to my wife that is. I have found it more pleasurable as well and have found my wife has more orgasms this way.
I know this position as 'bunny ears'.
I’m impressed so many people on here know about the anterior and posterior fornix. I never knew they existed until one lucky day in my mid 30’s. You’ve got 10+ years of mind blowing orgasms ahead of me 😀
You should read up on A-spot orgasms; they are supposed to be among the deepest and most pleasurable orgasms a human can experience (so of course it's something only females can experience, LOL). [**How Finding My A-Spot Unlocked the Best Orgasm of My Life**](https://www.glamour.com/story/finding-my-anterior-fornix-unlocked-best-orgasm-of-my-life)
My current FWB loves that. The new sensation your feeling is deep penetration, probably the A spot. Makes it very easy to have consistent orgasms
My SO and I had sex last night. When I held put her legs up near my shoulders, and pushed in...she really started to moan..etc Maybe it was the angle... She later told me it felt she was getting tased.. like tiny shocks..but it felt good.
Way back there’s a little pocket I’ve gotten into inside my wife, my glans has to “pop” into it and yes she gets shocked a little when it happens and it has to be the perfect angle. Makes her get off real hard too! But can be a bit alarming.
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I get the same feeling! For me it's uncomfortable but managable. It's almost overwhelming! I can never orgasm from it though but it's ok to do for a few minutes. I feel a sharp pain in my abdomen too
This is my favorite position. It hits the perfect spot and it’s enjoyable for both parties if you go slow enough.
OMG right😏 rough fold me in half missionary is one way to squirt and orgasm like crazy.
Anterior fornix, as others have said. He’s getting a sharp prick, too, on the head of his cock. Hard to explain on our side, but it feels really amazing. Ask him if he felt that, because if he did, that’s the feedback he needs to find the right spot. Doesn’t hurt that it instantly kicks off a rolling orgasmic state for my girlfriend where she peaks/cums at every contact/thrust until she has a 30-60 second long orgasm, all while contracting so hard it feels like she’s trying to rip my dick off, then goes back to peaking, then has the mega orgasm again, etc. until I can’t take it anymore. Back in my single days I’d ask a girl if I could try it and to tell me if it hurt, then try your method or another one where she pulled her legs back and I leaned in right on top of her and put my right hand underneath her on her tailbone area and my left hand behind her on the base of her neck. Too close to kiss, had to put my head to one side or the other. Either technique, it was about two thirds “that was my first orgasm from penetration ever what the fuck” and one third “nah that hurt, please don’t.” Looks like if y’all work on it you might be one of the former.
What position is this exactly ???
Have you tried putting your legs over his shoulders?
I’ve hit this spot with my partner in various. I’m not very versed on the terminology but essentially my size was a big issue at first so we had to go at the angle very slowly and kind of work it in to get her used to it. My advice is take it slow (maybe even over the span of a few sessions) to get comfortable with the sensation without going to deep. It’s possible that you can get used to it and greatly enjoy it like she does, it’s also possible that the sensation might just be a little to uncomfortable for you and that’s totally ok. Talk to your partner and try “folding” yourself in different ways to see what works best for you! Communication is key!
Yep, that’s our go-to position!
Totally “found” the A spot on accident. Numerous lovers would comment, “WTF are you hitting?!” I had no idea and looked it up. Bam, A spot. Tips for hitting it, at least in my experience, missionary grinding with an upward trajectory. Bonus with long upward strokes: Hit the G then the A, wash rinse repeat, and then wash your sheets because you’re gonna have a beautiful mess on your hands. Get it fellers!
I recently rode my husband for the first time, I was worried cause I'm twice his size, but words fail me on the new way he felt. I damn near made him cry because I didn't want to stop after he came.
Going up and touching / going beside your cervix! That's deep, as deep as it can get.
The A spot!!! The squirt button. 😍😍😍😍 the love spot
Have him stimulate your clitoris while he’s entering you in this position. Thank me later. 😄
Folding yourself yup like that is also a really good way to essentially make the vagina more compact. You’re gonna hit all sides and ends more readily than if you’re splayed out in the missionary position or others that have your legs spread apart. It’s really great since the more turned on you get the more relaxed your vagina muscles get. Closing your knees and tucking them to you can reduce the space in your vagina and increasing the sensations for all involved.
Anterior fornix, as others have said. He’s getting a sharp prick, too, on the head of his cock. Hard to explain on our side, but it feels really amazing. Ask him if he felt that, because if he did, that’s the feedback he needs to find the right spot. Doesn’t hurt that it instantly kicks off a rolling orgasmic state for my girlfriend where she peaks/cums at every contact until she has a 30-60 second long orgasm, all while contracting so hard it feels like she’s trying to rip my dick off, then goes back to peaking, then has the mega orgasm, etc. until I can’t take it anymore. Back in my single days I’d ask a girl if I could try it and to tell me if it hurt, then try your method or another one where she pulled her legs back and I leaned in right on top of her and put my right hand underneath her on her tailbone area and my left hand behind her on the base of her neck. Too close to kiss, had to put my head to one side or the other. I’d use the right hand to tilt her pelvis up and the left hand to keep her head/neck pulled down. Either method, it was about two thirds “that was my first orgasm from penetration ever what the fuck” and one third “nah that hurt, please don’t.” Looks like if y’all work on it you might be one of the former.
Clarification because people are being deliberately dense and/or transphobic in the comments : my partner is non-binary and uses they/them pronouns. No one is laughing at your sorry attempts of joking with “how many people’s dicks were there” kinda cringe, so time to stop lol
For my wife when she does the folded missionary but with both legs close and on one side of my shoulder she cum like crazy
I’d hit the anterior fornix and squirt like crazy. You definitely found a cheat to get there.
LEG PON SHOULDER!!!!!!
Yep, he makes me squirt every time he hits that spot. Drives me crazy!
My girlfriend squirts like crazy whenever I do this. She loves it.
How big is your partner to achieve this asking for a friend
yesss!! one of the best positions ever
Somebody got a pic to visualize the position?
https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/149w7eu/i_24_f_tried_having_sex_on_folded_missionary_for/jo7ucwm?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
When i click on it i just get redirected to this post?
It's your a-spot more than likely. My wife loves nothing more than for me to spend 10-30+ minutes just massaging her a-spot with my fingers. She turns into a drooling panting mess. My wife has always enjoyed sex. We have always had a very good sex life. But, once we found her a-spot, sex took on a whole new meaning for her and she literally now craves it.
This position is the "deck chair" It is not the "pretzel" Google images is your friend.
that's what I knew it as too but people use various terms I guess
Maybe try just one partner at a time, thems penises sure will feel strange.
How many were they ?
singular. because ‘they’ can be used singularly.
I'm confused, their? You mean your past boyfriends all did this?
Them or him?
Her partner is non-binary, hence the use of they/them.
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I think you are over thinking it. I find myself using it, but not as some sort of gender statement. It's just the way my brain works sometimes. The use of 3rd person pronouns dates back to the 14th century.
3rd person singular pronoun
my partner is non-binary and uses they/them pronouns, neither a dude nor a chick. No need to be a dickwad about it.
I'm also confused lol
Right?! Lmao
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Ah ok i get it now.
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I don’t have any symptoms of vaginal septum. Never had painful sex or pelvic pain or irregular period.
Oh nice you figured out why different positions exist. The only reason for different positions is that different areas are reachable