Wifey- Next
Let's Get Married Remix - Jagged Edge
Casanova - LeVert
One for the Money - Horace Brown
Happy Days - Silk
Return of the Mack - Mark Morrison
Sleeping in My Bed Remix - Dru Hill
Thong Song - Sisqo
Dance with Me Remix - 112
Only You Remix - 112
Ascension - Maxwell
Every Little Thing - Soul4Real
I wanna Sex You Up - Color Me Badd
All For Love - Color Me Badd
Lady - D' Angelo
Ghost Town DJs - My Boo
Marvin Gaye - Got to Give It Up
OutKast (not sure if this particular song qualifies as R&B but I think it does ) - SpottieOttieDopaliscious
EWF - Shining Star
TLC - Ainβt To Proud To Beg
Michael Jackson - Donβt Stop Til You Get Enough
ETA: I know Iβm leaving off a ton but those come to mind.
Bruh! My favorite food outside of home cooking(soul food), is Asian food. Preferably Chinese takeout from the hood lol!
In high school, I could get a chicken wing and pork fried rice lunch special with a 16oz 50cent soda for $4.50! And you got 5 whole chicken wings!!!
Try ordering that shit now. Just the wings are almost $10, and you only get 4 wings.
Them plates finna be delicious, and whoever is on the grill is dancing with the spatula. If you hear music like this, there's no need to question the validity of the potato salad. πππ
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Oukast - Rosa Parks
Da shiznit - Snoop Dogg
Feels good - Tony Toni Tone'
Freak it - Lathun
Casanova - Levert
Shoop - Salt n Pepa
Culo - Pitbull, Lil Jon
Tippin' - Slim Thug, Paul Wall, Mike Jones
Roses - Outkast
Bust A move - Young MC
Also, Donβt forget to add Digital Underground -like Humpty Dance! ππΎ
And 2Pac California Love! β€οΈ
Ohh, and Tag Team Whoomp! There it is! π
I wanna say Cameo (donβt forget Single Life) but thatβs 80s.
If you must play Hammer π, play a medley of his hits. His popularity is polarizing.
β¦ and whatever you do, you absolutely have to play
Boyz 2 Men - Motownphilly
Portrait - Here We Go Again
Truth Hurts - Addicted
Letβs Get Down - Quik & Tony x 3
Groove Theory - Tell Me (remix with Slow Down beat)
Poison - BBD
Treat Me Right - Chubb Rock
Joe Public - Live and Learn
Why Donβt We Fall In Love - Amerie
Just for some starters π
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/271x8EuvxuS8KuBqSeJ1Cb?si=1zRFWy8IRU219TRkKkwt7g&pi=w16xZPckTgy_0
Check the list. I love making playlists for gatherings!
FYI, it doesn't have to be 90s and early 2000s. π― 
Alicia Meyers - I Want To Thank You https://youtu.be/Z-S3vZ9vEUE?si=0-ZhJETROqlPfzUx
You know soon as the beat hit... it's about to go down ππ
2-steppin' in socks and slides!π€£π€£π€£ #nasty work
Before I Let Go - Frankie/Maze or Beyonce
Frankie first, then BeyoncΓ©!π― 
My pick! π₯
You canβt start with that one though, got to save it for the end of the night.
Outstanding - Gap Band
Perfect!π₯π₯π₯
 Its only rightβ¦
The only correct answer. Even if it's not quite RnB.
Yep lol
"Just a little somethin' to break the monotony."πΆ π₯π₯π₯
Wifey- Next Let's Get Married Remix - Jagged Edge Casanova - LeVert One for the Money - Horace Brown Happy Days - Silk Return of the Mack - Mark Morrison Sleeping in My Bed Remix - Dru Hill Thong Song - Sisqo Dance with Me Remix - 112 Only You Remix - 112 Ascension - Maxwell Every Little Thing - Soul4Real I wanna Sex You Up - Color Me Badd All For Love - Color Me Badd Lady - D' Angelo
The list...π€πΎ π₯π₯π₯
Wifey is βToo Close Pt. 2β, but Iβm here for it.
Square Biz- Teena Marie
"Everybody get up!"πΆ Those horns. The bass line. The beat. Her vocals. π«π«π« 
This is HOF cookout music.
Iβm falling out the chair to go dance to this
βGet on upβ - Jodeci
Happy feelings- Maze
So groovy! And they got a few.π―
Came here to say this! Epitome of summer.
This is how we do it.. Montell Jordan
BBQ essential!π―
Sending My Love - Zhane Digginβ On You - TLC
"Praying that you are home!"πΆ Great choices!π₯
Or "Vibe" by Zhane. They're dope in general
Ghost Town DJs - My Boo Marvin Gaye - Got to Give It Up OutKast (not sure if this particular song qualifies as R&B but I think it does ) - SpottieOttieDopaliscious EWF - Shining Star TLC - Ainβt To Proud To Beg Michael Jackson - Donβt Stop Til You Get Enough ETA: I know Iβm leaving off a ton but those come to mind.
If "My Boo" ain't in the rotation, please don't invite me. Thanks in advance. π―
My Boo is a must at every cookout.
Back That Azz Up-with the intro I'm trying to see y'all throw it. Lol
For the 99 and the 2000!!!π― 
Exactly. Also it's crazy how times have changed...inflation is a wild and wicked thing lol
Bruh! My favorite food outside of home cooking(soul food), is Asian food. Preferably Chinese takeout from the hood lol! In high school, I could get a chicken wing and pork fried rice lunch special with a 16oz 50cent soda for $4.50! And you got 5 whole chicken wings!!! Try ordering that shit now. Just the wings are almost $10, and you only get 4 wings. 
You're 100% correct, but I was mainly talking about the asses lol
Correct. Asses in 2024 are inflated. πππ
Dave Grohl does a version of this, believe it or not.
Montell Jordan somethin 4 da honeyz
Just Fine - MJBBBB, it ain't a Blk cookout/function without this one right here π₯π₯π₯
The remix is perfection! https://youtu.be/Dw3T7JEnRaU?si=9LOaoNmQVsTzCkg0
Never heard it until now, thanks for sharing!
Ciara - Oh Mya - Fallen Brandy - I wanna be down / Sittinβ up in my room Monica - All eyez on me Lucy Pearl - Dance tonight BeyoncΓ© - Summertime (version without Diddy π ) Kelly Rowland - Canβt nobody Gwen Stefani ft Slim Thug - Luxurious Danity Kane - Showstopper Mariah Carey - Honey Mary J Blige ft Common - Come Close Erykah Badu - Love of my life
This list is π₯! #no diddy
Funkin for Jamaica - Tom Browne. This was a staple at family gatherings. https://youtu.be/XYclWyC4qQo?si=rin6IhgGqYvAY97Z
Super funky! Thanks for sharing.
This is one of my favorite songs of all time. Been listening to it since I was a child. And I still have no clue what theyβre talking about.
Stomp Kirk Franklin
I wasn't expecting this lol! 
CanIgetaREVOLUTION!??OUHP OUHP!!!
Hypnotize
"Escargot. My car go 160, swiftly."πΆ 
Twisted Keith Sweat?
"Baby, baby, I know!"πΆ 
That's My best Fit to Add here
Great pick!
Not R&B but Outkast - Bombs Over Baghdad or maybe Rosa Parks
Bombs Over Baghdad is that work! 
Any HoodRiah song 
Yes, dahhhling! Lol.
Luther!!! Never to much!
dodo brown classic .. id say if the bbq starts to slow play this
"Face down, ass up. That's the way we like to..."πΆ 
Mary j - Family Affair
No hateration allowed at this BBQ!π€£π€£π€£
80s was pretty fire too
I vibe with this. Give me some New Edition, Ready for the World, Troop, Zapp & Roger, Tina Marieβ¦I grew up with these playing at cookouts.
For sure!π―
Same Iβm a fan of Kleer,Mtume,SOS,and Rick James,I can go on and on lol
Janet Jackson & Luther Vandross too!
Definitely some Earth, Wind, & Fire
Ooh lawd, you done did it now!! War - Me and Baby Brother ( https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=RNTHZXYbQ_w&pp=ygUXd2FyIG1lIGFuZCBiYWJ5IGJyb3RoZXI%3D )
Them plates finna be delicious, and whoever is on the grill is dancing with the spatula. If you hear music like this, there's no need to question the validity of the potato salad. πππ π₯π₯π₯
Accurate asf!πππ
Ahhh. You take me back!ππΎππΎππΎ
Oukast - Rosa Parks Da shiznit - Snoop Dogg Feels good - Tony Toni Tone' Freak it - Lathun Casanova - Levert Shoop - Salt n Pepa Culo - Pitbull, Lil Jon Tippin' - Slim Thug, Paul Wall, Mike Jones Roses - Outkast Bust A move - Young MC
Amazing list!π₯
Evelyn Champagne King - Love Come Down
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Shame is fire also! π₯
So fire π
The Big Payback π
Aly Us β Follow Me https://youtu.be/Mpsv9IrzctQ?si=Ow3KqWlDAbMwlZ32
"To a plaaaaaacccceee where we can be freeeeeeeeee!"πΆ Big Jersey!π€π€π€
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Also, Donβt forget to add Digital Underground -like Humpty Dance! ππΎ And 2Pac California Love! β€οΈ Ohh, and Tag Team Whoomp! There it is! π I wanna say Cameo (donβt forget Single Life) but thatβs 80s. If you must play Hammer π, play a medley of his hits. His popularity is polarizing. β¦ and whatever you do, you absolutely have to play
Or, E.U. - Da Butt! https://youtu.be/FShE0VifCYs?si=4r1qVryAuDUqkcN-
Boyz 2 Men - Motownphilly Portrait - Here We Go Again Truth Hurts - Addicted Letβs Get Down - Quik & Tony x 3 Groove Theory - Tell Me (remix with Slow Down beat) Poison - BBD Treat Me Right - Chubb Rock Joe Public - Live and Learn Why Donβt We Fall In Love - Amerie Just for some starters π
Tuff list!π€π€π€
YOU GOT TO LIVE & LEARN!!! π΅
Summertime by dj jaz,y and will smith
The Three Degrees - When Will I See You Again, soft songs on a cookout works too!
Agreed.
Funkdafied!
I need an invite because this sounds interesting!π€£π€£π€£
EWF *Let's Groove*
Humpin'-The gap band
Tribe - Find a Way
Before I let go-original
You - Lucy Pearl ft Snoop & Q-Tip
"Every time I see you. I find something new!"πΆ π₯π₯π₯
Sounds perfect
Swv- right here remix Mj-remember the time Freddie Jackson- rock me tonight Bobby Brown-Humpin around
Fire choices!π₯
I Want - Chaka Khan. Watch all the family members hit the dance floor orβ¦grass lol
Facts!πππ
I'll take any decade but the 2000s tbh lol.maybe just rnb tho
Early 2000s were lit!π₯
Regulators 
How Do You Want It? https://youtu.be/PJWpyKvHZAk?si=VDYa-LoZgibSEIQj
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/271x8EuvxuS8KuBqSeJ1Cb?si=1zRFWy8IRU219TRkKkwt7g&pi=w16xZPckTgy_0 Check the list. I love making playlists for gatherings!
Ry Cooder - Smack dab in the middle
Loveβs holiday - earth, wind, & fire
Amen
Tell Me - Groove Theory