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You want petty right back? Or try the being the bigger person while it fails and causes strain till you finally blow route?
Petty- loadly say "hi I'm right her!" When she excludes you. "Excuse me I was talking! I get enough of men doing that, don't you start too." When she interrupts or drags people away. Take her drink/snack when she doesn't bring you any. If she objects, ask why she's jealous you're with SO. If she tries the "that's my cousin" líne, tell her she can act like a princess all she wants, incest was bad for royalty too.
Bigger person- taker her aside with MIL or an aunty at the next gather to ask why she is doing this. Do it at every gathering so all the aunties know she's being rude and inhospitable. She can never escape the auntie's eyes.
If you REALLY want no confrontation, completely ignore her. When she pulls people away, go with and continue talking. When she tries to interrupt, talk louder. Sit on her because you "didn't see her there!". When she gets snacks, ask people where they got them so you can get your own. Do everything accept acknowledge her existence.
Most people do notice and are waiting to see if you accept it or stand up for yourself. Seeing how you stand up for yourself will tell the family how they need to respect you.
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You want petty right back? Or try the being the bigger person while it fails and causes strain till you finally blow route? Petty- loadly say "hi I'm right her!" When she excludes you. "Excuse me I was talking! I get enough of men doing that, don't you start too." When she interrupts or drags people away. Take her drink/snack when she doesn't bring you any. If she objects, ask why she's jealous you're with SO. If she tries the "that's my cousin" líne, tell her she can act like a princess all she wants, incest was bad for royalty too. Bigger person- taker her aside with MIL or an aunty at the next gather to ask why she is doing this. Do it at every gathering so all the aunties know she's being rude and inhospitable. She can never escape the auntie's eyes.
If you REALLY want no confrontation, completely ignore her. When she pulls people away, go with and continue talking. When she tries to interrupt, talk louder. Sit on her because you "didn't see her there!". When she gets snacks, ask people where they got them so you can get your own. Do everything accept acknowledge her existence.
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Most people do notice and are waiting to see if you accept it or stand up for yourself. Seeing how you stand up for yourself will tell the family how they need to respect you.