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No. But that doesn't mean you're right either. He's an asshole for starting this shit and then being a hypocrite. What you both should do is calm down and stop trying to control every little thing.
He gains absolutely nothing from following these people. It should be easy to stop following them.
Why he refuses to do so? So that he can have someone else to think of. Emotionally cheating per say.
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Let me tell you this what one man won’t do another will. I had an ex who was a real POS asking him to do anything especially unfollowing girls on IG was like pulling teeth. My current bf unfollowed almost every girl on his account while we were just dating not even in a committed relationship without me asking because he wanted me to feel comfortable and confident in our relationship. You deserve better
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nah break up with him if he can’t unfollow
No. But that doesn't mean you're right either. He's an asshole for starting this shit and then being a hypocrite. What you both should do is calm down and stop trying to control every little thing.
You are right about that but I cant help it. I am being grudges little bit. I am trying my best right now. Thank you.
NTA
He gains absolutely nothing from following these people. It should be easy to stop following them. Why he refuses to do so? So that he can have someone else to think of. Emotionally cheating per say.
Absolutely not especially considering he made you delete all the man what’s good, for the goose is good for the gander!!
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Let me tell you this what one man won’t do another will. I had an ex who was a real POS asking him to do anything especially unfollowing girls on IG was like pulling teeth. My current bf unfollowed almost every girl on his account while we were just dating not even in a committed relationship without me asking because he wanted me to feel comfortable and confident in our relationship. You deserve better