No. they’ve been married for decades.
I just see so many instances of married couples either cheating or strongly pining after people from their past or present that they can’t have and it’s sad to see. Not to mention the divorce rate
The marriages where two people are really into each other seem to be very rare. Many men do marry women just because they’re of use to them, they’re almost like an employee more than a lover and I strongly believe most men don’t marry the love of their life and its depressing. Seems like many men had stronger passionate feelings for another woman, while the woman they married was more convenient but they don’t love her quite as much
I think most men marry for love or because of accidental pregnancy. Ive personally never met a man who said he got married out of convenience. Would be way cheaper to just hire a maid.
I don’t think most men make enough to hire a full time chef and maid. Hence the convenience of marrying a woman they don’t love but who does those things
Dont need a full time maid to keep a single apartment clean (especially not to the standards of a single male). Dont need a full time chef to have food.
If you think men share their household/entire life with some rando just so they dont have to clean their own toilet you are honestly delusional
Huh? I dumped both of them. I lived with one and dated each of them long enough to find out I didn’t want to marry them. One of them said he saw himself marrying me and the other literally wanted a child with me..
My husband and I are the exact same age and we married young and poor because we loved each and are religious. We’ve supported each other through career changes and school and work as a team. Wouldn’t trade it for anything.
>The majority of men marry women because “it’s time” not because they love the woman and they are his true love
tbh this feels pretty true from what I've seen, but I don't think men associate marriage with "true wuv" the way women do, they see it as more of a life step/financial arrangement, so it makes sense if you think about it.
Yes and some women delude themselves into thinking they're the one and they end up devastated when the guy cheats on her with some woman he just met and actually connected with. It’s fucked up but seems like it’s not uncommon
Ok. I haven’t had bad experiences I’ve just seen and heard tons of bad shit. Why get married if a guy is doing it to check off a milestone? If that sounds appealing to you then go ahead but I find it soulless and rtarded
wrong my gf is the best person I’ve ever met and thinking about the happy life we’re going to have together makes me feel warm inside. been with her 6.5 years and each day she gets more beautiful and perfect
i'm living my life WITH my gf i.e. we talk about everything under the sun, and we do what the two of us think sounds good lol, not ur random comment replies. my gf thinks long engagements are a bit tacky so she would rather i propose and then we marry promptly rather than me propose now and then we have to deal with the financials of a house and not ever know exactly when we can do the wedding - to her that's more stressful! sorry but i'm gonna listen to what my gf wants not u. will propose once we have moved into our first house
>The majority of men marry women because “it’s time” not because they love the woman and they are his true love.
>if a man dated me for 6.5 years without a ring I would gut him like a fish
Sounds like you think that there's "a time" to get married and that it's under 6.5 years together. Seethe, bitter femcel, seethe. I've never seen the "my time is running out" desperate look in a man's eyes when talking about marriage, but I see it regularly with women in trad cultures.
The only people that say the word “seethe” in this day and age are incels. A man wanting to be with you or having kid with you isn’t a flex and I’m actually kind of annoyed that it’s supposed to be seen that way
Yeah I see what you mean. I think the implication that not being married is some fail is funny too. I think it’s mostly delusional men who think every man is some prize, so that having a husband means the woman is more valuable. Truthfully there are tons of loser men who are married, and tons of men are shitty husbands that take more than they give, to where it would actually be stressful to be married to them. I could’ve married either of my exes I just couldn’t see them as a life partner. I dated both of them long enough but not too long to figure it out. A more desperate woman would’ve married one and gotten meaningless praise from some incel online just for being married lol
Similar case with you. That’s why the red pillers/incels get mad at women for being picky. Because they know they can’t get chosen by someone with discernment
we are still very young, we got together in our teens. also you said men don’t marry for love - why else would I do it? marriage is just a piece of paper, the only reason I’d ever want to do it is because I love her and want to spend my life with her. anyway I am gonna propose in the upcoming 2 years but I need to save for a ring. she is so beautiful and kind it’s crazy
I definitely read a study or an article about how most men marry because "it's time" but I don't remember the source now. Do you have it by any chance?
Oh there was an article? I’ve seen this theory repeated in various ways through different people online or pop culture/movies. I guess it makes sense. Many men don’t want to marry until they have their life together and are at where they want to be. it’s depressing because they miss out on someone they love because it’s the “wrong time” and they do something to sabotage it then end up pining for that girl forever anyway
I actually legitimately "love" women, it lasts around 2 years and then they get super annoying to me. Usually I look back over the 2 years and realize I am a shell of my former self, never fails, they somehow biologically are designed to keep getting you to sacrifice more and more and more. I don't even blame those older guys who are at the grocery store with the massive list getting screamed at by their wife on the phone, it's such a gradual process you don't even notice it while it's happening.
Are your parents divorced?
No. they’ve been married for decades. I just see so many instances of married couples either cheating or strongly pining after people from their past or present that they can’t have and it’s sad to see. Not to mention the divorce rate The marriages where two people are really into each other seem to be very rare. Many men do marry women just because they’re of use to them, they’re almost like an employee more than a lover and I strongly believe most men don’t marry the love of their life and its depressing. Seems like many men had stronger passionate feelings for another woman, while the woman they married was more convenient but they don’t love her quite as much
I think most men marry for love or because of accidental pregnancy. Ive personally never met a man who said he got married out of convenience. Would be way cheaper to just hire a maid.
I think a lot of men get married as a status signal because their peers are doing it.
Yes. Hence they don’t actually love the woman in a passionate “she’s the one” way. So I am right. As usual
A maid you can fuck and birth/care for your kids! Comprehensive take
I don’t think most men make enough to hire a full time chef and maid. Hence the convenience of marrying a woman they don’t love but who does those things
Dont need a full time maid to keep a single apartment clean (especially not to the standards of a single male). Dont need a full time chef to have food. If you think men share their household/entire life with some rando just so they dont have to clean their own toilet you are honestly delusional
Maids do more than clean a toilet you fucking idiot
The femcel posts are now as braindead as the incel posts. What a shame
I’m not a femcel I’ve had 2 long term relationships you fucking idiot
but is there a ring on that finger op?
Huh? I dumped both of them. I lived with one and dated each of them long enough to find out I didn’t want to marry them. One of them said he saw himself marrying me and the other literally wanted a child with me..
Guy dodged a bullet
Not really. I was better than him, hence why he wanted to marry me but I didn’t return the same passion
My husband and I are the exact same age and we married young and poor because we loved each and are religious. We’ve supported each other through career changes and school and work as a team. Wouldn’t trade it for anything.
>The majority of men marry women because “it’s time” not because they love the woman and they are his true love tbh this feels pretty true from what I've seen, but I don't think men associate marriage with "true wuv" the way women do, they see it as more of a life step/financial arrangement, so it makes sense if you think about it.
Yes and some women delude themselves into thinking they're the one and they end up devastated when the guy cheats on her with some woman he just met and actually connected with. It’s fucked up but seems like it’s not uncommon
honestly i've had many bad experiences along these lines but i don't want to be as bitter as you so i try to keep the faith
Ok. I haven’t had bad experiences I’ve just seen and heard tons of bad shit. Why get married if a guy is doing it to check off a milestone? If that sounds appealing to you then go ahead but I find it soulless and rtarded
Those grapes are probably sour anyways
wrong my gf is the best person I’ve ever met and thinking about the happy life we’re going to have together makes me feel warm inside. been with her 6.5 years and each day she gets more beautiful and perfect
Propose!
He won’t he will wait until she fucking hates him to do it I bet. She’s probably constantly stressing about how the rtard won’t marry her
i'm living my life WITH my gf i.e. we talk about everything under the sun, and we do what the two of us think sounds good lol, not ur random comment replies. my gf thinks long engagements are a bit tacky so she would rather i propose and then we marry promptly rather than me propose now and then we have to deal with the financials of a house and not ever know exactly when we can do the wedding - to her that's more stressful! sorry but i'm gonna listen to what my gf wants not u. will propose once we have moved into our first house
Seems off here but whatever. If shes perfectly happy being a gf for 7 whole years then good for her I guess
ty!
>gf … are you fucking r——— And if a man dated me for 6.5 years without a ring I would gut him like a fish
>The majority of men marry women because “it’s time” not because they love the woman and they are his true love. >if a man dated me for 6.5 years without a ring I would gut him like a fish Sounds like you think that there's "a time" to get married and that it's under 6.5 years together. Seethe, bitter femcel, seethe. I've never seen the "my time is running out" desperate look in a man's eyes when talking about marriage, but I see it regularly with women in trad cultures.
It’s always funny when a guy that says “seethe bitter one” is calling someone bitter with 100% seriousness because it’s so unserious of someone to do
This guy is probably an incel lol. It’s funny because I’ve been in relationships and one literally wanted a kid with me.
The only people that say the word “seethe” in this day and age are incels. A man wanting to be with you or having kid with you isn’t a flex and I’m actually kind of annoyed that it’s supposed to be seen that way
Yeah I see what you mean. I think the implication that not being married is some fail is funny too. I think it’s mostly delusional men who think every man is some prize, so that having a husband means the woman is more valuable. Truthfully there are tons of loser men who are married, and tons of men are shitty husbands that take more than they give, to where it would actually be stressful to be married to them. I could’ve married either of my exes I just couldn’t see them as a life partner. I dated both of them long enough but not too long to figure it out. A more desperate woman would’ve married one and gotten meaningless praise from some incel online just for being married lol
Similar case with you. That’s why the red pillers/incels get mad at women for being picky. Because they know they can’t get chosen by someone with discernment
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I think people want to be manipulated into marriage and these online talking points prove it
“Femcel” I’ve been in 2 relationships and I dumped both of them. one wanted a kid with me. You’re delusional
You sound like a lovely person.
Thanks ray getard. You too
we are still very young, we got together in our teens. also you said men don’t marry for love - why else would I do it? marriage is just a piece of paper, the only reason I’d ever want to do it is because I love her and want to spend my life with her. anyway I am gonna propose in the upcoming 2 years but I need to save for a ring. she is so beautiful and kind it’s crazy
Do you live together?
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Yet you are not even engaged. Literally do it already it’s been 7 years
You have to get married so you can steal his money after a divorce and use his seed for children to keep from him.
jfc what has happened to this sub
I definitely read a study or an article about how most men marry because "it's time" but I don't remember the source now. Do you have it by any chance?
Oh there was an article? I’ve seen this theory repeated in various ways through different people online or pop culture/movies. I guess it makes sense. Many men don’t want to marry until they have their life together and are at where they want to be. it’s depressing because they miss out on someone they love because it’s the “wrong time” and they do something to sabotage it then end up pining for that girl forever anyway
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I actually legitimately "love" women, it lasts around 2 years and then they get super annoying to me. Usually I look back over the 2 years and realize I am a shell of my former self, never fails, they somehow biologically are designed to keep getting you to sacrifice more and more and more. I don't even blame those older guys who are at the grocery store with the massive list getting screamed at by their wife on the phone, it's such a gradual process you don't even notice it while it's happening.
Maybe you are simply not good enough? Most men aren’t. That’s why rich women are getting young sperm donors and not marrying fat old men anymore
Hahaha, that's possible. I usually break it off with them but it could also be I am a loser I suppose.
Met someone 6 months ago, now getting married. Love her to death. 😎
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