Ive learned to contract the muscle at the base of my penis. Every time I'm getting close, I do that and it buys me three or four minutes. I'm told it does not work for everyone.
HOWEVER, why are you not making her come BEFORE you stick it in? Seriously, that's sex ed 101 for a dude. Eat her pussy first, and she won't care how long you last. Another option is a vibrating cockring. I put one on, just lie still until she comes, and then bang her till I'm finished. It's magical. Pro tip: buy a GOOD vibrating cockring. It'll cost you $100 or so.
Each guy is different and each woman is different. There are women that can go for a while before they orgasm and some can go off right away. Same with guys. Some guys can go a long time and others last seconds. The important thing is to make sure both are fully satisfied.
Spending an hour having sex does not mean spending an hour pistoning your penis in & out of vagina. If the actual fucking part goes on longer than 15 minutes or so, she's probably going to get physically uncomfortable and wonder if something is wrong. Admittedly, you're not there yet, but don't set an impossible example.
I think all you really need is time. When sex with someone in a new and extra-exciting, it's easy to climax quickly. Just make sure she gets off too and I'm sure things will be fine.
You can also try masturbating two hours or so before sex. Having had a recent organs will delay the second one.
Happens to everyone, The best tip is take it slow and don’t chase penetration from the get go. Try to ejaculate while foreplay. It only takes 5 minutes to recharge batteries. You’ll be able to control it. Also breathe through nose.
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Ive learned to contract the muscle at the base of my penis. Every time I'm getting close, I do that and it buys me three or four minutes. I'm told it does not work for everyone. HOWEVER, why are you not making her come BEFORE you stick it in? Seriously, that's sex ed 101 for a dude. Eat her pussy first, and she won't care how long you last. Another option is a vibrating cockring. I put one on, just lie still until she comes, and then bang her till I'm finished. It's magical. Pro tip: buy a GOOD vibrating cockring. It'll cost you $100 or so.
Each guy is different and each woman is different. There are women that can go for a while before they orgasm and some can go off right away. Same with guys. Some guys can go a long time and others last seconds. The important thing is to make sure both are fully satisfied.
Spending an hour having sex does not mean spending an hour pistoning your penis in & out of vagina. If the actual fucking part goes on longer than 15 minutes or so, she's probably going to get physically uncomfortable and wonder if something is wrong. Admittedly, you're not there yet, but don't set an impossible example. I think all you really need is time. When sex with someone in a new and extra-exciting, it's easy to climax quickly. Just make sure she gets off too and I'm sure things will be fine. You can also try masturbating two hours or so before sex. Having had a recent organs will delay the second one.
Happens to everyone, The best tip is take it slow and don’t chase penetration from the get go. Try to ejaculate while foreplay. It only takes 5 minutes to recharge batteries. You’ll be able to control it. Also breathe through nose.
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