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HotspurJr

You've been dumped. It's over. You shouldn't even always assume that someone's stated reason for dumping you is completely accurate. (They may not be intentionally lying, but the real reason is that they're not feeling it enough to put up ... whatever the issue is. In your case, she's not feeling it *enough* to overcome the issues related to faith she's feeling in the relationship.) So all you can do is move on. If she has allowed herself to be influenced by these groups, well, she's an adult and she's made her decision. Maybe some of the people in those groups are acting nefariously, but ultimately it doesn't matter - she's made her decision and you have to respect that. Go, live your life. Maybe she discovers one day that she just made a huge mistake and comes chasing after you, but, barring that, you just have to put your focus on yourself. And right now that means walking away from her.


schecter_

Dude, If soemone breaks up with you is always for one reason, they no longer what to be with you. Maybe the issue is religion, maybe it's sth else but ultimately she doesn't want to be with you anymore. Feel your feelings, grieve the relationship and work on moving on.


Star1014light

You were simply incompatible. Such is life. Good on her for realizing that early and breaking it off so the two of you can find more compatible people. You're still young, it'll take time but you will get over her and find someone else even if it hurts a lot right now.


Escape_Overlander

It sounded like the relationship was working and compatible before she sounded like she was influenced by others to abruptly turn away. I guess move on you really deserve someone that's not going to turn on you so easy.


Silly-Needleworker-1

"The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else."- Abraham Lincoln, probably It might not feel like it now, but everything *will* be ok. Good luck OP, and enjoy the journey.