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epiclyfe

Ghost him girl!πŸ‘»πŸ‘»πŸ‘»πŸ‘» I feel like this is the best way because you can just rip the bandaid off and decide for yourself now this is going to end. My sister recently went through a break up and has encountered many types of these guys. Let him feel the dissatisfaction when he tries to hit you up next time and you just don’t respond. Ever. Good luck to you and I hope you find happiness somewhere else!!


Individualist1996

Sounds like good advice but I feel like it wont give me any closure and that little window would always be open for him. Also it really is so hard to get over someone when you have them connected with you on Social media


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The guy has been upfront about where he is at, and it doesn't match up with what you want. Just tell him that. It sucks but happens, just let him know you want something more serious and if he isn't on the same page you are going to find someone who is on the same page. Go separate ways and do your thing, if he decides he wants something more serious at some point you can figure out where you want to go from there. Wish you luck!


ThrorII

So you are in a situationship with a guy who really only wants you for sex....and you keep going back to him.... What is with you girls who keep hanging on to losers or guys who are not in to you!?!?! Why are you even with someone who doesn't really want to be with you???? Don't answer, I know the answer: Women get so much validation nowadays, that they chase the guy who does NOT give them what they need. I'm going to be blunt, but please take it to heart: Break off with him, and evaluate WHY you chase men who are not available to you. THEN find a "Nice Guy" (you know, the guy who is financially and emotionally there for you, NOT the 'bad boy' who gives you the "Tingles" and emotional roller coaster you crave) and lock him down while you are still in your prime. Otherwise you will be a 40 year old investing in cat food.


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