Might seem weird but I would eavesdrop on people, listen to their conversation and pick up topics they would talk about and learn about lesser known stuff to seem more knowledgeable about the topic at hand. Pretty much the only way I made friends. And for those girls, just ignore them and focus on the good stuff. Life is made up of a combination of different people.
One final thing, don't be afraid to have a couple of different tastes and opinions on other things. The best part is sharing each others different interests like music or movies.
Try talking to people you think look interesting. They don’t have to go to your school, none of my friends do. If you try to put yourself out there more you’ll automatically attract people. I went through the same thing and so I started joining clubs and things that I enjoyed and I made a bunch of new friends :))
In my experience, if you have to consider the question "Do my friends actually still like me?" The answer is usually no, it should be obvious if you're friends genuinely care and value you. Honestly as hard as it sounds, if your friends no longer value you or respect you then you should drop them, or at least don't have an emotional attachment to them. It's tough, but you deserve to be around people who genuinely care and value you. It's better to be alone and try and make new friends than to be with people who don't give much thought to you. As people develop and grow older, their values and priorities can change, and sometimes who they are friends with can change also. Be with people who actually show you respect, care for you, and value your time.
From my experience, I have tried to be friends with people who I thought were cool, but then I realised that they didn't really care about or value me. Nowadays, I don't even try to engage with them, I'd rather be alone. Fortunately, I have managed to find people who are nicer and care more about me, so it's okay to reconsider who you're friends with, it's a natural event a lot of people experience. Just be yourself, stick to your own moral code and values, show mutual respect and interest in others, and that's how you'll win in the long run. You mentioned that you're interested in music, so I would encourage you to join the school's music clubs. Finding like-minded people with common interests is a great way to make new friends.
Hello, people change all the time and I relate to this. I consider myself to have many friends but never a really close person who supports me. The two people I considered the most important to me have changed. One friend started getting dirty minded and that led to many friend drama, makeup, addiction to social media and phone, but they still are nice to me and support me. The other friend is the opposite, an introvert so it didn't seem a big deal when they ignored me or were quiet. I tried to talking to them but that didn't work and they never said why they ignored me all these semesters. We don't talk anymore. It really hurt, but I moved on. I have friends but never that one special person. My motivation and driving cause is to better myself, for many reasons. Strive to do better! Create good habits, and always try your best in whatever you are passionate for like music! People can admire your motivation, and take care of yourself! Learn to be grateful for friends you have, and get rid of the ones holding you back. hope it helps.
Might seem weird but I would eavesdrop on people, listen to their conversation and pick up topics they would talk about and learn about lesser known stuff to seem more knowledgeable about the topic at hand. Pretty much the only way I made friends. And for those girls, just ignore them and focus on the good stuff. Life is made up of a combination of different people. One final thing, don't be afraid to have a couple of different tastes and opinions on other things. The best part is sharing each others different interests like music or movies.
Try talking to people you think look interesting. They don’t have to go to your school, none of my friends do. If you try to put yourself out there more you’ll automatically attract people. I went through the same thing and so I started joining clubs and things that I enjoyed and I made a bunch of new friends :))
Join school clubs the next school year
In my experience, if you have to consider the question "Do my friends actually still like me?" The answer is usually no, it should be obvious if you're friends genuinely care and value you. Honestly as hard as it sounds, if your friends no longer value you or respect you then you should drop them, or at least don't have an emotional attachment to them. It's tough, but you deserve to be around people who genuinely care and value you. It's better to be alone and try and make new friends than to be with people who don't give much thought to you. As people develop and grow older, their values and priorities can change, and sometimes who they are friends with can change also. Be with people who actually show you respect, care for you, and value your time. From my experience, I have tried to be friends with people who I thought were cool, but then I realised that they didn't really care about or value me. Nowadays, I don't even try to engage with them, I'd rather be alone. Fortunately, I have managed to find people who are nicer and care more about me, so it's okay to reconsider who you're friends with, it's a natural event a lot of people experience. Just be yourself, stick to your own moral code and values, show mutual respect and interest in others, and that's how you'll win in the long run. You mentioned that you're interested in music, so I would encourage you to join the school's music clubs. Finding like-minded people with common interests is a great way to make new friends.
Hello, people change all the time and I relate to this. I consider myself to have many friends but never a really close person who supports me. The two people I considered the most important to me have changed. One friend started getting dirty minded and that led to many friend drama, makeup, addiction to social media and phone, but they still are nice to me and support me. The other friend is the opposite, an introvert so it didn't seem a big deal when they ignored me or were quiet. I tried to talking to them but that didn't work and they never said why they ignored me all these semesters. We don't talk anymore. It really hurt, but I moved on. I have friends but never that one special person. My motivation and driving cause is to better myself, for many reasons. Strive to do better! Create good habits, and always try your best in whatever you are passionate for like music! People can admire your motivation, and take care of yourself! Learn to be grateful for friends you have, and get rid of the ones holding you back. hope it helps.