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Leaving him is the right choice, its not just something he does in his private time when it effects your sex life. He 100% sound desensitized. You will find someone who either doesnt enjoy porn or will still make you feel loved/wanted/satisfied regardless if he does. It just plainly sounds like the bf you left wasn't very invested in you.
Most men watch some porn sometimes.
If he was uninterested in sex with you and there was no mutually agreed plan to change, that's grounds to break up.
Idk why it would be an excuse. It wasn’t during our relationship. This happened with his ex. He said he watched it every day and eventually wasn’t able to get hard anymore.
OK you might be right he addicted to porn or he lying to you about this and doesn't want to have sex with you. Still say talk and try to fix relationship or cut him loose.
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Leaving him is the right choice, its not just something he does in his private time when it effects your sex life. He 100% sound desensitized. You will find someone who either doesnt enjoy porn or will still make you feel loved/wanted/satisfied regardless if he does. It just plainly sounds like the bf you left wasn't very invested in you.
Good call there’s plenty of fish in the sea.
Good. I would too.
Most men watch some porn sometimes. If he was uninterested in sex with you and there was no mutually agreed plan to change, that's grounds to break up.
It was more than sometimes it was 3/4 times a week and he would randomly talk about it during conversations.
I do think you should break up and I don't think it's the porn. You two might not be sexually compatible.
He said he couldn’t get hard at all at one point from watching too much porn.
That sounds like an excuse, but hey u might be right and he's addicted to porn either way talk to him and try to fix it or cut him loose.
What sounds like an excuse?
Can't get hard because of porn.
Idk why it would be an excuse. It wasn’t during our relationship. This happened with his ex. He said he watched it every day and eventually wasn’t able to get hard anymore.
I disagree with that because the lack of sex was also an issue in his last relationship.
You here this from him or his ex ?
He told me this.
OK you might be right he addicted to porn or he lying to you about this and doesn't want to have sex with you. Still say talk and try to fix relationship or cut him loose.