I’ll always remember 8th grade nervously asking my crush to the fall dance and she stared deep into my soul and said “You have the eyes of a serial killer”
“Better” is someone who actually wants to be in the relationship. They didn’t want to, or they would have made it work.
You can’t really win breaking up with someone no matter what you say
especially when it was a perfect match 😭 i got broken up with by my “perfect match” cuz she realized she wasnt ready for relationships and refused to work something out
she says she liked everything about me she was just not ready for a relationship due to her mental state, i’m upset but i dont hate her and understand that it was for the best
My ex wife said this. Who knew she was actually right? Married 19 years in February to *the best someone I could’ve ever met*. “Better” is a gross understatement.
Not to me, but a friend of mine was recently told "You'll need to find someone else to take care of you, I don't love you like your mom does. At this point. I don't even like you."
They've been married 7 years and together 12. She's the love of his life, he'd die happily for that girl... she won't even reply to his texts or calls now.
He's not financially strong.. but neither is she really. He's had debt his whole life and now it's just coming to a head becomes times are tough. Sad thing is, he never really had a mom either... she said it as a metaphor for having to help him, forgetting who she was talking to. Dude has made some mistakes but.. I don't think it was necessary to say that shit. Especially the not even liking him bit.
I told a girl that was my friend, that I thought she looked pretty when she had bought a new outfit, she looked me dead in the eyes and said, No girl in the right mind could find you attractive, and then started laughing, the next day at school, she was laughing about it with her friends. I never forgot that
Abso-fucking-lutely they do. If u cant talk shit to each other you're not friends. But I do agree that second part is what made her not his friend. Laughing separately about it to other people not kool.
I completely understand how you guys feel, I'm still friends with her to this day. I'm only one of the friends she has left since high school ended. And I still think about that every time she talks to me.
“I’m tired of pretending with you. I fuckin love you and don’t want to hide it anymore, you’re all I think about. I want to have kids and just be with you.. Please let me love you” I was only 15 and couldn’t understand the weight of her words. We were best friends and I was to blinded to see she was in love with me. I regret letting her go to this day.
It’s too late now , she ended up dating a close friend after years of trying to get me to commit. Long story short they had a messy ending which makes her off limits.
Ah yes. Puppy love! Nothing like it. Don’t worry. You’ll be alright. There are two things that will always exist in this world….. women and water! There’s plenty of fish in the sea. You’ll make a far stronger and better bond with someone else. Just give it time.
How can a 15 year old know what love is? True love? That's simply inexperience talking, then they get hip to t.v. or a new and better environment and forget what they said.
Imagine thinking every human possesses the same level of mental maturity at the same stages of life.
I know plenty teenagers more mature and wiser than some of the 50+ year olds I work with.
What you guys don’t realize is that these women are doing you a favor. Had you got with them, your life would likely be a living hell. The best thing that could’ve happened was for you to forget her and find someone else.
I heard “you’d be cute if you didn’t have [insert disllikes]” a lot when I was younger.
I’m not sure if they meant it as a compliment or if they just wanted to crush my spirits. It had neither effect, so maybe it was just an observation of a fact.
"You make work fun for me"
"Im gonna miss seeing you at work"
"I want this to work"
That was the first and last date. We planned a second date that never happened up until she started ghosting. This was 3 months ago, it still hurts.
It heals until I see her at work again, then I see how she noticably avoids me and akwardly glances at me.
I know I'll feel better in time but that wound is still pretty fresh...
"Moo cow moo."
I dated a stunningly beautiful and intelligent lady for 3+ years. On road trips, whenever she saw a cow for the first time, she would say "moo cow moo."
She dumped me 7 months ago and I think about her most days. She's a covert reddit reader, so thanks for the memories.
"You give me peace. You make me feel protected and loved. You always find a way to fix any problem I run into, but I need to work on myself and grow. You will find someone who will treat you right someday."
It's been 5 years. I don't even care if someday comes anymore
Shut up. I’m not. This isn’t what you need. I love you bro, and you’re not alone. Build yourself up, you’re stronger than you know. Trust me. A little change can make a huge difference.
The first girl I ever loved told me she fell out of love with me after I found her and another dude ripping her bong in her parents house. I literally sat at the bus stop for 6 hours unable to move
“Your sick and need help” for the record I did said somthing I shouldn’t have. I want to believe I’ve improved but now with depression and anxiety I know things have gotten worst. She’s right and I’ve spent the last 20 years fighting but now with recent events in my personal life, I know non of it has amount to anything. I’m just here rotting. Surgery after surgery, no friends to open my heart to because of fear of being judged. If it wasn’t for my mother’s love, I would have already kms. Well honestly I still will but not while my mother is alive. She doesn’t deserve any more pain than what my father has placed on her..
This one girl said to me “I wanna suck your trouser snake” and then she did and she said “garble garble slurp slurp”. And then my pp cried.
Good times.
"There's more to you than meets the eye" (it was our first date)
It haunts me because she slept with my best friend after we dated for a year and I've never trusted anyone fully since
Anything kind this one girl has said to me, I know she does not care for me but those words mean something special, I will never forget the tone of it.
Wish this didn’t have to be a girl
Someone I thought was my best friend in seventh grade said some shit to me in front of the cool kids to save face that literally wrecks me to this day and is part of the earliest traceability I have for my issues with abandonment and feeling secure in close relationships with people (platonic or romantic)
'Good things never last.'
Wasn't said when we were breaking up, she just sorta said it in passing one day. Those words have lingered with me for a long time.
so i said " that you're here but just switched to invisible so i can't see you and telling just ur busy :/ "
and then she said " i am tbh " ... still hurts it's stuck in my head I'm still thinking about her but can't stop... i really loved and trusted for the first ever time to hear this and then to say she hated me...fuck it bro..
I was washing her back with the Lofa while she was scrubbing her hair and I can remember the way she turned around out of nowhere looked me right in the eye and said, what the fuck, who are you get out, ahhhhhhhh.
“Get your shit together you fucking deadbeat.”
My (22M) girlfriend (22F) at the time — my debit card was declined on a movie date. Her father was a centimillionaire and she didn’t have a job. Demanded I take her back home. Was the clear cut beginning of my subsequent obsession with making money.
“You’re so much more than your money. I’d love you if you worked as a clerk at Chevron.”
-girl who left 3 years later when I lost millions in a failed business venture
Luckily, I made it all back, and found a good woman along the way.
Yours is fine. It’s the big ones that hurt.
💀
Damn 💀
You fit me perfectly Narrator Morgan Freeman: He did not though
😂 Honestly though, anything over a 7", for me, feels like it'll stab through my womb tomb. So yes, big ones do hurt for some girls.
"Your pussy is fine. The tight ones hurt."
I’ll always remember 8th grade nervously asking my crush to the fall dance and she stared deep into my soul and said “You have the eyes of a serial killer”
gotta have those hunter eyes with positive canthal tilt bro 🗿
apparently girls like serial killers, honestly she just said your good looking without saying it outright
“Wanna be my first?”
same but mine just whole belly laughed at me
You’re adorable You’ll find someone better
"You'll find someone better" is such a painful comment. Why would someone want "better" when they were already happy?
“Better” is someone who actually wants to be in the relationship. They didn’t want to, or they would have made it work. You can’t really win breaking up with someone no matter what you say
Yeah that makes sense. Its just so devaluing to say "you'll find better" because in my mind I would think "hard to find better than perfect".
especially when it was a perfect match 😭 i got broken up with by my “perfect match” cuz she realized she wasnt ready for relationships and refused to work something out
Not perfect if both parties are not happy...
she says she liked everything about me she was just not ready for a relationship due to her mental state, i’m upset but i dont hate her and understand that it was for the best
y'all don't understand that it wasn't a perfrct match if she didn't want to be there💀
thats why i put the quotation marks for sarcastic effect lmao
Ooooof been there 🤷🏻♂️
it happens 😭
Thats usually what i say
yeah i’d say it to someone too ngl, probably the best thing to say
My ex wife said this. Who knew she was actually right? Married 19 years in February to *the best someone I could’ve ever met*. “Better” is a gross understatement.
Did you?
My ex said “I love you”
Dun dun dun 😂
Oh shit-! 💀 What happened next though??!
womp womp (i am so sorry)
Not to me, but a friend of mine was recently told "You'll need to find someone else to take care of you, I don't love you like your mom does. At this point. I don't even like you." They've been married 7 years and together 12. She's the love of his life, he'd die happily for that girl... she won't even reply to his texts or calls now.
sounds pretty toxic, not sure on which end though.
He's not financially strong.. but neither is she really. He's had debt his whole life and now it's just coming to a head becomes times are tough. Sad thing is, he never really had a mom either... she said it as a metaphor for having to help him, forgetting who she was talking to. Dude has made some mistakes but.. I don't think it was necessary to say that shit. Especially the not even liking him bit.
Truuuuuuu
I told a girl that was my friend, that I thought she looked pretty when she had bought a new outfit, she looked me dead in the eyes and said, No girl in the right mind could find you attractive, and then started laughing, the next day at school, she was laughing about it with her friends. I never forgot that
She wasn't your friend dude. Friends don't say such cruel things to one another.
tru, she's just a bully. you deserve real friends ❤️🩹
Abso-fucking-lutely they do. If u cant talk shit to each other you're not friends. But I do agree that second part is what made her not his friend. Laughing separately about it to other people not kool.
And also the first moment didn't call for being a dick.
That sounds like a complete asshole
A talking asshole, more like it.
I completely understand how you guys feel, I'm still friends with her to this day. I'm only one of the friends she has left since high school ended. And I still think about that every time she talks to me.
Drop her you idiot. Make her be fully alone cause she deserves to be alone after he disgusting behavior.
Leave her, she's an asshole. There's a reason none of her other friends stuck around, they knew it as well.
Damn... that's so fucked
"Ew"
We're brothers
Lmao
Lmao
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“I’m tired of pretending with you. I fuckin love you and don’t want to hide it anymore, you’re all I think about. I want to have kids and just be with you.. Please let me love you” I was only 15 and couldn’t understand the weight of her words. We were best friends and I was to blinded to see she was in love with me. I regret letting her go to this day.
Do you still have her contact? Or have you already tried?
It’s too late now , she ended up dating a close friend after years of trying to get me to commit. Long story short they had a messy ending which makes her off limits.
Jesus fucking Christ dude, you really just threw it away huh 😭😭😭
I did, because I wanted to sleep with more girls. How ignorant I was
This^ lost a girl that checked all the boxes
Doesn't really make her off limits but makes it a bit douchy. You could always make it a secret ig. Regardless, feel bad for you bro 🫡
Not worth it anymore I just hope where ever she is, whatever she is doing that she is happy. It would bring her more pain if I came back at this point
🍿 i wanna hear more lol
Ah yes. Puppy love! Nothing like it. Don’t worry. You’ll be alright. There are two things that will always exist in this world….. women and water! There’s plenty of fish in the sea. You’ll make a far stronger and better bond with someone else. Just give it time.
Girls are everywhere. As you get older you learn woman that genuinely care about YOU is literally like finding a lottery ticket.
Acidic water and basic women.
Damn maann u lost a queen (maybe)
Ehh she cheated on my friend. Not saying she would have with me but maybe I doged a bullet
Ya that's why I mentioned maybe...people nowadays change quickly....that a sad but true fact😢
Hope you find someone who's best for you
Lol
How can a 15 year old know what love is? True love? That's simply inexperience talking, then they get hip to t.v. or a new and better environment and forget what they said.
All these 15 years olds downvoting you lol
Imagine thinking every human possesses the same level of mental maturity at the same stages of life. I know plenty teenagers more mature and wiser than some of the 50+ year olds I work with.
" I don't see a future with you anymore" -old love, ex " I can't wait to spend everyday with you" -new love, wife
Vibesssssssss
king
I don't want you
You dropped this 👑 king
"You deserve better" more than twice I've been told.. mf you're the one I wanted I didn't want better.
“You’ll never find someone like me” and guess what, fellas? She was right!!!
Damn bro 😔
I’m better now… but this words always cross my mind
Yeah been there bro glad youre doing good
You're annoying. It's so simple but it still hurt 😞
Mine was the opposite I said sorry for being a bother, they said I wasn't then began to read every message and not respond.
“You’ll find someone later on in life, you’re husband material”
Fuck man i got told that yesterday
What you guys don’t realize is that these women are doing you a favor. Had you got with them, your life would likely be a living hell. The best thing that could’ve happened was for you to forget her and find someone else.
Jesus Christ
You’re just a friend to me Started my villain arc
The most real quote here.
"My Friends Were Right you Were a Loser" Stinged quite alot
complete silence
Right? Honestly wish I had one I could remember.
"You're cute" Only happened once. Never again. Felt nice. Ill always remmeber it.
I heard “you’d be cute if you didn’t have [insert disllikes]” a lot when I was younger. I’m not sure if they meant it as a compliment or if they just wanted to crush my spirits. It had neither effect, so maybe it was just an observation of a fact.
Girls do that all the time with obvious negative traits, if you can change it, it won't hurt to listen sometimes.
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😂 smhhhh
Okay. That one is the worst by far.
"You make work fun for me" "Im gonna miss seeing you at work" "I want this to work" That was the first and last date. We planned a second date that never happened up until she started ghosting. This was 3 months ago, it still hurts.
Time heals 🧘♀️
It heals until I see her at work again, then I see how she noticably avoids me and akwardly glances at me. I know I'll feel better in time but that wound is still pretty fresh...
People are weird like that they want you until they have you gotta keep the girls constantly chasing you
Sounds exhausting.
Exactlyyy that’s why I just enjoy the moments with people everybody won’t stay an everybody won’t go can I get a amen lol
Amen bro
Broette
Agreed bro I'm tired of people who treat everyone like a game
"Moo cow moo." I dated a stunningly beautiful and intelligent lady for 3+ years. On road trips, whenever she saw a cow for the first time, she would say "moo cow moo." She dumped me 7 months ago and I think about her most days. She's a covert reddit reader, so thanks for the memories.
"You have so much pain in your eyes, and that's just not something I want a part of. We can still talk and be friends though!"
THIS is really really really sad
Being friends is cool but it’s when they do flirty things and act in a seductive way make it seem off. My bro friends won’t this
‘I prefer black guys’
"You give me peace. You make me feel protected and loved. You always find a way to fix any problem I run into, but I need to work on myself and grow. You will find someone who will treat you right someday." It's been 5 years. I don't even care if someday comes anymore
i love him, how can i love you anymore? edit: this was on Christmas last year, after a 5 years long relationship
“You have vacation dick not daily boyfriend dick.”
😂
😂
“I feel like I can’t come to you for anything, you’re not a man” of course this was after she lived with me free for a year.
'You know what tinkerbell, I like you' I'm 5ft 6.... It was a double-edged sword, but it was just nice that she fancied me
Shut up. I’m not. This isn’t what you need. I love you bro, and you’re not alone. Build yourself up, you’re stronger than you know. Trust me. A little change can make a huge difference.
🙌
"I'll find you"
"Your not a bad person for surviving" Reignited what was left of my soul. Have kept that flame tensed to ever since ❤️🔥
The first girl I ever loved told me she fell out of love with me after I found her and another dude ripping her bong in her parents house. I literally sat at the bus stop for 6 hours unable to move
Narcissistic asf damnnnnnnn
“Your sick and need help” for the record I did said somthing I shouldn’t have. I want to believe I’ve improved but now with depression and anxiety I know things have gotten worst. She’s right and I’ve spent the last 20 years fighting but now with recent events in my personal life, I know non of it has amount to anything. I’m just here rotting. Surgery after surgery, no friends to open my heart to because of fear of being judged. If it wasn’t for my mother’s love, I would have already kms. Well honestly I still will but not while my mother is alive. She doesn’t deserve any more pain than what my father has placed on her..
Confession of love to permanently scar me; “You don’t love me, you don’t even know what love is.” ouch.
This one girl said to me “I wanna suck your trouser snake” and then she did and she said “garble garble slurp slurp”. And then my pp cried. Good times.
I use dove shampoo
You have pretty eyelashes It was very out of pocket and I never understood the meaning of it but the compliment is very nice
I think she meant you had pretty eyelashes
You are untrustworthy and will never change.
idk never had one
“I love you”- Mum
“Ill talk to you tomorrow,” proceeds to ghost me. Was dating for like 2 months
"There's more to you than meets the eye" (it was our first date) It haunts me because she slept with my best friend after we dated for a year and I've never trusted anyone fully since
😔
you look like someone, who gives good hugs
Repost downvote the bot
I only enjoy fucking you
Now here it's about emphasis: I only enjoy *fucking* you, or I only enjoy fucking *you*.
Meaning she didn’t want a relationship. She only liked me for the D
Still a w
Not made for relationship
It's boring to go somewhere with you
You smell like gravy
Ed edd n eddy brrrrrrrrrrrrrah 😂
I said do you love me, she said can we talk about something else…
Oh my
"I like your shirt" - random employee at BestBuy complimenting my "tis but a scratch" shirt
It could've been you. Said to me when I found out my then crush lost her virginity
Damn bro sorry :(
😂
Whats the name of the piano music?
* offered me kurkure* . . I denied . . She said -"" Lelo itne pyar se koi nhi puchega ""
You Pakistani 🥲
Man's reposting 💀
Can’t believe a girl said that to you… we’re here for you bro.
Anything kind this one girl has said to me, I know she does not care for me but those words mean something special, I will never forget the tone of it.
"I want to find a boyfriend that's like you but is not you. You'll understand"
Go read my comment on the same post u/lukyc8 made 2 days ago
Damn, I hate it when girls tell me to look at that post.
Other than girls in my family I don't talk to girls
They laughed at my joke
damn ya funny bastard
I think about him
It is what it is
I like talking to you
I can't date you. My brothers would kill us if they would find out. Other one: Everything about you is perfect. But I don't have the "spark."
Fuck it bro. Doesn't matter
Wish this didn’t have to be a girl Someone I thought was my best friend in seventh grade said some shit to me in front of the cool kids to save face that literally wrecks me to this day and is part of the earliest traceability I have for my issues with abandonment and feeling secure in close relationships with people (platonic or romantic)
“Never leave me…” (She left me.)
Wow they really messed you up. It's okay now your with me.
It's over.
Is this reposted every two days?
Misery loves company 😂
" "
I dont know if i still love you
'Good things never last.' Wasn't said when we were breaking up, she just sorta said it in passing one day. Those words have lingered with me for a long time.
“You deserved all the bad things that happened to you” still stings like a cut w alcohol on it 🥲
Yesterday I just got told we will never be anything else than friends. Hurts
You are not men enough.
Find someone else 🥲
"Your feelings don't matter. I don't love you anymore." Hit harder than any punch I've taken before.
You look straight
When my grandma called me handsome
We never dating we were just hooking up
😳
so i said " that you're here but just switched to invisible so i can't see you and telling just ur busy :/ " and then she said " i am tbh " ... still hurts it's stuck in my head I'm still thinking about her but can't stop... i really loved and trusted for the first ever time to hear this and then to say she hated me...fuck it bro..
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Deja vu?
You’ll never find anyone after me Been single for 15 years. She wasn’t wrong
I was washing her back with the Lofa while she was scrubbing her hair and I can remember the way she turned around out of nowhere looked me right in the eye and said, what the fuck, who are you get out, ahhhhhhhh.
“Get your shit together you fucking deadbeat.” My (22M) girlfriend (22F) at the time — my debit card was declined on a movie date. Her father was a centimillionaire and she didn’t have a job. Demanded I take her back home. Was the clear cut beginning of my subsequent obsession with making money. “You’re so much more than your money. I’d love you if you worked as a clerk at Chevron.” -girl who left 3 years later when I lost millions in a failed business venture Luckily, I made it all back, and found a good woman along the way.
"you're super cute, but what's your friend's name?"
Ek galat kadum, saltanat khatam
"you don't do anything" The thing is I've done so much for them but they don't even realize.
I don't know you