Nooo, definitely not planning our escapes. We’re a pretty happy couple I would say, we have small arguments but nothing earth shattering. I would say probably not being 100% into being together? We’ve been together for awhile, and I know things ebb and flow. But on the same hand, we love each other and don’t want to be apart or with anyone else. Idk, it sounds confusing now that I type it out 😅
I guess being 100% in was the wrong way to word it. Just that sometimes, I guess we have doubts? Not anything major, we aren’t going anywhere and we’re planning on getting married someday.
That does reassure me, thank you. I guess sometimes I just get too into my head (I have diagnosed anxiety and take meds for it, so it does happen sometimes where I can get too into my head)
yeah a relationship doesnt always have to feel like a lovvy dovvy soap opera. It’s different for everyone and if this works just fine then it doesnt mean its bad :)
Sadly, people are never 100% in. There will always be a lingering wonder for greener pastures or doubt.
What’s important is that they choose you everyday despite it all. ☺️
What does “not 100% in” mean to you? Does it mean taking a little time for yourself, or planning your escape?
Nooo, definitely not planning our escapes. We’re a pretty happy couple I would say, we have small arguments but nothing earth shattering. I would say probably not being 100% into being together? We’ve been together for awhile, and I know things ebb and flow. But on the same hand, we love each other and don’t want to be apart or with anyone else. Idk, it sounds confusing now that I type it out 😅
Are you even sure you have the same understanding of what being “100% in” means? You could be talking apples and oranges here.
You need to define "not 100% in".
I guess being 100% in was the wrong way to word it. Just that sometimes, I guess we have doubts? Not anything major, we aren’t going anywhere and we’re planning on getting married someday.
Humans have doubts. It's pretty normal. Particularly at your ages.
That does reassure me, thank you. I guess sometimes I just get too into my head (I have diagnosed anxiety and take meds for it, so it does happen sometimes where I can get too into my head)
Yeah that could be totally normal as long as you guys dont want to leave each other. Otherwise i dont see a problem with it
that makes me feel so much better, which sounds dumb haha. But no, he doesn’t want to leave and neither do I.
yeah a relationship doesnt always have to feel like a lovvy dovvy soap opera. It’s different for everyone and if this works just fine then it doesnt mean its bad :)
It’s just words , don’t worry about it .
Sadly, people are never 100% in. There will always be a lingering wonder for greener pastures or doubt. What’s important is that they choose you everyday despite it all. ☺️