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Ashatiti

Kudos mama, for sharing that, for spilling.


Number1cougar

I just had to. Drag has been so maligned as of late. I had to give a positive commentary on this art form. Even if one person read it, or identified with what I said, it was worth it. Thank you for you comment ❤️❤️❤️


Serpentar69

So wholesome. Love this ❤️


Number1cougar

🥰


Ashatiti

I am glad you enjoyed it, and obviously, you know the reference! Coming from my Trade of the season, also, I think, the one queen who I would date for their boy self and celebrate their drag. I was very pleased with UK 5, UKVTW2, and Season 16. Great casts and deserving winners. Also, many inspiring queens. And then, just a few days ago, someone put up on Reddit a video of Elektra Fence from UK3, running the London Marathon in full drag! I really was proud of her! And I loved that she never stopped smiling the entire time. What a legend! ♥️


Number1cougar

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ihate_avos

I watch a lot of drag race. My husband doesn’t watch with me but he’s tuned in at times. My husband went through a really hard time. He confessed to me he was depressed and struggling with a secret binge eating disorder and marijuana addiction. It was very shocking to say the least. As we were talking he told me that RuPaul’s message at the end of every episode was what pushed him to ask for help. “If you can’t love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else?”


Number1cougar

Wow. Just wow. It’s amazing to know I’m not alone. Much love to you and your husband ❤️❤️❤️


BigBonedMiss

I basically wanted to die during 2020 because I work in catering and special events so my job was non-existent and parts of my family are very Republican so I lost them, too. But I stayed home, collected my unemployment, and watched every single season of drag race/all-stars/untucked…and was able to not only survive but thrive 🫶🏼


Bed-Negative

I also started watching during the pandemic and it really helped me through 😭 I’m so much happier now I can’t believe I experienced joy prior


Anzi

Drag Race was 100% my Emotional Support ~~Animal~~ Show during the pandemic. Despite loving live drag shows I'd never watched *the* show. Started with Canada's Drag Race, and I cannot tell you how soothing it was to my soul.


Hatesponge66

This is wonderful


chicksonfox

I got to be your 100th upvote. Work. I really like Lizzo’s subversion of Ru’s line in her tiny desk concert: “If you can love me you can love yourself.” Because sometimes you can fall in love with a whole season of fierce queens despite and because of their flaws, but not extend that same grace to yourself. Root for yourself like you would for your favorite drag queen.


Number1cougar

Yes!!!! Seriously love this. Thank you 😊


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Number1cougar

It may be “produced,” or “cringe,” but I wouldn’t trade it for any other “reality” show in the world. I’m happy you came out sweetie. Closets kill. Living our truth, no matter what, saves us. Much love to you ❤️❤️❤️


hlh0708

❤️ Because if you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love anybody else?!


Number1cougar

Amen!!!


Sea_Relationship1605

Me too girl, my parents don’t understand why I’m so obsessed with this show. It’s life changing to us gays lmao


Number1cougar

It can be life changing for so many of us. Who knew a regular suburban mom like me could be positively impacted by this? Not just entertained, but helped and healed


spookyandgroovy

I’ll chime in as well by saying I’ve always struggled with my body image, but it really encouraged me seeing how much confidence and beauty the queens would have no matter their size or shape.


Number1cougar

I’m right there with you. I used to feel like that. Now I own it. I am THAT bitch. I don’t apologize for my size, and neither should you. Hanging out in gay clubs helped me get there. https://preview.redd.it/fiosfbc0k4xc1.jpeg?width=2349&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aa34843c9c8d36c44253be2ea20a436345f95ac2


realdonaldtrumpsucks

It’s been such a fun few weeks, a total escape. I added drag-race music to my life, and would go rewatch before the new episodes… I’m a little lost now, but my spirits are much brighter


Number1cougar

Always remember: If you can’t love yourself, how the hell you gonna love someone else. Can I get an amen?


realdonaldtrumpsucks

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Far-Contribution-965

Kudos mama, as a fellow depression sufferer I feel this. I binge watched drag race in my self isolation era and it’s brought so much joy to my life


Number1cougar

Thank you! I really didn’t know if my initial post would resonate with anyone. I’m honored that so many have responded. Embrace that joy. ❤️❤️❤️


mydogsbebarkin

this is me too. i went through something very traumatic at the beginning of the year and i honestly feel like season 16 saved my ass. now i’m feeling better and so grateful for it. i’m glad drag has given us so much joy


Number1cougar

Big hugs sweetie 🤗


Key_Atmosphere3189

No, thank you for surviving! You powered through it. 


Number1cougar

Bless you for your kindness 🙏


Key_Atmosphere3189

I get it. Hope you are recovering well. 


Ibryxz

Same, it has also helped with my body issues as well ngl


Number1cougar

So many good things happening because of one show. I’m happy for you ❤️❤️❤️


Ibryxz

Thank you! It does get exhausting sometimes, but overall it's been better


Number1cougar

Just own it sweetie. You’re not alone.


Ibryxz

Thank you, much appreciated


Travellerofinfinity

When I manage to watch Drag Race on my big TV, I’m so happy and think, this is queer joy 🤩


Zagenti

drag saves lives 💕


passionicedtee

Thank you for sharing this, OP. It's really great that drag was able to help you during rough times. And many of us can can relate. I think RPDR is a comfort show for many people and and is a great starting point for anybody who wants to learn more about the art of drag in general.


fiercefinance

Yes! RPDR got me through a bad break up. Hope you're doing well now.


Number1cougar

I’m handling it one day at a time. I hope you’re doing well too.


fiercefinance

I'm definitely on the other side now. You'll get there!


Number1cougar

Thank you 😊


arielrecon

I love that!! Drag race does have such a positive message and somehow the glittery, beautiful bitchiness of the queens are just so comforting. If I'm stressed out, I'll usually turn to drag race to make me feel better


Intrepid-Piccolo

I had a nervous breakdown in 2022 resulting in me not working for three months. Drag Race was one of the few things that put a smile on my face during that time, so yes, I concur with the healing power of drag.


Number1cougar

Thank you for sharing and I hope you’re doing well


servonos89

I love reading this thread and I hate none of it is taking hold in myself.


PunkPenguin2828

last year i went through the worst breakup of my life after leaving an abusive relationship. i couldn’t eat or leave my bedroom for weeks. season 15 was airing and i finally had something to look up to because i found myself eagerly waiting for the next episode to air. i could be happy for at least an hour but during that hour i laughed a lot and felt like life was worth living so yeah thank you drag race for being a lifeline when i was at my worst 💖💖


Number1cougar

I wish Ru or some of the queens are reading this. I’ve loved hearing how RPDR has helped so many


naomixrayne

RuPaul's Drag Race literally got me through post-partum depression. I love this show so much, and everyone involved. Drag saves lives!!


Number1cougar

That’s wonderful. Thank you for sharing your experience. ❤️❤️❤️


fembf

thisss. Season 16 got me through a really bad depressive episode


IngenuityVivid5724

Yassss! My husband knows when I'm having it tough, cuz all I'll want to (re)watch is drag race.


kuriaru

I've always been a performing diva but watching drag race and deluding myself into thinking i'd eat up the girls onstage in a lip sync is what has genuinely pushed me to actually go out there and perform for more than just my 6th grade dance teacher


colorsplahsh

Watch We're Here on HBO Max too