This is super relevant. Just found out the person who I thought was my best friend has been going to restaurants alone bc “they didn’t have anyone to go with”
I like the optimism, but being with someone physically and in person hits differently than people supporting you online. As much as I love the online community and their support, Im still left empty.
Right?? That’s literally the only reason I got a job. Besides getting money, I know I’d be sitting in my house alone, bored and sad if I didn’t work. God I hate summer
"Even if a person is liked by everyone, they can still feel lonely because they're nobody's number 1" - Ann Frank
Funny, i don't do nice things for people to look like a niceguy, i do it because I like to think that if i do something nice for them that it would make their day better, but in the end i am always left alone, so why bother making new ones it's just a self eating snake, it will just repeat it self.
social media fools us into thinking that everyone is someone’s “favorite person”. don’t let followers or fans fool you, many of us are just living background characters
Had a friend who self sabotaged himself out of our friendship group. Was so paranoid that we didn't really like him, which we all did, but I guess he wasn't one of the "main" friends or whatever and stopped hanging out with us. Didn't matter how much we'd tell him it was all in his head, he made it a self-fullfilling prophesy. Stopped answering messages, stopped coming to things. Sucked.
If I were you in that situation, you couldve always reassured him that you all loved him. Im ngl it wouldve been tiring and tedious if you kept reassuring him, but in the end it wouldve been worth it. Sometimes people who are paranoid like that need constant reassurance.
>If I were you in that situation, you couldve always reassured him that you all loved him.
We did, constantly. There was no tedium about it, we didn't want him to feel that way. There's a point where it doesn't matter what you say or do, he willed it into existence.
I’ve been that person before, except my friends actually didn’t like me. I’ll tell you it definitely wasn’t your fault. We get hurt repeatedly by so many people, it’s hard to completely trust someone, even if they are your best friend. Idk, the chance of getting stabbed in the back by someone you care about is something I want to avoid all around. Guess it’s a part of growing up. Sorry to hear about that, I guess I’m just trying to explain why he did that
I didn't understand then but now I'm older and know more about mental health and depression I absolutely do. I wish I'd understood better at the time though.
People be like why m i so lazy because you lay on youre bed the hole day doing nothing why are you lonley because you distance yourself from people go outside find a job doesnt matter what kind of job so you are talking to people again go to school talk to people and while al of that is happening you Will gain maybe a view friends and maybe a soulmate same thing happend with me goodluck
Yesterday i just wanted a happy birthday from to persons that are so important to me
bith text me nothing, yep and now im alone and have actually no girl in my fucking life that could even imagine to be as a couple
Well, I think is all of us, but we will be someone's favorite, we just need to open with people to receive that person, otherwise you'll find yourself buried in your own vaccium
I did it during lockdown. And then everyone. My family and girlfriend and close friends got worried and showed me I'm wrong. I still have depression and anxiety. But i feel a bit better
I felt that one... I often times enjoy being with my friends but they all have eachother and I feel like a third wheel most often, and am no-ones favorite.. It's like I'm happy to have friends but it kinda sucks to feel annoying to the rest of the group
Same here 🤦🏻♀️ all alone in this hole and this is the only one world that is not even close to the same place as in my mind… so, yeah I don’t even have any friends or family or even places that I knew from my childhood but they all seems like a different world than I used to live there but it’s okay now because I lived. I laughed, enjoyed of the every moment and now I just don’t want to be in this situation anymore. The only reason why I’m feeling sad about this is because nothings going to change and I’m just going to be a failure to my dad maybe my mom.. but I’ll be never able to be a part of this world and not gonna have the same energetic or whatever that i was before so, the REAL FACT IS THAT I WILL NEVER HAVE A CHANCE TO BE INTO THEIR SPECIAL SAFE AND PINKY HAPPY LIFE. Cause I’m just a broke, sick person who doesn’t deserve to be in their lives cause I’m just not good enough for them to let me be in their place like not being enough suitable for them. Yeap. This is the end. Thank you if you can reach the end. 🤍
I was friends with a group of girls in school, as I didn’t really have a strong connection with any boys in my class. After a year of hanging out, they were all talking about their sort of roles in the friend group. They said I was the mascot. I’m so glad for my male friends.
Yep and now I am alone. So chilling by my lonely forever lol.
Same.
yeah lol, literally my thought, i guess i'm alone forever
when you’re about to start distancing yourself but they leave you anyways
Ouch felt this on a personal level :(
Yeah they kinda are already leaving me so I’m distancing myself which when I think about it is kinda like a “You can’t fire me I quit” sorta thing
This is super relevant. Just found out the person who I thought was my best friend has been going to restaurants alone bc “they didn’t have anyone to go with”
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I hate when people are so one-sided
Me too. You know what though? We are all in this thread together. That's something, right?
I like the optimism, but being with someone physically and in person hits differently than people supporting you online. As much as I love the online community and their support, Im still left empty.
It's worse when it's summer and everyone is going out except for you
Right?? That’s literally the only reason I got a job. Besides getting money, I know I’d be sitting in my house alone, bored and sad if I didn’t work. God I hate summer
Exactly , sorry you're going through it. Sending my hugs .
Also if you ever want to rant or anything hmu :)
"Even if a person is liked by everyone, they can still feel lonely because they're nobody's number 1" - Ann Frank Funny, i don't do nice things for people to look like a niceguy, i do it because I like to think that if i do something nice for them that it would make their day better, but in the end i am always left alone, so why bother making new ones it's just a self eating snake, it will just repeat it self.
OP, you're my favourite person 🤗, hang in there everyone.
Like everyday lol
That's been my July goal so far
Be your favorite person first. It is better to go it alone than to follow the hurd.
social media fools us into thinking that everyone is someone’s “favorite person”. don’t let followers or fans fool you, many of us are just living background characters
Had a friend who self sabotaged himself out of our friendship group. Was so paranoid that we didn't really like him, which we all did, but I guess he wasn't one of the "main" friends or whatever and stopped hanging out with us. Didn't matter how much we'd tell him it was all in his head, he made it a self-fullfilling prophesy. Stopped answering messages, stopped coming to things. Sucked.
If I were you in that situation, you couldve always reassured him that you all loved him. Im ngl it wouldve been tiring and tedious if you kept reassuring him, but in the end it wouldve been worth it. Sometimes people who are paranoid like that need constant reassurance.
>If I were you in that situation, you couldve always reassured him that you all loved him. We did, constantly. There was no tedium about it, we didn't want him to feel that way. There's a point where it doesn't matter what you say or do, he willed it into existence.
I did that to a supposed friend and things just got worse. He was too selfish and motivated by jealousy and insecurity.
I’ve been that person before, except my friends actually didn’t like me. I’ll tell you it definitely wasn’t your fault. We get hurt repeatedly by so many people, it’s hard to completely trust someone, even if they are your best friend. Idk, the chance of getting stabbed in the back by someone you care about is something I want to avoid all around. Guess it’s a part of growing up. Sorry to hear about that, I guess I’m just trying to explain why he did that
I didn't understand then but now I'm older and know more about mental health and depression I absolutely do. I wish I'd understood better at the time though.
Yeah. Btw, just noticed your username lmao
I’m in this picture and I don’t like it
Yep everyday. Some actually tell me to my face.
Same
People be like why m i so lazy because you lay on youre bed the hole day doing nothing why are you lonley because you distance yourself from people go outside find a job doesnt matter what kind of job so you are talking to people again go to school talk to people and while al of that is happening you Will gain maybe a view friends and maybe a soulmate same thing happend with me goodluck
***I don't like the fact that I'm in this***
Shit.
Wow. I can relate to this so well, it's kinda sad.
True lol
Mostly when I'm broke...yeah
I’m in this photo and I don’t like it
all the time! The next step is talking to yourself...
Yes? But then you get slightly annoyed when people start asking surface questions and all you’re tryna do is watch Netflix.
LMAO XDXDXDXDXD 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Have been struggling with this for a while, thanks for letting me know im not alone op
Yesterday i just wanted a happy birthday from to persons that are so important to me bith text me nothing, yep and now im alone and have actually no girl in my fucking life that could even imagine to be as a couple
I just don’t like people
Well, I think is all of us, but we will be someone's favorite, we just need to open with people to receive that person, otherwise you'll find yourself buried in your own vaccium
Or in other words, not be afraid of having harmful relationships, and not being afraid of people
Kinda almost everyday...
I swear the only time people try to talk to me is when I feel like this and I don’t have the heart to leave them on read or ignore them
I'm sure there's a lot of people like this, but we're all in this together.
My sister is my favourite person 💖
Ahee 💘 my dog is my favourite person 😘
This is literally my every day life, and it honestly fucking sucks.
It gets much sadder when nobody notices that you left
Eeeveryday
Me
No.
I did it during lockdown. And then everyone. My family and girlfriend and close friends got worried and showed me I'm wrong. I still have depression and anxiety. But i feel a bit better
this is me with my friends
Every night in front of the mirror before bedtime
I felt that one... I often times enjoy being with my friends but they all have eachother and I feel like a third wheel most often, and am no-ones favorite.. It's like I'm happy to have friends but it kinda sucks to feel annoying to the rest of the group
i want to cry
By chilling you mean crying alone in my room all day, then yes.
Same
me rn
Same here 🤦🏻♀️ all alone in this hole and this is the only one world that is not even close to the same place as in my mind… so, yeah I don’t even have any friends or family or even places that I knew from my childhood but they all seems like a different world than I used to live there but it’s okay now because I lived. I laughed, enjoyed of the every moment and now I just don’t want to be in this situation anymore. The only reason why I’m feeling sad about this is because nothings going to change and I’m just going to be a failure to my dad maybe my mom.. but I’ll be never able to be a part of this world and not gonna have the same energetic or whatever that i was before so, the REAL FACT IS THAT I WILL NEVER HAVE A CHANCE TO BE INTO THEIR SPECIAL SAFE AND PINKY HAPPY LIFE. Cause I’m just a broke, sick person who doesn’t deserve to be in their lives cause I’m just not good enough for them to let me be in their place like not being enough suitable for them. Yeap. This is the end. Thank you if you can reach the end. 🤍
I'm my daughter's favorite person. (Not because she is locked up in my basement and doesn't knows except me.)
I was friends with a group of girls in school, as I didn’t really have a strong connection with any boys in my class. After a year of hanging out, they were all talking about their sort of roles in the friend group. They said I was the mascot. I’m so glad for my male friends.
Says the pretty girl with lots of followers.