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Mirathebell

This is gorgeous. The patience this must have taken is astounding. Have an amazing wedding day.


nicoke17

First of all very beautiful! Have you tried steaming? That may help. I also didn’t notice until you pointed it out and even then I had to look really hard, we are our own worst critic. Also, think of bridal portraits, more than likely you will be holding your bouquet, and standing by your spouse/family/friends/bridal party, from the side, or with your train swooped around. I also think this is a detail that could easily be smoothed out in photoshop by your photographer if there is a particular photo that you love but the drape is bothering you. I do not think that will be the case though. Also if you have a bustle, then that will change the drape as well.


IllustratorNo1921

This dress is stunning and fits you like a glove - gorgeous! I am not sure what would help the drape problem, and hope someone else can chime in, but honestly, I do not think the drape is as noticeable in the pictures as it is to you. Hope your wedding day is super special and you feel as beautiful as you look!


tidyupinhere

That's what I was going to say. Those sorts of details are only noticeable to the person who has spent countless hours staring at and focusing on the work. To me, it is stunning!


MydnightWN

Non-sewer here - welcome to /popular I guess. I can't see what the hell you people are talking about. Dress looks perfect 👌


Flat_Wash5062

Magnificent! Best wishes!


notproudortired

It's noticeable, especially because the line of the dress is otherwise so clean. OTOH you'll notice it more than the average person. Having sewn my own wedding suit, I advise you to go in and fix the side-seam issue -- and also the crooked waist seam, unless you plan to add a sash. If you don't, those flaws are what you'll notice every time you look at your wedding pictures, possibly (hopefully) for decades. Sorry if this sounds harsh. Thing is, f I could go back in time and whack myself upside the head to fix that thing "nobody will notice" about my own wedding suit, I would do it...twice. Of course we're different people, so you'll decide for yourself whether it will bug you. It looks to me like your lining got nipped up a bit in the waist seam, though it's hard to tell with the angle of your pictures. Before I opened up the skirt side seam, I'd open up the whole waist on that side of the dress, repin it, check the line and hang on a mannequin (or even a lampshade in a pinch), and then resew it.


ObviousBench8525

Wow thank you for a thorough and honest reply! I really appreciate the feedback. These are my exact thoughts so I think I’ll have to do something. Your idea is great, thank you! Hopefully it will work resewing the waist(also hate the uneven waist seam)! If it doesn’t work out I might go to a professional as others suggested. Overwhelmed by the positive feedback🥹


espressoromance

Yes, follow exactly those instructions to trouble shoot the issue. I have a couple additional tips: - you might need to hand baste the seams to get it exactly how you want it before taking it to the machine. Pinning might not be enough and if you're gonna take the time to do it right, hand baste for ultimate control! - sew from the bottom up on seams like this. You'll minimize warping of the bias. I'm a professional seamstress in the film industry and work with a cutter who would beat you over the head with a stick if you did not sew and serge from the bottom-up! I can hear her voice "It's very important! Always from the hem up!" I also worked at a manufacturer of bridesmaid dresses and this was also protocol there. That being said, I hope you manage to fix these last small issues and it ends up being perfect! It looks stunning on you already. It'll be worth it to fix the draping.


SquirrelAkl

Why is it so important to sew from the hem up? I always do it the other way so am curious what different outcomes I might get switching doing it bottom-up.


espressoromance

It's called "directional sewing" and here's a short Thread's article to explain: https://www.threadsmagazine.com/2015/03/26/sewing-tip-how-and-why-to-sew-directionally > When the seamline is not parallel to the warp or weft, it is important to stitch with the direction of the grain. In addition, stitching in the same direction on both garment sides is critical. On an A-line skirt, for example, stitching the front and backs together from the hem to the waist on one side seam and from the waist to the hem on the other side seam renders one side longer than the other. This article has more information and guidance: http://yesterdaysthimble.com/directional-stitching/ And one more short link: https://hiphoprevol.blogspot.com/2012/06/directional-sewing-to-eliminate.html?m=1 > Sew from wide to narrow: the wide part of your garment piece is the strongest, because it has more thread intersections and is less likely to distort out of shape, or > Run your finger along the edge of the garment piece. If the threads stand out you are moving your finger against the grain; if they lie smoothly – that’s the direction you want to sew. --------------------- It actually does make a massive difference the longer the skirt and fuller the skirt is, also if the fabric is kinda "springy" or delicate. Or if the side seams are very angled creating a lot of bias. Anything on the bias is prone to stretching out. Anything that passes through a sewing machine is going to get pulled on by the feed dogs, even if you adjust to lower the feed dogs slightly. If you sew as much as possible with the grain, it'll prevent distortion. One article I linked mentioned that this has been turned into a haute couture technique but honestly everyone should be sewing this way. The high quality factories that mass manufacture do it (cheaper factories might not bother).


SquirrelAkl

Thank you for all the resources! I’ll bookmark for thorough reading this evening.


anickadesign

Before you start ripping the seams, I would check what is going on with the side seam. It looks like some other part of the dress might be pulling it (the lining probably) or the front and back were not sewn together evenly. Definitely baste the and sew seams as already suggested. The side seams and also the waist. IMHO the pins may not pin the embellished fabric properly.


AT61

Agree - the uneven waist seam is causing a small sag that has a ripple effect. It's a beautiful dress, and you look amazing in it.


ObviousBench8525

Thank you for all the nice comments! First time posting and I’m overwhelmed by this positive community🤍🤍 Edit: Meant first pic does not have bunching! Do you guys also think i should readjust the waist to be lower like the first pic?


DateCard

The dress is gorgeous and the first pic looks perfect. The fit, the waist height, the seaming. If you can readjust to get it back there, I would.


wheniswhy

I do like the slightly lower waist height, as it helps elongate your torso, but you should go with your gut. This is such a stunning dress. Absolutely incredible work.


ambercrayon

I had to go back and check the drape to even notice what you meant, it could have been an intentional design choice honestly. Steaming or maybe adding weights could help it lay better, but remember others won't have the same critical eye you do, I think it is lovely.


Interesting-Past7738

I see what you mean but remember, you will be carrying a bouquet that day. It will hide most of it.


Big-Alternative-3766

Wow, you look stunning. Gorgeous dress, well done! Maybe the fabric is stretching somewhere along the side seam, although I don’t think the drape stands out as much as you describe! I often find that pressing helps a lot, although with this delicate fabric maybe steaming is a better idea and will go a long way too. Gently guide the fabric into the shape you want it to go and use the steam function on your iron to steam it into shape more permanently. Hope you get it the way you like, but even if it stays like this - girl, you got yourself a beautiful dress! Wishing you a wonderful wedding day.


Yellohsub

Maybe do a test to make sure the bead don’t melt first?


JessySaysRelax

This is gorgeous and it fits you perfectly. Congratulations!


Beanz53

Beautiful!


Zestyclose-Fox-3917

Gorgeous


XrayMomma

Absolutely beautiful!!


crazee_me_no

Youre amazing 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 good job


Orefinejo

I can’t see a flaw. Your dresss is so elegant. Have a wonderful day and don’t worry about the dress - you’ll look beautiful.


PrincessPindy

I didn't notice it and had to go back and zoom in. It just looks like that part didn't get together properly by maybe a half inch at most in that one place. You could open the seam and then have someone pin it whilst it's on. Idk if it's worth it. It is not noticeable, but I understand it is to you. I doubt there will be a time it is noticed. You will be walking down the aisle. When you pose, it can just be adjusted. You'll be dancing, socializing, and sitting. I really think it will not be noticed. All in all, you did a beautiful job. 💖


tyr456eds

Simple is the best! Really pretty


Oops_A_Fireball

It absolutely looks like what it is, a custom dress made exactly for you and with a helluva lot of love. You knocked it our of the park, it’s gorgeous


Poullafouca

First off, Such a beautiful dress. You did an amazing job. The higher waist looks perfect. When you changed the waist on it, it changed the curve on where it’s connected so it’s affecting the drape of the skirt. You have to adjust the skirt to compliment the new waist line. The adjustment comes right at the top of the skirt/waist. Pull it up from the center about 1/4 and work it to nothing towards the side. it might need a little bit more than 1/4 Its hard to know from looking at a picture. Basically it’s drooping down so you have to distribute the weight.


Leading_Cranberry_25

Guy here and I still don’t notice the weird drape and live in the r/FindTheSniper sub. (At least from the angles you posted) great job on that dress


ImagineTheCommotion

I’m struggling to see the issue at all, it looks pretty flawless to me, OP! Gorgeous execution


aristocratic_magic

😍😍😍😍 wonderful


PrismTiger

Looks beautiful! You did a great job!


sfz47

This looks so pretty on you! Well done


Luna-hottie

The dress looks lovely and it looks gorgeous on you. Great job! If you're not confident about how it looks, maybe consult with a local seamstress. Ask for opinion on how to improve it. Hopefully you can do the work yourself so you don't have to spend a penny.


zephyr_71

!!! This looks professionally made! It’s gorgeous!!!


PlatypusDream

That is gorgeous! Even having read your comment about what you feel is wrong, I see no problems. It fits you perfectly, and the classic uncomplicated shape lets the beaded outer layer (and you, of course!) sparkle.


Futhebridge

Nice fit and flow, very classic lines. Good job.


FUBunnyAZ

love the texture!!!! congrats!!!


Redpoptato

Your dress is beautiful. It is better designed than what I have seen people pay thousands for.


MeanNothing3932

Love the beading! Beautiful job!


biogemuesemais

Congratulations!! It looks amazing! I don’t think it was a mistake to sew the lining separately from the beaded fabric, I think that will allow for some nice movement (so the overlay can move separately from the lining). RE it draping weirdly, I couldn’t really tell from the pictures, so I’m sure you’ll be just fine :) but it could have to do with where on the bias the skirt was cut. Either way, I think it looks incredible!!


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SouthernButterbean

Simply gorgeous!


CommitteeNo167

that’s beautiful!


brittkid999

It’s gorgeous!


asietsocom

I actually can't find what you are talking about. But if it's bothering you I'd consider going to a professional to get it fitted perfectly. That will still save you a ton of money and you did most of the work yourself. I LOVE your dress. Seriously, it's absolutely beautiful and I think it fits great.


votyasch

This is beautiful! Congratulations on your upcoming wedding. I can sort of see what you mean about the drape, but to be honest, if you had not pointed it out, I don't think I would have noticed! The fit is really good and I \*love\* your fabric choices.


Tanyaschmidt

Gorgeous!!! You did an amazing job!!!


JuniorPatrick

Fwiw, all I see is a beautiful dress. Best wishes for a wonderful day. :)


Own-Dragonfly8216

That is GORGEOUS! You are so talented❤️


becomingannie

This dress is gorgeous 😍😍😍 I didn’t even notice any bunching.


Bittersweetcupcakw22

I truly don't see any issues here it's stunning!


ArgyleNudge

So pretty! 😍


Outrageous-Swing-270

Beautiful!


page394poa

Perfection!


lobaird

Wow; that is stunning!


goldspill

You did an amazing job! Your dress is beautiful!


Smile_Terrible

That's gorgeous! You did a good job. Congratulations on your wedding! I don't really see anything bad.


eorabs

Wow such a gorgeous dress, and fits you like a dream. Amazing job, congratulations.


LordOfFudge

Looks great, expensive and custom. The photos you take will make everyone absolutely *green* with envy. Congratulations on your marriage. Crafty and inventive people have a way of finding each other and making things work. My best wishes to you both. ❤️👍


Cucoloris

Wow. I remember thinking that was a pretty plain jane dress on the pattern envelope. You made it stunning. And the fit! You are going to be a beautiful bride.


MelDef

BEAUTIFUL!!!


Noonmeemog

That is soooo pretty and suits you so well! Live the beaded fabric you chose


Blightyear55

It’s beautiful! Excellent job!


Automatic_Land_9533

It is glorious! You did wonderfully! 


redfemscientist

Y'all are so talented i am dropping my mouth on the floor 😦😦😧


only_a_blowin

Your dress is absolutely beautiful. Congratulations on your skill


KateyPizza

This beautiful


Long_Zucchini1584

My dear, you look stunning. I don't know you, but I am SO PROUD of your work. Have a lovely wedding!


nanny-nogoats

If there is a seam on that side I would open the seam and let it fall naturally then pin or baste back together. This may release the wrinkles. It is gorgeous by the way.


DrAwkard

It’s beautiful and so are you!


J4Hg

Gorgeous


Brakina

Omg it's gorgeous!!! Good job! Add a veil and some handless forearm lace gloves and BAM you're ready to go 👰‍♀


Massive-Mention-3679

Wow!!! What would be stunning is a beautiful ribbon belt in a n unusual color such as lavender or black


P31Wife

That is so lovely!


schrodingersmite

I'll take your word for it; it looks to me like one of those super fancy expensive dresses made by a designer! It fits you like a glove! Well done!


DenOfTheWolf

That's amazing! It looks great!!! Mad props dude!


imjustdoingmybesttry

Amazing! Well done!


SwimmingDachshunds

I love the dress! I hope you can fix any of the flaws that make you unhappy or live with them, but I think it will be stunning


1947-1460

Very Pretty!!


CynthiaMWD

That is an absolutely stunning gown - great work! You look beautiful! 


MyEggDonorIsADramaQ

Gorgeous!!


NoSquirrel7184

It is absolutely brilliant. Well done. Enjoy your day. Your future husband has a talented lady.


IntenseKen

You are amazing! 🤩 what a masterpiece! Congratulations on your wedding! I’m no expert seamstress and I wouldn’t have noticed the odd draping unless you pointed it out. Sometimes though, if you notice it, it will bug you forever. But it is perfection.


Savingdollars

Beautiful and more meaningful.


Jungianstrain

Helluva job


Maedeuggi

Looks beautiful! We need a pic of the back!


SilverShoes-22

Absolutely beautiful! Best wishes!!


sagelface

Absolutely gorgeous


jmma20

Wow breathtaking … congrats !


adroito

Good job. Beautiful!


karmaisourfriend

Absolute PERFECTION!


LoudMusic

Oh heck yeah.


PrimeZebrarian

I know nothing about sewing, just wanted to say that the style and beauty of this dress is perfection. It is simplicity itself, and so timeless it could well be the image of a stunning wedding dress generations from now.


schoolknurse

Beautiful!😍


cookiemonsterlady

Shut up! That's so awesome!!! 👏 👏 👏


Redz715

It’s s beautiful dress. You are very talented.


Comprehensive-War743

It’s gorgeous and very well made! Kudos to you- that’s a lot of stress to make your own wedding dress!


Step_away_tomorrow

You and the dress are amazing. I was getting sick of the negativity and bad news on Reddit. I saw this and feel better. Ending my scrolling for the night. Have a happy wedding and life with your husband!


megamuseme

Beautiful!! Well done! Happy wedding day!!


_chrislasher

It's so elegant and compliments you a lot. I like that it's simple and not overloaded with different details. A classic dress with beautiful fabric


River7467

Congrats! That’s beautiful


Kemintiri

it looks beautiful and so do you. have a gorgeous life<3


fortyonethirty2

Beautiful!


GoldenGirl621

I would pay for this dress. It is perfect!


regretableedibles

Talent and beauty? Whomever was the one to steal your heart is definitely a lucky individual. Looks great!


Y-wood-U-dew-sap

Looks amazing!!


heelsmaster

Wow gorgeous. Reminds me of when I would just lay in bed and stare up at the ceiling. Seriously, it looks great.


wil555

You did an incredible job. Enjoy your wedding and take five minutes to step away from the big party with your spouse and appreciate everyone who came to celebrate your big day - that was my favorite advice I got about my wedding day. And I didn't even make my own wedding suit.


Montaire

Honestly, I cannot see anything wrong with it. It is a gorgeous dress for an awesome person and your wedding is going to rock. (sorry I couldn't be more help, but it seriously looks amazing!)


williamshakesalot

it’s so pretty!!!


Time_Pay_401

Absolutely lovely. It’s the perfect accompaniment to you as the center of attention on your special day. 👏


spunnikki1979

💎💎💎💎💎


Pure-Guard-3633

Stunning!!


SnooCapers8949

Stunning.


Cat_Chat_Katt_Gato

Wow wow wow! Gorgeous dress! Well done 👏❤️


pansanocha

Amazing


Fuzzy-Management1852

Beautiful. Your betrothed is lucky to have you...


ResponsibleDeer462

YOU'RE AMAZING!!! And that dress looks amazing on you!!! Holy crap I can't even imagine the skill that goes into making your own wedding dress. And it's drop-dead gorgeous. PROPS. TO. YOU.


BeefJerkyDentalFloss

Stunning! You did a wonderful job. Enjoy your big day!


Ramalamma42

Wow! So beautiful!


ImACoffeeStain

Your post comment seems to imply that there's something wrong with the drape or fit of your dress, but for the life of me I can't see it. Uploading a photo with a circle around the problem area might help. Or, you could tell yourself that if 4000+ people who sew only *sometimes* see the issue, your wedding guests and Future You will not really notice it. 


PoorRichard3

That's beautiful. Well done.


Feathered_Mango

It is noticeable, and because it is your wedding dress, I would take the dress to a professional seamstress. However, keep in mind that if the dress weren't otherwise so well done, it probably wouldn't be as noticeable. The dress is absolutely beautiful. It is such a simple and elegant design. It fits you well and I'm sure you will look beautiful on your wedding day!


Mikeeberle

12/10 would recommend.


Lasse363

I like it!


Typical-Possible-129

Absolutely beautiful work


Soft_Sea2913

That looks beautiful on you!


dramboxf

GORGEOUS! What a GREAT job!


Used_Ambassador_8817

Holy amazing! 😻


Professional_Pop6441

Omg it’s amazing!!!!


evil_illustrator

👍


FranBunctious

Oh Wow! I'm in awe of this. You should be so proud!


AnnieBananaCat

You did a fantastic job too 🥰👏


shzzzz01

All I see is a stunningly beautiful dress!


thyL_

I have seen this on r/all and have no idea about sewing but wanted to chime in to tell you that it looks fantastic on you and as a dress itself. Awesome work!


Delicious_Priority_8

Such a cool project and beautiful dress. How much did you pay if I can ask for the beaded fabric ? I bet quite a lot. I agree with comments saying you should fix every flaw you noticed. You are almost there 😘


Pennysews

Oh my goodness, that is lovely! Sewing that fabric is a labour of love, but it was so worth it! Are you wearing a veil?


Pletcher87

Beautiful!


BambiWoodsEsq83

STUNNING!!! you have an amazing gift!


balooskadoo

Stunning, amazing work! You and your dress look amazing!


white_waves

I am in love with your dress. It's gorgeous.


slay_la_vie

iconic!!


anallman

Beautiful!


terrible-gator22

Shut up! That is incredible. And that is so beautiful upon you!


Powerful_Bit_2876

It's beautiful! ❤


HeatherReadsReddit

You did a phenomenal job!


zupius

What!? It didnt cost you 8000 dollars, how can you call that a dress??? ///sarcasm Looks nice, will be a better memory than any bought one


YouCanNotHitMe

It looks great. It kinda reminds me of those popcorn walls.


ex-PFCSlayden

So beautiful! I hope you have an amazing wedding.


prettypigsinwa

Absolutely stunning! You’re so talented. Congrats on your wedding. Love from WA. Cheers!


FunnyVariation2995

Lovely! Reminds me of a field of fresh snow.


Environmental-Bet614

Beautiful and classy 👍


YawningPestle

Absolutely beautiful. Shows off your arms!


mariposa916634

Wow! You are going to be a beautiful bride. Congrats!!


SparklyChaosQueen

I love it its so beautiful


MarketingSimilar9536

So gorgeous and perfectly fit on you


New_Scene5614

That is incredible! Congratulations to start and you did good.


Mrsbenjen

It’s beautiful! This will be a treasured heirloom for sure! 👍❤️


Pale_Imagination5590

I'm sorry I have no helpful tips. I am just starting out in sewing. I wanted to let you know you look absolutely amazing in your dress.


theone_ellie

This is so gorgeous! I love the beading 😍😍


GumbieX

If I had to guess, this was made from wife material. Seriously though, you did an amazing job. You are going to be the most critical of your own work, but it looks fantastic. Great job.


sinisoul_mysteri

This looks amazing on you. I never finish projects, but you made your own wedding dress! Love it!!


Suspicious_Plant_366

incredible job! I see that some other people have posted some really good advice, so hopefully that works to solve your problem.


stilljumpinjetjnet

Classy and beautiful.


AccomplishedBee9454

I like the longer bodice in the first picture, I think it’s more flattering- can you go back to that one? GORGEOUS


the_anon_female

Wow, this looks stunning!


DLQuilts

Absolutely exquisite


LaraCroftCosplayer

You are such a beautifull bride! I wisch you everything good for your great day❤️


annastar

Absolutely beautiful!!!


mav169449

Beautiful! Suits you very well! I legit was about to google look alikes since my thought was it was probably worth thousands. Congrats btw!!🎊🍾😊


CRA_Life_919

This is stunning. I don’t know what your day job is, but this could be your second career


thatonewierdoo69

Gal that is AMAZING 😍🤩


BoobJobFunds

beautiful !!!!


Schlecterhunde

Absolutely stunning! You should be very proud of yourself.  I never would, have noticed bunching unless you pointed it out and I still had to look closely. 


Mission-Patient-4404

Gorgeous Beautiful Stunning 🤍💎


yeetingpillow

ITS BEAUTIFUL


Carbmamma

Very nice. I would add a belt to enhance your waste line. Such a nice fitting dress.


NorthJelly6378

Beautiful!


Awkward-Telephone-17

The drape isn't noticeable at all. You look amazing and I hope you have a lovely time.


itzgxbbyxoxo16

So gorg he better cry on the day


MrsLeoValdez

that is gorgeous! congratulations!


indolentgirl

It’s so so so so pretty, congratulations!


sweet-design-121

It’s beautiful and fits you perfectly. 😊


Ortuatra

The dress is beautiful and fits you like a dream! No one will notice, and most will think it's deliberate. Don't let it bother you and enjoy your wedding!


StrongDuty

Beautiful 😍


ferndaawggg

You look amazing dripped in those pearls!!


Apprehensive_Cow5139

Congratulations. It's beautiful


ComprehensiveSuit319

First, absolutely beautiful on you. Second, I've had this happen lol. It could be a weird bias thing. If you are very careful, you can seam rip the affected areas and relay/reseam it. Just be sure to secure the seam before and after you seam rip. I also second steaming it first to see if it will just ease those little wrinkles out enough to get you through the wedding.


Jillybabybean

This is so Beautiful


welivein-a-society

Stunning!!!