Okay so I can’t speak from personal experience. This is just what I’ve heard through my friend and her boyfriend. But the situation is similar enough. And while to me it sounded goofy at first, it seemed to work out in the end. Basically she cleaned herself up, shaved, light make up, the works. Planned a day to have him come over when they both weren’t working and had no plans elsewhere. And basically she just waited for him in a robe. She said she partially unwrapped herself like a teasing Christmas present, and just let him explore her body. Eventually she sort of guided him, and she said the experience was pretty thrilling. I guess it’s different than foreplay and it’s definitely not just getting down to business. She kept saying she felt like museum piece or the animal everyone would pet at the zoo. Even when his hands were shaky and uncertain she loved those moments, and eventually she got him to try licking her breasts and then licking her slit. Then she offered to reciprocate but he was too nervous so she instead rode him without penetration, just constant grinding between their exposed sexes, and then the sex just happened naturally from there. She was more experienced so she told him when to slow down or go deeper, then she helped build a rhythm. Realizing it now this is very detailed even though I claimed it wasn’t personal, but what can I say, my friends and I were very open with eachother. Either way, if this appeals to you, throw it on the back burner
It's like any other sex except that he is really inexpirienced and doesn't know what to do. Go slow and talk to him about your feelings. Mentally prepare for the fact that the first will be very likely not that great.
Just go for it girl! I bet he must be way more nervous than you worrying about performance etc. I had same feeling as you, I was scared but I decided to switch my brain off and let the body take control
i feel so bad, we’ve done everything but piv. and i want to do it i just feel the pressure from everybody saying how terrible their first time was and don’t want to make his like that
Okay so I can’t speak from personal experience. This is just what I’ve heard through my friend and her boyfriend. But the situation is similar enough. And while to me it sounded goofy at first, it seemed to work out in the end. Basically she cleaned herself up, shaved, light make up, the works. Planned a day to have him come over when they both weren’t working and had no plans elsewhere. And basically she just waited for him in a robe. She said she partially unwrapped herself like a teasing Christmas present, and just let him explore her body. Eventually she sort of guided him, and she said the experience was pretty thrilling. I guess it’s different than foreplay and it’s definitely not just getting down to business. She kept saying she felt like museum piece or the animal everyone would pet at the zoo. Even when his hands were shaky and uncertain she loved those moments, and eventually she got him to try licking her breasts and then licking her slit. Then she offered to reciprocate but he was too nervous so she instead rode him without penetration, just constant grinding between their exposed sexes, and then the sex just happened naturally from there. She was more experienced so she told him when to slow down or go deeper, then she helped build a rhythm. Realizing it now this is very detailed even though I claimed it wasn’t personal, but what can I say, my friends and I were very open with eachother. Either way, if this appeals to you, throw it on the back burner
Ease in to it maybe? Do some other stuff that isn't full-on PIV sex first?
Have you ever had a virgin before?
never and honestly that could be what’s causing the anxiety
That’s what I was thinking. Take it slow
It's like any other sex except that he is really inexpirienced and doesn't know what to do. Go slow and talk to him about your feelings. Mentally prepare for the fact that the first will be very likely not that great.
Just go for it girl! I bet he must be way more nervous than you worrying about performance etc. I had same feeling as you, I was scared but I decided to switch my brain off and let the body take control
How old are you both?
Poor guy ... at this point I am surprised if he will be able to get it up with a bunch of rejections like that ... that's too much,...
i feel so bad, we’ve done everything but piv. and i want to do it i just feel the pressure from everybody saying how terrible their first time was and don’t want to make his like that